Very confused with Cancer man!!!

I met a cancer guy (30 june) almost a month ago. 1st date was great. He did most of the talking. We both come from the same background but i dont speak the language (I understand it though).

Im a Taurus (26th April). I obviously love expressing my feelings and like to talk all day.

I have never ever been in a situation where a guy is hot and cold. We met last week and we cuddled and kissed (didnt sleep with eachother) as i thought it was too fast for now and i want to get to know him better.

right now, my question is, i know cancer men like to be alone. He has been sending me short messages and I am just confused of what he wants from me. He can go for almost 3 days of not talking and then sends me a message. Im not that type of girl who is wait for too long.

Should i send a message to express my feelings towards him as i like him or should i just leave it up to him?

Lots of love!!

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Ignore him...I wouldn't even acknowledge his existence. How do u girls cope with such inconsistencies, that's crazy.

Have you guys talked about being in a relationship or anything? I guess for me, if its only been a couple of dates and only kissing then, we don't need to talk everyday. But once we decide we are a couple, then I expect regular (ie: daily, special circumstance apply of course, but because of said communication - I know about them ahead of time) communication - maybe you just need to clarify with him what your expectations are and what his are. No reason wasting time on him, if y'all aren't on the same page and aren't going to be.

Namy, honestly it is easier said than being done. Being a taurus, it is very hard to let know not knowing what is other persons feelings.


TaurusinTexas: His replies are very affectionate. He is a Pilot and i know he is usually working but it takes a min or so to reply back to my text/whatsapp.

Anyways you are right, i will speak to him about what im looking for and see what his response is.

Will keep you posted!

Another First decan Taurus in the house. Welcome good luck. .

Thank you all for the comments.

I will be sending him a whatsapp msg sooner or later. I will wait for few more days to see if he sends msg and im going to be busy with work anyway.

Last time he did check up on me when i was sick (one word questions though with either 'babe' or 'baby').

Ignored him for 3 days and then he msged.

I have never been in this situation. I have to be strong and face the truth i guess.

Another cancer man at work told me to tell my feelings and either ways it is good or bad.

Posted by Namy
Ignore him...I wouldn't even acknowledge his existence. How do u girls cope with such inconsistencies, that's crazy.

@Taurus1122, listen to her! She's right!

Posted by Taurus1122
Thank you all for the comments.

I will be sending him a whatsapp msg sooner or later. I will wait for few more days to see if he sends msg and im going to be busy with work anyway.

Last time he did check up on me when i was sick (one word questions though with either 'babe' or 'baby').

Ignored him for 3 days and then he msged.

I have never been in this situation. I have to be strong and face the truth i guess.

Another cancer man at work told me to tell my feelings and either ways it is good or bad.

Girl... I wish you didn't repeat my mistakes with cancer men.... But you're Taurus. Until you burn yourself - you won't listen.
If cancer isn't there wanting relationship with you, whatever you do will be in vain. Te moment he chooses you, YOU WILL KNOW. I wouldn't do anything but a short impersonal polite answer when HE CONTACTS until he does move things forward.

Posted by HouseCleaning
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whaha made my day! 😄

Just an update for all.

I did see him 2 days ago and everything was perfect until he told me he slept with a cabin crew 5 months ago.

Before we got to know eachother, I remember him saying something like 'i dont shit where i eat' and being a typical taurus, i trusted him.

I know it happened he got to know me, the trust is all gone.

We didnt talk for 2 nights and i finally had some balls to send him a msg telling him what i didnt like and if he is only looking for a bootycall then we shouldnt see eachother. He didnt reply back. SO i did get my answer.

I feel so much better now though. I rejected him and what he wanted and i know cancers hate it.

This was my hardest 1 month of 2016. Deep inside i wish he would have fought with me to keep me in his life and carried along as i really did like him and wanted to be with him. but again im glad it is done.

Cheers!

'I dont shit where i eat'*****