Cappykatt
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Not interested?
Posted by alexscaries
Did you say you don't have feelings for him?
Alexscaries, I did not respond except to say that I very much enjoy talking with him, but I would have to actually know him other than over a computer.
Posted by LaLueur
Do you have other options?
I'm not sure what you are asking about other options
It's the famous Disappearing Cancer Man!
Cut your losses.
Cut your losses.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by CappykattPosted by alexscaries
Did you say you don't have feelings for him?
Alexscaries, I did not respond except to say that I very much enjoy talking with him, but I would have to actually know him other than over a computer.
There's your answer I take it he said he was interested in a relationship or something similar. Then he did the feminine thing of "I'm washing my hair" when you asked.click to expand
Well, I suppose that I should move on. I've told him several times that I was interested in a relationship, but I can't say that I love him or falling in love with him from just a computer relationship. I'm just not built to tell someone that without actually knowing them. I don't work that way. It's been three times that he has had a reason to cancel on our plans, and 6 weekends all together of nothing but chat over a device. It was only recently that he started talking of falling in love. He said that he understood my not being able to feel the same way, and continues to chat. Still talking about future plans and such, but no sort of commitment. We have a distance between us. I need some sort of further movement. I have told him this as well.
Posted by Findingbalance
In my experience a cancer that's interested is basically a crybaby Scorpio. They will look for any excuse to see you and talk to you. Something is up that he keeps going Mia on the same day.
I'm feeling the same way. I just wanted to know from other Cancer signs, or those that have dealt with Cancers. This is my first.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by CappykattPosted by alexscariesPosted by CappykattPosted by alexscaries
Did you say you don't have feelings for him?
Alexscaries, I did not respond except to say that I very much enjoy talking with him, but I would have to actually know him other than over a computer.
There's your answer I take it he said he was interested in a relationship or something similar. Then he did the feminine thing of "I'm washing my hair" when you asked.
Well, I suppose that I should move on. I've told him several times that I was interested in a relationship, but I can't say that I love him or falling in love with him from just a computer relationship. I'm just not built to tell someone that without actually knowing them. I don't work that way. It's been three times that he has had a reason to cancel on our plans, and 6 weekends all together of nothing but chat over a device. It was only recently that he started talking of falling in love. He said that he understood my not being able to feel the same way, and continues to chat. Still talking about future plans and such, but no sort of commitment. We have a distance between us. I need some sort of further movement. I have told him this as well.
He's still a man and men don't like being dictated to about how a relationship should go before meeting up. I like things to be organic.click to expand
I haven't dictated anything other than I can't have the same feelings over the internet. I haven't said anything about his breaking plans. I have just noted for myself. I have been supportive in all of his reasons. He's the one that makes the plans and breaks his own plans. Other than, I did tell him that I felt he should spend his Christmas with his grandson since that is what he has always done. I told him that it would be unfair to his grandson to change so late in the game, and that he and I could get together for my birthday on New Years if he was available. That is when he started to talk about deeper feelings towards me. Maybe that's dictation?
So in total 8 weeks with bullshit excuses. 😂I'm starting to think cat fish. 🙀🐠 I would not get invested in someone you haven't met.
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Timone
So in total 8 weeks with bullshit excuses. 😂I'm starting to think cat fish. 🙀🐠 I would not get invested in someone you haven't met.
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
My man 👊click to expand
High-five ✋
Tbh any man that contact someone randomly on Facebook I will be suspicious asf of. So you were that interesting to him that he had to contact you but then he doesn't want to meet? I'm just going to say again beware of the cat fish. 🙀
Have you facetimed? Heard his voice?
All the cancellations and excuses make me think catfish.
All the cancellations and excuses make me think catfish.
Posted by CappykattPosted by alexscariesPosted by CappykattPosted by alexscaries
Did you say you don't have feelings for him?
Alexscaries, I did not respond except to say that I very much enjoy talking with him, but I would have to actually know him other than over a computer.
There's your answer I take it he said he was interested in a relationship or something similar. Then he did the feminine thing of "I'm washing my hair" when you asked.
