Posted by thinktoomuchIts not just about me thou...look at all these posts. Cancer man this cancer man that and all before they are even in a relationship.
I think you need to know people for who they really are and not who you think they are based on when they were Born.
Posted by thinktoomuchYou think too much ›
I think you need to know people for who they really are and not who you think they are based on when they were Born.
Posted by cornflower2You just retold My two experiences with cancer males! Yep, all they wanted was justice sex and they moved on regretlessly after the first argument, one to a girl who was eager to cross out her legs for him, taking 1500 photos of his pretty face on fb Lol. Now he constantly visits here town to shag with her, just like once a month. Actually I'm sure she's not the one, as she's got two kids and she's pretty dumb. Cancer men love mental challenge. Hope he found some.
@victoriagemini
I can totally relate to you. I've only known and dated 2 cancers men so far, so I do not want to generalize all cancers here. But both guys were very much alike. The first one pretended, he wanted to get to know me as a person, even build a life with me. But much later I found out, he was mostly looking for sex and started dating again, right after we had our first argument.. he never fought for me, just moved on with no feelings at all....
The second cancer guy was soo polite and nice during our 11 hours first date. But he never made a move on me, so I also stayed cool. Later he told me by email, that he really wanted to kiss me. So I gave him a second chance, invited him for dinner, telling him that I really look forward to get to know him better, but that I do not do sex or spending the night on a second date. After that, he cancelled the date... Cancers are soooooo not for me!!!!!!
Posted by MoonbutterYes I agree. This man is 37 but maybe he's still not ready to settle down
I have a guy friend who is Gemini with Cancer Venus and I think the challenge for them is dealing with such a feminine and emotionally sensitive sign. They fall really deep and it scares the shit out of them. I think either you have to get them young before they experience heartbreak or later in life when they are ready to settle down.
Posted by SensitiveBluesOhh trust me I want him :-))
he sounds sexxy. id give him a go. Crab sun. Taurus Moon.
all sensual
Posted by MoonbutterThat's what I thought too hahahahaPosted by thinktoomuchYou think too much ›
I think you need to know people for who they really are and not who you think they are based on when they were Born.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaI really was in love with the first cancer man I've dated, and still struggle to get over him. Weird I know...after all his coldness... Didn't know these cancer men facts then...Maybe I just should have treated him disrespectful, add some yelling in our dating time and now he would be totally in love with me.. LOLPosted by cornflower2I think they get off on that sort of behavior.
@TaurusMarine
Sorry to hear you had the same Cancer experience. But I agree with you, the both cancer men that I've known told me some stories about their exes. And all of these women treated them really badly, but the guys seem to respect them even more for their bitchy behavior and even miss the women, although one cheated on him and the other told him she just used him for his money. That was a real turn off for me, cause I want to be honest, nice and caring in a relationship, not play some sexy role, play mind games or cheat on my partner...just to be loved or respected....lol
My dad is a Cancer and his wife yells at him all the time.click to expand
Posted by cornflower2HahahaHahaha maybe that's it.. I'm too sweet to themPosted by KoniuchaI really was in love with the first cancer man I've dated, and still struggle to get over him. Weird I know...after all his coldness... Didn't know these cancer men facts then...Maybe I just should have treated him disrespectful, add some yelling in our dating time and now he would be totally in love with me.. LOLPosted by cornflower2I think they get off on that sort of behavior.
@TaurusMarine
Sorry to hear you had the same Cancer experience. But I agree with you, the both cancer men that I've known told me some stories about their exes. And all of these women treated them really badly, but the guys seem to respect them even more for their bitchy behavior and even miss the women, although one cheated on him and the other told him she just used him for his money. That was a real turn off for me, cause I want to be honest, nice and caring in a relationship, not play some sexy role, play mind games or cheat on my partner...just to be loved or respected....lol
My dad is a Cancer and his wife yells at him all the time.click to expand
Posted by cornflower2LMAO @ add some yelling in our dating time.Posted by KoniuchaI really was in love with the first cancer man I've dated, and still struggle to get over him. Weird I know...after all his coldness... Didn't know these cancer men facts then...Maybe I just should have treated him disrespectful, add some yelling in our dating time and now he would be totally in love with me.. LOLPosted by cornflower2I think they get off on that sort of behavior.
