TWINS!

Two for the price of one!

I'm having twins...Just wait until Mr. Pisces gets a load of this one! He is going to FLIP!

Cancerlady/Mamadeuce

*Bends over Cancerlady's P-Man.

Nice shot Mr.P-Man!

Congrats C-Lady?. Take care of both? its Double Jackpot? ! lucky you are!

That's CRAZY news!! Congrats CL!!

One egg or two?

Congrats ms cancer lady,hope da two for one put some perspective in Mr P's head and see a future for both ,i uh mean all four of you. Trini sperm strong boy,lol.

Congrats cancerlady.

Perhaps this P-Man got in time of promotion of some kind.

"Buy 1 baby + 1 FREE!"

Wow pisces and Cancer are super fertile.

LOL.

Thanks everybody...

Believe it or not, I am actually more excited about having twins than just having one. Crazy Huh?

BJ...I'm pretty sure 2 eggs so they will be fraternal twins. They are doing good so far, growing at the same pace, nice space between them but I am an "at risk" pregnancy just by virtue of having twins so everyone keep my little peanuts in your prayers!

Daemon...TELL ME ABOUT IT! Boy that damn Trini sperm! Good thing is, he comes from good stock! He's very intelligent, tall, and of course BEAUTIFUL! 😉

CancerKitten....GIRL WATCH OUT! Don't let your Pisces catch you slippin!

By the way guys, the funny thing is that my oldest sister is pregnant NOW with twin boys (fraternal also) AND my mother is a twin (identical) so they kinda run in my family. Combine that with the SUPER TRINI sperm and whoa nelly!

Cancerlady/MamaDeuce

Congrats CM2 !!!

Hey Cancerlady,

Glad to see you are so happy about it all. I have 6year old brothers who are fraternal twins. They were born 20mins apart and are nothing alike in looks or nature. In fact to look at them you wouldn't even know they were brothers never mind twins but they are inseparable.

BTW I would pay any credit to Mr P's sperm. Sounds like you come from a very fertile family.

Hey people tuned into this CRAZY saga...

I told Mr. Pisces about the babies over the phone last night and he FLIPPED OUT!

It was SUCH a stressful night...He told me he never wanted to see me again ever in life. He said he was not going to claim the babies and that he would have nothing to do with them or me. He also said the only reason he wanted to get back together with me was that he thought I was going to have an abortion.

So all the while he was saying this...I'm like why are you being so mean and cold to me like I meant nothing. Then I was like we can't even be friends, you hate me SO much because I am having YOUR babies? I was bawling and so very very sad. BUT after about a half hour of that...I summoned my hard as hell shell and said to him..."Well if you will have nothing to do with either of us...Just know that you will have a set of twins in the world and that's all to it." and I hung up.

So I walked to the store to clear my head and left my cell phone @ home. When I returned I saw that he called and he left me a voice message saying he really wanted to talk to me. So I called back & said, "I will just tell everyone that I don't know who my babies father is because I would rather them think I am a slut than to have my children face the lifelong rejection of knowing their father wants nothing to do with them"

Then he says...Wait a min. You had a right to change your mind, don't I have a right to? Then he says it was just so much for him to swallow at one time and he really just didn't know how to react. That he was sorry he flipped out and we talked in depth about our feelings surrounding the whole thing. Then the retard says "Oh it just makes my (penis) dick throb to think that you are having twins by me"

WTF! This guy is nutz! I can't keep up with his freakin changes. I haven't talked to him since last night & I figured when he is ready to talk then he'll call or come see me. I would be lying if I said I didn't still love him and want to be with him, meet his other children and be a part of their life as they are a part of mine...but I don't want to be with someone who only loves me conditionally. I live for giving people the benefit of the doubt, but when do you stop? I don't want to give up on him where so many other people have because I understand him a bit more now. I SWEAR he says all the stuff the other Pisces say about themselves...Picking up on other peoples bad vibes and trying to please everyone. I wonder if he is reading this DXP NET posts!

I am just going to take it one day at a time though because I can't get upset like I was last night, and I can't allow him to stress me out. I have two other people depending on me. Any comments or opinions are welcome but I was mostly just venting...I really do love the guy but I don't know what to do with him!

Cancerlady

Oh yeah...

