Whats this cancer man up to? Hot/cold friendship

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by firefis1996 on Wednesday, September 7, 2016 and has 2 replies.

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@firefis1996
10 Years

hes 24. Im 20.

his venus is also in cancer lol.

This cancer man I've been sexually friends with for a couple years has started to "date/see" another girl in the last couple months. Yet at the same time when him and her 'became' a thing, he was still talking to me and staring at me etc. I also noticed the past 6 months he was getting shy around me etc.

This girls a leo. I'm a pisces. Me and this man click really really well in person. Yet He knows i've always had other guy friends around (we're not exclusive). Lately his behaviour has been really strange towards me.

While I was in Europe (ahem, he was already seeing this other girl) he was messaging me teasing etc, asking how my trip was.

Now when I just got back about a month ago, he doesn't even acknowledge my presence (walks right past me). Yet the other day he came into my work and was full on flirting with me.

Why is this cancer man acting happy one minute then rude the next?

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@CalmCrab22
10 YearsCancer

I normally act like that when I use someone that I can't stand. If I know I'll need them in the near future I'll try to give them a glimmer of hope. I'll keep in contact a bit longer then I'll disappear like a mirage.

Not saying that's your case but I've never done it any other time. I can promise you can men are much more fickle. I'm interested to know the answer tho