Posted by malloryorAll the cancers I know starts off quiet. My cancer ex and I worked together for 2yrs and never talked much. One day we had training at work and was inseparable since! He's the funniest person I've ever met. Would make a fool of himself just to put a smile on my face. Other cancers I know has great sense of humor also. You'll pretty much be the one making the approach.
I just want to meet one of these charming Cancers because most Cancers I have met are super quiet. I don't even know how they could be heartbreakers.
Posted by ariesheartYeah, chasing is just not for me. I also need personality right away lolPosted by malloryorAll the cancers I know starts off quiet. My cancer ex and I worked together for 2yrs and never talked much. One day we had training at work and was inseparable since! He's the funniest person I've ever met. Would make a fool of himself just to put a smile on my face. Other cancers I know has great sense of humor also. You'll pretty much be the one making the approach.
I just want to meet one of these charming Cancers because most Cancers I have met are super quiet. I don't even know how they could be heartbreakers.click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesBut who was talking to you? Last time I checked Ariesheart was responding to me NOT you.Posted by malloryorOK. so move on. This thread aint' about you.Posted by ariesheartYeah, chasing is just not for me. I also need personality right away lolPosted by malloryorAll the cancers I know starts off quiet. My cancer ex and I worked together for 2yrs and never talked much. One day we had training at work and was inseparable since! He's the funniest person I've ever met. Would make a fool of himself just to put a smile on my face. Other cancers I know has great sense of humor also. You'll pretty much be the one making the approach.
I just want to meet one of these charming Cancers because most Cancers I have met are super quiet. I don't even know how they could be heartbreakers.click to expand
Posted by lovely77Exactly! That's how all cancers I've met been
Good point im quiet. Not because im shy but i dont mess with alot ppl. Once u get to know me im funny outgoing loyal easy going calm etc. Im very romantic and clear on my intentions if i like u i shower u with love attention affection verbally and with actions. If i dont ill tell u straight to the point period. Ive only been heart breaker because i said no i dont wany be with u and no i dont see a future it wont ever happen. Ive said these exact words to alot ppl because im not going sugar coat anything and i dont want u hang around me assuming my mind will change and it wont. Some ppl favorite words is we will see...lets get to know each other.....im just takiny my time....going with flow....this is bs...just say hey u coo but i feel it be someone better for me...i keep it 100
Posted by lovely77See, that blows my mind because I hear so much negativity about cancers and Aries.
But i get along with aries maybe different for alot ppl idk
Posted by ariesheartYea idk i love themPosted by lovely77See, that blows my mind because I hear so much negativity about cancers and Aries.
But i get along with aries maybe different for alot ppl idkclick to expand
Posted by CrabraI believe that's heightened with insecurities and growth. We all have darkness somewhere. Trust me, I'm an Aries. But I believe where's there love (from all aspects) comes sunshine and daisies. That's for all signs.
Have you not read up on the sign? Everything about it is sad and depressing. Cancer is not a bright sign filled with fields of sunshine and daisies. It's dark as fuck.
Posted by SensitiveBluesBitch I am not on this board ANY more than you are on all other boards. You dont have dominion over anything and like I said before no one was talking to you, mind your own delusional lifestyle and stay out of what I'm doing.Posted by malloryorNobody cares about you not wanting to date a cancerPosted by SensitiveBluesBut who was talking to you? Last time I checked Ariesheart was responding to me NOT you.Posted by malloryorOK. so move on. This thread aint' about you.Posted by ariesheartYeah, chasing is just not for me. I also need personality right away lolPosted by malloryorAll the cancers I know starts off quiet. My cancer ex and I worked together for 2yrs and never talked much. One day we had training at work and was inseparable since! He's the funniest person I've ever met. Would make a fool of himself just to put a smile on my face. Other cancers I know has great sense of humor also. You'll pretty much be the one making the approach.
