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Posted by confusedlibra78Sounds like he might want you to choke him, he did that to you as invitation? Try to do it gently next time and see how he reacts.Posted by PoppyseedsMine does, too. Legs over my head. He takes forever with foreplay and is usually gentle with that. He's totally into my pleasure first.
I've only been with one (my current one) He is very patient and gentleman and waited for over 2 months we only took things to next level recently. So far he is very sensual and really take his time with foreplay. He is also a giver in bed and would pleasure you first.
He likes to put me in position that gives him really deep penetration, lucky I'm very flexible. He's only gone hard and fast when he was finishing. It was in front of mirror that got him wild!
I love spanking him and he spanked me back in return. I'm tempted to try chocking his neck...
Have you tried chocking yours?
I've never choked him but I have put my hand on his neck and he doesn't resist. I do bite him at times but not as hard as he bites me. I'm more of someone who slowly tries things out since I never want to do something to turn a guy off.click to expand
Mine suggested me to explore his behind, by gently touching me from outside, later he said its very sensitive there it's ashame that a lot of straight guys feel like it shouldn't be explore. so I gently touch him from outside and he was loving it. I suspect they could both be liking the girl to take control in some way.
I have a subconjunctival hemorrhage from rough sex. My guy was shocked and silent over it all day but I kept bringing it up cause I was delighted. Burst blood vessels, that's hot.
I thought it was stressing him out until later he started talking filthy and on how I looked which lead to a Michonne zombie scenario and things got wild. again
I thought it was stressing him out until later he started talking filthy and on how I looked which lead to a Michonne zombie scenario and things got wild. again
My cancer ex bf actually started crying once when he thought he had hurt me physically in bed. He didn't I enjoy hair pulls. He is sensitive.
Posted by KissmeObviouslyPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by KissmeWhere do you live? Hahaha!! I don't think a lot of women are into it. I love being dominated.
I am a libra and i do all this stuff.... Two girls have ran away in the past... Currently single..
No they are not... They curse you in the end... And for me having sex is like having war.... I feel like an in the battlefield and I gotta take my enemy down.... It's sick... Those two girls have said a lot of bad things to me like I am an animal and a psycho and what not... Who cares... They couldn't handle me...
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If a man is afraid to be a dom, and let his inner beast out in the bedroom than I'd rather not.
Vanilla sex isn't for me. I've scared a few guys too, they couldn't handle what I wanted them to do.
Oh well.
Posted by SensitiveBluesPosted by happyface1Posted by SensitiveBlues
Who cares! This is a gross topic
lol....no it's not.
It's an awesome topic. Take some notes
Its gross and you really give bad advice, that advice you gave to moonbutter? or whatever her name is on that Aries, how passive aggressive, is that a virgo or scorpio moon trait, you never lead on a person, you just tell them straight up, not into you.
anyways this is a very gross topic and i dont have to take notes, im a WATER SIGN, we run the GAMUT in emotions which entails we can go from sweet sensitive to crazy wild
blah blah blah
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yeah you should still take notes.
sorry
I think I read somewhere that psycho killers were Virgo's Sagittarius's and Scorpio's?
Cancers just like it rough...
Cancers just like it rough...
Posted by confusedlibra78Same situation as yours and both were into rough sex. 😛 Im a sub so I dont mind.
I've only been with, Biblically speaking, 2 Cancers. One was a hook up, don't judge, I didn't know it was just that, and the other I'm currently seeing.
Both guys were/are VERY rough. 1st guy threw me around, held me down by my neck, etc. Current guy bites me, spanks me, chokes me, leaves bruises. Luckily, I love it, but just wondered if this was a Cancer trait. They seem so sensitive but then in bed, it's on.
A few spanks with leather gloves gave him a major boner instantly!
Posted by SensitiveBluesPosted by happyface1Posted by SensitiveBlues
Who cares! This is a gross topic
lol....no it's not.
It's an awesome topic. Take some notes
Its gross and you really give bad advice, that advice you gave to moonbutter? or whatever her name is on that Aries, how passive aggressive, is that a virgo or scorpio moon trait, you never lead on a person, you just tell them straight up, not into you.
anyways this is a very gross topic and i dont have to take notes, im a WATER SIGN, we run the GAMUT in emotions which entails we can go from sweet sensitive to crazy wild
blah blah blah
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"im a WATER SIGN, we run the GAMUT in emotions"
Huh...try being a water moon...run that
I was recently with a cancer..
Would call me a good girl, a slut, liked to spank, and tease.
Yeah, maybe this is a cancer trait
Would call me a good girl, a slut, liked to spank, and tease.
