So I'm dating a cancer

Not only that, he has cancer moon, mercury and cancer rising. At least he has Gemini Venus+mars to hopefully ”balance” out that emotional energy.

Pray for him! ….Or maybe pray for me—

Is he just hot or are there some things about him that could lead to attachment?

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Is he just hot or are there some things about him that could lead to attachment?

I think he’s just hot and we look cute together 😬

If I remember correctly you are a Scorpio right?

I dated a cancer but with a lot of Leo placements, there were some good things about him especially his cancer mercury, we had the same communication style ,

But I'm a Libra and I couldn't work with all that water

Cancer should do well with Scorpio

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If I remember correctly you are a Scorpio right?

I dated a cancer but with a lot of Leo placements, there were some good things about him especially his cancer mercury, we had the same communication style ,

But I'm a Libra and I couldn't work with all that water

Cancer should do well with Scorpio

I am a Scorpio, but sag-dominant.

Yea it’s a lot of water. He seems rather pessimistic, which I’ve noticed with cancer moons- very “woe is me”, no silver linings, etc. I’m the complete opposite. So we will see how it shakes out.

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If I remember correctly you are a Scorpio right?

I dated a cancer but with a lot of Leo placements, there were some good things about him especially his cancer mercury, we had the same communication style ,

But I'm a Libra and I couldn't work with all that water

Cancer should do well with Scorpio

I am a Scorpio, but sag-dominant.

Yea it’s a lot of water. He seems rather pessimistic, which I’ve noticed with cancer moons- very “woe is me”, no silver linings, etc. I’m the complete opposite. So we will see how it shakes out.

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But he's hot and you look cute together!

I once knew a cancer dude who get mad fast it was kind of a good thing he didn't had a girlfriend at least at that time until he get his temper in check. I don't know what the rest of his placements was because at the time I wasn't into astrology. If he is cancer dominant all I can say is I would feel sorry for the girl if he has a girlfriend right now.

Prayers all around

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But he's hot and you look cute together!

Woah chill chill chill, we’ve only been on two dates and haven’t even kissed yet. Tbh I think his sexual nervousness adds to the attraction, hopefully I still feel it once we are physically intimate.

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I once knew a cancer dude who get mad fast it was kind of a good thing he didn't had a girlfriend at least at that time until he get his temper in check. I don't know what the rest of his placements was because at the time I wasn't into astrology. If he is cancer dominant all I can say is I would feel sorry for the girl if he has a girlfriend right now.

Must have had a fire moon/mars. The cancer men I’ve known have moreso been the sad/quiet types if they are upset; not angry/aggressive.

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I once knew a cancer dude who get mad fast it was kind of a good thing he didn't had a girlfriend at least at that time until he get his temper in check. I don't know what the rest of his placements was because at the time I wasn't into astrology. If he is cancer dominant all I can say is I would feel sorry for the girl if he has a girlfriend right now.

Must have had a fire moon/mars. The cancer men I’ve known have moreso been the sad/quiet types if they are upset; not angry/aggressive.

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I just checked his birth chart but only out of curiosity and his moon is in Aquarius. Ironically the only fire he has in his chart is aries and that's his mars sign. From what I observed it look like his dominant is air element.

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I once knew a cancer dude who get mad fast it was kind of a good thing he didn't had a girlfriend at least at that time until he get his temper in check. I don't know what the rest of his placements was because at the time I wasn't into astrology. If he is cancer dominant all I can say is I would feel sorry for the girl if he has a girlfriend right now.

Must have had a fire moon/mars. The cancer men I’ve known have moreso been the sad/quiet types if they are upset; not angry/aggressive.

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I just checked his birth chart but only out of curiosity and his moon is in Aquarius. Ironically the only fire he has in his chart is aries and that's his mars sign. From what I observed it look like his dominant is air element.

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That’s wild, I knew a cancer sun aqua moon man who would just self-isolate when upset. And he was very sensitive.

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But he's hot and you look cute together!

