
I think the one in the middle is an Earth sign trying to get some of that Crab action.....


Posted by CancerOnTheCuspJust using this comment to tag you. From a guy's pov, could you answer the questions I directed at Arielle please. 5th post up.
It also looks photoshopped....

Posted by JkatsNo offense, but its carrying over from other stuff and I'm not going to read the entire thread again.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspJust using this comment to tag you. From a guy's pov, could you answer the questions I directed at Arielle please. 5th post up.
It also looks photoshopped....click to expand

Posted by CancerOnTheCuspYes this is more me. 😄Posted by kissmygritsNo, neither Goth or definitely not Emo.Posted by CrabraI'm too angry to be emo.Posted by kissmygritsNope. We're the emos. Big difference between finding beauty in death, and hating everyone.
So we're the goths of the Zodiac.
More like Punk rockers. In more conservative clothes. With good food and comfy surroundings.
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Posted by JkatsPosted by Arielle83Using this comment to tag you, your other one was too long lol! So define "easy lover" for me please. Are you talking about flings, or even someone you have had a long sexual relationship with, but aren't committed to one another? Because as I see it, if there are two willing participants and the sexual chemistry is there, why would a Cancerian deem that person as insecure/needy? I just don't know where the concept of having consensual monogamous sex with someone you like became an indicator of their value. Like i'm done with my wild days, if i'm gonna have sex, it's gonna be with someone I trust and have gotten to know, I don't go looking for the D. And how can one be "not easy", say no—? Because I thought rejecting a crab in any way, hurts them, or shows your disinterest. Correct me if i'm wrong here.Posted by ariesheartNo if the post is over 3000 words it won't show.
Not sure my quote showing, but yasssss @Arielle83, that's the truth!!!!click to expand
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspQuoted from Arielle's post: "We don't get the "easy lover" tactic, cuz it isn't easy if you can't separate your insecurity from the need for your vagina to be filled.Posted by JkatsNo offense, but its carrying over from other stuff and I'm not going to read the entire thread again.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspJust using this comment to tag you. From a guy's pov, could you answer the questions I directed at Arielle please. 5th post up.
It also looks photoshopped....
Can you make it more succinct?click to expand
Posted by kissmygritsI hate this fucking " chase" shit. What the hell happened to, ok I like you, you like me, we have sexual chemistry, so who gives a fuck if sex happens early on? I think as long as each other's boundaries and expectations are communicated, why the stupid games?!?!Posted by JkatsPosted by Arielle83Using this comment to tag you, your other one was too long lol! So define "easy lover" for me please. Are you talking about flings, or even someone you have had a long sexual relationship with, but aren't committed to one another? Because as I see it, if there are two willing participants and the sexual chemistry is there, why would a Cancerian deem that person as insecure/needy? I just don't know where the concept of having consensual monogamous sex with someone you like became an indicator of their value. Like i'm done with my wild days, if i'm gonna have sex, it's gonna be with someone I trust and have gotten to know, I don't go looking for the D. And how can one be "not easy", say no—? Because I thought rejecting a crab in any way, hurts them, or shows your disinterest. Correct me if i'm wrong here.Posted by ariesheartNo if the post is over 3000 words it won't show.
Not sure my quote showing, but yasssss @Arielle83, that's the truth!!!!
With anyone if you give it up too fast dude or gal will get bored and chase is over.click to expand
Posted by Jkats*cuz youPosted by CancerOnTheCuspQuoted from Arielle's post: "We don't get the "easy lover" tactic, cuz it isn't easy if you can't separate your insecurity from the need for your vagina to be filled.Posted by JkatsNo offense, but its carrying over from other stuff and I'm not going to read the entire thread again.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspJust using this comment to tag you. From a guy's pov, could you answer the questions I directed at Arielle please. 5th post up.
It also looks photoshopped....
Can you make it more succinct?
Cancer knows sex isn't love
Which is ironic that women on here seem to think that she has it all when a Cancer man beds you.
No, you got played cuzcyou failed. We don't want an easy lover, but we'll take what you got, cuz we love sex.
I lose interest when it's easy to get some"click to expand