I just want to meet one of these charming Cancers because most Cancers I have met are super quiet. I don't even know how they could be heartbreakers.
yet you're on our board 24/7
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Posted by sunkisses26Lol, thank you.Posted by ariesheartyyyyyyaaaasss to this !
I've never heard so many heartbreaking stories. I don't think I've ever met a cancer that wasn't upfront about what they want. I really don't think they can hide their interest/feelings. It's usually in their actions. Maybe the signs are ignored or they're not hearing what the crab is really saying. I could be wrong. It's just painful to read a lot of these posts.
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Posted by malloryorThat is our charm. The 'quite cool'. As for heartbreakers, the most common thing I know of about crabs that breaks hearts is their tendency to go back to exes while with someone else who really cares for them, and very likely more so than the ex they ran back to.
I just want to meet one of these charming Cancers because most Cancers I have met are super quiet. I don't even know how they could be heartbreakers.
Posted by Crabra"the most common thing I know of about crabs that breaks hearts is their tendency to go back to exes while with someone else who really cares for them"Posted by malloryorThat is our charm. The 'quite cool'. As for heartbreakers, the most common thing I know of about crabs that breaks hearts is their tendency to go back to exes while with someone else who really cares for them, and very likely more so than the ex they ran back to.
I just want to meet one of these charming Cancers because most Cancers I have met are super quiet. I don't even know how they could be heartbreakers.
Cores of our own chaos, we are.click to expand
Posted by Crabra
Have you not read up on the sign? Everything about it is sad and depressing. Cancer is not a bright sign filled with fields of sunshine and daisies. It's dark as fuck.
Posted by kissmygrits
So we're the goths of the Zodiac.
Posted by ariesheartEveryone else ok. lolPosted by kissmygrits
So we're the goths of the Zodiac.
I see that more as Aquarius, Pisces, Gemini and Scorpiosclick to expand
Posted by DMVFangirlI think that's only when feared of rejection. When they "know" you, all upfront. And I also think the more control you have over their feelings, the more submissive they become. Games are only played when they dont trust you or doubt. That part sucks, but once the trust is there, their emotions are on the table. That's why most complain that they're too clingy, love hard.
Crabs are upfront? Nuh uh. Crabs walk sideways. Crabs will actually say the opposite of everything they feel. And the deeper their feelings go, the more aloof they will play them off. Their biggest fear is being humiliated. They'll do anything to save face.
Basically the more control you have over their feelings, the more games they will play.
Posted by DMVFangirlI disagree, only a tiny bit. My first love, cancer, left his girlfriend to try and build a future with me. Bought me a ring and a new house. But I felt the way he did it was wrong so I couldn't go through with it. We didn't cheat or anything. I showed up to our home town and met up with him and his family and he got in his feelings. We're still friends tho.Posted by ariesheartNo, it's because they need constant attention. If rocky times occur in their current relationship they'll fall back to an ex for momentary emotional support. But that's all. They don't really love or care for that ex. They just need an emotional crutch at all times.Posted by Crabra"the most common thing I know of about crabs that breaks hearts is their tendency to go back to exes while with someone else who really cares for them"Posted by malloryorThat is our charm. The 'quite cool'. As for heartbreakers, the most common thing I know of about crabs that breaks hearts is their tendency to go back to exes while with someone else who really cares for them, and very likely more so than the ex they ran back to.
I just want to meet one of these charming Cancers because most Cancers I have met are super quiet. I don't even know how they could be heartbreakers.
Cores of our own chaos, we are.
Is that part of cancers loving familiarity?
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Posted by Arielle83That's why I said "I believe" and that's why I posted on the crab board for them to chime in.Posted by ariesheartSo because you believe this for yourself, it must be true for everyone?Posted by CrabraI believe that's heightened with insecurities and growth. We all have darkness somewhere. Trust me, I'm an Aries. But I believe where's there love (from all aspects) comes sunshine and daisies. That's for all signs.