Why does he resent me for my college degree? It really hurts my feelings because I am NOT a snob and I have NEVER thrown it in his face. He is not the only BF I had that does that. Why can't men appreciate a strong woman?

CL

Strong cancerlady, smart AND pregant. He's got too much to compete with now! You can't get tougher than that.

You are not a strong woman C-lady

You are just lovely..!

But hell you haven't met the real man.. yet..!

PHISHes..—. LOL..!

WTF!!!! He is ah head case cancerlady,lol. Me done gave my advice about him,personally. He lieing again,agaiiiin. I know Pisces are freaky and all,talking about throbbing member and all but yeessssh,you having his kids and u being pregnant making his pecker boil blood,lol. I know I know this serious but this man i feel jus there to make babies,aka shoot his load off. I aint gonna defend his actions when he said that he has a right to change his mind since u changed urs about u having the babies. The point is you gonna have dem wether he likes it or not. Lemme ask this question have u asked him if he loves you cancerlady,do not put undue stress on ur life,u a grown woman. And if he serious about u then he should jus settle on u. So when u getting the baby shower,dat should be closer to the due date or before?

Most beautiful creatures in this world are pregnant women... honestly?!!

I can imagine your belly 80 cm in front of you and your hands behind you to supporting your back?. "Complaining about how heavy your belly is"?! And cursing their "father"?

I remember when my kids were born and my Ex... Cursing me even when I cut that (navel cord of our baby)? that was funniest and most exciting time I have ever had in my life, for I what I remember , I was to on my way to kill that doctor? (Because she couldn?t silence my ex and her coursings... Lmao)?.!


Kidding you lady?. "I am father you know and worst? an observer too".

Wish you luck lady with those babies? be proud... and remember many will envy you.
🙂

Cancerlady,

Come on girl, I know this guy's the father of your babies and sh!t but you gotta get him out of your life or at least your love life. It ain't a Pisces thing, the guy's just a dick in the true sense of the word.

Honey, if you got any self respect at all. You must be strong and fcuk him off.
And as far as letting everyone think you don't know who the father and you looking like the slut, don't you dare!! It's not your fault their dad was a bum. You can hold your head high knowing you did everything to keep him in their lives.

One more thing lady...

Pregnancy is something that always will be "exciting" because of its nature..! Some may take it as it comes.. some may refuse to accept it ? perhaps their father need some "serious talk"?. Things are different in our perspectives? when we meet the serious and ULTIMATE challenge..!

Talk with him lady.. or? make someone (serious enough "to talk with him")? and please? don?t lose your integrity? it will be difficult times?! And be prepared for that..!!

Again? wish you good luck..!!

To me... You are not honey or sweetie... you a re a responsible woman and I urge you to be responsible..!!

How many times you might go and hide somewhere? because of "you can not handle"?!!... don?t fukc and don?t stay behind lady?. stay in front and fight for your cause..!

Specially make that man of yours "responsible" for those babies? it is one of those women "tasks".. ask any mother? they will show you how and what..!

dont lose it lady...

Q,bj and daemon have alot of good points from MALE perspectives,hes a punk.I wouldn't cover for him of course wouldn't mention it unless they(the kids) asked either.Put your foot down more if it don't work remind him and yourself that maybe theres a good guy somewhere around the corner that can provide you and the babies a better version of a daddy.Sometimes those latter mentioned situations are best in thier(children) early developement stages over honesty.The honesty part can come when thier older and more likely to understand it better without the kid thinking it's thier fault or anything.

Tiamat..

I am not judging anyone... and I wont let myself into a position like this? as I've said lady?. people and their perspective are different.. you see the C-lady post?.?? Have you seen his P-man post..??

NO..??

Ah?. How classic..! I am not saying C-lady say something that is not true? but? how about her P-Man.. and his version of story..??.... remember?. I always see both side of the coin..!

Your judgments about her situations are correct and admirable.. but what about the other side..??

I am not a HARSH Virgo after all..!! (don?t worry? nothing is wrong with me) but sometimes I need to be realistic (my version of the reality) there are many?lol

Gee Qbone, that's an interesting conversation you're having with yourself.

Have fun Sweetie.

Or was that Honey?

How patronizing you can come across sometimes!!

Bj

I wasn't patronizing with those words..! you've got it wrong all the way..!!

It was a simple suggestion to a friend in difficult times....!! I will suggest the same again for anyone if they need "mental helps"—. if it is possible..!!

