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Posted by shellshocker
whatever Scubs,she gave you her number and told you when she was available. You ignored that and contacted her when you wanted and expected her to respond. And when she didn't do what you wanted her to do... you start bashing her.
Get over yourself
She owes you nothing after one night of conversation, jesus she's 23! Trust me, you're not the only guy after her affections.
And please don't act like you are the innocent, rejected one here. You are in contact with more than one female so don't act like you're not keeping your options open.
sheesh...
Turn your defensive mode off.
My problem these days is expecting civil and normal conduct out of idiots.
A person does nothing wrong by texting, "hey, how was your day" and you are defending the indefensible if you think otherwise.
God, the madness of raw idiocy these days. But what's worse is that people defend such stupidity.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Never felt it. Sorry. Stop chasing 23 year olds SF if you want to settle down go higher up in age.
Yeah, well, why did she talk to me for an hour and give me her number then?
And for God's sakes, why the hell is it bad to wait a day or so and ask a person how they are doing?
Idiots I say.
Posted by shellshocker
whatever Scubs,she gave you her number and told you when she was available. You ignored that and contacted her when you wanted and expected her to respond. And when she didn't do what you wanted her to do... you start bashing her.
Get over yourself
She owes you nothing after one night of conversation, jesus she's 23! Trust me, you're not the only guy after her affections.
And please don't act like you are the innocent, rejected one here. You are in contact with more than one female so don't act like you're not keeping your options open.
sheesh...
My problem these days is expecting civil and normal conduct out of idiots.
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Yes, you have a problem... and it's expecting people to do what you want, when you want them to do it. And if people don't do that, they're idiots. And if people don't agree with you... they're idiots.
She SAID contact me when I get back... why not LISTEN to her and do that?
no, no, no... you a BIG man and you'll make the rules, right? have fun with that...
Posted by shellshocker
whatever Scubs,she gave you her number and told you when she was available. You ignored that and contacted her when you wanted and expected her to respond. And when she didn't do what you wanted her to do... you start bashing her.
Get over yourself
She owes you nothing after one night of conversation, jesus she's 23! Trust me, you're not the only guy after her affections.
And please don't act like you are the innocent, rejected one here. You are in contact with more than one female so don't act like you're not keeping your options open.
sheesh...
My problem these days is expecting civil and normal conduct out of idiots.
Yes, you have a problem... and it's expecting people to do what you want, when you want them to do it. And if people don't do that, they're idiots. And if people don't agree with you... they're idiots.
She SAID contact me when I get back... why not LISTEN to her and do that?
no, no, no... you a BIG man and you'll make the rules, right? have fun with that...
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She didn't say contact her when she gets back.
We met on a Wednesday night, and she left town on Friday night.
The only thing I texted to her before she left is as follows:
Her: "Hey (MY NAME)"
Me: "Hey, it was great seeing you. Let's meet up and talk when you get back."
I then texted "Hey, have a safe drive home" that Friday afternoon because I figured she was busy packing and driving and didn't want to bother her with a ringing phone.
FFS, dude, you are defending the inde-fucking-fensible here.
I didn't call her till Tuesday because the texting was the preliminary part of the communication so as to not be desperate.
Rather than blame me for this mess over my being a subtle grown-up about this, why don't you back the fuck off and realize that she is either A.) Immature B.) Having boy trouble with some other guy C.) Just another idiot out there who likes wasting the time of good men
It's really fucked up that you are faulting me over this bullshit.
... or D.) All of the above
What's fouled up in today's society is that good men are constantly disparaged by the illogical and erratic behavior of idiot women. The coup de gras is that the idiots are rapidly outnumbering the ones worth talking to, and it is often difficult for good men to discern between idiot and worthwhile if the facade of the idiot is strong.
It makes no sense at all, nor is it civil or acceptable, to be indifferent or rude to someone after making it clear that you want them to talk to you.
Keep in mind that she texted me first, and I was civil in a subtle response.
But to sit there and cast blame at me over this is truly the most absurd thing yet.
It makes no sense at all, nor is it civil or acceptable, to be indifferent or rude to someone after making it clear that you want them to talk to you.
Keep in mind that she texted me first, and I was civil in a subtle response.
But to sit there and cast blame at me over this is truly the most absurd thing yet.
you're leaving things out... and adding things in... but it's of no real importance.
You have HUGE expectations based on your history and cynicism that you're projecting all over this girl from 1 conversation and a couple of texts. It has been 1 week Scuba. 1 week.
slow your roll and come back down to earth. I wasn't faulting or blaming you, I was trying to give you some perspective.
But you'd rather call names and say I'm getting defensive, lol... so you can go fuck yourself
You honestly think that it is a bad thing to be upset about the sheer amount of stupidity that is overtaking society?