Have you not read up on the sign? Everything about it is sad and depressing. Cancer is not a bright sign filled with fields of sunshine and daisies. It's dark as fuck.
This is why all these threads are made. Women expecting ppl to behave a certain way because they behave that way.
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Posted by DMVFangirlHmmmm, that's deep.Posted by ariesheartWe know some different crabs lol. Crabs don't actually want to be "caught" or to catch anyone for that matter. Crabs like people who are somewhat elusive and as difficult as they are. That's why you see them with aquas who are notoriously detached or Pisces who constantly swim away from them. They are sadists and they like that shit. All the talk about wanting security and comfort is a lie. eventually they just become too lazy to keep playing the game and settle down with whoever is around at the time.Posted by DMVFangirlI think that's only when feared of rejection. When they "know" you, all upfront. And I also think the more control you have over their feelings, the more submissive they become. Games are only played when they dont trust you or doubt. That part sucks, but once the trust is there, their emotions are on the table. That's why most complain that they're too clingy, love hard.
Crabs are upfront? Nuh uh. Crabs walk sideways. Crabs will actually say the opposite of everything they feel. And the deeper their feelings go, the more aloof they will play them off. Their biggest fear is being humiliated. They'll do anything to save face.
Basically the more control you have over their feelings, the more games they will play.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83I would! Depending on the relationship tho.
Would you ever have a threesome with a cancer?
Posted by victoriageminiCancer men wanna answer this—?!!!!
Cancer men are players?
Posted by Arielle83Posted by ariesheartCancer is bright and happy until someone comes along and ruins it with their problems or negative perspective.Posted by Arielle83That's why I said "I believe" and that's why I posted on the crab board for them to chime in.Posted by ariesheartSo because you believe this for yourself, it must be true for everyone?Posted by CrabraI believe that's heightened with insecurities and growth. We all have darkness somewhere. Trust me, I'm an Aries. But I believe where's there love (from all aspects) comes sunshine and daisies. That's for all signs.
Have you not read up on the sign? Everything about it is sad and depressing. Cancer is not a bright sign filled with fields of sunshine and daisies. It's dark as fuck.
This is why all these threads are made. Women expecting ppl to behave a certain way because they behave that way.
Projection.click to expand
We absorb emotions. Our own emotions are well preserved and controlled until some fucker rains on our parade and we write you off.
This is why we flourish during our alone time.
Life is a series of advancements and retractions because we have good, positive intentions, but once someone's negative energy comes at us, we question it, think about it and decide whether to advance or avoid.
Life is short and toxic energy isn't needed.
Also, in rejationships, we are not counsellors just because we are quiet. We are quiet because we are observing you and deciding if you are worthy of entering our circle of trust.
Most ppl are a headache and need help themselves. We are your emotional crutch or saviour.
Ppl need to be secure in themselves before getting close to another human being for a relationship.
The women on these threads have baggage, and are mainly mentally unstable.
A man doesn't owe a woman anything just because she sleeps with him and then bails. She should protect her heart more.
This is why we cancer bishes get annoyed with the petty idiots that come on here. We don't get the "easy lover" tactic, cuz it isn't easy if you can't separate your insecurity from the need for your vagina to be filled.
Cancer knows sex isn't love.
Which is ironic that women on here seem to think that she has it all when a cancer man beds you.
No you got played cuz you failed. We don't want an easy lover, but
Posted by Arielle83Posted by ariesheartCancer is bright and happy until someone comes along and ruins it with their problems or negative perspective.Posted by Arielle83That's why I said "I believe" and that's why I posted on the crab board for them to chime in.Posted by ariesheartSo because you believe this for yourself, it must be true for everyone?Posted by CrabraI believe that's heightened with insecurities and growth. We all have darkness somewhere. Trust me, I'm an Aries. But I believe where's there love (from all aspects) comes sunshine and daisies. That's for all signs.
