Is this true....?

Do cancers handle breakups/separations harder than any other signs? And I'm not speaking on dating. I'm talking about falling out with family, close/best friends...

Yes 1000% true

I wonder sometimes if my cancer ex is hurting or sometimes has emotional pangs/memories over our breakup... we don't talk anymore AT ALL. But I got a feeling he still talks about me to his friends. He always had a female friend who he gossiped with.

Yeah true,we might end up bein friends with an ex,but if you part in bad terms,he will either express all his bad emotions on and and that anger,or he will keep it inside and it will grow huge,you will not recognize that person if you will want to talk to him,he will might act ice cold,rude,no carrying at all,you might get scared just by looking at him,we have a strong scary aura and look for people who made us feel angry,this shit lasts...ages.... 🙂 our emotional memory is crazy,we will never forget how good how bad or how angry you made us feel,so when you see us after 2-5years and we remember good things me might be carrying ,kind and chatty,but if you rly hurt him made him angry or so sad,you'll feel it,you will not even want to talk to him,thats an aura of a cancer.its freezing cold outside our shelf if you're not in it

I had to let go a cancer guy friend because he couldn't get past us just being friends and the fact that I already have a boyfriend. He would constantly bring it up and I felt we needed time apart. He told me he loved me and that I am his best friend. But I dont want him to feel it's gonna go beyond friendship because its not what I want

Another friend told me he's gonna take it really hard because cancers are very sensitive. But in my mind, friends come and go.

And its not that didn't cherish our friendship with the friends come and fo comment. I guess I'm introversive and can deal with not having friends

It is the fundamental difference between water and other elements, the degree of feeling. Air can rationalize it away and fire can burn and roar elsewhere but water will remember

We put in a lot of effort giving a shit about you.

Posted by rakac
Yeah true,we might end up bein friends with an ex,but if you part in bad terms,he will either express all his bad emotions on and and that anger,or he will keep it inside and it will grow huge,you will not recognize that person if you will want to talk to him,he will might act ice cold,rude,no carrying at all,you might get scared just by looking at him,we have a strong scary aura and look for people who made us feel angry,this shit lasts...ages.... 🙂 our emotional memory is crazy,we will never forget how good how bad or how angry you made us feel,so when you see us after 2-5years and we remember good things me might be carrying ,kind and chatty,but if you rly hurt him made him angry or so sad,you'll feel it,you will not even want to talk to him,thats an aura of a cancer.its freezing cold outside our shelf if you're not in it

Spot on! My ex brokeup with me because i betrayed his trust with a lie but we still talk even after a year. He was so so much into me for 2.5 months despite being broken up (not booty call but genuine interest,connection and admiration) but then some academic failure happened in his life and he changed.He was still okay but now he's getting worse day by day since these past 4months even though he says his life and work is great now. He said he doesn't have any feelings for me anymore.He'll text me every weekend asking what am i upto but he'll make sure to not emotionally connect to me. He makes sure to keep a very formal detached tone. When i ask him why is he behaving o? he lashes out at me too badly. Threatens that if I ask him such questions repeatedly then he'll forget me forever.For eg. Today marks the 2nd year of when we met and we used to celebrate our anniversary. So i reminded him casually that we met today 2 yrs ago. He just said "ohh yeah".When i asked if he remembered it,he said "no" .Sometimes i wonder why does he even text me if he doesnt want us to connect.

But I was never romantically involved, but was best friends. He caught feelings, so I had to let him go.

Posted by rabidtalker
It is the fundamental difference between water and other elements, the degree of feeling. Air can rationalize it away and fire can burn and roar elsewhere but water will remember

Air may rationalize it away; but it's always there, in the air... We just play like we ignore it. Air is a lot like water, if cut deep enough, we do not ever let it go. H2O, lol... It's part air.

He acted as if he wasn't bothered by it and was, "do what you gotta do".

We've been best friends for 9yrs.

Falling out with friends never bothered me, lovers on the other hand, very very hard time

Posted by SentimentalCrabby
Yes. It took me over a year and something to finally let go of a relationship from the past.
We get ourselves involved with you and building the bonds, thou, we have deep insecurities for who we allow in our life.

But at the end, we learn from those experience.

Have your learning experience been mostly negative?