Kill him, smack him, destroy him, Forget him, leave him?. They are not exactly what I call it as "help" in my vocabulary?.!

Reminding you that she is in love with that man? respect it and help her to change her perspective about the man she love and her situation?"circumstances are not in her favour" that?s all, why you guys going the other way "as always"..??

If you can't see this, then?? leave it alone?!

Wait does da P_man post here,lol.Well i'll be a gorsh darn drunken chicken,lol.

Not me.

And other important thing is.... "sweetie" or "Honey" or HUN.. or what ever? those words are "patronising words"..!

They are not a sweet talk? but they are words that "underestimating" your addressee..!!

You know what I mean..

I am patronizing (now)? sweet words.. are for stupid people that (believing on those)?. Try to change my attitude about it?!!

Only the grave can straighten a huchbacked person...

Torture seat do the same (and faster)? try it sometimes..!

Well, I didn't know that torture seating can change the way people interprete things...

you need to try it...! it will help..!!

Q...

I thank you so much for being who you are...Everyone Tiamat, BJ, and Daemon...You have EXCELLENT points but I think Q understands where I am coming from most because of these statements...

Ah?. How classic..! I am not saying C-lady say something that is not true? but? how about her P-Man.. and his version of story..??.... remember?. I always see both side of the coin..!

Some may take it as it comes.. some may refuse to accept it ? perhaps their father need some "serious talk"?. Things are different in our perspectives? when we meet the serious and ULTIMATE challenge..!

Specially make that man of yours "responsible" for those babies? it is one of those women "tasks".. ask any mother? they will show you how and what..!

Kill him, smack him, destroy him, Forget him, leave him?. They are not exactly what I call it as "help" in my vocabulary?.!

Reminding you that she is in love with that man? respect it and help her to change her perspective about the man she love and her situation?"circumstances are not in her favour" that?s all

These are wise words because he is right...I sometimes (especially being a Cancer) do make things seem like I am always the good guy & he is the bad. I mean he has done alot of crazy things to me, but I have also (Ha Ha Ha, oral sex... 😛 ) Anyway...sometimes I feel stupid for always giving people the benefit of the doubt, but as somebody...I can't remember who said...I can't have all that extra stress in my life now because I have two people who will be totally dependant on me.

Now I am taking it one day at a time with the babies and as far as him...If he can get his act together there will always be room for him in MY life but if not, C ya later!

CL/M2

I have a little pooch guys!

When I get a bit bigger, I will take pic & post them...

CL

wow CL/M2
its been a while!! Im excited for you!! congratulations I hope your having a boy and girl!!

Ahhhh C. Lady... thank you for your attention?

You take care of yourself lady and stay tune? having babies are not a simple task..

Still saying? talk to their father and convince him that he is part of the life that have been created..

It is not anyone fault and it is not a disaster?. This is life and this is nature?. "the way it was and it is? always"

Accept it with joy and respect it?.!

Qbone:
And other important thing is.... "sweetie" or "Honey" or HUN.. or what ever? those words are "patronising words"..!

They are not a sweet talk? but they are words that "underestimating" your addressee..!!

I am patronizing (now)? sweet words.. are for stupid people that (believing on those)?. Try to change my attitude about it?!!

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Qbone,
These words are only patronizing if you use them in that way. I have been called these words many times and have not felt patronized. Some people like to use them as terms of endearment. Fancy that!!

underestimating— I'm not estimating anything. Sweet words aren't for stupid people, they're for nice, loving, caring people.

Or maybe it's just a case of me overestimating some people.

Cancerlady,

I hope you weren't offended by me calling you Honey. I certainly didn't mean it in a patronizing way as I'm sure you know. And I hope whatever you decide to do, that it works out best for you and your babies. Only you know in your heart of hearts what's right for you. Not a bunch of dumb ass' who you've never even met in the flesh.

BJ...

If you'll notice...I tend to call people sweetie sometimes too, so no I took no offense to it. That was between you, Q, and whoever else.

Q!

OMG! Last night Mr. Pisces called me and he was being SO SWEET! He was all like we need to sit down and talk about the babies and the roles that both of us are going to play in their lives.

I mean we were talking again like normal...no heated arguments (we have rarely had knock-down drag out screaming matches) And he was all like how are you doing, how are you feeling? I think he may just be starting to warm up to the idea...I know telling him the news, not to mention the WAY I told him was a big shocker and he just needed time to process.