Well, I suppose that I should move on. I've told him several times that I was interested in a relationship, but I can't say that I love him or falling in love with him from just a computer relationship. I'm just not built to tell someone that without actually knowing them. I don't work that way. It's been three times that he has had a reason to cancel on our plans, and 6 weekends all together of nothing but chat over a device. It was only recently that he started talking of falling in love. He said that he understood my not being able to feel the same way, and continues to chat. Still talking about future plans and such, but no sort of commitment. We have a distance between us. I need some sort of further movement. I have told him this as well.click to expand
Why not be direct and say all the cancelling is turning you off
Posted by LadyNeptune
Have you facetimed? Heard his voice?
All the cancellations and excuses make me think catfish.
Me too. I wouldn't be surprised if he starts asking for money.
Posted by TruemaraPosted by CappykattPosted by alexscariesPosted by CappykattPosted by alexscaries
Did you say you don't have feelings for him?
Alexscaries, I did not respond except to say that I very much enjoy talking with him, but I would have to actually know him other than over a computer.
There's your answer I take it he said he was interested in a relationship or something similar. Then he did the feminine thing of "I'm washing my hair" when you asked.
Well, I suppose that I should move on. I've told him several times that I was interested in a relationship, but I can't say that I love him or falling in love with him from just a computer relationship. I'm just not built to tell someone that without actually knowing them. I don't work that way. It's been three times that he has had a reason to cancel on our plans, and 6 weekends all together of nothing but chat over a device. It was only recently that he started talking of falling in love. He said that he understood my not being able to feel the same way, and continues to chat. Still talking about future plans and such, but no sort of commitment. We have a distance between us. I need some sort of further movement. I have told him this as well.
Why not be direct and say all the cancelling is turning you offclick to expand
This will be my next conversation with him. It's coming up on the weekend again, and I already know that he is quarantining for 14 days. So I have decided that if he breaks the next plans that HE makes, then I feel like we should consider other options. It would be a whole day thing for us to meet as we are 4 hours away. Maybe that is what's stopping him, but he 's not saying it.
Posted by Timone
Tbh any man that contact someone randomly on Facebook I will be suspicious asf of. So you were that interesting to him that he had to contact you but then he doesn't want to meet? I'm just going to say again beware of the cat fish. 🙀
We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.
Posted by TimonePosted by alexscariesPosted by Timone
So in total 8 weeks with bullshit excuses. 😂I'm starting to think cat fish. 🙀🐠 I would not get invested in someone you haven't met.
We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well. I have told him that I cannot have feelings for someone that I have only chatted/text/talked to. I would have to physically meet them before I could have any sort of feelings.
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
My man 👊
High-five ✋click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune
Have you facetimed? Heard his voice?
All the cancellations and excuses make me think catfish.
Yes, We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.
Posted by Timone
So in total 8 weeks with bullshit excuses. 😂I'm starting to think cat fish. 🙀🐠 I would not get invested in someone you haven't met.
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
The firefighter guy?
Posted by CappykattPosted by LadyNeptune
Have you facetimed? Heard his voice?
All the cancellations and excuses make me think catfish.
Yes, We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.click to expand
Investigate if he is married.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Timone
So in total 8 weeks with bullshit excuses. 😂I'm starting to think cat fish. 🙀🐠 I would not get invested in someone you haven't met.
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
The firefighter guy?click to expand
Oh that’s trouble.
Posted by CappykattPosted by LadyNeptune
Have you facetimed? Heard his voice?
All the cancellations and excuses make me think catfish.
Yes, We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.click to expand
So you know the person your speaking to is at least male, thats something.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Timone
So in total 8 weeks with bullshit excuses. 😂I'm starting to think cat fish. 🙀🐠 I would not get invested in someone you haven't met.