Posted by JkatsOh we have a live one here.Posted by kissmygritsI hate this fucking " chase" shit. What the hell happened to, ok I like you, you like me, we have sexual chemistry, so who gives a fuck if sex happens early on? I think as long as each other's boundaries and expectations are communicated, why the stupid games?!?!Posted by JkatsPosted by Arielle83Using this comment to tag you, your other one was too long lol! So define "easy lover" for me please. Are you talking about flings, or even someone you have had a long sexual relationship with, but aren't committed to one another? Because as I see it, if there are two willing participants and the sexual chemistry is there, why would a Cancerian deem that person as insecure/needy? I just don't know where the concept of having consensual monogamous sex with someone you like became an indicator of their value. Like i'm done with my wild days, if i'm gonna have sex, it's gonna be with someone I trust and have gotten to know, I don't go looking for the D. And how can one be "not easy", say no—? Because I thought rejecting a crab in any way, hurts them, or shows your disinterest. Correct me if i'm wrong here.Posted by ariesheartNo if the post is over 3000 words it won't show.
Not sure my quote showing, but yasssss @Arielle83, that's the truth!!!!
With anyone if you give it up too fast dude or gal will get bored and chase is over.click to expand

Posted by CancerOnTheCusplol Maybe.....Posted by MoonArtistI think the one in the middle is an Earth sign trying to get some of that Crab action.....Posted by CancerOnTheCuspComfy and stylish clothes......Posted by kissmygritsNo, neither Goth or definitely not Emo.Posted by CrabraI'm too angry to be emo.Posted by kissmygritsNope. We're the emos. Big difference between finding beauty in death, and hating everyone.
So we're the goths of the Zodiac.
More like Punk rockers. In more conservative clothes. With good food and comfy surroundings.
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Posted by JkatsIf it's casual keep it casual. No bf/gf crap. You're just fucking. Neither should play games I agree.Posted by kissmygritsI hate this fucking " chase" shit. What the hell happened to, ok I like you, you like me, we have sexual chemistry, so who gives a fuck if sex happens early on? I think as long as each other's boundaries and expectations are communicated, why the stupid games?!?!Posted by JkatsPosted by Arielle83Using this comment to tag you, your other one was too long lol! So define "easy lover" for me please. Are you talking about flings, or even someone you have had a long sexual relationship with, but aren't committed to one another? Because as I see it, if there are two willing participants and the sexual chemistry is there, why would a Cancerian deem that person as insecure/needy? I just don't know where the concept of having consensual monogamous sex with someone you like became an indicator of their value. Like i'm done with my wild days, if i'm gonna have sex, it's gonna be with someone I trust and have gotten to know, I don't go looking for the D. And how can one be "not easy", say no—? Because I thought rejecting a crab in any way, hurts them, or shows your disinterest. Correct me if i'm wrong here.Posted by ariesheartNo if the post is over 3000 words it won't show.
Not sure my quote showing, but yasssss @Arielle83, that's the truth!!!!
With anyone if you give it up too fast dude or gal will get bored and chase is over.click to expand

