
enlightenedlibra78
@confusedlibra78
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Posted by ElleDuMondePolite way of saying sex, lol
what does 'biblically speaking' mean?


Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..

Posted by happyface1It is awesome! Hair pulling, too. So good
I don't know if it's just Cancer men....sounds awesome though lol

Posted by confusedlibra78We pretty much span the whole range from very soft to rough sex. They are giving you rough sex because they think that's what you're into.
I've only been with, Biblically speaking, 2 Cancers. One was a hook up, don't judge, I didn't know it was just that, and the other I'm currently seeing.
Both guys were/are VERY rough. 1st guy threw me around, held me down by my neck, etc. Current guy bites me, spanks me, chokes me, leaves bruises. Luckily, I love it, but just wondered if this was a Cancer trait. They seem so sensitive but then in bed, it's on.
Posted by KissmeSounds a bit like the roughness wasn't consensual - do you really not care if they feel hurt? Please tell me I misunderstood your post.Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
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Posted by KissmeDifficult to say. But it does seem to me you need to really careful, there. I mean, you obviously didn't quite have the same view of the sex, so maybe you misread them during. I would like to add that I have absolutely nothing against rough sex...just as long as it's consensual. The ones who don't want it, shouldn't have to engage in it. Imo.Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeSounds a bit like the roughness wasn't consensual - do you really not care if they feel hurt? Please tell me I misunderstood your post.Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
They seemed to be enjoying at the moment.... I never made a single move without their permission.... But I don't know what got into them.... After we had sex they just cursed me and left.... I was like what happened—
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Posted by KissmeHehehe May I ask...when do you tell them? Just before, or over dinner?Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeDifficult to say. But it does seem to me you need to really careful, there. I mean, you obviously didn't quite have the same view of the sex, so maybe you misread them during. I would like to add that I have absolutely nothing against rough sex...just as long as it's consensual. The ones who don't want it, shouldn't have to engage in it. Imo.Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeSounds a bit like the roughness wasn't consensual - do you really not care if they feel hurt? Please tell me I misunderstood your post.Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
They seemed to be enjoying at the moment.... I never made a single move without their permission.... But I don't know what got into them.... After we had sex they just cursed me and left.... I was like what happened—
I agree that's why now a days I tell the girls that I like it very very rough before getting into bed with them.... But no luck.... They find me creepy for bringing it up and they run away immediately... Haha lol true story.
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Posted by KissmeOkay, this is just me, but it may be the over dinner part. But Idk, ofc. I do love that you are honest and upfront about it, though. 🙂Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeHehehe May I ask...when do you tell them? Just before, or over dinner?Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeDifficult to say. But it does seem to me you need to really careful, there. I mean, you obviously didn't quite have the same view of the sex, so maybe you misread them during. I would like to add that I have absolutely nothing against rough sex...just as long as it's consensual. The ones who don't want it, shouldn't have to engage in it. Imo.Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeSounds a bit like the roughness wasn't consensual - do you really not care if they feel hurt? Please tell me I misunderstood your post.Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
They seemed to be enjoying at the moment.... I never made a single move without their permission.... But I don't know what got into them.... After we had sex they just cursed me and left.... I was like what happened—
I agree that's why now a days I tell the girls that I like it very very rough before getting into bed with them.... But no luck.... They find me creepy for bringing it up and they run away immediately... Haha lol true story.
Over dinner.... So that she can make up her mind and save both of ours time and money... It becomes unnecessary headache once you take them to your apartment or hotel and then they say no.... In the end they ask you to drop them off at their place...sooo frustrating...
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Posted by KissmeYes, they need to be able to handle it, I know. But what makes them not being able to perform if you tell them someplace else than at dinner? Either they can do it or they can't. Why would they be more likely to be able to handle it if you ask them at dinner?
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I already tried the just before option... But in order to enjoy proper rough sex your partner has to be rough enough and co ordinating enough.... They must be able to handle your intensity.... During the act when the girl feels like she can't handle it anymore, she just gives up and stops co ordinating..... Bammm that's the end of rough sex.... All you get in the end is frustration... You simply can't continue on your own.... That's the truth.... Ask OP...
Posted by KissmeSure. I totally get that they get more time that way, which is good. When I have been proposed to that idea, we have talked about it before or it has been in actual relationships...which has made it possible for them to bring it up at any time, because then they already know that I'm very much open to suggestions.Posted by HappyCapperMay be I just want them to have more time to think it through so that they don't blame me in the end... Plus over the dinner their minds are stable... In the apartment the mind is only looking for sex...Posted by KissmeYes, they need to be able to handle it, I know. But what makes them not being able to perform if you tell them someplace else than at dinner? Either they can do it or they can't. Why would they be more likely to be able to handle it if you ask them at dinner?
@happycapper
I already tried the just before option... But in order to enjoy proper rough sex your partner has to be rough enough and co ordinating enough.... They must be able to handle your intensity.... During the act when the girl feels like she can't handle it anymore, she just gives up and stops co ordinating..... Bammm that's the end of rough sex.... All you get in the end is frustration... You simply can't continue on your own.... That's the truth.... Ask OP...
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Posted by KissmeI agree that it's possible. Just saying it's not a given.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by KissmeThey probably did like it, but maybe were upset at themselves for liking itPosted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeSounds a bit like the roughness wasn't consensual - do you really not care if they feel hurt? Please tell me I misunderstood your post.Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
They seemed to be enjoying at the moment.... I never made a single move without their permission.... But I don't know what got into them.... After we had sex they just cursed me and left.... I was like what happened—
Wowwww I was just thinking about you... You know my case very well... And yeah that might be true...
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Posted by KissmeThat's my point. Maybe they wouldn't have ran away if you didn't drop it on them like a bomb?Posted by Ryoko
How do i know that a guy is into rough sex... Do they give off a certain vibe? Or is it just... SURPRISE
If he is acting really shy, absolute no physical contact when you are on date with him, don't make much of an eye contact... Remains secretive and silent... That what I do... Then in the end I drop the bomb..
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Posted by RyokoI think it depends a lot on who they're with. The guys that have suggested stuff to me have already known I'm not easily shocked...but they and other guys who are just my friends have said that with other girls, it may have taken them months, and in one case, years to suggest it.
How do i know that a guy is into rough sex... Do they give off a certain vibe? Or is it just... SURPRISE

