Mind blown

This Cancer guy was so persistent and sweet in the beginning. Then came the rollercoaster.
Finally, we decide to end it amicably and go our separate ways, with hopes of friendship in the future.
Two days later I find a letter under my apartment door from him, saying he doesn't want to give up and that he was trying so hard to be monogamous after not being for so long but he knows that this is what he needs. He also outlined all the things he loves about me and how I challenge him, am patient with him and help him grow and how he wants to do that for me. He tells me he loves me.
So I take him back. All is well.
Then he's helping me move. As we're loading my couch onto the truck, I cheese and say "you have a strong girlfriend, huh?"
He says "What girlfriend?"
DUMBFOUNDED.
I say what am I just another girl? He says no you're special but girlfriend is a strong word.
I decide not to make a huge fuss and finish moving. I make a mental note to discuss later. After we're done, I tell him I want to treat him to margaritas for helping me. He keeps poking me on the walk there (immature I know) and when I go to give him a playful shove, I accidentally swipe him in the eye. He BLOWS up and I apologize profusely> He says he thinks I did it on purpose and then said "I would knock you out right now if I could'' He tries to clarify he means if I were a guy.

So of course it's completely over now.
I honestly have never met someone so bipolar.
Is this normal Cancer behavior?!

I'm a Scorpio so I thought this would work..

He's a Cancer sun and moon, with Taurus venus an Aries mars.

Ew. Sounds like he wanted to run the show and didn't like the results.

Rollercoaster? Scorpio women are the queen of rollercoaster. What you experienced isn't a typical Cancer I wouldn't do what the Cancer guy did to you.

i tell you, scorpios and cancers do not mix. it's best to not get into anything serious with them. or else you will always be on roller coaster rides of emotions. it is not worth it. it's tiring and draining. find someone more stable. leave children alone.

Cancer and Scorpio relationships are a little rocky that's what happens when you have two emotional people together. Cancer men understand Scorpio women too well they can't hide in a relationship nothing is really kept secret. Scorpio's can't control the relationship with a Cancer man as Cancer men like to have control.

Scorpios are emotional so are Cancers when a fight happens emotions come into play, Scorpio's emotions are a little more raw in a relationship with a Cancer so it hurts a lot more when Cancer starts using his claws in a fight.

Scorpio being more stable? I think not, Scorpios suffer from more mental health problems than any Cancer's I know. Scorpios are the ones that cause the rollercoaster not Cancer hell I've watched a Scorpios put a Gemini guy and Aries guy on a rollercoaster ride, the one that I was friends with was a rollercoaster ride, I've never had any other woman with a different sign cause me so many problems.

You Scorpios should look at yourself you are the problem how many of you are looking around feeling alone because you have pushed everybody out of your life. You have to pull your nose out of the air once in a while to see that you are the cause of the problem 90% of the time.

The only thing he constantly complained about in me was that I would get too jealous. He was very flirty and admitted it. So with that in mind, I'm happy we're not together because it secretly drove me crazy. I even had a girl at a party warn me to watch out for his flirty tendencies!!
I showed him love the best way I knew. Yes I was and still am not perfect. Also I'm in my early 20's so I don't have a ton of experience in love. Mistakes are meant to be made. But I never made him feel I didn't love him. I made sure of it. He never complained about that either. He wasn't lacking.
He lost his job and was unemployed for a month. He hid that from me for a while. Then when I realized he was very low on funds, I bought him groceries and lent him some money. He was too shy to ask for it, but I sensed it and he said he was really grateful. He said it had been a rough couple of months for him but I was patient with him and he was thankful for that.
He tells me he loves me... but girlfriend is too strong of a word? He was a jerk, plain and simple.
The love from a Scorpio woman is deep and a lot of people can't handle it.

Oh yes I know what the Scorpio jealously is like it would p*ss me off every time hell we were not even a couple she would get all huffy because I talked to women in front of her WTF! I'm a fairly approachable guy women would flirt with me and I would flirt back its part of the Cancer man charm. Phuck I would get the glare and silent treatment from the Scorpio after the woman left.

If your Cancer man is the same age as you he doesn't have much life experience either he sounds like he was a bit of a putz but it does come down to age and maturity.

