When to give it up...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by pr_princess on Thursday, June 9, 2011 and has 4 replies.

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@Rosepetals
15 Years

No, you should NOT have sex with him just because you feel the pressure coming on from him!!! If he truly cares for you and is truly interested in having a relationship - he will be respectful in your timing and will be patient.
And besides, a month is still way too early in my opinion!

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@PiscesFebFish
15 Years

I think the main goal should be to do what you feel regardless of the outcome. If you want to rip his clothes off after two dates-do so. If you want to wait until after the fifth date-thats fine as well. In my experience with Cancer men, either choice will not matter if they want to be with you. Also, as with life in general; people will stay or leave at their own discretion.

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@pr_princess
18 Years

Do cancer have a jealousy streak? Or do they hide it? I was with my cancer and this guy I used to date long time ago called and he saw him call... twice... but didn't say anything.

hmmmm

Posted by wineaux
sex can be such an emotional experience with a cancer...they don't (typically) take it lightly. he's already expressed taking it to the next level with you. do what you feel is right...if you want to rip his clothes off, do it. if you think he's pressuring you into something you're not quite ready for, wait. i think you'll know exactly what to do when the time comes. 😉 it WILL be hot. hehehehhee.

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@pr_princess
18 Years

if I saw a girl call him I wouldn't say anything.. not at the stage to be interrogative. I saw him look at the phone that's how.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
How do you know he saw the calls if he didn't say anything ?
I think most people who do care say something, regardless of how they spit it out.
Unless you're psychic I guess.