@TaurusMarine
Sorry to hear you had the same Cancer experience. But I agree with you, the both cancer men that I've known told me some stories about their exes. And all of these women treated them really badly, but the guys seem to respect them even more for their bitchy behavior and even miss the women, although one cheated on him and the other told him she just used him for his money. That was a real turn off for me, cause I want to be honest, nice and caring in a relationship, not play some sexy role, play mind games or cheat on my partner...just to be loved or respected....lol
My dad is a Cancer and his wife yells at him all the time.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchAnd yet here you are on an Astrology Forum...or did you get lost?Posted by MoonbutterNo, I live in the real world much. It is naive to find out somwbodys birthdate and then blindly assume that they are in a certain way, because some aatrology person says so.Posted by thinktoomuchYou think too much ›
I think you need to know people for who they really are and not who you think they are based on when they were Born.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterLmaoPosted by thinktoomuchAnd yet here you are on an Astrology Forum...or did you get lost?Posted by MoonbutterNo, I live in the real world much. It is naive to find out somwbodys birthdate and then blindly assume that they are in a certain way, because some aatrology person says so.Posted by thinktoomuchYou think too much ›
I think you need to know people for who they really are and not who you think they are based on when they were Born.click to expand
Posted by FutureSeekerUm you don't know me. No I'm not a hoe no I don't dress like one no I do t chase men no I don't persue then no I don't have sex on the first meeting. Girl you need to open your mind too not every woman is like that. You don't know what I've been through. Bye Felicia!Posted by victoriageminiPut your energy elsewhere. How is this helping you? How is this helping you grow or lear
What if Cancer men just love to romance a lot of women and that's why there are a lot of heartbroken girls on here— The guy I wrote about is a freaking Taurus moon and cancer Venus too so I was shocked he only wants sex from me. Well he didn't really tell me that but he spoke with his actions. Anyway maybe that's the problem. They pry on sweet women? He told me im sweet, or they don't know what they want.
n or just have any forward momentum? Honestly, you are being a martyr- it's all them- these men pray on you and other women, right? It would be easier to believe that- because then you wouldn't have to look at any of your behaviors, the kind of messages you send, the kind of expectations you are setting from the get-go.
I have a prediction- and I'll put money on it too- $ 5K. Keep doing what YOU are doing, and I guarantee you will
be in the same boat again. CHANGE what you are doing, and you will meet a different type of guy.click to expand
Posted by FutureSeekerOh no no.the tone of your post suggested that yes. You're saying it's me and what I'm projecting.Posted by victoriageminiWow- my post had NOTHING to do with sex, chasing a man, or how you dress. Clearly you aren't able to read.Posted by FutureSeekerUm you don't know me. No I'm not a hoe noPosted by victoriageminiPut your energy elsewhere. How is this helping you? How is this helping you grow or lear
What if Cancer men just love to romance a lot of women and that's why there are a lot of heartbroken girls on here— The guy I wrote about is a freaking Taurus moon and cancer Venus too so I was shocked
he only wants sex from me. Well he didn't really tell me that but he spoke with his actions. Anyway maybe that's the problem. They pry on sweet women? He told me im sweet, or they don't know what they want.
n or just have any forward momentum? Honestly, you are being a martyr- it's all them- these men pray on you and othe
r women, right? It would be easier to believe that- because then you wouldn't have to look at any of your behaviors, the kind of messages you send, the kind of expectations you are setting from the get-go.
I have a prediction- and I'll put money on it too- $ 5K. Keep doing what YOU are doing, and I guarantee you will
be in the same boat again. CHANGE what you are doing, and you will meet a different type of guy.
I don't dress like one no I do t chase men no I don't persue then no I don't have sex on the first meeting. Girl you need to open your mind too not every woman is like that. You don't know what I've been through. Bye Felicia!click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoHow can you tell?
also cancer in venus want REAL love like deep love, we can tell if you have it or dont right away and we wont waste our time...
Posted by MoonshineLeoYeah how can you tell? A couple of days ago we chatted and he called me sweet. But he doesn't inniate at all anymore texts, so that's why I know he doesn't want anything more to peruse with me only convient sex.
also cancer in venus want REAL love like deep love, we can tell if you have it or dont right away and we wont waste our time...