Woah chill chill chill, we’ve only been on two dates and haven’t even kissed yet. Tbh I think his sexual nervousness adds to the attraction, hopefully I still feel it once we are physically intimate.

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I hear wedding bells

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I hear wedding bells

bold of you to threaten THE Whorpio on a public forum. Goodday 😡

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Inwiefern ist das unser Problem?

Aber danke, dass du ihn vom Markt genommen hast.

😛 Lol

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Inwiefern ist das unser Problem?

Aber danke, dass du ihn vom Markt genommen hast.

Can you sprechen sie Inglisch por favor? no one sprechts the deutsche hier. Unles you are the German who ge-returned from the alt-dxp?

.. I should have said bitte

UPDATE: He crashed out last night, saying “we both know this isn’t going to work”. I asked what he was talking about, he said I’m too pretty for him and that he’s too poor to sustain my life style , and I guess doesn’t want me to continue escorting?

Proceeded to accuse me of still having a Tinder account (guilty) and actively dating other people (not guilty). We never had a conversation establishing that we are exclusive; 1 week into dating he did tell me he deleted his app, but he didn’t ask me to delete mine…. I guess for him he felt there would be symbolic meaning if I voluntarily deleted it but that’s not my MO.

I am grieving the connection. This was the first person I’ve been excited about in a long while.

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UPDATE: He crashed out last night, saying “we both know this isn’t going to work”. I asked what he was talking about, he said I’m too pretty for him and that he’s too poor to sustain my life style , and I guess doesn’t want me to continue escorting?

Proceeded to accuse me of still having a Tinder account (guilty) and actively dating other people (not guilty). We never had a conversation establishing that we are exclusive; 1 week into dating he did tell me he deleted his app, but he didn’t ask me to delete mine…. I guess for him he felt there would be symbolic meaning if I voluntarily deleted it but that’s not my MO.

I am grieving the connection. This was the first person I’ve been excited about in a long while.

I’m sorry. They pretend to be way more chill than they are. Every single one has crashed out on me. They set up covert contracts that you’re supposed to abide by.

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UPDATE: He crashed out last night, saying “we both know this isn’t going to work”. I asked what he was talking about, he said I’m too pretty for him and that he’s too poor to sustain my life style , and I guess doesn’t want me to continue escorting?

Proceeded to accuse me of still having a Tinder account (guilty) and actively dating other people (not guilty). We never had a conversation establishing that we are exclusive; 1 week into dating he did tell me he deleted his app, but he didn’t ask me to delete mine…. I guess for him he felt there would be symbolic meaning if I voluntarily deleted it but that’s not my MO.

I am grieving the connection. This was the first person I’ve been excited about in a long while.

I’m sorry. They pretend to be way more chill than they are. Every single one has crashed out on me. They set up covert contracts that you’re supposed to abide by.

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Yeah so another update: One of us misunderstood what “dating” means to the other. He thought “dating” is when you’re exclusively seeing each other, but not boyfriend/girlfriend.

I thought dating is still seeing other people. He told me that would mean we’re just in a “talking stage”. SO NOW as of yesterday we are exclusively dating lmao.

I guess we’ll see how this goes.

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UPDATE: He crashed out last night, saying “we both know this isn’t going to work”. I asked what he was talking about, he said I’m too pretty for him and that he’s too poor to sustain my life style , and I guess doesn’t want me to continue escorting?

Proceeded to accuse me of still having a Tinder account (guilty) and actively dating other people (not guilty). We never had a conversation establishing that we are exclusive; 1 week into dating he did tell me he deleted his app, but he didn’t ask me to delete mine…. I guess for him he felt there would be symbolic meaning if I voluntarily deleted it but that’s not my MO.

I am grieving the connection. This was the first person I’ve been excited about in a long while.

I’m sorry. They pretend to be way more chill than they are. Every single one has crashed out on me. They set up covert contracts that you’re supposed to abide by. click to expand

Yeah so another update: One of us misunderstood what “dating” means to the other. He thought “dating” is when you’re exclusively seeing each other, but not boyfriend/girlfriend.

