My cancer broke up with me

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by martatatat on Monday, September 19, 2016 and has 1 replies.

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@martatatat
10 Years

Hello,

I have been with my cancer man for four months now. We met pretty much one year ago,dated for two months but broke up because of not having enough time for each other (he broke up). After few months with no speaking at all he messaged me all of a sudden and since then we started dating each other. Things got really serious quick,we were spending so much time with each other and straight away I fell for him. When we first me I knew immediately that he is my soulmate and I don't want anyone else in my life. We fell in love with each other and things started getting really crap around us. I got pregnant with him,we made the decision to get an abortion,he lost his job,had to move out from London,then got a job here again but also got back his terrible migraine where he's not able to do anything apart work. So we can't see each other as much as we want to and today he broke up with me because of it. I know he loves me,he said that if he could guarantee me that we will see each other at least once a week he would jump into it with open arms. But we can't. And I don't know what to do. It breaks me to think that we'll never be together again because I love him to bits and I don't want anyone else. I'm a cancer myself therefore I think he might be a bit dramatic about things and I don't want to give up. But I don't want to push him away at the same time. Any advice? Oh I have to mention that he's always been a bit withdrawn because he didn't want me to get hurt

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@martatatat
10 Years

Yeah,but we managed to survive because he didn't work at that time and we spent a lot of time together. The issue is the time we could spend together that we don't have now.