Is this Cancer Sun Virgo moon little boy playin' me?

Posted by possiblyavirgo
meanwhile I'm quite literally crying for his D.🙏

Posted by IceStorm
There’s a stark difference between a man that loves a woman and a man that wants to own a woman like she’s a piece of his property.


You don’t have to respect, love or value a piece of property to be territorial about it.. it’s all egotistical.


Women often confuse jealousy and possessiveness as a manifestation of deeper feelings, but that’s not always the case with men. Some men are just territorial about what they THINK they have conquered and established dominance over.


I think he’s being honest with his words and distance when he says this was exactly what he wanted - sex with no strings attached, yet he’s going to try to control how YOU move while he does as he pleases. Strictly ego, no heart.

Posted by possiblyavirgo
When he got there the first thing he did when he entered the room is ask me where my phone is, then he took it from my purse and handed it to me 😁This reads like jealousy, no?

Posted by KimboSlice

Posted by possiblyavirgo

When he got there the first thing he did when he entered the room is ask me where my phone is, then he took it from my purse and handed it to me 😁This reads like jealousy, no?

I think he wanted you to look at your phone

He knows your dickmatized so he can’t be jealous

click to expand

Posted by DMV
My advice is to always take water sign’s literally.


Treat them exactly how they say they want to be treated.


Treat him like an f buddy. Don’t even stay the night or look him on the eye during sex. Don’t even cuddle. Treat him like the piece of meat he so badly wants to be.


Don’t ever call him more than once. Don’t blow up his phone.


Emotionally disconnect


Watch him go into hyperdrive because he can’t control you emotionally

Posted by possiblyavirgo

Posted by DMV
My advice is to always take water sign’s literally.

Treat them exactly how they say they want to be treated.

Treat him like an f buddy. Don’t even stay the night or look him on the eye during sex. Don’t even cuddle. Treat him like the piece of meat he so badly wants to be.

Don’t ever call him more than once. Don’t blow up his phone.

Emotionally disconnect

Watch him go into hyperdrive because he can’t control you emotionally

Thank you for both of your comments on this! Are you a cancer or were you at one point dealing with one, because it sure seems like you get them? 😁


So following your advice, I've been doing what you said, emotionally disconnected and never hitting him up first. Not sure if I've been treating him like a piece of meat tho, it's just that I like to feel and touch and kiss while being intimate, I will try to be cold af next time we see each other, IF WE DO 😁

click to expand

Posted by IceStorm

Posted by DMV
My advice is to always take water sign’s literally.

Treat them exactly how they say they want to be treated.

Treat him like an f buddy. Don’t even stay the night or look him on the eye during sex. Don’t even cuddle. Treat him like the piece of meat he so badly wants to be.

Don’t ever call him more than once. Don’t blow up his phone.

Emotionally disconnect

Watch him go into hyperdrive because he can’t control you emotionally

Or she could just disconnect from the situationship altogether and find what she really wants/values and choose to only deal with men who can offer that to her.


Playing his game by trying to get the upper hand isn’t going to make her a winner, especially if she’s not being honest with herself about what she wants from him or how she feels about him. A lot of women try to play this game thinking that having the upper hand will make a man fall in love with her, then when it doesn’t work, her sense in value plummets..


If she’s cool with a temporary, meaningless connection that’s strictly fucking and power games, then yes, play the game. But for women who want authentic connections, this solution itself is self deceptive and manipulative.

click to expand

Posted by IceStorm

Posted by DMV

Posted by IceStorm

Posted by DMV
My advice is to always take water sign’s literally.

Treat them exactly how they say they want to be treated.

Treat him like an f buddy. Don’t even stay the night or look him on the eye during sex. Don’t even cuddle. Treat him like the piece of meat he so badly wants to be.

Don’t ever call him more than once. Don’t blow up his phone.

Emotionally disconnect

Watch him go into hyperdrive because he can’t control you emotionally

Or she could just disconnect from the situationship altogether and find what she really wants/values and choose to only deal with men who can offer that to her.

Playing his game by trying to get the upper hand isn’t going to make her a winner, especially if she’s not being honest with herself about what she wants from him or how she feels about him. A lot of women try to play this game thinking that having the upper hand will make a man fall in love with her, then when it doesn’t work, her sense in value plummets..

If she’s cool with a temporary, meaningless connection that’s strictly fucking and power games, then yes, play the game. But for women who want authentic connections, this solution itself is self deceptive and manipulative.

Looking at her placements and how she writes, this girl is question will be just fine.


She ready for anything
click to expand

Touché!


