ok so theres a cancer guy I know and fancy. hes typical for his sign....laid back, indirect and total opposite to me (aries) even tho im on the cusp of pisces so im not so brash as some aries.
anyways im going to a gig this weekend, and his band is going to be playing. he invited me to it so he knows im going and he said hes looking forward to having a drink (with me).
so how can I catch cancer guys attention? i want to make a good impression because we dont get many chances to hang out together.
so what do cancers like in a woman? what catches their eyes? apart from boobs iv already heard of that
so weird about the boob thing. my first cancer boyfriend was definitely into boobs but the cancer guy after me now is enamored with my face. he looks me directly in the eye all the time and always looks completely floored or like a kid in a candy store. anyway, i can only give u what i know from experience. i'm a leo btw.
the cancer guy that's after me now seems to dig my intelligence, thinks i'm beautiful, loves my business sense, and adores me for how sweet i am. i've baked him cookies before so that was a big hit. leos and cancers love food! he's a musician in a band, like urs is, and he always looks at me to see if i'm watching him and paying attention. cancers want to feel special and want to be supported, nurtured, and encouraged by their woman. they love to be pampered and babied if u will. uh, kinda like a mom would be. every cancer i have ever known is super close to their family... particularly their mom and sisters if they have any. this is where i think it is somewhat of a disaster for a cancer and aries to get together. a leo is more than happy to play this role (our philosophy stands as this: if u treat us well, we will treat u even better). every aries i know are incredibly aggressive, love a challenge, and are in-ur-face kinda ppl. this will usually make a cancer run and hide. don't get me wrong, i think they appreciate some feistiness (at least the one who likes me does) but aries tends to cross that line.
here's what i do. i dress however i want to for whatever mood i'm in. i also make sure whatever i'm wearing flatters my figure and accentuates the right areas. i'm genuine when i talk and it seems my cancer is attracted to my being real. i'm very touchy-feely with him and he LOVES it. he will literally let me hug on him and hang on him the entire time we're out. he seems proud to be seen with me. he wants to show me off. i have a strong tomboy-ish streak but i embrace my femininity. i often express my feelings and show how loving i am. i am playful, feisty, and independent yet soft and warm. i'm a total lover. then again, this is just who I am. he likes me for me. i've never tried to impress him nor anyone else. i am confident and comfortable with who i am as a person and a woman. u should be too and i think u'll be ok!
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anyways im going to a gig this weekend, and his band is going to be playing. he invited me to it so he knows im going and he said hes looking forward to having a drink (with me).
so how can I catch cancer guys attention?
i want to make a good impression because we dont get many chances to hang out together.
so what do cancers like in a woman?
what catches their eyes? apart from boobs iv already heard of that
thanks