Posted by MoonArtistIt's actually me from my day job. I haven't been to the bathroom yet to change. 😆Posted by CancerOnTheCusplol Maybe.....Posted by MoonArtistI think the one in the middle is an Earth sign trying to get some of that Crab action.....Posted by CancerOnTheCuspComfy and stylish clothes......Posted by kissmygritsNo, neither Goth or definitely not Emo.Posted by CrabraI'm too angry to be emo.Posted by kissmygritsNope. We're the emos. Big difference between finding beauty in death, and hating everyone.
So we're the goths of the Zodiac.
More like Punk rockers. In more conservative clothes. With good food and comfy surroundings.
So which one is you?click to expand
Posted by kissmygritsLol, i'm not talking about first date or anything, though I don't judge those who go that route, but what about two or three months in, and things are going well? Even then, a girl is more often than not, still labeled a slut, but a guy isn't.Posted by JkatsOh we have a live one here.Posted by kissmygritsI hate this fucking " chase" shit. What the hell happened to, ok I like you, you like me, we have sexual chemistry, so who gives a fuck if sex happens early on? I think as long as each other's boundaries and expectations are communicated, why the stupid games?!?!Posted by JkatsPosted by Arielle83Using this comment to tag you, your other one was too long lol! So define "easy lover" for me please. Are you talking about flings, or even someone you have had a long sexual relationship with, but aren't committed to one another? Because as I see it, if there are two willing participants and the sexual chemistry is there, why would a Cancerian deem that person as insecure/needy? I just don't know where the concept of having consensual monogamous sex with someone you like became an indicator of their value. Like i'm done with my wild days, if i'm gonna have sex, it's gonna be with someone I trust and have gotten to know, I don't go looking for the D. And how can one be "not easy", say no—? Because I thought rejecting a crab in any way, hurts them, or shows your disinterest. Correct me if i'm wrong here.Posted by ariesheartNo if the post is over 3000 words it won't show.
Not sure my quote showing, but yasssss @Arielle83, that's the truth!!!!
With anyone if you give it up too fast dude or gal will get bored and chase is over.
I'll type slowly.... keep your legs shut until you know the other seriously wants you besides a basic fuck.
This isn't hardclick to expand
Posted by kissmygritsRight on. But guys know just how to sweet talk you into thinking that there is a future, there within lies the problem.Posted by JkatsIf it's casual keep it casual. No bf/gf crap. You're just fucking. Neither should play games I agree.Posted by kissmygritsI hate this fucking " chase" shit. What the hell happened to, ok I like you, you like me, we have sexual chemistry, so who gives a fuck if sex happens early on? I think as long as each other's boundaries and expectations are communicated, why the stupid games?!?!Posted by JkatsPosted by Arielle83Using this comment to tag you, your other one was too long lol! So define "easy lover" for me please. Are you talking about flings, or even someone you have had a long sexual relationship with, but aren't committed to one another? Because as I see it, if there are two willing participants and the sexual chemistry is there, why would a Cancerian deem that person as insecure/needy? I just don't know where the concept of having consensual monogamous sex with someone you like became an indicator of their value. Like i'm done with my wild days, if i'm gonna have sex, it's gonna be with someone I trust and have gotten to know, I don't go looking for the D. And how can one be "not easy", say no—? Because I thought rejecting a crab in any way, hurts them, or shows your disinterest. Correct me if i'm wrong here.Posted by ariesheartNo if the post is over 3000 words it won't show.
Not sure my quote showing, but yasssss @Arielle83, that's the truth!!!!
With anyone if you give it up too fast dude or gal will get bored and chase is over.click to expand


Posted by kissmygritsSwear down!!!
My biggest fear is the toilet water rising and not flushing while I'm at someone else's house.

Posted by DMVFangirlPosted by JkatsThey're full of double standards honestly. You saw it said in this thread already...it's okay when they want sex, because they like it but that doesn't make them easy. But if you want it and like it, you're too easy.Posted by Arielle83Using this comment to tag you, your other one was too long lol! So define "easy lover" for me please. Are you talking about flings, or even someone you have had a long sexual relationship with, but aren't committed to one another? Because as I see it, if there are two willing participants and the sexual chemistry is there, why would a Cancerian deem that person as insecure/needy? I just don't know where the concept of having consensual monogamous sex with someone you like became an indicator of their value. Like i'm done with my wild days, if i'm gonna have sex, it's gonna be with someone I trust and have gotten to know, I don't go looking for the D. And how can one be "not easy", say no—? Because I thought rejecting a crab in any way, hurts them, or shows your disinterest. Correct me if i'm wrong here.Posted by ariesheartNo if the post is over 3000 words it won't show.
Not sure my quote showing, but yasssss @Arielle83, that's the truth!!!!
You don't trust a cancers word because they are led by emotions. They do whatever fulfills their immediate desire with little concern for the collateral damage it will cause in the future when their fickle emotions sway a different direction.
The only people who succeed in relationships with cancer are signs who play the game better than them or signs who ignore their game playing all together. Passive signs.click to expand