Posted by KissmeJust find someone who can. I love it so someone else will, tooPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
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Posted by cliqueyJust his hands
What does he choke you with
Posted by KissmeMaybe she wanted to get to know you first...maybe have other kinds of sex before she could feel comfortable doing that? Some forms of really rough sex takes a lot of trust. I mean, let's face it - I really want to be able to trust a guy if he's gonna put his hands around my neck and choke me. I bet it would be much easier for you to get your wish with a little patience...working up to it instead...showing that she can trust you...and then...BAM! 🙂Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeThat's my point. Maybe they wouldn't have ran away if you didn't drop it on them like a bomb?Posted by Ryoko
How do i know that a guy is into rough sex... Do they give off a certain vibe? Or is it just... SURPRISE
If he is acting really shy, absolute no physical contact when you are on date with him, don't make much of an eye contact... Remains secretive and silent... That what I do... Then in the end I drop the bomb..
Well it became pretty obvious in the end of the date that we gonna have sex so I had to tell her clearly.... But she reacted as if I dropped a bomb on her... And then she ran..
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Posted by rabidtalkerWe tried gentle sex because I had minor surgery and he was worried he was going to hurt me. He couldn't do the slow sex. He needed it hard and fast.Posted by confusedlibra78We pretty much span the whole range from very soft to rough sex. They are giving you rough sex because they think that's what you're into.
I've only been with, Biblically speaking, 2 Cancers. One was a hook up, don't judge, I didn't know it was just that, and the other I'm currently seeing.
Both guys were/are VERY rough. 1st guy threw me around, held me down by my neck, etc. Current guy bites me, spanks me, chokes me, leaves bruises. Luckily, I love it, but just wondered if this was a Cancer trait. They seem so sensitive but then in bed, it's on.
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Posted by RyokoThe threw guys who were roughest with me didn't say anything and I would never have known. We were having sex and BAM!
How do i know that a guy is into rough sex... Do they give off a certain vibe? Or is it just... SURPRISE