Just because I take note of the idiocy is no reason to talk to me like that.
The part about telling me to go fuck myself is pretty messed up, dude.
I am deeply disappointed in you for speaking directly to me like that.
....And unless you are willing to apologize, I would prefer not to hear from you ever again.
Either way, I am good.
Posted by ScorpioFish
....And unless you are willing to apologize, I would prefer not to hear from you ever again.
once again, you want me to do what you want when you want
go fuck yourself... big man
Posted by ScorpioFish
....And unless you are willing to apologize, I would prefer not to hear from you ever again.once again, you want me to do what you want when you want
go fuck yourself... big man
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Really mature response, professor.
Posted by ScorpioFish
....And unless you are willing to apologize, I would prefer not to hear from you ever again.once again, you want me to do what you want when you want
go fuck yourself... big man
Really mature response, professor.
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haha, I like this! not mature at all... but fitting 😄
Dude, when you are in the hole, you should stop digging.
Posted by BlackIndian22
@ScorpioFish Man i say don't worry about it anymore. If she won't talk to you, don't make her. Love shouldn't have a age limit in my opinion. It's all about a persons personality & how they carry themselves. If she doesn't call, well i'm sure there's a woman out there who will make the effort. Trust God, & i assure you he'll bless with a true lady at the right time. Don't give ignorant people your joy ok. At least you tried with her & you had good intentions. For now live it in Gods hands, as he is the problem solver 🙂. I think we can close this thread now lol. It's a fire here
Good stuff, brother.
Thank you again.
🙂
Fish, how many days has it been since you left your text message?
Maiden, Arielle and CC,
Eh, I am not that upset about it. It would have been nice to hear from her, but whatever. Maybe she lost her phone or something, so who knows.
There are a few other decent women to speak with, so it's okay.
My former Taurus has certainly not given up. She admitted to not liking a day going by without at least talking and catching up, so who knows what's going on therein. Maiden knows the rest of my story, so please keep that a secret.
I appreciate both your concern as well as your decency while trying to figure all of this stuff out.
Oh, and to answer your question Maiden,
Text 1 was Thursday (she texted me, and I texted back)
Text 2 was Friday afternoon (presumably while she was packing)
Phone call was Tuesday evening around 745 PM.
Thing is, one wants to be courting without being crazy. I took the subtle approach because I know that Cancer girls don't like mad rushes and other rapid movement. Eh, like I said, I chalk this up as her dealing with some kind of outside force such as a former boyfriend hangup, school/job burdens or something because my short and to the point "hey, let's meet up and talk" type of stuff is as innocuous as my intent.
No harm, no foul.
Posted by BlackIndian22
@ScorpioFish Well like i said just move on. If she don't call you back, then hey there are plenty of "fish" in the sea. Ok never mind the pun lol. But seriously, just find someone who will make time for you. Just because this girl disappeared, it's actually pushing you closer to the right one. Plus not all woman are like her. Trust me this happened to me quite a few times so i know what you're going through. People can be harsh around here so ignore them. I'm here if you need to talk. Just forget about her ok. Life still goes on, even without her 🙂
Absolutely, and again thank you for the advice and thoughtful ideas.
I'm not really that upset about it. There was a moment where I was pretty frustrated, but it's no big deal now.
...And you are right about other girls out there. I have every intention of keeping myself out there. I am often reminded of the scene in "Coming to America" wherein Prince Akeem asks the Barber Shop owner about meeting girls. "Well, they aren't going to just fall in your lap." "Well, we have been to every bar in Queens." "See, that's where you are wrong. Go to the library, good girls there. Go to the church, good girls there. Tonight they are having the Black Awareness rally. Plenty of good women there. That's where I'm goin', shit!" Hahahaha.
SEXUAL CHOCOLATE!
Good luck!
I'm a Cancer, July 16th too. I'm seeing a Pisces and the first time we just talked online it was like we were kindred spirits. When we met the first time, magnetic doesn't even describe the feeling...something I'd never experienced before and there are no words to describe the pull and deep connection we immediately had towards one another. And it's only grown stronger!
Posted by cancer68
I'm a Cancer, July 16th too. I'm seeing a Pisces and the first time we just talked online it was like we were kindred spirits. When we met the first time, magnetic doesn't even describe the feeling...something I'd never experienced before and there are no words to describe the pull and deep connection we immediately had towards one another. And it's only grown stronger!
Maybe it's the decan of a late 3rd July Cancer. I think that is the Pisces/Neptune Cancer.
Posted by cancer68
I'm a Cancer, July 16th too. I'm seeing a Pisces and the first time we just talked online it was like we were kindred spirits. When we met the first time, magnetic doesn't even describe the feeling...something I'd never experienced before and there are no words to describe the pull and deep connection we immediately had towards one another. And it's only grown stronger!Maybe it's the decan of a late 3rd July Cancer. I think that is the Pisces/Neptune Cancer.