Posted by DMVFangirlThis is true. We have to prove to certain signs they needed us even if they force fed us shit. Its meant for growth lolPosted by ariesheartWe know some different crabs lol. Crabs don't actually want to be "caught" or to catch anyone for that matter. Crabs like people who are somewhat elusive and as difficult as they are. That's why you see them with aquas who are notoriously detached or Pisces who constantly swim away from them. They are sadists and they like that shit. All the talk about wanting security and comfort is a lie. eventually they just become too lazy to keep playing the game and settle down with whoever is around at the time.Posted by DMVFangirlI think that's only when feared of rejection. When they "know" you, all upfront. And I also think the more control you have over their feelings, the more submissive they become. Games are only played when they dont trust you or doubt. That part sucks, but once the trust is there, their emotions are on the table. That's why most complain that they're too clingy, love hard.
Crabs are upfront? Nuh uh. Crabs walk sideways. Crabs will actually say the opposite of everything they feel. And the deeper their feelings go, the more aloof they will play them off. Their biggest fear is being humiliated. They'll do anything to save face.
Basically the more control you have over their feelings, the more games they will play.click to expand
Posted by HighTideNah, you're going to have to speak for yourself on this one.Posted by DMVFangirlThis is true. We have to prove to certain signs they needed us even if they force fed us shit. Its meant for growth lolPosted by ariesheartWe know some different crabs lol. Crabs don't actually want to be "caught" or to catch anyone for that matter. Crabs like people who are somewhat elusive and as difficult as they are. That's why you see them with aquas who are notoriously detached or Pisces who constantly swim away from them. They are sadists and they like that shit. All the talk about wanting security and comfort is a lie. eventually they just become too lazy to keep playing the game and settle down with whoever is around at the time.Posted by DMVFangirlI think that's only when feared of rejection. When they "know" you, all upfront. And I also think the more control you have over their feelings, the more submissive they become. Games are only played when they dont trust you or doubt. That part sucks, but once the trust is there, their emotions are on the table. That's why most complain that they're too clingy, love hard.
Crabs are upfront? Nuh uh. Crabs walk sideways. Crabs will actually say the opposite of everything they feel. And the deeper their feelings go, the more aloof they will play them off. Their biggest fear is being humiliated. They'll do anything to save face.
Basically the more control you have over their feelings, the more games they will play.click to expand


Posted by DMVFangirl
This is an astrology forum and I'll continue to speak in general terms about my experiences and traits I've observed. I don't think cancers are anymore an authority on their own sign than anyone else, simply because people are not a good judge of their own character. I actually don't have any butt hurt feelings over cancers. I still speak to my cancer ex and I even helped him work out issues with his current girlfriend and helped him get past his emotions over the fact that she was previously married and despite her being a good girl, this was a deal breaker for him. They're both cancers and honestly I think that's the best match for him. I don't question their loyalty once in a committed relationship but prior to that point, all bets are off.
But anyway I didn't come here to adapt back into the cliquey high school fueds so enjoy your day 🙂

Posted by whateverthemoonsaysPosted by HighTideNah, you're going to have to speak for yourself on this one.Posted by DMVFangirlThis is true. We have to prove to certain signs they needed us even if they force fed us shit. Its meant for growth lolPosted by ariesheartWe know some different crabs lol. Crabs don't actually want to be "caught" or to catch anyone for that matter. Crabs like people who are somewhat elusive and as difficult as they are. That's why you see them with aquas who are notoriously detached or Pisces who constantly swim away from them. They are sadists and they like that shit. All the talk about wanting security and comfort is a lie. eventually they just become too lazy to keep playing the game and settle down with whoever is around at the time.Posted by DMVFangirlI think that's only when feared of rejection. When they "know" you, all upfront. And I also think the more control you have over their feelings, the more submissive they become. Games are only played when they dont trust you or doubt. That part sucks, but once the trust is there, their emotions are on the table. That's why most complain that they're too clingy, love hard.
Crabs are upfront? Nuh uh. Crabs walk sideways. Crabs will actually say the opposite of everything they feel. And the deeper their feelings go, the more aloof they will play them off. Their biggest fear is being humiliated. They'll do anything to save face.
Basically the more control you have over their feelings, the more games they will play.click to expand

Posted by DMVFangirlPosted by kissmygritsEven though other cancers and people dating cancers agree with me...lol okayPosted by DMVFangirl
This is an astrology forum and I'll continue to speak in general terms about my experiences and traits I've observed. I don't think cancers are anymore an authority on their own sign than anyone else, simply because people are not a good judge of their own character. I actually don't have any butt hurt feelings over cancers. I still speak to my cancer ex and I even helped him work out issues with his current girlfriend and helped him get past his emotions over the fact that she was previously married and despite her being a good girl, this was a deal breaker for him. They're both cancers and honestly I think that's the best match for him. I don't question their loyalty once in a committed relationship but prior to that point, all bets are off.
But anyway I didn't come here to adapt back into the cliquey high school fueds so enjoy your day 🙂
Oh the "this is an astrology forum " bullbutter line. I'm not even going to read the rest of your tripe generalizations now. Tata psycho.
It's funny I normally love Aries. You have some placement up your butt. 😆
Astrology is ALL sweeping generalizations. If you're going to get so wound up about some that you disagree with, find a new hobby.click to expand


