@Breeze
9 Years
Cancer women…
Understanding Cancer Women's Communication Style
Cancer women tend to be cautious and prefer slow, steady progress in relationships. They often communicate thoughtfully and may take time to open up fully. Responding with patience and genuine interest helps build trust. Her delayed replies and light conversations are typical of her cautious nature and desire to feel comfortable before progressing.
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How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
She's sniffing other dick, just wait your turn and don't act desperate.
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😂😂ok. I know how to play it cool
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
Ahhh… she may not be interested then. You might just have to accept it as a loss and keep it moving.
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Seems like it right
I'm not gonna lie...every time I've bagged a Cancer I was a savage. Forward with my intent while not being a complete dog heart.
Fuck the texting... ask a shorty out.
I’ve messed with cancer women before and none were like this. Idk what emotional mindset the others were on. They were a lot easier to get ahold of and converse with and set something up to see each other.
Like someone stated might not be interested. People like to communicate with who they like that’s just how it works
I'm not gonna lie...every time I've bagged a Cancer I was a savage. Forward with my intent while not being a complete dog heart.
Fuck the texting... ask a shorty out.
I’ve messed with cancer women before and none were like this. Idk what emotional mindset the others were on. They were a lot easier to get ahold of and converse with and set something up to see each other.
Like someone stated might not be interested. People like to communicate with who they like that’s just how it works
It sounds like you're not the chosen one in this situation @TXCowboy is likely right. Cancers are curve queens and will slow walk ya if they are in or about to be in an entanglement.
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Yeahhh Ima fall back. You’d think a good text convo would lead to the ok when I asked for number not an excuse. The text aren’t dry at all. Definitely slow walking me. Not the type for that energy. Too many other ladies out here
I think there's two things here. Did you try to swap numbers and were offered IG in person or was it someone you found on IG? Either she probably gets 100 messages a day. Get her off IG.
It's a total myth that certain signs are slow or whatever. While fire signs allegedly move fast and water allegedly moves slowly, anyone who's interested will make a move regardless of sign and gender.
Off IG. I’ve seen her out at events before over the years. But I’ve tried to get her number but she was like it’s only been 2 days. That was last week and we still texted everyday since. Texting is cool but over the phone is where I can get through to someone. Even told her it’ll be 3 hrs on the phone before she knew. “I love your confidence, we’ll be best of friends if you can”, was her response.
After a while texting to me is gonna get played out
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
She's sniffing other dick, just wait your turn and don't act desperate.
Most Cancer women I've encountered IRL are either players or love playing mind games, so you've been warned.
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I’ve encountered 4. Two I know had motives, the other two were sweet.
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
She's sniffing other dick, just wait your turn and don't act desperate.
Most Cancer women I've encountered IRL are either players or love playing mind games, so you've been warned.
I think it's spinning plates until they find a connection
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I get that. Kinda hard to connect when text messages are spread out 1-3hrs at a time. I tried replying back in a timely manner after she text to get convo in motion. Hard to create a vibe that way.
Only thing that keeps my interest is she’ll ask me a question in return like she enjoys the conversation.
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
Single does not mean celibate.
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
Single does not mean celibate.
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Oh definitely. Your free to do as you please
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
Single does not mean celibate.
Oh definitely. Your free to do as you please
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Libra men love hoes.
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
Single does not mean celibate.
Oh definitely. Your free to do as you please
Libra men love hoes.
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They fun lol wouldn’t put too much into them
She's sniffing other dick, just wait your turn and don't act desperate.
God, everyone on this website is so toxic these days; that's why I never use this site anymore.
I don't know. I feel like if I like someone, I don't usually take hours to text them back; that could be her norm, though. I wouldn't overthink it. Maybe ask her out?
A few things… advice from someone much wiser than me.
Expecting people to always text back, or reply to tell you they are too busy to reply, is not reasonable behavior.
If not getting fast replies consistently activates you, that is for you to work out.
