Reconcile with Cancer

Hey, at my wits end and need genuine advice asap!!

I am a Libra female, who met a Cancerian man in November 05. For me it was an instant attractio

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And him?

Sorry, it appeared he felt the same. Now he just wants to be friends and seems really distant. Should i send neutral texts so that he knows im still interested or just leave him alone completely? x

I think he might need some breathing space.. I myself am just like that when things start to get serious. If he really loves/wants you, he'll be back (in his own time). If you start ignoring him, he might start to think that you weren't interested in him. I mean, not for the good reasons anyway... We don't want that 🙂 but you should be very "economical" about sending him messages, that might make him see that it's not all about him, aaaaall the time and that can make him a bit curious and jealous, 'cause what would you be doing WHITHOUT HIM— (works for me, I'm just like that 😉 !!!). You could end up with your cancer sooner than you expected.

But should indulge in this game? And how much time are we talking here?!! Its been a week and so far he has only really talked (via text) about what he's doing with his day, no mention of us meeting up or getting together. Is he expecting me to declare undying love or to respect this need for space. I told him that i missed him, and the simple things we did, like talking at night and cuddling up on the couch watching T.V, but he didnt seem to bother. Dont want to seem like a stalker, but dont want to give up either!! What does anyone suggest that i do now?