What are these people trying to tell me?

I'm a Cancer/Cap/Virgo woman dating a Libra/Scorp/Gem man since September.

I've had doubts about his fidelity. He actually asked if I was stepping out and told him no. I asked him the same, he said no.

I have had no less than three of HIS friends ask me the same question: "Is so and so treating you well?"

There's a big age difference I'm in my late 20s and he in his mid 50s. I have quite a few indicators of a suspicious mind in my chart: Mercury Square Pluto, Pluto in the 3rd house and my sun in the Pluto ruled 2nd decan of cancer.

I'm trying to understand the underlying message in his friends' line of inquiry. Are they trying to make small talk or are they hinting that the Libra is doing something shady?

I love Libra men but I find them to have issues with being faithful.
It's possible that with you being a much younger emotional Cancer girl that he will not feeling the mental stimulation that he craves.

You know it. I love to call him Big Papa ; ) With all my Cappy and Saturn (Cap moon/venus opp saturn/moon trine venus) energy, I'll probably end up with someone much older anyway. Honestly, I think the age thing is a bigger deal to him than it is to me.

Posted by LunarMaiden
I love Libra men but I find them to have issues with being faithful.
It's possible that with you being a much younger emotional Cancer girl that he will not feeling the mental stimulation that he craves.

That's a good read, Lunar Maiden. Thank you. I've thought about the mental stimulation piece. I love talking about literature, art, books, cultural criticism and the like. But I find these things are more surface enjoyment for him and I much prefer deeper analysis. I think he would prefer if I opened my emotions to him more.

Posted by CreativeCEO

Posted by LunarMaiden
I love Libra men but I find them to have issues with being faithful.
It's possible that with you being a much younger emotional Cancer girl that he will not feeling the mental stimulation that he craves.

That's a good read, Lunar Maiden. Thank you. I've thought about the mental stimulation piece. I love talking about literature, art, books, cultural criticism and the like. But I find these things are more surface enjoyment for him and I much prefer deeper analysis. I think he would prefer if I opened my emotions to him more.

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Do what' natural for you.
I read that Libra men are actually attracted to the moods of Cancer women.
But the point is to find the right person for you, not the guy who thinks you are someone else.
Good luck.