scorpio and cancer

I am a scorp woman who fell head over heels in love with a cancer man. He told me he loved me and in the end just ran from me, and sent me an e-mail saying goodbye. I was drawn to this man like a magnet. I never felt such strong feelings, and he seemed so honest and sincere and caring. My heart was broken so bad, and I don't know if I will ever truely recover from that. Do cancer men tell you one thing one minute and another the next? I just wish I could make my heart let go , but he was so incredibly special to me.

Hi I'm a cancer female,
I am really surprised that a cancer male would do that but I'm also not surprised that he would because he's a man after all. As a cancer female, I am seeing a cancer male who seems nice but is moody at times, and he's quite difficult to figure out, which doesn't surprise me because I'm the exact same way. I forgot my point now, oh now I remember no matter what sign cancer gemini, scorpio, men are all the same once they got you they don't want you anymore, honey this was not meant to be, so if I were you try to move on.

Trust me I've walked in your shoes, I know it sucks but atleast you know your not the only one feeling this way.

Bye Take care

You people talk as if women are angels, well I'm here to show some boy power. Girls have a license to be cheats or to become lesbians, and to have double standards, and if you're gonna generalise about men cos of your experiences I'm gonna do the same about women. Stop stealing our money and hearts, evil.

I am not saying women are all angels. I am also not saying that just because you are a certain sun sign that you will act 100% a certain way. I do know that cancers and scorpios are supposed to be a good match, and after knowing him I can see why, which is why I was so surprised it ended so abrupt. We got along so well and besides him being gorgeous , he seemed so sweet and caring and sensitive. Yes , he crawled into his shell at times but, I could deal with that. I now met a fellow scorpio and I'm so afraid of letting my feelings go again!!

It has been my experience that while the Cancer male may retreat (and walk-ways at times), he will have his claw attached to you for a very long time after the relationship has ended.

It's been about 6 months since my cancer guy walked, and if his claws are still in me, I can't feel them lol. I know it's supposed to be hard for cancers to let go, but maybe it depends on who is letting go of who. Oh well, I miss him , but time to move on.

You know you may be right about it possibly being who is letting go of who...
I left my Cancer guy...for good reasons...anyway, it has been 12 years and he would take me back in a split second if I would give any indication...he slips once in awhile and calls me "Babe"...(like the pig! lol), which I hate!! He has not learned anything different in 12 years from what I can tell...
We shall remain the parents of our child and I shall do my best to get along for that reason...
But, yeah, I feel his claw tug at me now and then and I see a look in his eyes now and then...for my own sanity...I have to just pretend I didn't notice...
Wish all good to come your way!

I only wish I felt his claws in me still because I miss him so much. He was so gentle and caring and charming. He had incredible eyes and a nice smile. I felt so connected to him , but I suppose he made hasty decisions and felt that he had to retreat back into his shell and stay there. I will never have him back , and I won't ever forget him. I have met two cancer men that affected me like this, and him being one of them. I guess I will always be drawn to them They have such a wonderful calming affect on me.

I'm a Cancer male, and I have grown to appreciate the strength that a Scorpio women can bring to balance us softsided creatures. Some Cancers can be intimidated by your strenght, and run off, not realizing your for them and not against them. Your devoted to a fault and bring passion to our hungry heart...don't give up on us, we need you as much as you need us!

To the cancer male above....thank you. I am the scorpio female who's heart was broken in a million pieces by my cancer. I think I was too intense for him and may have scared him. I would do anything to bring him back. He had something about him no other man did. I will never give up on cancer men. They have always had an affect on me.

Thank you! I know we work well together with a good balance of strengths that each other has need of. I guess trust is the big issue, if we have any level of insecurity within us. As a Cancer I hate conflict and fear rejection and will "flight before fight" unless I have a relationship that has total trust. I'm still looking for my Scorpio lady, but as I have found, to many Scorpio's look for the buffed body instead of a caring, nurturing heart, but I know that the right Scorp is out there!

I am the scorpio from above. I guess us scorpios have to learn the hard way , that you need more than a buffed body for a good relationship and lasting happiness. I know a good heart is most important. I thought my cancer guy had a good heart , and that's what hurts the most. If I would have thought he was a jerk I can handle this better. He seemed to be so loving and caring and then he disappeared. I find such a bond with cancer men. Don't give up on find your scorpio lady 🙂

I won't, but their seems to be few of you available, but it only takes one! My guess is that your Cancer guy has bigger issues than his sign, it may be about commitment, or as the case may be for any of us, carrying extra baggage from previous relationships. If it is suppose to work out with you and him, it will. Please don't harden your tender heart, someone else may need it! I also believe that the depth of pain you feel, is equal to the depth of love you gave, and that says a lot about you :-)

To the cancer guy above, thank you so much for understanding. Yes , my depth of pain is deep as was my depth of love for him. I won't let myself harden because I just have too much love to give yet. I know there is no chance of things working between us as he is also in another country. It is over , but I will never forget him....ever. You sound like a very caring guy yourself , and your comments have made me feel better. Thanks again....your new scorp friend 🙂

thanks, I really feel your hearts cry in your words, and the depth of the love you have to give. Someone will be very blessed with you :-)

Well I just went through the exact same
thing except I'm a cancer woman and he
was a scorpio man. He was the kindess
person I've ever met in my life. Geniune. The type of man I could spend
my life being in love with. But all of
a sudden he did an about face and retreated. There must be something
about the Cancer/Scorpio relationship
where we are just intimidated by one
another. I know that no Scorpio
will ever admit to be intimidated
by anyone, but I think that is the
case.

Your right Scorpios will never admit to being intimidated by Cancers. But it's okay because we know fear when we see it.
With Cancer & Scorpio, it's sink or swim. There are no shades of gray.
Scorpios are demanding in regard to relationships.
Cancers are demanding in regards to family.
When those two ideas clash.
Forget about it. It's definitely sink.

I am a cancer gay male who was sooo in love with a virgo man. I gave him all the comfort and stability, physically, that one could give another. He betrayed my trust and therefore I totally cut him off and out of my life. He wanted to remain friends, but my heart was smashed. Good bye. My point is - No matter how much we love ( and in abundance), when someone betrays our trust - that person loses all rights to anything, and as far as ci am concerened, can take a long walk!

Your right! That long walk cen be right off the edge of a cliff.
It is good that you accept nothing less than what you are use to.
People (mates) today think it's okay to do alot of things that I cannot & will not make the time to even be concerned with.
Enjoy your life & the right person will keep coming along.