Yeah, maybe this is a cancer trait
Posted by ImTheRamThat game has an anime man.
"Down down down i go..going down the street.."
Only played the game...it's really...really...not for the faint hearted....
And the best of it....i didn't played it alone...
😆
(its best i skip this thread lol)
We are people pleasers and can definitely tell when you enjoy something(yay sensitivity!).Also,I can get really rough when I'm excited(5'4,125) and some men just cannot handle me.I had someone tell me that he felt like I was the man and he was the woman.lolol
@confusedlibra78, while what you describe isn't every Cancer in bed, it definitely doesn't come as a surprise to hear about. Both male and female Cancerians can really be into some twisted sh*t. I think some people expect rose pedals and tears when it comes to sex with a Cancer and then become shocked when they tell you to nail them in the ass, put a finger in your butt, call you daddy, ask to roleplay sibling sex, rip your panties off in a dressing room, have you wake to up to oral, become really rough or submissive, or one of the other myriad of things they are into.
Cancers are kind of like chameleons both in and out of the bedroom. Making them well suited to be pleasers no matter your kink. Like the other water signs, If connected they will be completely in tune with your emotions, and with some of the best, they will seem like they know you better than you know yourself. .
Disconnected, sex with a Cancer can be some of the lousiest.
Cancers are kind of like chameleons both in and out of the bedroom. Making them well suited to be pleasers no matter your kink. Like the other water signs, If connected they will be completely in tune with your emotions, and with some of the best, they will seem like they know you better than you know yourself. .
Disconnected, sex with a Cancer can be some of the lousiest.
Posted by CrabraYeah, I feel like we've become a bit disconnected lately and the sex has suffered. I will say that I have a WAY higher sex drive that he does. That's why sexually I'm better matched with a Sag or Scorp. I want to have sex at least 3 times every time we're together and he's more at one or two times. He's also so focused on me to begin with that if I don't get off, he doesn't seem to be able to enjoy it.
@confusedlibra78, while what you describe isn't every Cancer in bed, it definitely doesn't come as a surprise to hear about. Both male and female Cancerians can really be into some twisted sh*t. I think some people expect rose pedals and tears when it comes to sex with a Cancer and then become shocked when they tell you to nail them in the ass, put a finger in your butt, call you daddy, ask to roleplay sibling sex, rip your panties off in a dressing room, have you wake to up to oral, become really rough or submissive, or one of the other myriad of things they are into.
Cancers are kind of like chameleons both in and out of the bedroom. Making them well suited to be pleasers no matter your kink. Like the other water signs, If connected they will be completely in tune with your emotions, and with some of the best, they will seem like they know you better than you know yourself. .
Disconnected, sex with a Cancer can be some of the lousiest.
Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraYeah, I feel like we've become a bit disconnected lately and the sex has suffered. I will say that I have a WAY higher sex drive that he does. That's why sexually I'm better matched with a Sag or Scorp. I want to have sex at least 3 times every time we're together and he's more at one or two times. He's also so focused on me to begin with that if I don't get off, he doesn't seem to be able to enjoy it.
@confusedlibra78, while what you describe isn't every Cancer in bed, it definitely doesn't come as a surprise to hear about. Both male and female Cancerians can really be into some twisted sh*t. I think some people expect rose pedals and tears when it comes to sex with a Cancer and then become shocked when they tell you to nail them in the ass, put a finger in your butt, call you daddy, ask to roleplay sibling sex, rip your panties off in a dressing room, have you wake to up to oral, become really rough or submissive, or one of the other myriad of things they are into.
Cancers are kind of like chameleons both in and out of the bedroom. Making them well suited to be pleasers no matter your kink. Like the other water signs, If connected they will be completely in tune with your emotions, and with some of the best, they will seem like they know you better than you know yourself. .
Disconnected, sex with a Cancer can be some of the lousiest.click to expand
From my experience, Cancer sex drive comes in peaks and valleys. Catch them during a peak, and he may very well nail you 3-6 times in a single day. During a valley, he may not ejaculate or desire to for days.
Three times in a single day really is quite a bit. Easier to sustain in the early stages when you want to fvck all the time. So think about that long term. If he can't keep up now, after only a month, it's only going to get worse. A sex drive as high as yours, you need to find someone who seriously loves to have sex, and also has the time to. Single daddys, 80-hour per week career bros, casual partners whom are dating others, etc. are probably not the best choice.
I can definitely relate with not being able to get off unless my partner is really enjoying things. My partner getting off is like a trigger for my own orgasm. It's not required to get off, but it's a surefire ticket, so-to-speak.
Are you are dominant or submissive type?