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
The firefighter guy?click to expand
Yes. He must have sensed I was talking about him because now he just messaged me and asked if I wanted to join him exploring a neighbourhood. 🤔😂
Posted by CappykattPosted by Timone
Tbh any man that contact someone randomly on Facebook I will be suspicious asf of. So you were that interesting to him that he had to contact you but then he doesn't want to meet? I'm just going to say again beware of the cat fish. 🙀
We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.click to expand
OK but maybe your friend was catfished and added him on FB thinking it was his friend when it wasn't. 🤔 Sorry I'm paranoid. 😂 Just seems odd to add someone out of the blue on FB and then doesn't want to meet up. Does he want a pen pal or what?
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by CappykattPosted by LadyNeptune
Have you facetimed? Heard his voice?
All the cancellations and excuses make me think catfish.
Yes, We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.
So you know the person your speaking to is at least male, thats something.click to expand
Yes, he and our friend were friends all through school. I have also spoken to him on the phone.
Posted by TimonePosted by CappykattPosted by Timone
Tbh any man that contact someone randomly on Facebook I will be suspicious asf of. So you were that interesting to him that he had to contact you but then he doesn't want to meet? I'm just going to say again beware of the cat fish. 🙀
We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.
OK but maybe your friend was catfished and added him on FB thinking it was his friend when it wasn't. 🤔 Sorry I'm paranoid. 😂 Just seems odd to add someone out of the blue on FB and then doesn't want to meet up. Does he want a pen pal or what?click to expand
I might ask him if he just wants a pen pal.... lol
Posted by CappykattPosted by TimonePosted by CappykattPosted by Timone
Tbh any man that contact someone randomly on Facebook I will be suspicious asf of. So you were that interesting to him that he had to contact you but then he doesn't want to meet? I'm just going to say again beware of the cat fish. 🙀
We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.
OK but maybe your friend was catfished and added him on FB thinking it was his friend when it wasn't. 🤔 Sorry I'm paranoid. 😂 Just seems odd to add someone out of the blue on FB and then doesn't want to meet up. Does he want a pen pal or what?
I might ask him if he just wants a pen pal.... lolclick to expand
What is his moon sign?
Posted by TimonePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Timone
So in total 8 weeks with bullshit excuses. 😂I'm starting to think cat fish. 🙀🐠 I would not get invested in someone you haven't met.
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
The firefighter guy?
Yes. He must have sensed I was talking about him because now he just messaged me and asked if I wanted to join him exploring a neighbourhood. 🤔😂click to expand
Lol what does that mean?
Does he ever take you for dinner, dancing etc?
Posted by TimonePosted by CappykattPosted by TimonePosted by CappykattPosted by Timone
Tbh any man that contact someone randomly on Facebook I will be suspicious asf of. So you were that interesting to him that he had to contact you but then he doesn't want to meet? I'm just going to say again beware of the cat fish. 🙀
We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.
OK but maybe your friend was catfished and added him on FB thinking it was his friend when it wasn't. 🤔 Sorry I'm paranoid. 😂 Just seems odd to add someone out of the blue on FB and then doesn't want to meet up. Does he want a pen pal or what?
I might ask him if he just wants a pen pal.... lol
What is his moon sign?click to expand
IDK
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by TimonePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Timone
So in total 8 weeks with bullshit excuses. 😂I'm starting to think cat fish. 🙀🐠 I would not get invested in someone you haven't met.
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
The firefighter guy?
Yes. He must have sensed I was talking about him because now he just messaged me and asked if I wanted to join him exploring a neighbourhood. 🤔😂
Lol what does that mean?
Does he ever take you for dinner, dancing etc?click to expand
That's actually something I would suggest because I love exploring new places. I didn't even know he was the exploring type of guy. 😂 And neighbourhood was my word of choice.
He had said the name of the place but it's in my city so I don't know if I would call that exploring. 🤔🙈 Exploring to me is going to another city or somewhere further away. I was even this close to ask him if he wanted to join me on my trip to Italy but maybe that would have been too much for him. 🤣 He seems to be a typical cancer homebody whereas I love traveling.
Cancer here.