Learning to decipher when people are just livin their lives and taking a while to respond to a text vs when they might be ghosting can help you regulate your anxieties when they are unwanted and let go of attachments to outcomes when they are.
Yes people should be considerate, but it is not fair to turn your anxieties into demands about how available another person has to be on their phone.
If someone is inconsistent or new in your life, it might be a sign to let go of the attachment to a response. Maybe the relationship isn’t as deep as you hoped. Maybe they aren’t available for consistent connection.
A good start to letting go of attachments to people we don’t really know and are excited about is to get honest about what fantasies and hopes we were assigning to the person and relationship. They are not whoever you are imagining them to be. Letting go of the fantasies will be beneficial whether or not they reply.
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
You lucky. Every cancer women who lay eyes on me move fast and want sex and kisses from me like right away.
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
She's sniffing other dick, just wait your turn and don't act desperate.
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sniffing other dick——
😂😂😂😂😂
At least she is t a hoe…🤷♀️
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
You lucky. Every cancer women who lay eyes on me move fast and want sex and kisses from me like right away.
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lol this is the first to be not on that lol
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
You lucky. Every cancer women who lay eyes on me move fast and want sex and kisses from me like right away.
lol this is the first to be not on that lol
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Yeah like I don't know why I can't never be on that. It's like that with every women that's interesting in me. They all move too fast for me. I don't know, maybe I'm just slow. It's the shy men that's too easy for a lot of women. People like me don't do the chasing and pursuing. They does it to me. And it's up to me to either accept them or reject them. My way of rejecting women is to ghost on them.
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
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As a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
A few things… advice from someone much wiser than me.
Expecting people to always text back, or reply to tell you they are too busy to reply, is not reasonable behavior.
If not getting fast replies consistently activates you, that is for you to work out.
Learning to decipher when people are just livin their lives and taking a while to respond to a text vs when they might be ghosting can help you regulate your anxieties when they are unwanted and let go of attachments to outcomes when they are.
Yes people should be considerate, but it is not fair to turn your anxieties into demands about how available another person has to be on their phone.
If someone is inconsistent or new in your life, it might be a sign to let go of the attachment to a response. Maybe the relationship isn’t as deep as you hoped. Maybe they aren’t available for consistent connection.
A good start to letting go of attachments to people we don’t really know and are excited about is to get honest about what fantasies and hopes we were assigning to the person and relationship. They are not whoever you are imagining them to be. Letting go of the fantasies will be beneficial whether or not they reply.
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A few things… advice from someone much wiser than me.
Expecting people to always text back, or reply to tell you they are too busy to reply, is not reasonable behavior.
If not getting fast replies consistently activates you, that is for you to work out.
Learning to decipher when people are just livin their lives and taking a while to respond to a text vs when they might be ghosting can help you regulate your anxieties when they are unwanted and let go of attachments to outcomes when they are.
Yes people should be considerate, but it is not fair to turn your anxieties into demands about how available another person has to be on their phone.
If someone is inconsistent or new in your life, it might be a sign to let go of the attachment to a response. Maybe the relationship isn’t as deep as you hoped. Maybe they aren’t available for consistent connection.
A good start to letting go of attachments to people we don’t really know and are excited about is to get honest about what fantasies and hopes we were assigning to the person and relationship. They are not whoever you are imagining them to be. Letting go of the fantasies will be beneficial whether or not they reply.
THANKS I NEEDED TO READ THIS
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
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Funny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
Just keep giving it 100% percent then when you get the pussy you can hang back
Just kidding that’s horrible thing to do 😅
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
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This one seems to be more action oriented. Does she have a fire Mars? Wouldn't hurt to reach out.
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Idk. Haven’t gotten that far with her lol 6/30 her bday tho
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
She's sniffing other dick, just wait your turn and don't act desperate.
Most Cancer women I've encountered IRL are either players or love playing mind games, so you've been warned.
click to expandI think it's spinning plates until they find a connection
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In my experience this is accurate.
Can't blame them, I understand. I don't mind competing to a extent as well.