The part where she said “To say I felt like a clown would be an understatement. There was no apology or even a text from him after that, it was 2 days ago ” gave me the impression that she was catching feelings, but I may have read her wrong. I agree that if this is enough for her and what she wants she should continue having fun.

click to expand

Posted by DMV

Posted by possiblyavirgo

Posted by DMV
My advice is to always take water sign’s literally.

Treat them exactly how they say they want to be treated.

Treat him like an f buddy. Don’t even stay the night or look him on the eye during sex. Don’t even cuddle. Treat him like the piece of meat he so badly wants to be.

Don’t ever call him more than once. Don’t blow up his phone.

Emotionally disconnect

Watch him go into hyperdrive because he can’t control you emotionally

Thank you for both of your comments on this! Are you a cancer or were you at one point dealing with one, because it sure seems like you get them? 😁

So following your advice, I've been doing what you said, emotionally disconnected and never hitting him up first. Not sure if I've been treating him like a piece of meat tho, it's just that I like to feel and touch and kiss while being intimate, I will try to be cold af next time we see each other, IF WE DO 😁
click to expand

See him on your time.


Yep. I’ve had a Cancer Moon say those exact same words. Like they all share the same brain cell. Even Scorpios and Pisces have tried this same song and dance. Even some Taurus man pull this same crap. I’m convinced men want intimacy and connection more than women but they don’t know how to say it.


“I’m just looking for friends with benefits”

“Don’t call me”

“If you don’t wanna see me, cool…I won’t trip”

“I’m not the jealous type”

“I don’t chase girls”

“It’s not a big deal”

“Get over it “

“Don’t go falling in love with me”

“I’ll call you, don’t call me”


It’s comical.


I knew a Mars in Cancer who would notoriously make plans and never show up or communicate. I mean pester the fawk outta me to commit to a time on the same day. All for him to be MIA and treat me like I’m the irrational one.


I see the game and emotionally disconnect.


All for all these guys to come hard and all in their feels.


“Why don’t you love me DMV”


Bish, shut up.


Some men like to dictate the degree and type of emotional involvement. It makes them feel secure

click to expand

Posted by possiblyavirgo

Posted by DMV

Posted by possiblyavirgo

Posted by DMV
My advice is to always take water sign’s literally.

Treat them exactly how they say they want to be treated.

Treat him like an f buddy. Don’t even stay the night or look him on the eye during sex. Don’t even cuddle. Treat him like the piece of meat he so badly wants to be.

Don’t ever call him more than once. Don’t blow up his phone.

Emotionally disconnect

Watch him go into hyperdrive because he can’t control you emotionally

Thank you for both of your comments on this! Are you a cancer or were you at one point dealing with one, because it sure seems like you get them? 😁

So following your advice, I've been doing what you said, emotionally disconnected and never hitting him up first. Not sure if I've been treating him like a piece of meat tho, it's just that I like to feel and touch and kiss while being intimate, I will try to be cold af next time we see each other, IF WE DO 😁
click to expand

See him on your time.

Yep. I’ve had a Cancer Moon say those exact same words. Like they all share the same brain cell. Even Scorpios and Pisces have tried this same song and dance. Even some Taurus man pull this same crap. I’m convinced men want intimacy and connection more than women but they don’t know how to say it.

“I’m just looking for friends with benefits”

“Don’t call me”

“If you don’t wanna see me, cool…I won’t trip”

“I’m not the jealous type”

“I don’t chase girls”

“It’s not a big deal”

“Get over it “

“Don’t go falling in love with me”

“I’ll call you, don’t call me”

It’s comical.

I knew a Mars in Cancer who would notoriously make plans and never show up or communicate. I mean pester the fawk outta me to commit to a time on the same day. All for him to be MIA and treat me like I’m the irrational one.

I see the game and emotionally disconnect.

All for all these guys to come hard and all in their feels.

“Why don’t you love me DMV”

Bish, shut up.

Some men like to dictate the degree and type of emotional involvement. It makes them feel secure


click to expand

Lol the quotes you added are gold, thank God I haven't dealt with guys like that before🙏


If you don't mind me asking, whats your sun/moon/etc , you sound like a badass bitch and I love it 😁

click to expand

Posted by possiblyavirgo

Posted by Walk_on_by
I don't know why cancer men keep lieing to themselves thinking that NSA relationships are for them. Or any men for that matter, it is the right thing for some, but often times people are justing tryna have an NSA because they're told it's right for them and ofc it sounds like a lot of fun. Smoking weed all day sounds like a lotta fun and everyone likes to say it's all well and good, but it isn't.

True, true. I don't really know him that well, but he got out of a long term relationship a few months ago as well, probably wants to have fun and from what I gathered he had fun with other ladies before me, so he could be one of the few guys, that are capable of being in a NSA relationship. I'll ask him about it when we meet and will update, could be fun to get his perspective. 😁

click to expand