A cancerian who want to move on. Help!!

Hi cancerian fellaa!
As a cancer, how YOU move on from a guy that you really like? What did you do to deal with it?
Tell me!
So I can copy that action 😢

Please don't say hangout with girlfriends, because I endup still feeling hurt when the night comes.

I always thought it was easier for women to move on because they can go to a bar and get "guy attention" Maybe try that to just feel attractive, then pick up a new hobby.

First thing you have to realise is this will take time to heal, cancers we are emotionally bound to things,memories and people,so it will be harder ,but i invite you to do bioenergetics, so called shaking medicine,go into the woods or the forest, and if you're hurting you're prob depressed, but if you want to feel better you have to express, when you depress you shut yourself in , when you express you explode from within and let feels go,so go in forest,go in woods and scream as loud as you can, scream whatever comes out of your mouth, jump up and down, shake your body, just do stupid shit,dance,sing,scream, and get energy out of your head into your body,it's a vibration and it breaks things,like earthquake breaks earth and does damage so does jumping,screaming,it breaks depression, when you're feeling better, get into doing something that you rly like, cooking, eating, reading, training, traveling, just learn to enjoy life and everything it has to offer, learn to be happy without another person, thats the key, what i see in most relationships is people are not happy, they are looking for a person to make them happy , and thats the huge mistake, if you start relationship like this, it will not last.why?because you will become to much dependant, to much obsesive or possesive about that person that makes you happy, and it's not good ,at first it might seem alright but later on not only that you will leave him without an air to breathe, you will become the same person you were before,complainer, learn to be happy on your own and when a person comes make sure it's a healthy one 2, relationships are way better when 2 people can share their happyness ,respect,trust and support each other rather than depend and be possesive about each other, possesive relationships doesn't last, it's like greed, eventualy it get's you destroyed, unlike sharing happyness can last a lifetime 🙂 heal yourself, and do the things you love, learn to love yourself,respect yourself be happy with yourself than move on into relationship, im inviting you to think about this, goodluck 😉

Posted by rabidtalker
I always thought it was easier for women to move on because they can go to a bar and get "guy attention" Maybe try that to just feel attractive, then pick up a new hobby.

Not for cancer I think. We can still "feel" the pain inside.

Posted by rakac
at first it might seem alright but later on not only that you will leave him without an air to breathe, you will become the same person you were before,complainer, learn to be happy on your own and when a person comes make sure it's a healthy one 2, relationships are way better when 2 people can share their happyness ,respect,trust and support each other rather than depend and be possesive about each other, possesive relationships doesn't last, it's like greed, eventualy it get's you destroyed, unlike sharing happyness can last a lifetime 🙂 heal yourself, and do the things you love, learn to love yourself,respect yourself be happy with yourself than move on into relationship, im inviting you to think about this, goodluck 😉

OMG!! Thank you thank you thank you sooo much! Good advice. I will definitely try the biogenergetic theraphy. I hope this gloomy-day will pass soon.

Posted by cancerwomen15

Posted by rakac
at first it might seem alright but later on not only that you will leave him without an air to breathe, you will become the same person you were before,complainer, learn to be happy on your own and when a person comes make sure it's a healthy one 2, relationships are way better when 2 people can share their happyness ,respect,trust and support each other rather than depend and be possesive about each other, possesive relationships doesn't last, it's like greed, eventualy it get's you destroyed, unlike sharing happyness can last a lifetime 🙂 heal yourself, and do the things you love, learn to love yourself,respect yourself be happy with yourself than move on into relationship, im inviting you to think about this, goodluck 😉

OMG!! Thank you thank you thank you sooo much! Good advice. I will definitely try the biogenergetic theraphy. I hope this gloomy-day will pass soon.

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anytime! 😉 if you're into reading get a bok Shaking Medicine by Bradford Keeney ,reaaly good book! 🙂

Posted by rabidtalker
I always thought it was easier for women to move on because they can go to a bar and get "guy attention" Maybe try that to just feel attractive, then pick up a new hobby.

Oh give me a break.

I don't know. Just Do It!