It's just I don't like investing my time and energy in weak relationships even when I feel real connection and chemistry.
Those 2 things are not a contradiction. It's about choice on both sides.
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
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That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
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Trying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
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You let her pay the tab??!!
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
You let her pay the tab??!!
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Did I “let her”, no. She had her card in her phone case and gave it to the waitress while I had to dig my wallet out. Was one of those electronic card swipes not paper tab.
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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What did you text exactly? You can't be super logical. "Do you want to meet up (for some fun)? What's your schedule like?" You can't be too specific with times and days or that you are really flexible (if you are).
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Are you free Tuesday evening
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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What did you text exactly? You can't be super logical. "Do you want to meet up (for some fun)? What's your schedule like?" You can't be too specific with times and days or that you are really flexible (if you are).
click to expandAre you free Tuesday evening
That's it? What sign are you hahaha.
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Libra. We already discussed what we liked and xyz. Was just trying to see if she was feee then go over what we were doing
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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What did you text exactly? You can't be super logical. "Do you want to meet up (for some fun)? What's your schedule like?" You can't be too specific with times and days or that you are really flexible (if you are).
click to expandAre you free Tuesday evening
That where you f-ed up. Women aren't like men where we can ask our mate for a drink on Tuesday night. By having a specific date, day or time even if it is best for you, they see it as pressure. Better to say you are free and want to meet up and if they are say what day's? It's negotiation. Make sure you have a place where to go as well.
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See that’s how I always did it but now I’ve been seeing woman say they want men that are more direct. This day and time. I even left it open for some wiggle room with putting evening.
I had already mentioned us going to top golf while we were out because she hasn’t done it yet. Since I’m leaving Saturday night was going to see about mini golf and grabbing some ice cream afterwards
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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What did you text exactly? You can't be super logical. "Do you want to meet up (for some fun)? What's your schedule like?" You can't be too specific with times and days or that you are really flexible (if you are).
click to expandAre you free Tuesday evening
That's it? What sign are you hahaha.
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Libra. We already discussed what we liked and xyz. Was just trying to see if she was feee then go over what we were doing
Alright. You already asked and discussed so don't think you need to double check. Would be too pushy. Let her come to you.
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I let her know if we can’t set something up Saturday when I get back I’ll figure out plans for us to hang.
Got no response back
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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What did you text exactly? You can't be super logical. "Do you want to meet up (for some fun)? What's your schedule like?" You can't be too specific with times and days or that you are really flexible (if you are).
click to expandAre you free Tuesday evening
That where you f-ed up. Women aren't like men where we can ask our mate for a drink on Tuesday night. By having a specific date, day or time even if it is best for you, they see it as pressure. Better to say you are free and want to meet up and if they are say what day's? It's negotiation. Make sure you have a place where to go as well.
See that’s how I always did it but now I’ve been seeing woman say they want men that are more direct. This day and time. I even left it open for some wiggle room with putting evening.
I had already mentioned us going to top golf while we were out because she hasn’t done it yet. Since I’m leaving Saturday night was going to see about mini golf and grabbing some ice cream afterwards
Difference between what women say they want and what actually works. They say they want men who are direct, but nobody should micromanage dates. What if she's not free Tuesday, but really wants to see you and now she feels you are only free on Tuesday? I know it sounds like bs, but trust I am right on this. Far easier to keep it open "It's my last week here; what's your diary like so we can meet up?" Boom. As opposed to "I'm free Tuesday Evening for mini golf"
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She came back with she’s free possibly Saturday.
I’ll call her during the week to keep communication up. Things could change who knows
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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What did you text exactly? You can't be super logical. "Do you want to meet up (for some fun)? What's your schedule like?" You can't be too specific with times and days or that you are really flexible (if you are).
click to expandAre you free Tuesday evening
That's it? What sign are you hahaha.
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Libra. We already discussed what we liked and xyz. Was just trying to see if she was feee then go over what we were doing
Alright. You already asked and discussed so don't think you need to double check. Would be too pushy. Let her come to you.
click to expandI let her know if we can’t set something up Saturday when I get back I’ll figure out plans for us to hang.
