What to expect??

About a month ago i met a wonderful Cancer man. he was everything i look for in a man. we met at school *college* and became friends rather quickly. this surprised me as he was only going to be there for the next three weeks and then he was off to England. Im currently separating from my husband, so to meet a special friend was a little disconcerning.
At first he ignored me, only saying "hi" and then one day he sat with my in our computer Lab and literally never left my side after, unless i went to lunch with my friends. He only ever wanted to talk to me by myself.
Well on the last weekend after school was over for him, I still have two months, i asked him to go hang out with me outside of school, just as friends, b/c i knew nothing would ever come of this. As much as i wanted it to. well he said that he would phone me and let me know. he didn't. but on the sunday he sent me an e-mail apologizing. so i forgave him, things happen. so i sent him an e-mail back. Haven't heard from him since—? i phoned his place one day twice b/c the teacher wanted him to know his final class mark before he left for england. i missed him each time by about ten minutes. he didn't phone me back. 😢

It's been three weeks now. I can only assume that he's in England now. I mean i really cared about him a lot. i thought that he was at least my friend. yes im still married, but were in the midst of separating. i guess im just confused. should i hope for an e-mail someday?? or did i get played—

i figured i'd post here in the Cancer board and see what you thought of my situation. i've actually left out a lot of detail, mostly b/c i didn't want to make this post gigantic. by the way im a Virgo/Libra cusp, more Virgo than Libra. i'd appreciate any comments. be gentle, im new here 🙂

Thank-you CancerBuddy for respoding. i agree with you about a Cancer suddenly sevoring the relationship, i know quite a few Cancer ppl *women and men* and this was a shock to me. As far as i can remember i was really good to him. With the intamacy thing, we got close physically in class, touching hands, getting really close when answering each others question *we sat beside each other*, sometimes we'd hug each other good-bye. my best friend from school *who is also cancer by the way* noticed that we seemed really close. we never got the chance to see each other outside of class. They're was something about this man— some connection i couldn't describe. the way he talked to me, they way he'd look at me, the way he'd only take his breaks with me and would have an extra smoke just to beable to stay on break longer. i fell so hard and so fast for him, and i DONT do that. i'm not sure that he felt the same way about me. i could have just projected my feelings on to him, but he didn't seem to be the way he was with me with anyone else. im not sure what to do, or think about this whole situation. Sorry dont want this post to be too long. i hope i've shed some light on your questions. if you have any more questions ask away.

sorry for the late reply. things got hectic for me.
i agree for you about getting into a person's head, heart and soul. i feel as though im greiving b/c he's gone. in answer to some of your questions, i thought he trusted me? he told me many things about himself, his past, his dreams, how he felt about certain issues. so i can only think that there was a trust between us, and as far as i know i hadn't broken that trust. About him being afraid of getting hurt b/c im still married, yes i believe that has played a big factor in this situation. i knew that we couldn't take the relationship to next level while i'm married. My husband still cares about me a lot, and im not bout to add salt to his wounds by starting a new realtionship while were still married. plus i knew that He*Cancerman* was moving to England for 10 months. i'm just so hurt that he didn't even want to stay friends, and that he broke his promise to me to keep in touch. maybe im just being selfish. oh well nothing i can do now but try to forget about him. i have to try to move on from this, as i haven't heard from him in over a month, and i probably wont. Thank-you CancerBuddy for taking the time to respond.
i did read all about your heartbreak. that was very sad what happened to you, and the guy who did it to you is an A*ss for doing it. i know as a half Virgo *cusp child* i sometimes having a hard time letting go of past loves. but have never contacted them, especially after being hurt by them, or hurting them. any more questions just ask away, about anything. no problem with babbling, i do it all the time. 🙂
lots of luv & luck to you
-Sora