Posted by MiZLeoNope :-/ hes still following me on insta thou....I don't know....either he's gonna brush this text like it didn't happen or never text me again which will make things more awkward especially when he made plans to see me soon..he said he might travel to me next month
So have you heard from him yet—?
Posted by cheekyfaerieYes I'm very very attracted to him not just physical but mental too....yes that was the first time we actually kissed which turned heated...point is if he doesn't want to loose me and has feelings for me I don't believe that a text or what happened that night will make him loose interest.... If it does well he wasn't really into me as I thought... Simple as thatPosted by thinktoomuchIt's just a shit way to get to know somebody. Not knocking her for her actions, per se. If she just wanted sex, cool. She sent a text, fine . But if she knew she wanted more than just sex, she kinda did everything possible to have herself putting from the rough. :/
I don´t get, what the big fuss is about here? He´s just being a regular guy.
I think, that because you knew, he is a cancer, having sex would automatically mean he is interested in you, that he is somehow always emotionally invested.
I don´t think he is playing with ya or anything, I just think he is being a totally regular guy, not sweating a damned thing!
And I have only once in my entire life heard a guy, that voluntered the information prior to having sex (or foreplay), that he was not interested in a relationship. If a person wants to have sex, they´re not gonna tell you this. They´re just gonne go for their goal, which is to have sex.click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieThank you...God BlessPosted by britneybabe26It's ok to ask for what *you* want. Not just wait around to see what they want. Know it sounds like a weird concept, but you'd be surprised how much grief it cuts outta your life. Good luck.Posted by thinktoomuchYes that's what I think too thank you, that he is interested just I maybe hoped in a little more...I mean maybe he still is and figuring stuff out. I think he does feel for me but since were still getting to know each other and at that moment yes he was being a Man. You're right.
I don´t get, what the big fuss is about here? He´s just being a regular guy.
I think, that because you knew, he is a cancer, having sex would automatically mean he is interested in you, that he is somehow always emotionally invested.
I don´t think he is playing with ya or anything, I just think he is being a totally regular guy, not sweating a damned thing!
And I have only once in my entire life heard a guy, that voluntered the information prior to having sex (or foreplay), that he was not interested in a relationship. If a person wants to have sex, they´re not gonna tell you this. They´re just gonne go for their goal, which is to have sex.click to expand
Posted by lotus
If he hasn't replied yet, he is brushing you off. Move on!
Posted by BlackMambaUmm if I don't want to look at them I hit unfollow...why would he want to look at my photos if he doesn't care? I would hit unfollow I'm 100% donePosted by britneybabe26following someone on social media means absolutely nothingPosted by MiZLeoNope :-/ hes still following me on insta thou....I don't know....either he's gonna brush this text like it didn't happen or never text me again which will make things more awkward especially when he made plans to see me soon..he said he might travel to me next month
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Posted by thinktoomuchExactly!!!! Women feel something more than just to have sex with him. That's why women are being played a lot...the guy invests in you..takes you out acts like a gentleman ...you think its going to go somewhere...you sleep together and he's gone! And whether its the 3rd date or a month before you have sex, doesn't matter...the guy leaves. I don't understand men as well.
Finbuff again: what I mean by logical here, is that not as many women have sex with a guy, that they are not interested in. Most women will reply back, if they get a text from a guy, they had just had some sort of sexual relation with. Women try to spend their time on and with someone, that they care for instead of someone, they´re are not interested in other than for an orgasm or some head (as that is one thing women can´t do on their own ofcours😄). To me, that´s totally logic. What is not logical, is men spending time and even money on someone, that they have no interest in. Saying sweet stuff to them. I get it, it´s for the prize of sex, but to me that´s just so dumb. Sorry.
Posted by BlackMambaPosted by britneybabe26https://media.giphy.com/media/oxFDq4E9CHb7W/giphy.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expandPosted by BlackMambaUmm if I don't want to look at them I hit unfollow...why would he want to look at my photos if he doesn't care? I would hit unfollow I'm 100% donePosted by britneybabe26following someone on social media means absolutely nothingPosted by MiZLeoNope :-/ hes still following me on insta thou....I don't know....either he's gonna brush this text like it didn't happen or never text me again which will make things more awkward especially when he made plans to see me soon..he said he might travel to me next month
So have you heard from him yet—?
