So this is how Cancers make you feel (Page 2)

and her going out of her way to provoke me is just what, fun and games?

explain why that is.

"because she needs a release while she's studying —'

that's not an excuse. that's NEVER an excuse. do you say of men that beat their women: "oh he just needed a release from the pressures of work" or of rapists: "oh they just need a release from the constraints of their powerless existence"

"and it's not at your expense,unless you let it be..."

when someone insults you for no reason--out of HATE, mind you--do you say, "oh haha, you're awesome?" how do you let someone disrespect you like that? i dont' mind peole poking fun at me, i love that stuff. self-deprecating humor is great, and strangers can tease me for whatever reason. i don't mind. but when they broach the level of disrespect, then it's another matter.

"that';s an insane comparison...wow.....that's suprised me,in all seriousness.......
and how the hell has powerless existence come into it —"

a serial rapists' main motivation is not sexual urge; it is a power trip.

"how have rapists come into this —
you aren't making sense now,but using shock tactics as a way of strengthening something a whole world away from rape/beating a woman.....sure,I'm being particular about those examples,even though they're both on your mind in a short space of time,but I don't see that as anything healthy...."

you simply were excusing her behavior by saying she needed a "break" from the pressures of studying. that is not a valid reason in any light. that is a disgusting reason.

"plus...you didn't answer my question....why are you using rape/battery as a form of defence—?"

do you not understand the analogy? i offered examples that are inexcusable, yet by your logic, you can excuse them since the offenders are simply "letting off some steam"

"especially ones cast in a superior/dominant light —"

are you insane to try to psychoanalyze someone over the internet? how dense are you?

THIS IS WHAT I WROTE:

""because she needs a release while she's studying —'

that's not an excuse. that's NEVER an excuse. do you say of men that beat their women: "oh he just needed a release from the pressures of work" or of rapists: "oh they just need a release from the constraints of their powerless existence""

how do you not understand a simple concept:

your excuse you offer for her disgusting behavior is INVALID. how do you disagree with that?

the analogy is simple:

put your logic--that she simply needs to blow off steam--into a different scenario. it DOESN'T work. her behavior is inexcusable, as those examples are. is it as bad? no, of course not. but mistreating people because of your own problems is NOT a valid excuse.

"Aren't you the one who PM'd Eaglegirl and asked her to post a thread about what Scorp women like about Cancer males? Let it go, fiddlesticks."

actually, i wasn't. i have my own ideas towards who it was, but that's neither here nor there.

"why bother—
that in itself makes no sense...apply one rule to a scenario where you know it won't work....
as for the mistreating of others because of your own predicaments,what notso posted,about you requesting.....a total stranger on the internet to provide you with the means to back up you fragile ego —?"

why in the world do you people think it was me?

i think the person that goes on the internet to pick fights and launch insults at people have serious issues... but to you, that's fine... the person that gets offended and fights back is actually the one who's got a problem. this is just hilarious.

we can talk in person. as i said, leave me alone till then.

"It was definitely you."

believe what you will.. just ask her.

" still don't get how you got so offended,fiddlesticks....like you keep saying 'over the internet,over the internet....'"

and you're the cowards that hide behind it

"so what are you doing"

i'm replying to your insults and bashes. i had no problem with you or notso, but she's proven to be a mean-spirited jackass and you're her cheerleader.

what about this, why dont' you ask notso what her problem is with me? why'd she start in on me?

so it's what, power you're interested in? have fun with that.

so again i ask: what is your problem with me?

"and again I say: I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOU.

You have the problem."

so why is it you are the one that starts in on me? how is the problem not yours?

hahahahahahaha you've gotta be kidding me. where the hell did you grow up? fun bouncy land with your mommy and daddy, where the rivers run with chocolate and the mountains are made of sugar? it's really easy to say don't take it personally then.

but where i'm from, you don't roll over when someone that you don't know or someone that you're beefing with insults you. you just DON'T.

"I "start in" on whoever I damn well want to! Some of the people I "start in" on over the forums are actually cool with me. lol There is no one here I dislike. How could I? I don't even know you, you fool.

Wow."

why do you feel the need to do it? does it make you feel better to try to hurt peoples' feelings? to put people down as though they're lower than you?

it's so interesting to see you go through your steps of cowardice:

first you insult

then you take it up a notch, asking to meet

then you continue to taunt

then you make it sound as if it's all my fault

then you pretend to be the "bigger man" and act as though it's no big deal and i shouldn't take anything personally. frankly, i'm tired of your talk; you are the same, all of you. man the fck up and stand by what you say. no need for any of your "be a man and just take it" BS.