Posted by kissmygritsYupPosted by whateverthemoonsaysPosted by HighTideNah, you're going to have to speak for yourself on this one.Posted by DMVFangirlThis is true. We have to prove to certain signs they needed us even if they force fed us shit. Its meant for growth lolPosted by ariesheartWe know some different crabs lol. Crabs don't actually want to be "caught" or to catch anyone for that matter. Crabs like people who are somewhat elusive and as difficult as they are. That's why you see them with aquas who are notoriously detached or Pisces who constantly swim away from them. They are sadists and they like that shit. All the talk about wanting security and comfort is a lie. eventually they just become too lazy to keep playing the game and settle down with whoever is around at the time.Posted by DMVFangirlI think that's only when feared of rejection. When they "know" you, all upfront. And I also think the more control you have over their feelings, the more submissive they become. Games are only played when they dont trust you or doubt. That part sucks, but once the trust is there, their emotions are on the table. That's why most complain that they're too clingy, love hard.
Crabs are upfront? Nuh uh. Crabs walk sideways. Crabs will actually say the opposite of everything they feel. And the deeper their feelings go, the more aloof they will play them off. Their biggest fear is being humiliated. They'll do anything to save face.
Basically the more control you have over their feelings, the more games they will play.
Yupclick to expand

Posted by kissmygritsHousecleaning set up a thread for that. When you read it all together, makes you go "hmmmm".Posted by DMVFangirlPosted by kissmygritsEven though other cancers and people dating cancers agree with me...lol okayPosted by DMVFangirl
This is an astrology forum and I'll continue to speak in general terms about my experiences and traits I've observed. I don't think cancers are anymore an authority on their own sign than anyone else, simply because people are not a good judge of their own character. I actually don't have any butt hurt feelings over cancers. I still speak to my cancer ex and I even helped him work out issues with his current girlfriend and helped him get past his emotions over the fact that she was previously married and despite her being a good girl, this was a deal breaker for him. They're both cancers and honestly I think that's the best match for him. I don't question their loyalty once in a committed relationship but prior to that point, all bets are off.
But anyway I didn't come here to adapt back into the cliquey high school fueds so enjoy your day 🙂
Oh the "this is an astrology forum " bullbutter line. I'm not even going to read the rest of your tripe generalizations now. Tata psycho.
It's funny I normally love Aries. You have some placement up your butt. 😆
Astrology is ALL sweeping generalizations. If you're going to get so wound up about some that you disagree with, find a new hobby.
You mean all of the stories of thirsty girls complaining yet not letting on their fuck ups until later on in the story? Their crazy entitlements and projections? Yeah totally sick of those.
Oh fuck off ya little gnat. This is our forum. Go back to your hole and pat yourself on the back for being so badass on the internet.click to expand

Posted by CancerOnTheCuspI think its a hard concept for Cancers to accept about themselves but I will leave it at that.Posted by kissmygritsYupPosted by whateverthemoonsaysPosted by HighTideNah, you're going to have to speak for yourself on this one.Posted by DMVFangirlThis is true. We have to prove to certain signs they needed us even if they force fed us shit. Its meant for growth lolPosted by ariesheartWe know some different crabs lol. Crabs don't actually want to be "caught" or to catch anyone for that matter. Crabs like people who are somewhat elusive and as difficult as they are. That's why you see them with aquas who are notoriously detached or Pisces who constantly swim away from them. They are sadists and they like that shit. All the talk about wanting security and comfort is a lie. eventually they just become too lazy to keep playing the game and settle down with whoever is around at the time.Posted by DMVFangirlI think that's only when feared of rejection. When they "know" you, all upfront. And I also think the more control you have over their feelings, the more submissive they become. Games are only played when they dont trust you or doubt. That part sucks, but once the trust is there, their emotions are on the table. That's why most complain that they're too clingy, love hard.
Crabs are upfront? Nuh uh. Crabs walk sideways. Crabs will actually say the opposite of everything they feel. And the deeper their feelings go, the more aloof they will play them off. Their biggest fear is being humiliated. They'll do anything to save face.
Basically the more control you have over their feelings, the more games they will play.
Yupclick to expand
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