Got no response back
Better would have been "how does your schedule look like this week?", but that window has passed. Would let it be for now and wait if she reaches out herself.
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Was gonna call her during week or should I wait for a response?
The vibe in person was there. Texting eh but she said she’s a texter and talker. So I’m like was she really all that interested
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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What did you text exactly? You can't be super logical. "Do you want to meet up (for some fun)? What's your schedule like?" You can't be too specific with times and days or that you are really flexible (if you are).
click to expandAre you free Tuesday evening
That where you f-ed up. Women aren't like men where we can ask our mate for a drink on Tuesday night. By having a specific date, day or time even if it is best for you, they see it as pressure. Better to say you are free and want to meet up and if they are say what day's? It's negotiation. Make sure you have a place where to go as well.
See that’s how I always did it but now I’ve been seeing woman say they want men that are more direct. This day and time. I even left it open for some wiggle room with putting evening.
I had already mentioned us going to top golf while we were out because she hasn’t done it yet. Since I’m leaving Saturday night was going to see about mini golf and grabbing some ice cream afterwards
Difference between what women say they want and what actually works. They say they want men who are direct, but nobody should micromanage dates. What if she's not free Tuesday, but really wants to see you and now she feels you are only free on Tuesday? I know it sounds like bs, but trust I am right on this. Far easier to keep it open "It's my last week here; what's your diary like so we can meet up?" Boom. As opposed to "I'm free Tuesday Evening for mini golf"
click to expandShe came back with she’s free possibly Saturday.
I’ll call her during the week to keep communication up. Things could change who knows
Correct response to that is "ok". As Melantho says it's too pushy to do anything other than leave it.
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I can’t win😂😂
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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Never accept a maybe date from a woman regardless of your vacation situation. If she does not firmly agree, pullback and ask her to get in touch when she's free or wait a week and reach out.
Don't ask more than twice.
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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What did you text exactly? You can't be super logical. "Do you want to meet up (for some fun)? What's your schedule like?" You can't be too specific with times and days or that you are really flexible (if you are).
click to expandAre you free Tuesday evening
That's it? What sign are you hahaha.
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Libra. We already discussed what we liked and xyz. Was just trying to see if she was feee then go over what we were doing
Alright. You already asked and discussed so don't think you need to double check. Would be too pushy. Let her come to you.
click to expandI let her know if we can’t set something up Saturday when I get back I’ll figure out plans for us to hang.
Got no response back
Better would have been "how does your schedule look like this week?", but that window has passed. Would let it be for now and wait if she reaches out herself.
Was gonna call her during week or should I wait for a response?
The vibe in person was there. Texting eh but she said she’s a texter and talker. So I’m like was she really all that interested
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Hm this is hard. I'd wait a bit. Why was there no casual texting between the meeting and now? You just went in immediately with the setup for a new date?
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I tried to get some casual text going but she dragging so I thought to set up a date so in between time can have regular convo leading up
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
Never accept a maybe date from a woman regardless of your vacation situation. If she does not firmly agree, pullback and ask her to get in touch when she's free or wait a week and reach out.
Don't ask more than twice.
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Gotcha. Yea cause a mayyybe isn’t a yes. Between the maybe and slow text starting to think it was just an enjoyable night. If someone is interested they’ll make time
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
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What did you text exactly? You can't be super logical. "Do you want to meet up (for some fun)? What's your schedule like?" You can't be too specific with times and days or that you are really flexible (if you are).
click to expandAre you free Tuesday evening
That's it? What sign are you hahaha.
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Libra. We already discussed what we liked and xyz. Was just trying to see if she was feee then go over what we were doing
Alright. You already asked and discussed so don't think you need to double check. Would be too pushy. Let her come to you.
click to expandI let her know if we can’t set something up Saturday when I get back I’ll figure out plans for us to hang.
Got no response back
Better would have been "how does your schedule look like this week?", but that window has passed. Would let it be for now and wait if she reaches out herself.
