Why do Cancerians over analyse everything! (Page 2)

Oh and you're welcome on the avatar thing.

There's other Cancers out there, and this one doesn't seem to be reciprocating. Personally speaking, the Cancer/Scorpio combo is my favorite (haven't dated a Cancer, yet, so can't compare).

Friended you(or Favorited). And thanks. Yeah, I have a thing for Cancer women for sure. I dated one, pen pal one right now, who knows!? I guess it's a natural attraction thing. Idk. I've never dated a female Scorpion, but I don't know if I ever would though. Too much competition of who could out do who. Who could love more than who? Who could be more passionate than who? Who could be more better in bed than who? You know? I know there other Cancer women out there. They're good women. And thanks again.

I think same sign pairings can work out great, but the vast majority I've seen always seem more sibling like in their energy. What I've seen between Cancer/Scorpio is generally a lot of comfort/understanding, similarities, but the differences usually mesh nicely. Scorpios ground me without drying up the passion, and they're not afraid of the emotional aspect. Favorited you back 😉

Help him catch a crab, MoonArtist!!

Kim, I should set up a Crab Connection service lol

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Kim, I should set up a Crab Connection service lol

Yes! Yes! Yes!

What should the criteria be for clients? The millionaire matchmaker doesn't hook up just anybody. Why should you?

My moon is in the 8th house, Im doomed 😢 I will forever be AWARE. When I ask questions its usually not for answers, just confirmation to what I already knew. *shrugs*

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Kim, I should set up a Crab Connection service lol

Yes! Yes! Yes!

What should the criteria be for clients? The millionaire matchmaker doesn't hook up just anybody. Why should you?

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Scorpios!!! Of Course.

Posted by CancerrifiC
My moon is in the 8th house, Im doomed 😢 I will forever be AWARE. When I ask questions its usually not for answers, just confirmation to what I already knew. *shrugs*

*Gives her a hug*

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Posted by MoonArtist
Kim, I should set up a Crab Connection service lol

Yes! Yes! Yes!

What should the criteria be for clients? The millionaire matchmaker doesn't hook up just anybody. Why should you?

Scorpios!!! Of Course.

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knew that was coming.

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Posted by CancerrifiC
My moon is in the 8th house, Im doomed 😢 I will forever be AWARE. When I ask questions its usually not for answers, just confirmation to what I already knew. *shrugs*

*Gives her a hug*

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*Takes hug* I just looooovvvvvve cyber hugs! lol 🙂 Im happy again!

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Posted by MoonArtist
Kim, I should set up a Crab Connection service lol

Yes! Yes! Yes!

What should the criteria be for clients? The millionaire matchmaker doesn't hook up just anybody. Why should you?

Scorpios!!! Of Course.

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Scorpios, for sure! That's at the top of the list. They have to be evolved, though, but so do the crabs. Maybe a natal chart comparison to make sure the right components match up.

Yeah, I left my full chart out of my profile because I thought it wasn't needed. That being said, if anyone does want to see my full chart, then yeah I could email it or something. I don't think I'll put it up on a public forum. Too much personal info. You know how we Scorpios are about our privacy. 😉

Okay people. To keep this article going a little bit longer, she's finally written me back and it feels like she's ripping my heart out. That's a new one on me and I'm confused as to what to do. I care about her a lot. But we were in the middle a discussion and she doesn't write me for over a week and now she writes back wondering why I haven't written her, when I made it plain as day that I told her to write ME back and now getting away from her as far as possible is something I like thinking about atm. I don't like thinking that way about her. I've known her for awhile and me and her have history. That's as far as I'm going on a public forum. So what to do you think? I don't want you to think she's a bad person, because she's not. I just don't understand why she didn't understand my last e-mail to her. I wrote her back and told her again that I would like her to write me back. So, again, what do you think?

Posted by SilverScorpio
Yeah, I left my full chart out of my profile because I thought it wasn't needed. That being said, if anyone does want to see my full chart, then yeah I could email it or something. I don't think I'll put it up on a public forum. Too much personal info. You know how we Scorpios are about our privacy. 😉

Oh yeah, I know. It's probably locked up at Roswell or something. lol

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Okay people. To keep this article going a little bit longer, she's finally written me back and it feels like she's ripping my heart out. That's a new one on me and I'm confused as to what to do. I care about her a lot. But we were in the middle a discussion and she doesn't write me for over a week and now she writes back wondering why I haven't written her, when I made it plain as day that I told her to write ME back and now getting away from her as far as possible is something I like thinking about atm. I don't like thinking that way about her. I've known her for awhile and me and her have history. That's as far as I'm going on a public forum. So what to do you think? I don't want you to think she's a bad person, because she's not. I just don't understand why she didn't understand my last e-mail to her. I wrote her back and told her again that I would like her to write me back. So, again, what do you think?

