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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Well... i'll just have to take cappy's word for it. If I was that guy, I would have been running for the hills a long time ago

OOOO that was cold ... ooooo, you can be mean you want to. :-/

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@tauruschic
20 Years1,000+ Posts

Awww come on SRG, cappy is the first one to stand up for crabs when they're being bashed... at this point of the thread we're just having a girly convo about that loser heheehehe

Plus, if crabs have been bashed for so and so traits... they're not the only ones. Everyones got their rep on these boards and for the most part when too many start saying the same thing... it's probably true... we talk astrology because it's an astrology board. Not to say that everyone in the same sign is the same but there is similarities and those same traits can exist within individuals of the same sign to a VERY different extent...

Not only that, but I think that when women or men start pin pointing losers (which they probably are) it's more of a gender thing... and then it might just be an individual thing... or a 'bad' person thing... but again it seems we get caught up with astrology...

OH and ppl seem to like to vent on here also so it's not surprising that a sign in particular will catch the fire...

Then we also like to discuss...

And you may lose sight of the point like I am now...

You get wrapped up in the wrong point...

You look at the forum title, you've been venting, lost the point... oh right, the cancer board... those damn bastards...

Friendly discussions?

But you've read too much bashing haven't you?

So you've misunderstood what's currently being discussed and your mind is already thinking 'bashing bashing... all they do is bash'

SEE IT PPL! CAN YOU SEE THE MADNESS! DON'T GET LOST IN THE MADNESS PPL! SAVE YOURSELVES! AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!

...

So where were we?

Right... so you ignored that loser? Right on!
Ok, see, now I'm discussing an outdated subject... so we were now discussing how we weren't bashing...

Now I just don't know what to say to that lol Now I have to think? Have I done it myself? La la la yeahhh mossst likely lol

So what now? What's new with you people?

*sigh*

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@Daemon
21 Years

Point to note Ladybg, u wrong there you must get the whole story cancer man.woman don't intentionally hurt people unless some shit was done wrong to them in the first place. We don't jeopardise relationships unless we sense or know you doing shit. Come good.

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

You are awesome! Thank you TC πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Hey Daemon,

My mistake was getting involved with the cancer guy after he broke up with a long time girlfriend. In the beginning, I had no idea he was still sort of jaded by her until I began to look alittle deeper ...

It had been a year since they broke up ... I didn't know he was feeling hurt by her. He put on a totally different persona in the beginning so that's why he seems over her. That's why I can't despites him because he was hurt ... as a result, it caused him to distrust other women.

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

If only he could've trusted me, things would be different -- but he has plenty of healing to do. It would be selfish of me to not understand this emotional aspect.

BUT !!!!!

This still doesn't excuse what he's done ... because I wasn't the woman who deceived him, but I do have much empathy.

That's why I chose to walk way, it's much better for things to end like this ... no craziness. The reason I choose to stay away is because I know the way we are when we are together -- friendship will not work because he has already stated that he doesn't know what he wants :-/

So in a way I helped him out ... by puting an end to all the maddness.

LOL, I did 'come good' (I love that saying), he just wasn't ready for that ... so I'm respecting that in a way πŸ™‚

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Hi M Ldy,

I thought Daemon statement was meant for me ... sorry at that 😒 Like you, I don't believe I did anything to deserve the treatment either. I'm so happy you didn't continue the relationship with those men πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ You knew when to walk away πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰ You are awesome !!!

Daemon,
I think that *some* cancer men have a tremendously difficult time getting over heartbreak. If there opposite does, then I'm sure they do to -- takes them forever to get over things ...

I don't believe this means that a cancer man is ultra sensitve -- I just think that once they fall for someone, it hurts them deeply when they treat them terribly.