Trust

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Jkats on Monday, March 28, 2016 and has 5 replies.

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@Cancer Lady
18 Years1,000+ Posts

If I really do love and care about you then I wouldn't like the idea of it being you don't trust me. That wouldn't sit well with me at all but at the same time I know there's really nothing I can do about it because whatever I do, it's ultimately up to them to decide to trust me or not.

Also if I know I have done something that has made it so you don't trust me then I won't really care that much because if I really loved and cared about you, I wouldn't do anything that would make you not trust me in the first place.

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@ragingfirelove
11 YearsCancer

Disgust and disbelief that someone I care for looks at me as an untrustworthy person. Then see that as a reflection of themselves and go on about my life because I know I have good intentions for everyone

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@Starry22
12 Years

But what if your actions have repeatedly caused a breakdown of that trust? Would there still be no remorse, no guilt? Or do you expect the person to trust you despite having let them down?

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@Zanbee
12 Years

If someone doesn't trust me and i love them... it really hurts, on an irrational level for me.
I can't stand it, because, obviously I love that person.
Also, it would depend on if I brought it on myself.
It would still suck, no matter what.