Is it possible she didn't actually get your email and thought you were ignoring her? Strange, I know, but I've had horrid issues with my cell phone not giving me text or missed calls, or sometimes I won't get them until a month later.

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Okay people. To keep this article going a little bit longer, she's finally written me back and it feels like she's ripping my heart out. That's a new one on me and I'm confused as to what to do. I care about her a lot. But we were in the middle a discussion and she doesn't write me for over a week and now she writes back wondering why I haven't written her, when I made it plain as day that I told her to write ME back and now getting away from her as far as possible is something I like thinking about atm. I don't like thinking that way about her. I've known her for awhile and me and her have history. That's as far as I'm going on a public forum. So what to do you think? I don't want you to think she's a bad person, because she's not. I just don't understand why she didn't understand my last e-mail to her. I wrote her back and told her again that I would like her to write me back. So, again, what do you think?

Is it possible she didn't actually get your email and thought you were ignoring her? Strange, I know, but I've had horrid issues with my cell phone not giving me text or missed calls, or sometimes I won't get them until a month later.

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I don't believe it, but I suppose it's possible. I hadn't even actually considered that. That maybe it, but we've never really lost an e-mail between us, so this would be a surprise. A welcome one at that, but we've always been able to respond to one another. So I'll wait it out and see if you're right. And maybe you are. But thanks for being there. 🙂

Well, it never hurts to leave some wiggle room for possible malfunctions. It makes me positively itch when I find out I didn't receive texts, or people didn't get mine. I hate that!

P.S. On my last response to you MoonArtist: It's been rough. Thanks again.

You're welcome, and I know. Relationships, especially long distance ones, are hard.

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Yeah, I left my full chart out of my profile because I thought it wasn't needed. That being said, if anyone does want to see my full chart, then yeah I could email it or something. I don't think I'll put it up on a public forum. Too much personal info. You know how we Scorpios are about our privacy. 😉

Oh yeah, I know. It's probably locked up at Roswell or something. lol

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Do people really say we're THAT secretive? I mean we are but that's besides the point. 🙂

Not exactly.

Because I seem to be the only person in the world who doesn't have a cell phone and she lives a long ways away(to catch you up).

Yes, I have a landline and yes she does too. But there is no way I'm calling to somewhere that far away. We talked about skyping together, but she hasn't made a decision yet whether she wants to or not. She was on-board with the idea, but like I said, she hasn't made a decision yet. Why are you pushing this so hard?

Yeah, alright. I just didn't like pointed questions. I guess that's what I don't like pushy women. Anyway, if you have any input, I'd like to hear it. I basically opened it up so that everyone can have some input. So what do you think?

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Yeah, I left my full chart out of my profile because I thought it wasn't needed. That being said, if anyone does want to see my full chart, then yeah I could email it or something. I don't think I'll put it up on a public forum. Too much personal info. You know how we Scorpios are about our privacy. 😉

Oh yeah, I know. It's probably locked up at Roswell or something. lol

Do people really say we're THAT secretive? I mean we are but that's besides the point. 🙂

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We rarely say it...we all know it, though. lol

Posted by Koniucha
Well, I think that she is not that in to you. If she was, she would make an effort to talk to you. You said you aren't going to call somewhere so far away and she can't even decide if she wants to Skype you.

I am just a very black and white person when it comes to a relationship. You either want to be with me or no.

So asking a specific question makes me pushy? Lol...

"I am just a very black and white person when it comes to a relationship. You either want to be with me or no." I think I may have said that almost verbatim elsewhere in this thread. You sound like me. She's either with me or she's out. Asking specific questions isn't what was pushy. What was pushy was that it I felt you were getting a little too personal. I'm only going to share so much on a public forum. Being that as it may, no. I don't think you're being negative. Actually, I think you're trying to help. You're a Scorpio, so you know how we feel about getting poked and prodded. Having said THAT, I wanted to say thanks as well. Like I said, I think you're trying to help. She sounded like she was really into the skyping idea. I was and have been, waiting for her to give the okay to skype.

It's hard to say without really knowing her. Yeah, she's a Cancer, but some Cancers on another thread have said they get scared and go onto their shell when love is involved, and I'm the opposite, I'll latch on like a happy barnacle if it's a mutual feeling.