Yeah, I feel like we've become a bit disconnected lately and the sex has suffered. I will say that I have a WAY higher sex drive that he does. That's why sexually I'm better matched with a Sag or Scorp. I want to have sex at least 3 times every time we're together and he's more at one or two times. He's also so focused on me to begin with that if I don't get off, he doesn't seem to be able to enjoy it.
From my experience, Cancer sex drive comes in peaks and valleys. Catch them during a peak, and he may very well nail you 3-6 times in a single day. During a valley, he may not ejaculate or desire to for days.
Three times in a single day really is quite a bit. Easier to sustain in the early stages when you want to fvck all the time. So think about that long term. If he can't keep up now, after only a month, it's only going to get worse. A sex drive as high as yours, you need to find someone who seriously loves to have sex, and also has the time to. Single daddys, 80-hour per week career bros, casual partners whom are dating others, etc. are probably not the best choice.
I can definitely relate with not being able to get off unless my partner is really enjoying things. My partner getting off is like a trigger for my own orgasm. It's not required to get off, but it's a surefire ticket, so-to-speak.
My sex drive often reflects the guy I'm with, but I'm coming out of a FWB relationship where we had sex on average 5 times a night. The most was him getting off q0 times in 10 hours. So, going from that to one or two times is a bit of a change.
The other issue besides him working 70 hours a week is he drinks, smokes and gets high on occasion. He actually told me the other night that's why he was having problems.
I do worry that after being together 5 weeks the sex has crawled to a halt, then long term it's going to be a once a month event. The weird thing is he says every time he sees me all he wants to do is fck me.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Definitely a sub in the bedroom, though I can be dominant if I'm turned on enough
Are you are dominant or submissive type?
Posted by blackphaseI have, too, but it's the intensity that they do it. The only other one who was as intense was a Cap. I was always black and blue. Scorp is intense but he never left marks on me.
Lots of guys do this besides Cancers... I have never been with a Cancer and have had experienced all of those things.
Posted by HappyCapperlolPosted by KissmeThat's my point. Maybe they wouldn't have ran away if you didn't drop it on them like a bomb?Posted by Ryoko
How do i know that a guy is into rough sex... Do they give off a certain vibe? Or is it just... SURPRISE
If he is acting really shy, absolute no physical contact when you are on date with him, don't make much of an eye contact... Remains secretive and silent... That what I do... Then in the end I drop the bomb..
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"Good job picking this place."
"Thanks! The Caesar salad is delicious"
"Yes, yes quite."
"I WANT TO FUCK YOU BRUTALLY"
"...waiter, check for me please!"
Posted by fugu2That could be read in maaany different ways - all of them funny! 😄Posted by HappyCapperlolPosted by KissmeThat's my point. Maybe they wouldn't have ran away if you didn't drop it on them like a bomb?Posted by Ryoko
How do i know that a guy is into rough sex... Do they give off a certain vibe? Or is it just... SURPRISE
If he is acting really shy, absolute no physical contact when you are on date with him, don't make much of an eye contact... Remains secretive and silent... That what I do... Then in the end I drop the bomb..
"Good job picking this place."
"Thanks! The Caesar salad is delicious"
"Yes, yes quite."
"I WANT TO FUCK YOU BRUTALLY"
"...waiter, check for me please!"click to expand
What about you cancer woman, do you like it rough? You are alwyas described as sensitive fragile fairys.
That sounds sadistic not just rough
@confusedlibra78
Don't backtrack. You initially said you had a high sex drive, and not that it adjusts according to the guy you are with. And if that was true, the frequency in this relationship wouldn't be an issue for you. It's not a big change unless you went straight from the FWB to this guy. If you're single and then you get with someone, you're going from having 0 sex, to whatever it is with that person. Unless you frequently bed casual partners. It's also a REALLY good idea to not compare a current lover with a past one.
The more we talk about this, the more apparent it becomes that you are not getting the time, or the sex you would like out of this guy. I also don't see that time and frequency increasing anytime soon based on your information.
Don't backtrack. You initially said you had a high sex drive, and not that it adjusts according to the guy you are with. And if that was true, the frequency in this relationship wouldn't be an issue for you. It's not a big change unless you went straight from the FWB to this guy. If you're single and then you get with someone, you're going from having 0 sex, to whatever it is with that person. Unless you frequently bed casual partners. It's also a REALLY good idea to not compare a current lover with a past one.
The more we talk about this, the more apparent it becomes that you are not getting the time, or the sex you would like out of this guy. I also don't see that time and frequency increasing anytime soon based on your information.
Have you tried filming it? It turns them on
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