Posted by PnmeeFor safe word, I would suggest:
Hope you have a safe word

Posted by RyokoNot shy as much as unafraid, I think, or open minded. Even if they ofc won't know if she will be into the idea, they don't want her to leave or think they're creepy for bringing it up. Some of them just wanted to try it, while it was an important part of some other guy's sex lives. The guys that felt it was more important, naturally had to bring it up sooner...taking the risk.Posted by HappyCapperSo it also depends on if they think the girl is shy or somethingPosted by RyokoI think it depends a lot on who they're with. The guys that have suggested stuff to me have already known I'm not easily shocked...but they and other guys who are just my friends have said that with other girls, it may have taken them months, and in one case, years to suggest it.
How do i know that a guy is into rough sex... Do they give off a certain vibe? Or is it just... SURPRISE
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Posted by KissmeHehehe Well, good luck and have fun! I'm sure you'll be fine.🙂Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeMaybe she wanted to get to know you first...maybe have other kinds of sex before she could feel comfortable doing that? Some forms of really rough sex takes a lot of trust. I mean, let's face it - I really want to be able to trust a guy if he's gonna put his hands around my neck and choke me. I bet it would be much easier for you to get your wish with a little patience...working up to it instead...showing that she can trust you...and then...BAM! 🙂Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeThat's my point. Maybe they wouldn't have ran away if you didn't drop it on them like a bomb?Posted by Ryoko
How do i know that a guy is into rough sex... Do they give off a certain vibe? Or is it just... SURPRISE
If he is acting really shy, absolute no physical contact when you are on date with him, don't make much of an eye contact... Remains secretive and silent... That what I do... Then in the end I drop the bomb..
Well it became pretty obvious in the end of the date that we gonna have sex so I had to tell her clearly.... But she reacted as if I dropped a bomb on her... And then she ran..
I will try it your way next time.... It's been so long since I had sex... Hope I keep my cool...
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Posted by KissmeHaha, it's ok 🙂Posted by confusedlibra78Thanks OP.... And am really sorry for crashing on your thread..Posted by KissmeJust find someone who can. I love it so someone else will, tooPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
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Posted by MiZLeoI'm totally with you! I hate a guy who doesn't know what to do in bed. Submissive men are a total turn off.
Bruises are my trophies. The other week I got my first scratches down my back....oh I was in heaven. Bragged about that for a while. I like it rough. It's boring when they are all shy and gentle. I don't think it's a cancer thing tho...that's just a man thing. They like to be dominant for the most part. Usualy I get a little warning before hand or I tell them that I like it that way. I usualy date alpha males tho so I expect it. If it hurts you just gotta express it.



Posted by tmbpA lot of people, men and women, don't like it.
What does it mean if a girl doesn't like biting. She said I scared her.

Posted by KissmePro tip: you should probably check with your partner and obtain consent before you get violent...Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
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Posted by Kissme'seemed to be enjoying'... what does this mean? Cause obviously they weren't enjoying themselves or what you were doing.Posted by HappyCapperPosted by KissmeSounds a bit like the roughness wasn't consensual - do you really not care if they feel hurt? Please tell me I misunderstood your post.Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
They seemed to be enjoying at the moment.... I never made a single move without their permission.... But I don't know what got into them.... After we had sex they just cursed me and left.... I was like what happened—
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Posted by NaturallyThat's exactly what he's like! I wouldn't have expected it from just talking to him. Some guys don't know how to talk dirty, he's so good at it.
Ooooo were talking about sex and cancers— I'm all for it!
I was holding my breath reading this thread, sex with cancer was so amazing, I think I tipsy typed about it the other day. His Venus (penis) was in virgo and my mars is in virgo
Hes like a big teddy bear that switched up all of a sudden, alot of dirty talk, hair pulling, neck grabbing, sensual kisses, and don't let a mirror be involved. I come off as a pretty shy person (virgo everything) but as soon as that switch is flipped...wooo!!!
We both surprised each other, I try to control myself when he's around bc hes much more than sex to me.... long complicated story

Posted by dewiklaessen1991Two Sag guys I dated were dominant but they weren't as rough. Light spanking, choking, etc but not enough to bruise. I'd have to check their placements in other planets.
Has to do more then with sun sign my sagg likes it too he has venus in scorpio and mars in virgo moon in cancer he likes it when i'm submissive