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Not gonna lie.
3rd Decan Crab girls are my favorite, but I am always willing to reconsider the other 2 Decans as well.
Posted by cancer68
I'm a Cancer, July 16th too. I'm seeing a Pisces and the first time we just talked online it was like we were kindred spirits. When we met the first time, magnetic doesn't even describe the feeling...something I'd never experienced before and there are no words to describe the pull and deep connection we immediately had towards one another. And it's only grown stronger!Maybe it's the decan of a late 3rd July Cancer. I think that is the Pisces/Neptune Cancer.
Not gonna lie.
3rd Decan Crab girls are my favorite, but I am always willing to reconsider the other 2 Decans as well.
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Crabs don't like you little fish. Go away!
Posted by cancer68
I'm a Cancer, July 16th too. I'm seeing a Pisces and the first time we just talked online it was like we were kindred spirits. When we met the first time, magnetic doesn't even describe the feeling...something I'd never experienced before and there are no words to describe the pull and deep connection we immediately had towards one another. And it's only grown stronger!Maybe it's the decan of a late 3rd July Cancer. I think that is the Pisces/Neptune Cancer.
Not gonna lie.
3rd Decan Crab girls are my favorite, but I am always willing to reconsider the other 2 Decans as well.
Crabs don't like you little fish. Go away!
What a predator!!!
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Creepy as fuck, right? Just picture him with a Chester the molester van....
its funny because there are times where Cancer/Pisces match up really well and I noticed it with Tom Cruise and Emily Blunt
Tom like a typical Cancer goes after the wrong signs but in a perfect world his ideal mate based on his zodiac chart would be Emily Blunt but they are too far off in different courses in their lives to actually get together and thats usually how it is romantically with the two signs. I noticed in the movie they did togethe that their chemistry was off the charts yet no one really noticed it.
I did notice in their interviews feels comfortable around her and he lets her have playful jabs and she gives into the pointless Cancer rambling. I can sense he knows she will be protective of him as long as he doesn't let Crazy Tom out. I feel like she has the ability to help him act more normal in social situations.
She also comes off very lady like but not trying to draw attention to herself in a negative way or make him feel insecure. I can sense she would be interested in him if she wasn't with someone already as she plays it perfectly and in return he is willing to let her control whatever she wants when he normally wants to and they are able to be friends because of the mutual respect of "what if"
The key to a Cancer's heart is make us laugh at ourself that isn't mean spirited and she is very good at playing his ego along with putting him in his place without trying to hurt him like others have
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Posted by HighTide
its funny because there are times where Cancer/Pisces match up really well and I noticed it with Tom Cruise and Emily BluntTom like a typical Cancer goes after the wrong signs but in a perfect world his ideal mate based on his zodiac chart would be Emily Blunt but they are too far off in different courses in their lives to actually get together and thats usually how it is romantically with the two signs. I noticed in the movie they did togethe that their chemistry was off the charts yet no one really noticed it.
I did notice in their interviews feels comfortable around her and he lets her have playful jabs and she gives into the pointless Cancer rambling. I can sense he knows she will be protective of him as long as he doesn't let Crazy Tom out. I feel like she has the ability to help him act more normal in social situations.
She also comes off very lady like but not trying to draw attention to herself in a negative way or make him feel insecure. I can sense she would be interested in him if she wasn't with someone already as she plays it perfectly and in return he is willing to let her control whatever she wants when he normally wants to and they are able to be friends because of the mutual respect of "what if"
The key to a Cancer's heart is make us laugh at ourself that isn't mean spirited and she is very good at playing his ego along with putting him in his place without trying to hurt him like others have
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Posted by cancer68
I'm a Cancer, July 16th too. I'm seeing a Pisces and the first time we just talked online it was like we were kindred spirits. When we met the first time, magnetic doesn't even describe the feeling...something I'd never experienced before and there are no words to describe the pull and deep connection we immediately had towards one another. And it's only grown stronger!I agree
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Set a course for adventure!
Posted by CluelessCancer
No. Pisces suck!That wasn't very nice!
😢
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Nice is kids channel where they sing with puppets!
It's not here....
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whatever Scubs,
she gave you her number and told you when she was available. You ignored that and contacted her when you wanted and expected her to respond. And when she didn't do what you wanted her to do... you start bashing her.
Get over yourself
She owes you nothing after one night of conversation, jesus she's 23! Trust me, you're not the only guy after her affections.
And please don't act like you are the innocent, rejected one here. You are in contact with more than one female so don't act like you're not keeping your options open.
sheesh...