You could get a prepaid cell phone and see if she's willing to talk on the phone. I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt, but so far she seems to be dodging all avenues of communication, and that's not a good sign.

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Yeah, I left my full chart out of my profile because I thought it wasn't needed. That being said, if anyone does want to see my full chart, then yeah I could email it or something. I don't think I'll put it up on a public forum. Too much personal info. You know how we Scorpios are about our privacy. 😉

Oh yeah, I know. It's probably locked up at Roswell or something. lol

Do people really say we're THAT secretive? I mean we are but that's besides the point. 🙂

We rarely say it...we all know it, though. lol

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Huh. It's funny how people don't just ASK us these things... lol.

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Yeah, I left my full chart out of my profile because I thought it wasn't needed. That being said, if anyone does want to see my full chart, then yeah I could email it or something. I don't think I'll put it up on a public forum. Too much personal info. You know how we Scorpios are about our privacy. 😉

Oh yeah, I know. It's probably locked up at Roswell or something. lol

Do people really say we're THAT secretive? I mean we are but that's besides the point. 🙂

We rarely say it...we all know it, though. lol

Huh. It's funny how people don't just ASK us these things... lol.

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I don't know about the other signs, but for this Cancer it's pretty obvious, so I don't have to ask, I already know. ~sly cat smile~

Posted by MoonArtist
It's hard to say without really knowing her. Yeah, she's a Cancer, but some Cancers on another thread have said they get scared and go onto their shell when love is involved, and I'm the opposite, I'll latch on like a happy barnacle if it's a mutual feeling.

You could get a prepaid cell phone and see if she's willing to talk on the phone. I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt, but so far she seems to be dodging all avenues of communication, and that's not a good sign.

I've never even thought about that. I might give it a try. But she's got to respond to my e-mails in order for her to even know. It sucks that dodging them, doesn't it?

Posted by Koniucha
Well hope it works out for you.

Thanks. I appreciate it.

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It's hard to say without really knowing her. Yeah, she's a Cancer, but some Cancers on another thread have said they get scared and go onto their shell when love is involved, and I'm the opposite, I'll latch on like a happy barnacle if it's a mutual feeling.

You could get a prepaid cell phone and see if she's willing to talk on the phone. I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt, but so far she seems to be dodging all avenues of communication, and that's not a good sign.

I've never even thought about that. I might give it a try. But she's got to respond to my e-mails in order for her to even know. It sucks that dodging them, doesn't it?

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It does suck, and you Scorpios do it, too, especially if you're feeling overwhelmed by your emotional connection to someone, or worse, that connection creates a massive conflict. Then it's the hide under a rock and disappear until you're comfortable again.

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It's hard to say without really knowing her. Yeah, she's a Cancer, but some Cancers on another thread have said they get scared and go onto their shell when love is involved, and I'm the opposite, I'll latch on like a happy barnacle if it's a mutual feeling.

You could get a prepaid cell phone and see if she's willing to talk on the phone. I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt, but so far she seems to be dodging all avenues of communication, and that's not a good sign.

I've never even thought about that. I might give it a try. But she's got to respond to my e-mails in order for her to even know. It sucks that dodging them, doesn't it?

It does suck, and you Scorpios do it, too, especially if you're feeling overwhelmed by your emotional connection to someone, or worse, that connection creates a massive conflict. Then it's the hide under a rock and disappear until you're comfortable again.

See I don't do that I guess that is why I find that behavior very annoying. I am also going to be 34 soon with a child, so ain't nobody got time for that.

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Maybe the men do it. I've seen 2 scorpio men in their 40's do this. Granted, I fully sympathize with having conflicts and all, but I tend to face my emotions dead on and just roll with them.

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It's hard to say without really knowing her. Yeah, she's a Cancer, but some Cancers on another thread have said they get scared and go onto their shell when love is involved, and I'm the opposite, I'll latch on like a happy barnacle if it's a mutual feeling.

You could get a prepaid cell phone and see if she's willing to talk on the phone. I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt, but so far she seems to be dodging all avenues of communication, and that's not a good sign.

I've never even thought about that. I might give it a try. But she's got to respond to my e-mails in order for her to even know. It sucks that dodging them, doesn't it?

It does suck, and you Scorpios do it, too, especially if you're feeling overwhelmed by your emotional connection to someone, or worse, that connection creates a massive conflict. Then it's the hide under a rock and disappear until you're comfortable again.

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Oh! This happened over the summer with a Pisces woman that I really liked. I liked her a lot, but damn if she didn't smother the heck out of me!!! When this happens, we usually go away for awhile and come back renewed. I'm not saying that's right in anyway, but it's the truth none-the-less. So you're right MoonArtist.