A lot of women think if they don't have sex with a man then they can't be being used, but we have a lot more to offer than that. Ever consider that having women that he doesn't have to buy things for, answer to or disppoint sexually might be appealing for him? Just all companionship and fantasy romance, none of the responsibilities.
I say you file this under The Rule of Toilet.
If your whole relationship can be done while he is on the toilet, he is wasting your time girl.
A lot of women think if they don't have sex with a man then they can't be being used, but we have a lot more to offer than that. Ever consider that having women that he doesn't have to buy things for, answer to or disppoint sexually might be appealing for him? Just all companionship and fantasy romance, none of the responsibilities.
I say you file this under The Rule of Toilet.
If your whole relationship can be done while he is on the toilet, he is wasting your time girl.
Posted by TimonePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by TimonePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Timone
So in total 8 weeks with bullshit excuses. 😂I'm starting to think cat fish. 🙀🐠 I would not get invested in someone you haven't met.
With any man if he's really into you he would like to meet you. I'm seeing a cancer too sometimes but tbh he's starting to bore me a bit because he never wants to do anything beside netflix and chill. 😅🤣 Maybe crabs like their home so much they don't want to go outside. 🦀🏡🤔😅
The firefighter guy?
Yes. He must have sensed I was talking about him because now he just messaged me and asked if I wanted to join him exploring a neighbourhood. 🤔😂
Lol what does that mean?
Does he ever take you for dinner, dancing etc?
That's actually something I would suggest because I love exploring new places. I didn't even know he was the exploring type of guy. 😂 And neighbourhood was my word of choice.
He had said the name of the place but it's in my city so I don't know if I would call that exploring. 🤔🙈 Exploring to me is going to another city or somewhere further away. I was even this close to ask him if he wanted to join me on my trip to Italy but maybe that would have been too much for him. 🤣 He seems to be a typical cancer homebody whereas I love traveling.click to expand
Enjoy!
😃
Posted by CappykattPosted by TimonePosted by CappykattPosted by TimonePosted by CappykattPosted by Timone
Tbh any man that contact someone randomly on Facebook I will be suspicious asf of. So you were that interesting to him that he had to contact you but then he doesn't want to meet? I'm just going to say again beware of the cat fish. 🙀
We have a mutual friend who has passed away. He has been in pics with our friend as well. I have spoken on the phone with him several times as well.
OK but maybe your friend was catfished and added him on FB thinking it was his friend when it wasn't. 🤔 Sorry I'm paranoid. 😂 Just seems odd to add someone out of the blue on FB and then doesn't want to meet up. Does he want a pen pal or what?
I might ask him if he just wants a pen pal.... lol
What is his moon sign?
IDKclick to expand
Do you know his bday?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by CappykattPosted by alexscaries
Did you say you don't have feelings for him?
Alexscaries, I did not respond except to say that I very much enjoy talking with him, but I would have to actually know him other than over a computer.
There's your answer I take it he said he was interested in a relationship or something similar. Then he did the feminine thing of "I'm washing my hair" when you asked.click to expand
🤣🤣
Posted by geminiflyby
It's the famous Disappearing Cancer Man!
Cut your losses.
Years ago I remember that dissapearance was an attribute of the Scorpios ONLY!
Then it became everyone’s…I felt fucked!
Posted by Electricboogaloo
Cancer here.
A lot of women think if they don't have sex with a man then they can't be being used, but we have a lot more to offer than that. Ever consider that having women that he doesn't have to buy things for, answer to or disppoint sexually might be appealing for him? Just all companionship and fantasy romance, none of the responsibilities.
I say you file this under The Rule of Toilet.
If your whole relationship can be done while he is on the toilet, he is wasting your time girl.
Are you saying he is an impotent?
Posted by BLVCKisBVCK
I just wouldn't reach out to him at all. Make him be the one to contact you first from here on out until you meet or weekend communication changes. If he asks why you haven't been reaching out or msging him be honest and tell him you feel like he is not acting interested due to him vanishing every weekend.
You would think it’s only logical right? Apparently not. Imagine IF she was in love…dude would have to move further than 4 hours away 🤔
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