Posted by thinktoomuchI'm just speaking from experience.. And yes that's what I mean he doesn't hate me...not that I think he has romantic feelings...(sigh) anyway I'm loosing my marbles over him and its not worth it. I'm done. I'm at peace. I'm going to pray more.Posted by britneybabe26But again: that´s from your perspective. Just because he hasn´t deleted you, it doesn´t mean that he is interested in you. It just means, he doesn´t hate you. And that can might as well be: he just doesn´t care enough to delete... Not trying to be rude, but I totally agree with Black Mamba.Posted by BlackMambaUmm if I don't want to look at them I hit unfollow...why would he want to look at my photos if he doesn't care? I would hit unfollow I'm 100% donePosted by britneybabe26following someone on social media means absolutely nothingPosted by MiZLeoNope :-/ hes still following me on insta thou....I don't know....either he's gonna brush this text like it didn't happen or never text me again which will make things more awkward especially when he made plans to see me soon..he said he might travel to me next month
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Posted by KsamCancer
Posted by BlackMamba
Like chick wouldn't be sitting around asking herself why he isn't texting, but would have already moved on to the next dude.
Posted by BlackMambayeah like my mother - Shes a Scorp sun, Taurus moon & Libra asc -Posted by thinktoomuchI find women who end up in healthy relationships have strong boundaries.
The worst thing about all of this, is that you then learn how to speak *guy*, and then you meet a genuine man, and you fuck it all up, because you´re so used to guys lying their teeth of just at the thought of maybe poking ya....
Not worth it. Sometimes, just SOMETIMES, it feels like women always end up losing.... And then there are some lucky few. You bastards! 😄click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchSometimes I just don't known how my friends do it.. I seem to meet douches and the he shows up seems like I finally met a real Man and I hit he floor.
The worst thing about all of this, is that you then learn how to speak *guy*, and then you meet a genuine man, and you fuck it all up, because you´re so used to guys lying their teeth of just at the thought of maybe poking ya....
Not worth it. Sometimes, just SOMETIMES, it feels like women always end up losing.... And then there are someo lucky few. You bastards! 😄
Posted by FinbuffThe man I'm talking about is 36...how do you explain this and a Cancer at that...their suppose to not play the field...not sleep around...everywhere I read that's how the articles describe them...so its all BS?
I will further elaborate by saying, this "illogical sexual behavior" of men is more related to immature men, than older men. I know there was I time I would do or say almost anything to get what I "wanted". Now I actually think about the long term consequences of "thinking with the wrong head".
Posted by FinbuffOooo well that changes everything....you might be right...didn't think it through like that
Britney, for a Cancer, 36 is still a very young man and still prone to being sexually impulsive. Trust me, I know. I was hitting on girls your age (and younger) at 36.
I don't quite understand why he would completely ignore your last text, I know I wouldn't. I think there is something more going on here that has nothing to do with you.
My guess is, based on personal experience, he's being "distracted' by another woman. Just being honest with you.
Posted by kalinPosted by britneybabe26Posted by FinbuffThe man I'm talking about is 36...how do you explain this and a Cancer at that...their suppose to not play the field...not sleep around...everywhere I read that's how the articles describe them...so its all BS?
I will further elaborate by saying, this "illogical sexual behavior" of men is more related to immature men, than older men. I know there was I time I would do or say almost anything to get what I "wanted". Now I actually think about the long term consequences of "thinking with the wrong head".
Cancers DO sleep around they are human too. Please don't blame astrology on this. If you are into Instagram I have a cancer friend (he's 35 has a daughter) on there who told me he's just looking for hookups and you can just ask him why he is a cancer yet he sleeps around lol (don't tell him I said this though)
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Posted by britneybabe26Yes cancers sleep around and cheat. Some might sleep around under the pretence of being in a relationship knowing full well that there will be a break up that they will eventually initiate and some do it openly. its his morals and character that will determine whether he does that to a woman or not. This guy seems to have neither and like someone else said probably has someone else.Posted by FinbuffThe man I'm talking about is 36...how do you explain this and a Cancer at that...their suppose to not play the field...not sleep around...everywhere I read that's how the articles describe them...so its all BS?
I will further elaborate by saying, this "illogical sexual behavior" of men is more related to immature men, than older men. I know there was I time I would do or say almost anything to get what I "wanted". Now I actually think about the long term consequences of "thinking with the wrong head".click to expand
Posted by justagirlYou have to admit the topic is interesting :-)
This thread is still going?
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Posted by britneybabe26NoPosted by justagirlYou have to admit the topic is interesting :-)
This thread is still going?