I thought dating is still seeing other people. He told me that would mean we’re just in a “talking stage”. SO NOW as of yesterday we are exclusively dating lmao.

I guess we’ll see how this goes.

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What does that mean for escorting? I’m apprehensive about him saying he’s too poor to sustain your life style . To me that sounds like he’s coaching you to learn to accept less.

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UPDATE: He crashed out last night, saying “we both know this isn’t going to work”. I asked what he was talking about, he said I’m too pretty for him and that he’s too poor to sustain my life style , and I guess doesn’t want me to continue escorting?

Proceeded to accuse me of still having a Tinder account (guilty) and actively dating other people (not guilty). We never had a conversation establishing that we are exclusive; 1 week into dating he did tell me he deleted his app, but he didn’t ask me to delete mine…. I guess for him he felt there would be symbolic meaning if I voluntarily deleted it but that’s not my MO.

I am grieving the connection. This was the first person I’ve been excited about in a long while.

I’m sorry. They pretend to be way more chill than they are. Every single one has crashed out on me. They set up covert contracts that you’re supposed to abide by. click to expand

Yeah so another update: One of us misunderstood what “dating” means to the other. He thought “dating” is when you’re exclusively seeing each other, but not boyfriend/girlfriend.

I thought dating is still seeing other people. He told me that would mean we’re just in a “talking stage”. SO NOW as of yesterday we are exclusively dating lmao.

I guess we’ll see how this goes.

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What does that mean for escorting? I’m apprehensive about him saying he’s too poor to sustain your life style . To me that sounds like he’s coaching you to learn to accept less.

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What's the difference between accepting less and not being able to give the same life style ? (if it's genuinely a financial "concern")

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UPDATE: He crashed out last night, saying “we both know this isn’t going to work”. I asked what he was talking about, he said I’m too pretty for him and that he’s too poor to sustain my life style , and I guess doesn’t want me to continue escorting?

Proceeded to accuse me of still having a Tinder account (guilty) and actively dating other people (not guilty). We never had a conversation establishing that we are exclusive; 1 week into dating he did tell me he deleted his app, but he didn’t ask me to delete mine…. I guess for him he felt there would be symbolic meaning if I voluntarily deleted it but that’s not my MO.

I am grieving the connection. This was the first person I’ve been excited about in a long while.

I’m sorry. They pretend to be way more chill than they are. Every single one has crashed out on me. They set up covert contracts that you’re supposed to abide by. click to expand

Yeah so another update: One of us misunderstood what “dating” means to the other. He thought “dating” is when you’re exclusively seeing each other, but not boyfriend/girlfriend.

I thought dating is still seeing other people. He told me that would mean we’re just in a “talking stage”. SO NOW as of yesterday we are exclusively dating lmao.

I guess we’ll see how this goes.

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What does that mean for escorting? I’m apprehensive about him saying he’s too poor to sustain your life style . To me that sounds like he’s coaching you to learn to accept less.click to expand

What's the difference between accepting less and not being able to give the same life style ? (if it's genuinely a financial "concern")

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Idk. Idk what conversations were had. I don’t see where she specifically asked him to maintain her life style . She could just want someone to make her laugh.

Just the comments he’s already making positioning her above him. Too pretty, too expensive…is a red flag to me. I don’t like men who start relationships like this, laying out all their insecurities. It’s feminine. It forces her to be the one reassuring him and trying to win him over.

If he genuinely thinks their financial differences make them incompatible, he could have said “I don’t make a lot of money and I don’t want a partner who expects me to fund an expensive life style , if that’s your expectation we might not be compatible” .

“You’re too expensive” forces her into doing emotional labor to soothe his insecurities about his finances.

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UPDATE: He crashed out last night, saying “we both know this isn’t going to work”. I asked what he was talking about, he said I’m too pretty for him and that he’s too poor to sustain my life style , and I guess doesn’t want me to continue escorting?