Have you not read up on the sign? Everything about it is sad and depressing. Cancer is not a bright sign filled with fields of sunshine and daisies. It's dark as fuck.
This is why all these threads are made. Women expecting ppl to behave a certain way because they behave that way.
Projection.click to expand
We absorb emotions. Our own emotions are well preserved and controlled until some fucker rains on our parade and we write you off.
This is why we flourish during our alone time.
Life is a series of advancements and retractions because we have good, positive intentions, but once someone's negative energy comes at us, we question it, think about it and decide whether to advance or avoid.
Life is short and toxic energy isn't needed.
Also, in rejationships, we are not counsellors just because we are quiet. We are quiet because we are observing you and deciding if you are worthy of entering our circle of trust.
Most ppl are a headache and need help themselves. We are your emotional crutch or saviour.
Ppl need to be secure in themselves before getting close to another human being for a relationship.
The women on these threads have baggage, and are mainly mentally unstable.
A man doesn't owe a woman anything just because she sleeps with him and then bails. She should protect her heart more.
This is why we cancer bishes get annoyed with the petty idiots that come on here. We don't get the "easy lover" tactic, cuz it isn't easy if you can't separate your insecurity from the need for your vagina to be filled.
Cancer knows sex isn't love.
Which is ironic that women on here seem to think that she has it all when a cancer man beds you.
No you got played cuz you failed. We don't want an easy lover, but
Posted by victoriageminiOk, so my ex wanted to commit:
Well I mean of you're just seeing each other..do they get bored fast? Do they talk to a lot of women first? Or they are just slow to get on a relationship.
Posted by kissmygritsNope. We're the emos. Big difference between finding beauty in death, and hating everyone.
So we're the goths of the Zodiac.
Posted by kissmygritsOMG I swear I have mini panic attacks over this. 😛
My biggest fear is the toilet water rising and not flushing while I'm at someone else's house.
Posted by Arielle83No, we poop normal. I fear the low flow doesn't work toilet, or the fact that some guy unloaded and left a gob of toilet paper and poop log crammed in the pipes before me.Posted by MoonArtistSo we shit a lot cuz of all the cakes we make?Posted by kissmygritsOMG I swear I have mini panic attacks over this. 😛
My biggest fear is the toilet water rising and not flushing while I'm at someone else's house.click to expand
Posted by ariesheartAww that is very sweet! That's what I love about you rams. Your energy burns so brightly, and brings a different perspective to things that complements Cancer's.Posted by CrabraI believe that's heightened with insecurities and growth. We all have darkness somewhere. Trust me, I'm an Aries. But I believe where's there love (from all aspects) comes sunshine and daisies. That's for all signs.
Have you not read up on the sign? Everything about it is sad and depressing. Cancer is not a bright sign filled with fields of sunshine and daisies. It's dark as fuck.click to expand
Posted by CrabraWow, highly appreciatedPosted by ariesheartAww that is very sweet! That's what I love about you rams. Your energy burns so brightly, and brings a different perspective to things that complements Cancer's.Posted by CrabraI believe that's heightened with insecurities and growth. We all have darkness somewhere. Trust me, I'm an Aries. But I believe where's there love (from all aspects) comes sunshine and daisies. That's for all signs.
Have you not read up on the sign? Everything about it is sad and depressing. Cancer is not a bright sign filled with fields of sunshine and daisies. It's dark as fuck.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83This Cancer male fully endorses the above, especially the bolded part.
Also, in rejationships, we are not counsellors just because we are quiet. We are quiet because we are observing you and deciding if you are worthy of entering our circle of trust.
Most ppl are a headache and need help themselves. We arent ur emotional crutch or saviour.
Ppl need to be secure in themselves before getting close to another human being for a relationship.
The women on these threads have baggage, and are mainly mentally unstable.