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Posted by kalinðŸ‘
I think this thread is very entertaining 🙂
Posted by Pisces15I want to believe there was nothing wrong with the TeX but he has a lady instead...I understand already I do
23 pages in and this thread is STILL going? . . .Dudette, the guy has someone else, move on?! Similar situation to Cancer guy I was seeing; because I was honest with what I wanted (not casual sex) and I put boundaries in place (no sex until something is properly established), and we did a minor intimate thing, he's gone?! Like I said before, ANY men who is GENUINELY interested in you, would be hailing you down like no tomorrow. You sent a cringy text and he's not responding, why? 1) your text was cringe and desperate and 2) another woman is entertaining him!?
Forget this moron and move on. It sucks, I know, but deal with it.
Posted by lotusTrust me I will update everyone who cares if he replys.
Tbh, I am still here because I want to know whether he actually replied. He still hasn't. Move on.
Posted by maomaoLove me some gladiatorPosted by kalin>
I think this thread is very entertaining 🙂
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Posted by britneybabe26The text would not have been cringe had he also been speaking to you in the same way and had you been more serious. It's just a freaking text your entire relationship shouldn't rely on it and it shouldn't be a make or break thing. Honestly. It might be someone else yes. But your best bet is to see if he does ever respond and if and when he does to ask him straight up.Posted by Pisces15I want to believe there was nothing wrong with the TeX but he has a lady instead...I understand already I do
23 pages in and this thread is STILL going? . . .Dudette, the guy has someone else, move on?! Similar situation to Cancer guy I was seeing; because I was honest with what I wanted (not casual sex) and I put boundaries in place (no sex until something is properly established), and we did a minor intimate thing, he's gone?! Like I said before, ANY men who is GENUINELY interested in you, would be hailing you down like no tomorrow. You sent a cringy text and he's not responding, why? 1) your text was cringe and desperate and 2) another woman is entertaining him!?
Forget this moron and move on. It sucks, I know, but deal with it.click to expand
Posted by LibWmanTrue that's what I was saying....one text shouldn't make him react this way if he does want some relationship with me be it even friendly... Honestly I would rather him ask if I was drunk sending something like that then silence.....like finbaf said its weird he's not reply and suggests he has a lady entertaining him who's probably in the same statePosted by britneybabe26The text would not have been cringe had he also been speaking to you in the same way and had you been more serious. It's just a freaking text your entire relationship shouldn't rely on it and it shouldn't be a make or break thing. Honestly. It might be someone else yes. But your best bet is to see if he does ever respond and if and when he does to ask him straight up.Posted by Pisces15I want to believe there was nothing wrong with the TeX but he has a lady instead...I understand already I do
23 pages in and this thread is STILL going? . . .Dudette, the guy has someone else, move on?! Similar situation to Cancer guy I was seeing; because I was honest with what I wanted (not casual sex) and I put boundaries in place (no sex until something is properly established), and we did a minor intimate thing, he's gone?! Like I said before, ANY men who is GENUINELY interested in you, would be hailing you down like no tomorrow. You sent a cringy text and he's not responding, why? 1) your text was cringe and desperate and 2) another woman is entertaining him!?
Forget this moron and move on. It sucks, I know, but deal with it.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaWill do if it ever happens haha
Can you just start a new one that is called something like 'He texted me!!"?
I don't want to read this one anymore lol
Posted by lotusYeah do I even reply if he does text me? I was thinking to wait like 7hrs or something...
Keep in mind, though, that if he disappears for a while and - especially if you don't reply after he texts - he will be back later. Men always do that to me. When I move on and don't want them anymore, they come back. This year I had to deal with monthly texts from two different exes. I didn't reply to any of them, even though I am still friends with them on FB (I unfollowed them both).
Posted by britneybabe26Personally, I would not. If you can ride it out, focus on yourself for a while, he will probably be back soon. But her will be back because he will be wondering why you are not clingy with him.Posted by lotusYeah do I even reply if he does text me? I was thinking to wait like 7hrs or something...
Keep in mind, though, that if he disappears for a while and - especially if you don't reply after he texts - he will be back later. Men always do that to me. When I move on and don't want them anymore, they come back. This year I had to deal with monthly texts from two different exes. I didn't reply to any of them, even though I am still friends with them on FB (I unfollowed them both).click to expand
Posted by britneybabe26He could be messaging/hooking up with multiple women. I've had two guys pull this crap on me and I got rid of both of them rather quickly. Oh, and I still get texts from them. Cut him loose.
Another thing how the hell was my text needy? None of my friends thought it was honestly...a needy text is are you thinking about me...where are you? Or if I was texting the dude nonstop...this was meant to be flirty and I guess he doesn't want to lead me on too much but that even doesn't make sense...even if he wants me for just sex he would keep contact and string Me alone.
