why didnt he just tell me?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by poeticsounds on Thursday, June 21, 2007 and has 5 replies.

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@poeticsounds
19 Years

its finally dawned on me the cancer has had a girl he was seeing, but was on limbo about the situation between us, because of certain reasons...he wanted to keep my interest and my love, but couldnt be honest, he even tried to see me yesterday...but I know he has a gf, esp after looking at his my myspace....WHY COULDNT HE JUST BE HONEST? cancers are jerkoffs.

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@krobe03
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Well, I think he showed alot of signs from your previous posts anyways. Sorry! He gave U signs. That should have keep you moving on your way.

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@tiki33
20 Years10,000+ Posts

no they aren't jerkoffs, its jus women tend to not pay attention to the signs or even know what the signs are (including myself), a mans attraction for a woman isn't constant so there will be times were he will slack off and find something he's more attracted to, this sounds harsh and I'm not saying your unattractive by no means but this is the number 1 reason why a man will cheat, there is something missing in the relationship. He found someone who was more challenging and honestly he will do it to her too so why worry about it, he will soon get whats coming to him...trust that.