Whatever the case...He is supposed to be back in town tonight and we are going to see each other. I don't know what to expect, but I am glad he is no longer being mean and he actually referred to them as "the babies" which may seem trivial but before he kept referring to them as a "situation" I think it is a big step in the right direction.

I know he wants to be with me still, otherwise he would have been gone. I think he may just be scared because of his experiences with his other children's mothers not to mention his own. He was letting me in on some of the things that happened but I keep trying to tell him that I am not them! We'll see but thanks for the support everyone!

Me & the peanuts are doing just fine and I'm getting some nookie tonight!

All is good in Gotham City................FOR NOW

CL/M2

Not a bunch of dumb ass' who you've never even met in the flesh.

I disagree with this statement...noone on here is a dumb ass...a little wacko, yes. Dumbass NO!

We're back on track, seems things may be getting back to normal.

YEAH! My pisces man came back to me! I really can't bring up the baby that much because he starts looking all sad and distant. But last night...WHOOOOO! Rug Burns on my forehead, knees, toenails...

But this morning I showed him the ultrasound and he didn't even want to touch it. I think he may still be in denial/shock because he kept saying he thought the "babies" part of his life was pretty much done. He said he is not angry or regretful, just disappointed. When I said I was happy, he was like No you're not...Deep down you are not.

The thing is though, after the shock wore off, I found myself very excited

1. Because I do love him and any child created out of love is extra special.
2. I have done enough "partying" and traveling to last me for a while...maybe it's
time for me to settle down a bit.
3. These children have given me focus and inspiration to improve myself already...how
can I not appreciate that?

I may have to move to Indiana for a while especially when they are younger, but I think that it is all worth it!

CL

Wacko?Huh?Oooh you mean that branh guy,yeah he's a kook,don't know about him sometimes....Sad part about that is there's only been one time i've had alcohol in my system while posting here,even then it was only two girly wine cooler things that don't have alot of alcohol in them.(yes branh it's a joke if reading;your a target for being the most normal sometimes)

One thing about pisces men that never fails to shock me...they are the most sexual and passionate men..they hate wearing condoms but have the nerve to be shocked and upset when they get a woman pregnant!!
I am dating a pisces now and he has 5 possibly 6 childen by four women. The 6th child is a maybe. He needs a DNA test. He is the best man in the world and the best father I have ever seen. However when I am sick in anyway his first question is "Are you pregnant?" Its like he dreads it but also hopes it happens too. Psycho!!

CL..I pray he stops the behavior hes showing now. What kinda crap is it that hes supposed to want the babies but won't touch the ultrasound—!!!! Thats sick and twisted. I really hope he pulls it together for you and the peanuts sake. Its not fair for him to be on one minute and off the next. Especially in your delicate position. Stress is not an option!!

For all those interested

I went to the doctor today...She said I'm very healthy, the babies are in their own sacs but this doesn't determine whether they are fraternal or identical...I would like to have a boy & a girl...that way I can be through with it! But if not, I would rather have twin boys because I grew up in a house with 4 women & 1 man....Can I get some testosterone in my life!

Otherwise, the peanuts are fine!

CL/CM2

Okay will do Cancerlady. Now when u pass the 9 month mark u gonna land dem suckers in and have one joyful look on ur face.Makes me sooooo happy ,imma cry now,lol.

Congrats Mommy 2 Be!!

Hey? baby girls are sweetest I know..

Great to hear that C-lady.. stay on healthy life style ?. Your life is not your own anymore 🙂

One of the greatest things I know is to cut the cord between mom wombs and baby?. It's an honour that very few men ever going experience it..! start talking to your man about it and prepare his mind for it?

I wasn?t prepared for the first time.. so I was going to kill that doctor instead.

Great experience?!!
good luck C-lady

Daemon You are CRAZY! I'm happy already...I really LOVE children AND babies. Well not 6 year olds...they are obnoxious!

Thanks KocoaHauntis...I really LOVE your name! So original...

Q....OF COURSE I am going to stay healthy...As far as Mr. Pisces...I hope he is even there! You freaked out in the delivery room? LOL I bet that was funny!

Next Dr. appt. on September 9th...I'll keep everyone posted. This is like my baby diary LOL

CL