Posted by lotusOk got it....also my friends told me he probably got boredPosted by britneybabe26Personally, I would not. If you can ride it out, focus on yourself for a while, he will probably be back soon. But her will be back because he will be wondering why you are not clingy with him.Posted by lotusYeah do I even reply if he does text me? I was thinking to wait like 7hrs or something...
Keep in mind, though, that if he disappears for a while and - especially if you don't reply after he texts - he will be back later. Men always do that to me. When I move on and don't want them anymore, they come back. This year I had to deal with monthly texts from two different exes. I didn't reply to any of them, even though I am still friends with them on FB (I unfollowed them both).click to expand
Posted by MissGemmiI totally agree with you!
If you had treated him like he was nothing, with some sauce of friendly to it like he's a lunatic you should recon with, he'd be like a little puppy eating out of your hand. These kinds like those who hate them or show them disregard. You can notice by the way he keeps you waiting. He will text if you keep silent but please keep it very short. Don't 'hey hey' him. Don't entertain him. Keep him at China distance and don't even think to invest any of your feelings into him. He might be one of those clinging to the past and is just entertaining himself out of boredom. Do you want to be that person? He might come back with a oh sorry so busy, how are you? Or sorry I just noticed your texts. Or hey you Missed me? Watch out for them SORRIES. The intend is manipulative.
Posted by MissGemmiAha so its like a test for me..to see if I will actually give in and text him then he can feel even better and raise his ego. What a douche....he said he hates douches and he's acting like one...figure that one...he played me well...got me emotionally invested so I will be comfortable enough to sleep with him... Ya I know he had a relationship before he met me that lasted 2 yrs...I guess he still can't let go...no I don't want to be that woman...I don't want to be an option
If you had treated him like he was nothing, with some sauce of friendly to it like he's a lunatic you should recon with, he'd be like a little puppy eating out of your hand. These kinds like those who hate them or show them disregard. You can notice by the way he keeps you waiting. He will text if you keep silent but please keep it very short. Don't 'hey hey' him. Don't entertain him. Keep him at China distance and don't even think to invest any of your feelings into him. He might be one of those clinging to the past and is just entertaining himself out of boredom. Do you want to be that person? He might come back with a oh sorry so busy, how are you? Or sorry I just noticed your texts. Or hey you Missed me? Watch out for them SORRIES. The intend is manipulative.
Posted by kalin2 days
How much time has passed since you texted him?
Posted by kalinFirst time ever for him....usually replied to me in a min each time I would text
How much time has passed since you texted him?
Posted by Arielle83
Maybe he dropped his phone in the toilet while he was wanking over your text.
Posted by britneybabe26aye. Most of men says that.
Thing that hurts me is he was starting to open emotionally to me...told me that he felt he knew me before we met and we had a connection...told me how glad he was to have met me....
Posted by M143Umm your info is way off..I didn't fly to see him..I was there to work... I'm a flight attendant so he knew I was coming. Took me for dinner then his home. So please don't give me that desperate crap...he persued me like I said....in fact we talked 5 months before we actually saw each other due to me being busy with work..my flight schedule
It's not strange for me to hear how she was ignored by her man.😢
1.) I'm #1 opponent when she said she was going to his place for a vacation. Most cancers tell her to go.
I know her agenda. flirting the dude and cannot wait, so she made the first move. I don't know if she was invited to his place.
Again, She threw herself and now she's back from vacation coming from his place.
what a desperate woman. Vacationist 😉
yeah busyeye and I received an insult from Arielle83. Now what?
Posted by M143Oh and nothing sexual happened first date/meeting so please don't label me when you don't know the whole storyPosted by britneybabe26aye. Most of men says that.
Thing that hurts me is he was starting to open emotionally to me...told me that he felt he knew me before we met and we had a connection...told me how glad he was to have met me....click to expand
Posted by Arielle83I have no idea lmaoPosted by britneybabe26Why is this person, who can't construct proper sentences, bringing me into the picture?Posted by M143Umm your info is way off..I didn't fly to see him..I was there to work... I'm a flight attendant so he knew I was coming. Took me for dinner then his home. So please don't give me that desperate crap...he persued me like I said....in fact we talked 5 months before we actually saw each other due to me being busy with work..my flight schedule
It's not strange for me to hear how she was ignored by her man.😢
1.) I'm #1 opponent when she said she was going to his place for a vacation. Most cancers tell her to go.
I know her agenda. flirting the dude and cannot wait, so she made the first move. I don't know if she was invited to his place.
Again, She threw herself and now she's back from vacation coming from his place.
what a desperate woman. Vacationist 😉
yeah busyeye and I received an insult from Arielle83. Now what?
Did you call him?
Just don't text anymore, call him and have phone sex?click to expand
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