Was gonna call her during week or should I wait for a response?
The vibe in person was there. Texting eh but she said she’s a texter and talker. So I’m like was she really all that interested
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Hm this is hard. I'd wait a bit. Why was there no casual texting between the meeting and now? You just went in immediately with the setup for a new date?
I tried to get some casual text going but she dragging so I thought to set up a date so in between time can have regular convo leading up
Hmmmm I'm afraid she's not feeling it.
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Yea. Think it was just a nice night
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
Never accept a maybe date from a woman regardless of your vacation situation. If she does not firmly agree, pullback and ask her to get in touch when she's free or wait a week and reach out.
Don't ask more than twice.
Gotcha. Yea cause a mayyybe isn’t a yes. Between the maybe and slow text starting to think it was just an enjoyable night. If someone is interested they’ll make time
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Stall her out. You're going on vacation so the ball needs to be in her court..
saying "let's play it by ear" is now a maybe request from you. She never said she was free so now tell her to reach out when she's available.
You don't need to do anything else.
Don't delete her number either. Their emotions fluctuant and she could come back and say this was a really busy week for her. She reaches out and you don't have her number anymore. Now you're the asshole!
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
Never accept a maybe date from a woman regardless of your vacation situation. If she does not firmly agree, pullback and ask her to get in touch when she's free or wait a week and reach out.
Don't ask more than twice.
Gotcha. Yea cause a mayyybe isn’t a yes. Between the maybe and slow text starting to think it was just an enjoyable night. If someone is interested they’ll make time
click to expandStall her out. You're going on vacation so the ball needs to be in her court..
saying "let's play it by ear" is now a maybe request from you. She never said she was free so now tell her to reach out when she's available.
You don't need to do anything else. Women will do the leg work for you if they're actually interested.
Don't delete her number either. Their emotions fluctuant and she could come back and say this was a really busy week for her.
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Nah won’t delete numbers unless I feel it’s no point of having. We’re in a singles group together she’ll see me post or again at another event and mood could change like you said.
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
Never accept a maybe date from a woman regardless of your vacation situation. If she does not firmly agree, pullback and ask her to get in touch when she's free or wait a week and reach out.
Don't ask more than twice.
Gotcha. Yea cause a mayyybe isn’t a yes. Between the maybe and slow text starting to think it was just an enjoyable night. If someone is interested they’ll make time
click to expandStall her out. You're going on vacation so the ball needs to be in her court..
saying "let's play it by ear" is now a maybe request from you. She never said she was free so now tell her to reach out when she's available.
You don't need to do anything else. Women will do the leg work for you if they're actually interested.
Don't delete her number either. Their emotions fluctuant and she could come back and say this was a really busy week for her.
Nah won’t delete numbers unless I feel it’s no point of having. We’re in a singles group together she’ll see me post or again at another event and mood could change like you said.
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Yeah, just keep it moving as if she isn't going to reach out. But stay cordial if you do bump into her again.
Fight her on that tab also.. She's way too comfortable with that and there's little rapport.
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
Never accept a maybe date from a woman regardless of your vacation situation. If she does not firmly agree, pullback and ask her to get in touch when she's free or wait a week and reach out.
Don't ask more than twice.
Gotcha. Yea cause a mayyybe isn’t a yes. Between the maybe and slow text starting to think it was just an enjoyable night. If someone is interested they’ll make time
click to expandStall her out. You're going on vacation so the ball needs to be in her court..
saying "let's play it by ear" is now a maybe request from you. She never said she was free so now tell her to reach out when she's available.
You don't need to do anything else. Women will do the leg work for you if they're actually interested.
Don't delete her number either. Their emotions fluctuant and she could come back and say this was a really busy week for her.
Nah won’t delete numbers unless I feel it’s no point of having. We’re in a singles group together she’ll see me post or again at another event and mood could change like you said.
Yeah, just keep it moving as if she isn't going to reach out. But stay cordial if you do bump into her again.