A man doesn't owe a woman anything just because she sleeps with him and then bails. She should protect her heart more.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspThank you for that. This is truly what's needed to be said.Posted by Arielle83This Cancer male fully endorses the above, especially the bolded part.
Also, in rejationships, we are not counsellors just because we are quiet. We are quiet because we are observing you and deciding if you are worthy of entering our circle of trust.
Most ppl are a headache and need help themselves. We arent ur emotional crutch or saviour.
Ppl need to be secure in themselves before getting close to another human being for a relationship.
The women on these threads have baggage, and are mainly mentally unstable.
A man doesn't owe a woman anything just because she sleeps with him and then bails. She should protect her heart more.
I rarely respond to the "my Cancer man" posts anymore, unless I think the poster is genuinely seeking input rather than validation.
The lions share of the posts here fall into the bolded part of the quote, and what purpose does it serve to waste time answering when the poster really isn't interested in honest responses?click to expand
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspAs a gem moon, I like to give them the honest response. Telling people things what they don't want to hear is kind of what I do.Posted by Arielle83This Cancer male fully endorses the above, especially the bolded part.
Also, in rejationships, we are not counsellors just because we are quiet. We are quiet because we are observing you and deciding if you are worthy of entering our circle of trust.
Most ppl are a headache and need help themselves. We arent ur emotional crutch or saviour.
Ppl need to be secure in themselves before getting close to another human being for a relationship.
The women on these threads have baggage, and are mainly mentally unstable.
A man doesn't owe a woman anything just because she sleeps with him and then bails. She should protect her heart more.
I rarely respond to the "my Cancer man" posts anymore, unless I think the poster is genuinely seeking input rather than validation.
The lions share of the posts here fall into the bolded part of the quote, and what purpose does it serve to waste time answering when the poster really isn't interested in honest responses?click to expand
Posted by CrabraI'm too angry to be emo.Posted by kissmygritsNope. We're the emos. Big difference between finding beauty in death, and hating everyone.
So we're the goths of the Zodiac.
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Posted by MoonArtistYes it wasn't me. I was just breaking the seal from my 3rd beer sheesh.Posted by Arielle83No, we poop normal. I fear the low flow doesn't work toilet, or the fact that some guy unloaded and left a gob of toilet paper and poop log crammed in the pipes before me.Posted by MoonArtistSo we shit a lot cuz of all the cakes we make?Posted by kissmygritsOMG I swear I have mini panic attacks over this. 😛
My biggest fear is the toilet water rising and not flushing while I'm at someone else's house.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Using this comment to tag you, your other one was too long lol! So define "easy lover" for me please. Are you talking about flings, or even someone you have had a long sexual relationship with, but aren't committed to one another? Because as I see it, if there are two willing participants and the sexual chemistry is there, why would a Cancerian deem that person as insecure/needy? I just don't know where the concept of having consensual monogamous sex with someone you like became an indicator of their value. Like i'm done with my wild days, if i'm gonna have sex, it's gonna be with someone I trust and have gotten to know, I don't go looking for the D. And how can one be "not easy", say no—? Because I thought rejecting a crab in any way, hurts them, or shows your disinterest. Correct me if i'm wrong here.Posted by ariesheartNo if the post is over 3000 words it won't show.
Not sure my quote showing, but yasssss @Arielle83, that's the truth!!!!click to expand
Posted by kissmygritsNo, neither Goth or definitely not Emo.Posted by CrabraI'm too angry to be emo.Posted by kissmygritsNope. We're the emos. Big difference between finding beauty in death, and hating everyone.
So we're the goths of the Zodiac.
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Posted by CancerOnTheCuspComfy and stylish clothes......Posted by kissmygritsNo, neither Goth or definitely not Emo.Posted by CrabraI'm too angry to be emo.Posted by kissmygritsNope. We're the emos. Big difference between finding beauty in death, and hating everyone.
So we're the goths of the Zodiac.
More like Punk rockers. In more conservative clothes. With good food and comfy surroundings.
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