I think i came on tooooo strong!!!

Well this is my third post in the cancer forum. Im having all sorts of trouble with this guy and im beginning to lose faith. Basically my mars in leo scared his mars in virgo i think and now he wont talk to me nor aknowledge that im online with him.
I want him bad but i think i practically stuffed him into his shell. I wanna know how i can reverse it and make him notice me again! Keep in mind i have to do this via myspace because im in Fort lauderdale rite now and i wont be back in Ocala for another month.

O_o HUH?? I'm lost

*sigh*
I know all of this sounds so old. But i've read every post and every thread on this board about cancer guys and their fucking mindgames and i still dont know what to think nor to do. I'm soo angry i wanna just move on already!!! But im scared to do that becuz I dont want anyone else!!! What happened was that I finally came in contact with this cancer guy i havent spoken to for a while. THe only way i can talk to him is via myspace and the conversation went a lil bit like this.

He didnt remember at first. I reminded him. He remembered. I told him he looked good (maybe a lil too much) He told me I looked good and then he asked me a question about what happened with a frienemy of mine ( who used to like him alot.) I was reluctant to answer so i tried to avoid answering and then when i tried to switch topic he ignored me. So then i told him what happened (even revealin a bit about my feelings i had back then) So then what he did was ignore THAT message and write in his status: —What the eyes cannot see the heart feels??_she knows who she is?? I SOOOO thought that was for me but I didn't show him how psyched I was cuz that coulda been for anybody. What I did was ask him who the girl was. He hesitated and then after I pried it outta him he said it was for sum girl named Denisse!!!! I kept my cool. I wrote that I was a lil jealous (jokingly of course) and then I joked with him sum more about the girl. I even asked him if they were serious in which he replied — nah not yet.?? Then when he was getting off the net and going to bed he asked me to text him but I don't have a phone rite now so I told him that. He saidd that I need to get one so he can text me. then I said — Yah I do. Sweet dreams.?? Then he logged off. The next day he wrote. — I can get u 1?? and I at first acted a lil surprised ( cuz I was!! Not that I need him to do that for me.) But he ignored THAT message so I told him he didn't have to do that for me. Now I commented on his page twice. Once was to say hello and once was to compliment his new page layout and song. Then I wrote him a message today showing concern for a situation he might be going thru. He read it but still wont reply. Now im just not gonna talk to him.

Additional info is that i am still friends with that girl who used to like him alot and he knows that. If u wanna know anything else let me know i'l get u whatever you need to know!!! I just want this figured out cuz i've got no flippin clue on how

LOL man that story is long! :p please keep it short next time! Anyway, i don't think he playing mind games, i really don't think he's that into to you as you are with him 😢 he seem more into that girl you were joking around with being his lil girlfriend.

awww, spiteful1102, cancer men are hard to figure out in person, let alone online...

okay, well. whatever. He did finally write back to me in the morning b4 school. From what every1 else is saying (that the crab might not like me and all that) my spirits are kind of crushed and im not getting them physced up for him ever again. I still wanna be friends with him and all but idk. Friggin crab, those claws are vicious.

our different mars and venus signs definitely had alot to do with it. His mars in virgo venus in taurus....mine mars in leo and venus in scorpio. I definitely pushed him away....lol. Ahh well. I guess he liked me better when i was that shy timid lil girl back in junior high.

Posted by *Tasha
"nothing will come out of their mouths that has not been rolled over in their heads a thousand times"

--this made me laugh - on the inside

Where you been hiding?? 😄

Posted by eden 3

oh spiteful I told u crab boyz have the ability to make a scorp girl cry 😢

OUCH!

lol. who's cryin— this scorp aint cryin!!! ha ha ha
ty all for ur support. i've decided to jusst be his friend! Things are better this way.....besides im not just gunna sit here in self pity when theres a cappy tryna to get my attention. Life's too short for that. 🙂

Posted by spiteful1102
lol. who's cryin— this scorp aint cryin!!! ha ha ha
ty all for ur support. i've decided to jusst be his friend! Things are better this way.....besides im not just gunna sit here in self pity when theres a cappy tryna to get my attention. Life's too short for that. 🙂

Glad your moving on! 😄 Yeah, i think you find something better.

Hi-5 for that mentality ..

thank yuuuu. 🙂