Fight her on that tab also.. She's way too comfortable with that and there's little rapport.
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When I told her I was gonna pay for it she said we’ll hangout again as like saying I got this you got the next one. How I took it. Told her thanks for the wings and she said thanks for the company.
Like the whole night we vibed out. I walked around to give her some space cause she was talking to someone else then she came to find me afterwards.
On flip side read if a woman pays for date their not interested. All this crap confusing.
Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.
I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.
I did lol she gave me an excuse.
click to expandAs a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.
Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
click to expandFunny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.
Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.
So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?
That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.
Enjoy!
click to expandTrying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards
Never accept a maybe date from a woman regardless of your vacation situation. If she does not firmly agree, pullback and ask her to get in touch when she's free or wait a week and reach out.
Don't ask more than twice.
Gotcha. Yea cause a mayyybe isn’t a yes. Between the maybe and slow text starting to think it was just an enjoyable night. If someone is interested they’ll make time
click to expandStall her out. You're going on vacation so the ball needs to be in her court..
saying "let's play it by ear" is now a maybe request from you. She never said she was free so now tell her to reach out when she's available.
You don't need to do anything else. Women will do the leg work for you if they're actually interested.
Don't delete her number either. Their emotions fluctuant and she could come back and say this was a really busy week for her.
Nah won’t delete numbers unless I feel it’s no point of having. We’re in a singles group together she’ll see me post or again at another event and mood could change like you said.
Yeah, just keep it moving as if she isn't going to reach out. But stay cordial if you do bump into her again.
Fight her on that tab also.. She's way too comfortable with that and there's little rapport.
When I told her I was gonna pay for it she said we’ll hangout again as like saying I got this you got the next one. How I took it. Told her thanks for the wings and she said thanks for the company.
Like the whole night we vibed out. I walked around to give her some space cause she was talking to someone else then she came to find me afterwards.
On flip side read if a woman pays for date their not interested. All this crap confusing.
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She said that, but look at her actions.
You did good.. you found something to do when she got caught up and she went to look for you.
I wouldn't say her offering to pay is a sign she's not interested, but more of a reflex. Maybe she's dealt with men who say they forgot their wallet or something. Either way, for her to not really know you and this is the first encounter suggest either she doesn't want to owe men, or she's used to being in control.
Nice man. Sounds like it's working for you. All women like touch but Cancer women particularly froth on subtle but intimate closeness. If you're walking or standing, siting or whatever, stand close and nudge your shoulder behind hers and she will lean on you and love it, that sorta thing is dreamy with them. Talk to her with your physicality.
They love a bit of this too...
Posted by Breeze
How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?
I wanna test the waters here to see if there's any correlation with the cancer women I've been involved with. Do your cancer lady text you exotic messages?
I read most of their messages from the notification screen and decide on what to reply, but that takes minutes, not hours. maybe she’s doing something that requires constant attention. maybe not that interested. but you can only tell that when you try moving to the next stage which is meeting in person and communicating about your intentions eventually
Posted by Saturn_Returns
Cancer women love flirting and generating as much attention for themselves, with no intention to take things any further. Many are usually in relationships as well.At this point, it'd be best to move on. Getting a romantic relationship off the ground should never be this difficult.
Funny you say that cause she just flirted with me as group posted pictures stating “I made an impression on her” in response to me stating me and another fella were extras in the photo.
Definitely looks like wanting attention. I know my brother is a cancer and he likes to get reactions out of people for fun
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How do you text when you like a guy? I recently been messaging a cancer girl on IG. We text daily but her text are between 1-3hrs apart depending on time of day. I’m not too worried about it honestly just hard to have a decent conversation. She did mention she’s not in a rush for nothing nor am I. I will admit I like her, had an eye on her for some years now. I told her that. Her response was “OMG” with hands over eyes emoji. Shes been single for a year now.
I’ve read cancers are slow to move forward with things. I’ve kept text light, try to make her laugh but also engaging. She’ll respond back and ask a counter question sometimes.
Is she just being nice? moving slow and feeling me out?