Congratulations, Koniucha

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Congratulations, Koniucha

For what?

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Didn't you say you were pregnant?

OH!!! I gotcha. I'm sorry. But congrats anyway! 🙂

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It's hard to say without really knowing her. Yeah, she's a Cancer, but some Cancers on another thread have said they get scared and go onto their shell when love is involved, and I'm the opposite, I'll latch on like a happy barnacle if it's a mutual feeling.

You could get a prepaid cell phone and see if she's willing to talk on the phone. I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt, but so far she seems to be dodging all avenues of communication, and that's not a good sign.

I've never even thought about that. I might give it a try. But she's got to respond to my e-mails in order for her to even know. It sucks that dodging them, doesn't it?

It does suck, and you Scorpios do it, too, especially if you're feeling overwhelmed by your emotional connection to someone, or worse, that connection creates a massive conflict. Then it's the hide under a rock and disappear until you're comfortable again.

Oh! This happened over the summer with a Pisces woman that I really liked. I liked her a lot, but damn if she didn't smother the heck out of me!!! When this happens, we usually go away for awhile and come back renewed. I'm not saying that's right in anyway, but it's the truth none-the-less. So you're right MoonArtist.

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I don't know why people think it's smothering. It's just really intense interest...and focus. lol

Posted by Koniucha
I said I have a child. She is 7 now. But thank you 🙂

My youngest is almost 7 🙂

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It's hard to say without really knowing her. Yeah, she's a Cancer, but some Cancers on another thread have said they get scared and go onto their shell when love is involved, and I'm the opposite, I'll latch on like a happy barnacle if it's a mutual feeling.

You could get a prepaid cell phone and see if she's willing to talk on the phone. I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt, but so far she seems to be dodging all avenues of communication, and that's not a good sign.

I've never even thought about that. I might give it a try. But she's got to respond to my e-mails in order for her to even know. It sucks that dodging them, doesn't it?

It does suck, and you Scorpios do it, too, especially if you're feeling overwhelmed by your emotional connection to someone, or worse, that connection creates a massive conflict. Then it's the hide under a rock and disappear until you're comfortable again.

Oh! This happened over the summer with a Pisces woman that I really liked. I liked her a lot, but damn if she didn't smother the heck out of me!!! When this happens, we usually go away for awhile and come back renewed. I'm not saying that's right in anyway, but it's the truth none-the-less. So you're right MoonArtist.

I don't know why people think it's smothering. It's just really intense interest...and focus. lol

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It's annoying is what it is. I can't stand it. I just want a woman with her own identity, you know? With the Pisces woman, she was just too into me and not enough of her. I'm not a Leo guy. I'm not a complete attention wh***. Sure, I like a lot of it, but too much and I gotta get out.

I'd say it depends on what one considers "smothering".

You're right. Idk. I'm not sure technically. I like attention from her, but a lot times I just want to be left alone. I'm not sure if I'm the "commitment" type. Idk. It's confusing. The right about amount of attention and the right amount of freedom. I not sure where that comes from, maybe my Mars in Aquarius or Moon in Gemini, but Idk.

And by "her" I mean whoever I maybe dating. I hope this doesn't make me a bad person. I just like my freedom.

There's a balance, and I think most mentally healthy people want a certain amount of freedom or alone time. It's essential to recharging yourself, to self-care, and to being introspective and self aware. Needing freedom doesn't make you a bad person.

Thanks MoonArtist. I appreciate it.

I can tell you exactly whats she thinks of you and you alls current situation. Here goes.....she isnt clear about how much you are into her. Why? because you are too defensive about exposing your true feelings a.k.a secretive/indirect. You may think youre being pretty direct with her on letting her know how you feel about her, but she also sees and feels your defense mechanism. With that being said, she retreats. Shes looking for security and reassurance. What makes it really bad is that she may like you but youre not giving her a reason to invest her love time and energy into something so long distance, such as, the cell phone situation. If youre like that with a phone, then how are you gonna be with buying plane tickets if you all get in deeper with each other. Someone has to give in and take control, and you being the man, she's expecting you to do that. You want her to give all or nothing, but are you willing to do the same? Really think about this, and consider is it really worth your time, because once youre in its gonna be harder to get out. Either let her go, or grab her tight and dont let go. When dealing with long distances relationships, there is absolutely no such thing as needing "space" every opportunity to communicate or be with one another should be taken full advantage. Hope this helped and well wishes to you.

Look into Mindfulness.

It has really helped me control the level of batshit my overanalyzing can get to.