Posted by narayanaI get that but we didn't have sex we have been sexual active together only
Just because someone's a Cancer doesn't mean they are going to fall in love with you. We don't want a relationship with every random sex partner.
Posted by victoriageminiYou guys did have sex or just some sexual things?Posted by narayanaI get that but we didn't have sex we have been sexual active together only
Just because someone's a Cancer doesn't mean they are going to fall in love with you. We don't want a relationship with every random sex partner.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterJust sexual things like deep touching and deep making out but no bjPosted by victoriageminiYou guys did have sex or just some sexual things?Posted by narayanaI get that but we didn't have sex we have been sexual active together only
Just because someone's a Cancer doesn't mean they are going to fall in love with you. We don't want a relationship with every random sex partner.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchI was just joking, and making light of your user name 😛Posted by MoonbutterBut why the hell are you telling me, that I think too much, when I'm telling someone to look at reality instead of theory and thoughts? That doesn't make any sense, if you were trying to burn.Posted by thinktoomuchAnd yet here you are on an Astrology Forum...or did you get lost?Posted by MoonbutterNo, I live in the real world much. It is naive to find out somwbodys birthdate and then blindly assume that they are in a certain way, because some aatrology person says so.Posted by thinktoomuchYou think too much ›
I think you need to know people for who they really are and not who you think they are based on when they were Born.
This burn of yours is better, but I'm not really bothered, I'm just here having a good time. Let's talk in a year where you base everything in your life on astrology and I will base mine on reality with the occasional splurge of astrology - just for fun.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterYou're right...I want things to progress fast. I'm just going to be neutral and see if things will go forward, but it expect much.
Yeah, you gotta go real slow with Cancer... That means friends first and then you progress when it feels natural. It takes guys at least a few months to know if they have any real interest and another 3 to even start falling for someone(typically) any guys wanna interject their opinion here?
Posted by thinktoomuchThe first time I was only kidding, but man, you really do think too much🤔
I know, but it didn't make any sense € if you're gonna try to be funny with my selfappointed username, shouldn't it be with a post, where I'm actually doing a lot of thinking? - and not telling someone to be more realistic instead of living in *astrology world?
If people are more realistic, take what they get at facevalue instead of putting everything on astrology or something similar, much of the confusion would stop.
Posted by thinktoomuchHey, if you don't get it... You just don't get it🤓Posted by MoonbutterAnd I'm just telling you it really was a poor joke.Posted by thinktoomuchThe first time I was only kidding, but man, you really do think too much🤔
I know, but it didn't make any sense € if you're gonna try to be funny with my selfappointed username, shouldn't it be with a post, where I'm actually doing a lot of thinking? - and not telling someone to be more realistic instead of living in *astrology world?
If people are more realistic, take what they get at facevalue instead of putting everything on astrology or something similar, much of the confusion would stop.click to expand
Posted by libralotusThat's me. Ya snooze ya lose.
I dated a cancer sun, Taurus moon, and a Venus in Gemini. He was totally involved and moving very quickly when we first met, and I was too sheepish to tell him I wasn't ready. I ended up not taking it very serious, and what do you know... On the the next one, just as serious just as quick.
Posted by thinktoomuchOk, well in your opinion you don't get it lol. Don't overthink it 'thinktoomuch'‰Posted by MoonbutterIt's not really a matter of getting or not getting, it's a matter of opinion. But if thinking that I didn't get it makes you feel better, then by all means.Posted by thinktoomuchHey, if you don't get it... You just don't get it🤓Posted by MoonbutterAnd I'm just telling you it really was a poor joke.Posted by thinktoomuchThe first time I was only kidding, but man, you really do think too much🤔
I know, but it didn't make any sense € if you're gonna try to be funny with my selfappointed username, shouldn't it be with a post, where I'm actually doing a lot of thinking? - and not telling someone to be more realistic instead of living in *astrology world?
If people are more realistic, take what they get at facevalue instead of putting everything on astrology or something similar, much of the confusion would stop.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchI agree with this. Their chart just give u a small piece of the puzzle. Their upbringing, where they are in life financially and emotionally, and morals play a huge role. My love is a cancer sun, Taurus moon, Leo Venus and he LOVES women but he is respectable guy. I notice that love is a serious matter with him. You have to have patience with them and lots of understanding.
I think you need to know people for who they really are and not who you think they are based on when they were Born.
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