As for the love of a Scorpio woman yes I know you put your heart and soul into things, yes I know people are scared of the Scorpio intensity the first Scorpio I met she came on strong I had a lot on my plate I couldn't devote all my time to her. It takes a man that understands a Scorpio to handle her if not she could drive a man over the edge there is a lot more to a Scorpio woman than you see. With a Scorpio you are opening Pandora's box once you get to know her there is no turning back.

stihl, shut the fuck up. you cant wait to talk down about scorpios. you're not even man enough to see that just because that one scorpio hurt you bad you dont have right to lump all of us in that category. you dont know every single scorpio.

i can say the exact same things about the unstable cancers i knew. (the ones i knew. not every single born cancer). pushed everyone away because they were narcissistic rude assholes who only cared about their feelings. you remind me of them. we get it. you're still hurt and obsessed with us. you claim you have control because you're a cancer, but you can't even control yourself. scorpio moved on yet you still gripe about her like a loser. troll.

hahaha. Stihl,, you are stihl hurting your feelings. This is what happens when a Scorpio woman left your a*s*s*. We Scorpio women ruled... if not
we feel used or abused.. whatever,, We can still rise again and be the strongest Scorpion. We fall in love as hard as water elements do ( pisces, cancer) but Scorpio will bring you to the highest journey you never take before. This is why you get hurt because when Scorpio's decide to walk away.. hell no to chase after her. Keep it light.. show your vulnerable side and she will know how to give compassion as well. Do not be too proud or act as if she's nothing.. once you do. Revenge follows and you'll never know why. Let her win. Do not fret of it. Once you do that.. she will give you the most loving heart and will stay beside you forever. Do not play with a Scorpio. She is the master of Manipulation. ruled by pluto - so dark, It cannot give you light.
So No to Scorpio mind games!

and Stihl, if you have feelings for her. Tell her. Talk to her. Grab some coffee. invite her gently and she would love it. We scorpio don't hold grudge once your intention is pure and true. Do not give her any threats.. just be gentle in your approach.

Posted by M143
and Stihl, if you have feelings for her. Tell her. Talk to her. Grab some coffee. invite her gently and she would love it. We scorpio don't hold grudge once your intention is pure and true. Do not give her any threats.. just be gentle in your approach.

Been thinking about it but I have the little birdie saying move on, my friends would disown me if I started talking to her again, she caused a lot of hate and I mean a lot of hate, she's got well over 50 people that will not talk to her. That is a lot of drama I want to leave behind, my life is back to normal since she's not in it, I don't miss her picking fights with me. Sure I have feelings for her but I can't go through what I went through.

Pretty sure she is scared to talk to me she knows things went a little too far the companies HR took a run at it blew things way out of proportion. It cost the company a good 10 grand may be more. My ex boss wants to quit things turned so ugly the heat came down on him hard he's got employees angry at him for what she did to me. I still have an informant at the company I worked at I hear everything I'm glad I'm not there, the Scorpio really screwed things up. My informant tells me the staff are fighting with each other the other departments are fighting with the boss. She turned everything upside down just like her life

I'm happy now I make better money my quality of life is better I don't have the stress I used to have I go to work and I'm smiling I actually hear the words of appreciation from my new boss he is happy to see me every morning when I show up to work.

I don't even know if she still has her Gemini BF he can have her he was the reason why she caused so much hell in my life he couldn't make her happy so she took it out on me.

M143 you're beating a dead horse. it's not going to listen to you. advice has been wasted for years on that thing.

Posted by LadyYin
M143 you're beating a dead horse. it's not going to listen to you. advice has been wasted for years on that thing.

yeah. but it's aching me seeing him ranting about the old scorpio chic. lol

She's got other issues like being on meds for mental health it makes her tough to deal with at times, I'm just added to the list of people she's driven out of her life the only ones left she's got close to her is her dog and mom.

He's too immature and whether he admits it or not is "playing the field" to be ready for anything serious. If you want serious,move on. In fact, just move on b/c this relationship ain't going anywhere. And furthermore, flirting with other girls in front of you or in front of your friends who tell you about it is just plain RUDE. I guarantee you he wouldn't want you checking out hot guys in front on him. In fact try it & make some comment about their ass in front of him and see how well that goes over LOL. Just saying, this guy's way too immature for serious or committed.

Please move on. Jeez he sounds like a dork anyway. Wishy washy men just need to stay home and out of society.

She has a boyfriend so what's her beef it would p*ss me off she would give me the silent treatment because I talked to other women in front of her. One day I was talking to this woman 50 feet away and I was getting the stare from the Scorpio WTF I'm a single man. The Scorp didn't like it I was getting the woman laughing and we were having a good conversation.

Scorpios need to let go of the possessiveness and jealously crap its not attractive especially with guys that are not your BF.