Proceeded to accuse me of still having a Tinder account (guilty) and actively dating other people (not guilty). We never had a conversation establishing that we are exclusive; 1 week into dating he did tell me he deleted his app, but he didn’t ask me to delete mine…. I guess for him he felt there would be symbolic meaning if I voluntarily deleted it but that’s not my MO.

I am grieving the connection. This was the first person I’ve been excited about in a long while.

I’m sorry. They pretend to be way more chill than they are. Every single one has crashed out on me. They set up covert contracts that you’re supposed to abide by. click to expand

Yeah so another update: One of us misunderstood what “dating” means to the other. He thought “dating” is when you’re exclusively seeing each other, but not boyfriend/girlfriend.

I thought dating is still seeing other people. He told me that would mean we’re just in a “talking stage”. SO NOW as of yesterday we are exclusively dating lmao.

I guess we’ll see how this goes.

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What does that mean for escorting? I’m apprehensive about him saying he’s too poor to sustain your life style . To me that sounds like he’s coaching you to learn to accept less.click to expand

What's the difference between accepting less and not being able to give the same life style ? (if it's genuinely a financial "concern")

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Idk. Idk what conversations were had. I don’t see where she specifically asked him to maintain her life style . She could just want someone to make her laugh.

Just the comments he’s already making positioning her above him. Too pretty, too expensive…is a red flag to me. I don’t like men who start relationships like this, laying out all their insecurities. It’s feminine. It forces her to be the one reassuring him and trying to win him over.

If he genuinely thinks their financial differences make them incompatible, he could have said “I don’t make a lot of money and I don’t want a partner who expects me to fund an expensive life style , if that’s your expectation we might not be compatible” .

“You’re too expensive” forces her into doing emotional labor to soothe his insecurities about his finances.

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Nah, she didn't state anything like that here. If she goes upscale places though and has luxury goods or whatever and he can't afford that, while she may not have even asked for that, he may be assuming that's what her baseline is (ass out of u and me, I know). In which case, idk, that may or may not be what you said - conditioning - but I also see it as potentially just like.. the reality, y'know?

A woman left a different kind of life style for me on the opposite end. It wasn't millions or anything, but she would've been a lot comfier in her position before me. I dunno if I ever said some stuff like I'd be too poor to sustain her life style , but it was known the kinda position I was in. Maybe I'm takin' it too far, idk, like you said, we don't have details

Imo Cancers are the most sensitive of the water signs.

Today at work there's this Cancer girl who burst into tears when one of her superiors (Taurus female) asked her a question and from what I know of the Cancer, she's always felt victimized by this superior. But even though I'm not invalidating her feelings, I kinda expect some assertive/confrontational behaviors from superiors in general so to me as like a third party looking in, she's being too overly sensitive.

I love them but I feel like they're the kind of people you have to walk on eggshells around.

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Imo Cancers are the most sensitive of the water signs.

Today at work there's this Cancer girl who burst into tears when one of her superiors (Taurus female) asked her a question and from what I know of the Cancer, she's always felt victimized by this superior. But even though I'm not invalidating her feelings, I kinda expect some assertive/confrontational behaviors from superiors in general so to me as like a third party looking in, she's being too overly sensitive.

I love them but I feel like they're the kind of people you have to walk on eggshells around.

Real.

I had used the phrase “I’m trying to figure out who I’m going to [insert sex act] in October…” To me, it’s playful conjecture. But he ended up getting serious and asking how many options I have… and then accused me of making things weird lmfao. I thought the insecurity was cute had it just been left there, but then he spiraled and got it in his mind that I’m cheating on him…

Posted by PilatesBodIdk. Idk what conversations were had. I don’t see where she specifically asked him to maintain her life style . She could just want someone to make her laugh. Just the comments he’s already making positioning her above him. Too pretty, too expensive…is a red flag to me. I don’t like men who start relationships like this, laying out all their insecurities. It’s feminine. It forces her to be the one reassuring him and trying to win him over. If he genuinely thinks their financial differences make them incompatible, he could have said “I don’t make a lot of money and I don’t want a partner who expects me to fund an expensive life style , if that’s your expectation we might not be compatible” “You’re too expensive” forces her into doing emotional labor to soothe his insecurities about his finances.

