snubbed

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by taupixie on Saturday, April 18, 2015 and has 13 replies.

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@taupixie
12 Years

i went online on the messenger. then he came online as well. i decided to just chat him up. sent him a "hii", then he immediately went offline *heart broke to pieces* actually it is a good thing i set my expectation very low... but what's up with this behaviour? intentionally avoiding me?

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@taupixie
12 Years

oh... then after about 20 mins he came online for like 1 min and went off again.

my presence must be very despicable to him 😢

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@taupixie
12 Years

this is fb messenger, it's the weekend night.

i'll just give him the benefit of the doubt that i just caught him at a bad timing.

but this is exactly what he does to me for a long time.

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@taupixie
12 Years

hey thinktoomuch, thank you for your concern.

i think i am moving on fine now. i hadn't been speaking to him at all since 2 months ago even though i felt strong urge to once in a while. i'm glad i'm very much in control of my emotions now.

i just thought of saying "hii" to him. just a cordial catch-up. i don't want to be stalking, pretending he's not around, or avoiding him on purpose. especially i notice he seemed to be doing the same. maybe i'm pushing this too much.

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@taupixie
12 Years

Thank you SingASong41. I replied you 🙂

ReddmannScorch, you are right. He is acting like I have hurt him, but I'm not sure what I've done. All I have done is being open & honest & direct with him while he evades & ignores me

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@taupixie
12 Years

Yup, I am "friend-zoned". We talked about it in the most honest way. He just did not feel romantic feelings for me... It's all good. Cancer man met with a car accident & almost lost his life the past 3 weeks... While I was here contemplating what to do with him. Sigh. But it's all good. I'll take care of myself. Thank you every1 for your care & concern & kind words