Posted by NaturallyIt's so hot. Finally found that balance between sweet caretaker and kinky dominant. And yes, that's me. Thanks for the compliment 🙂Posted by confusedlibra78I feel like he could talk me out of my life savings 😢 lol btw: is that you in your pic, very pretty!Posted by NaturallyThat's exactly what he's like! I wouldn't have expected it from just talking to him. Some guys don't know how to talk dirty, he's so good at it.
Ooooo were talking about sex and cancers— I'm all for it!
I was holding my breath reading this thread, sex with cancer was so amazing, I think I tipsy typed about it the other day. His Venus (penis) was in virgo and my mars is in virgo
Hes like a big teddy bear that switched up all of a sudden, alot of dirty talk, hair pulling, neck grabbing, sensual kisses, and don't let a mirror be involved. I come off as a pretty shy person (virgo everything) but as soon as that switch is flipped...wooo!!!
We both surprised each other, I try to control myself when he's around bc hes much more than sex to me.... long complicated story
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Posted by confusedlibra78My sag likes to blind fold me and tie me up. We don't do it now because I get loud and the kids can hear. He recently told me he used a knife to lightly glide on my body. I didn't know what it was since I was blindfolded. This was years ago and he told me a few weeks ago. He gets off by doing this. We don't even need to have intercourse.Posted by dewiklaessen1991Two Sag guys I dated were dominant but they weren't as rough. Light spanking, choking, etc but not enough to bruise. I'd have to check their placements in other planets.
Has to do more then with sun sign my sagg likes it too he has venus in scorpio and mars in virgo moon in cancer he likes it when i'm submissiveclick to expand
Posted by PnmeePosted by confusedlibra78Well see now that sounds like we might see your case on an episode of Snapped!
My sag likes to blind fold me and tie me up. We don't do it now because I get loud and the kids can hear. He recently told me he used a knife to lightly glide on my body. I didn't know what it was since I was blindfolded. This was years ago and he told me a few weeks ago. He gets off by doing this. We don't even need to have intercourse.
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Who cares! This is a gross topic

Posted by KissmeThe fact that they had such a strong negative reaction is a cautionary tale in and of itself. Maybe you should use a safe word in the future. That way they have the option of backing out once they find out 'what their in for'. Cause at some point they went from consenting to 'fuck no'. You know.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by KissmePro tip: you should probably check with your partner and obtain consent before you get violent...Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
As I said earlier I don't do anything without my partners consent... But it's like so many people accept the challenge without even knowing what they are in for??
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Posted by Arielle83Holy sh*t :-o
I like to slap guys in the face when I'm on top and they're climaxing.

Posted by Arielle83Lol what's their reaction?? What do they say?? I think I wanna do that :-)
I like to slap guys in the face when I'm on top and they're climaxing.

Posted by LynxSAPosted by PnmeePosted by confusedlibra78Well see now that sounds like we might see your case on an episode of Snapped!
My sag likes to blind fold me and tie me up. We don't do it now because I get loud and the kids can hear. He recently told me he used a knife to lightly glide on my body. I didn't know what it was since I was blindfolded. This was years ago and he told me a few weeks ago. He gets off by doing this. We don't even need to have intercourse.
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Nah. We haven't done that in years. It's so vanilla now.

Posted by 2MoonThen show us what it should bePosted by AL4813ROFL... I see a lot of amateurs here.
Sometimes you gotta be rough
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this shit looks so boring to me. its not rough, its just basic vanilla boring rough
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Posted by GoldigoldLol! I will play at being dominant with him, but like you said, he always wins and I'm fine with that 😉Posted by confusedlibra78Yes Libra/Cancer is hardcore....love it, I'm Libra, me and my guy take turns on being dominant he usually wins.Posted by NaturallyIt's so hot. Finally found that balance between sweet caretaker and kinky dominant. And yes, that's me. Thanks for the compliment 🙂Posted by confusedlibra78I feel like he could talk me out of my life savings 😢 lol btw: is that you in your pic, very pretty!Posted by NaturallyThat's exactly what he's like! I wouldn't have expected it from just talking to him. Some guys don't know how to talk dirty, he's so good at it.
Ooooo were talking about sex and cancers— I'm all for it!
I was holding my breath reading this thread, sex with cancer was so amazing, I think I tipsy typed about it the other day. His Venus (penis) was in virgo and my mars is in virgo
Hes like a big teddy bear that switched up all of a sudden, alot of dirty talk, hair pulling, neck grabbing, sensual kisses, and don't let a mirror be involved. I come off as a pretty shy person (virgo everything) but as soon as that switch is flipped...wooo!!!
We both surprised each other, I try to control myself when he's around bc hes much more than sex to me.... long complicated story
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Both guys were/are VERY rough. 1st guy threw me around, held me down by my neck, etc. Current guy bites me, spanks me, chokes me, leaves bruises. Luckily, I love it, but just wondered if this was a Cancer trait. They seem so sensitive but then in bed, it's on.