I will say, he says those things when he’s drunk at. When he’s sober or buzzed it’s not like that.

I’m not sure if it’s a scorpio thing or just an emotional maturity thing, but I’m not the one to coddle someone’s insecurities. I can’t say I shut down fishing attempts though either; I just give people space to unravel themselves.

I'm a scorpio who dated a cancer for years.

It's a deep bond, but you can do better.

Their jealousy and insecurity is only to cut your wings. While they still have theirs.

Im open in October

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Imo Cancers are the most sensitive of the water signs.

Today at work there's this Cancer girl who burst into tears when one of her superiors (Taurus female) asked her a question and from what I know of the Cancer, she's always felt victimized by this superior. But even though I'm not invalidating her feelings, I kinda expect some assertive/confrontational behaviors from superiors in general so to me as like a third party looking in, she's being too overly sensitive.

I love them but I feel like they're the kind of people you have to walk on eggshells around.

Real.

I had used the phrase “I’m trying to figure out who I’m going to [insert sex act] in October…” To me, it’s playful conjecture. But he ended up getting serious and asking how many options I have… and then accused me of making things weird lmfao. I thought the insecurity was cute had it just been left there, but then he spiraled and got it in his mind that I’m cheating on him…

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you said it to flirt with him?

this gay cancer dude told me yesterday sometimes he'd overthink and he'd imagine like the vilest things about his lovers coz i told him that when my virgo grandpa was still alive, he tried to help another old lady in the kitchen ONE TIME and my cancer gran went nuts thinking they're having an affair like wtf none of these people had their REAL TEETH anymore

idk about you but if i was toothless and like a billion years old, sex or having an affair would prob be farthest thing from my mind

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Imo Cancers are the most sensitive of the water signs.

Today at work there's this Cancer girl who burst into tears when one of her superiors (Taurus female) asked her a question and from what I know of the Cancer, she's always felt victimized by this superior. But even though I'm not invalidating her feelings, I kinda expect some assertive/confrontational behaviors from superiors in general so to me as like a third party looking in, she's being too overly sensitive.

I love them but I feel like they're the kind of people you have to walk on eggshells around.

Real.

I had used the phrase “I’m trying to figure out who I’m going to [insert sex act] in October…” To me, it’s playful conjecture. But he ended up getting serious and asking how many options I have… and then accused me of making things weird lmfao. I thought the insecurity was cute had it just been left there, but then he spiraled and got it in his mind that I’m cheating on him…

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you said it to flirt with him?

this gay cancer dude told me yesterday sometimes he'd overthink and he'd imagine like the vilest things about his lovers coz i told him that when my virgo grandpa was still alive, he tried to help another old lady in the kitchen ONE TIME and my cancer gran went nuts thinking they're having an affair like wtf none of these people had their REAL TEETH anymore

idk about you but if i was toothless and like a billion years old, sex or having an affair would prob be farthest thing from my mind

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Tryna bang out for life, you're crazyyyyyy

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Imo Cancers are the most sensitive of the water signs.

Today at work there's this Cancer girl who burst into tears when one of her superiors (Taurus female) asked her a question and from what I know of the Cancer, she's always felt victimized by this superior. But even though I'm not invalidating her feelings, I kinda expect some assertive/confrontational behaviors from superiors in general so to me as like a third party looking in, she's being too overly sensitive.

I love them but I feel like they're the kind of people you have to walk on eggshells around.

Real.

I had used the phrase “I’m trying to figure out who I’m going to [insert sex act] in October…” To me, it’s playful conjecture. But he ended up getting serious and asking how many options I have… and then accused me of making things weird lmfao. I thought the insecurity was cute had it just been left there, but then he spiraled and got it in his mind that I’m cheating on him…

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you said it to flirt with him?

this gay cancer dude told me yesterday sometimes he'd overthink and he'd imagine like the vilest things about his lovers coz i told him that when my virgo grandpa was still alive, he tried to help another old lady in the kitchen ONE TIME and my cancer gran went nuts thinking they're having an affair like wtf none of these people had their REAL TEETH anymore

idk about you but if i was toothless and like a billion years old, sex or having an affair would prob be farthest thing from my mindclick to expand

Tryna bang out for life, you're crazyyyyyy

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you said it to flirt with him?

this gay cancer dude told me yesterday sometimes he'd overthink and he'd imagine like the vilest things about his lovers coz i told him that when my virgo grandpa was still alive, he tried to help another old lady in the kitchen ONE TIME and my cancer gran went nuts thinking they're having an affair like wtf none of these people had their REAL TEETH anymore

idk about you but if i was toothless and like a billion years old, sex or having an affair would prob be farthest thing from my mind

Yes I was just trying to flirt!

You know, there have been relationships where I’ve been like your cancer gran. My first bf, he had friends who were women and I would get jealous, make accusations. In hindsight, I realize my accusations were fueled by my own shame of being attracted to people outside of our relationship, my own desire to sleep with other people. He didn’t want to be with anyone except me; it was me who wanted to be with others, and projected that onto him.

So whenever I encounter a lover who acts insecure, I kind of assume they may be projecting, because I am a projector and surely people only get insecure/jealous when they are holding something they’re ashamed of, right? If anyone has alternative perspective to this mindset I’d love to have my view expanded.

UPDATE: The accusations were in fact projection. He had someone else while we were supposed to be a “thing”. How bizarre.

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UPDATE: The accusations were in fact projection. He had someone else while we were supposed to be a “thing”. How bizarre.

So I've got a chance? It's almost october

My fault, should've made a joke 2nd. I'm sorry, dawg. That sucks.

Projecting it is crazy lmao

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UPDATE: The accusations were in fact projection. He had someone else while we were supposed to be a “thing”. How bizarre.

What a coward. I’m sorry to hear that 😕

So, what did you do?

Men 💩

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So I've got a chance? It's almost october

Always 😉

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UPDATE: The accusations were in fact projection. He had someone else while we were supposed to be a “thing”. How bizarre.

What a coward. I’m sorry to hear that 😕So, what did you do?

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First I asked for $ $ to not block him. Blocked him. Thought about it more, decided I’d be interested in watching him with this other woman (I like watching ugly amateurs, it reminds me how hot/talented I am [and how fortunate I am to find equally skilled partners] but also maybe there’s something to learn from them) (I never had sex with him, but I assume he would be a poor performer).

So then I unblocked him and indicated I’d like to watch. Told him not to talk to me unless he’s inviting me to watch them.

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UPDATE: The accusations were in fact projection. He had someone else while we were supposed to be a “thing”. How bizarre.

What a coward. I’m sorry to hear that 😕So, what did you do?

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First I asked for $ $ to not block him. Blocked him. Thought about it more, decided I’d be interested in watching him with this other woman (I like watching ugly amateurs, it reminds me who I am but also maybe there’s something to learn from them). So then I unblocked him and indicated I’d like to watch. Told him not to talk to me unless he’s inviting me to watch them.

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BOSS BITCH DOIN BOSS SHIT.

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UPDATE: The accusations were in fact projection. He had someone else while we were supposed to be a “thing”. How bizarre.

What a coward. I’m sorry to hear that 😕So, what did you do?

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First I asked for $ $ to not block him. Blocked him. Thought about it more, decided I’d be interested in watching him with this other woman (I like watching ugly amateurs, it reminds me how hot/talented I am [and how fortunate I am to find equally skilled partners] but also maybe there’s something to learn from them) (I never had sex with him, but I assume he would be a poor performer).

So then I unblocked him and indicated I’d like to watch. Told him not to talk to me unless he’s inviting me to watch them.

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I LOVE your reaction 👏👏👏

Very similar to how I react when someone I cared about wronged me. Close certain doors, but leave the ones that CONVINENCE ME open.

There’s a coldness about that behavior that feels so satisfying.

Good for you 👏👏👏