@newtothis
6 Years
Cancer and Aries have different emotional needs but can complement each other through mutual understanding and effort. While Aries is energetic and impulsive, Cancer is nurturing and sensitive. Compatibility depends on shared values and communication, and individual charts add unique nuances to the relationship.
Do the signs and placements really matter?
With dating, what matters most is that he likes or doesn't mind whatever bad side you show.
Having the same interests, goals, and values is great. He has lots of water and earth and you have fire and air.
Seems like a match that has potential.
Your moons and how you handle emotions could be an issue but his moon sign can change if you don't have the time right.
With dating, what matters most is that he likes or doesn't mind whatever bad side you show.
Having the same interests, goals, and values is great. He has lots of water and earth and you have fire and air.
Seems like a match that has potential.
Your moons and how you handle emotions could be an issue but his moon sign can change if you don't have the time right.
Thanks! We are well balanced in all four elements. I do not know the time of his birth.
With dating, what matters most is that he likes or doesn't mind whatever bad side you show.
Having the same interests, goals, and values is great. He has lots of water and earth and you have fire and air.
Seems like a match that has potential.
Your moons and how you handle emotions could be an issue but his moon sign can change if you don't have the time right.
Thanks! We are well balanced in all four elements. I do not know the time of his birth.
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Just go for it. At least he enjoys a good chase with his placements. You can be yourself and have some fun.
You have a more masculine chart and him more feminine
Is that okay for you?
You have a more masculine chart and him more feminine
Is that okay for you?
What do you mean by masculine/feminine in a chart? How would that play out?
I think of it this way: if we have a kid, he would be more nurturing, where I would teach the child how to be independent. That type of mentality?
You have a more masculine chart and him more feminine
Is that okay for you?
What do you mean by masculine/feminine in a chart? How would that play out?
I think of it this way: if we have a kid, he would be more nurturing, where I would teach the child how to be independent. That type of mentality?
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Yes exactly ... like a (traditional) role reversal
My first and 3rd wives were both aries, im pisces. It was good and bad, like any relationship, no longevity tho.
My first and 3rd wives were both aries, im pisces. It was good and bad, like any relationship, no longevity tho.
That's not my style at all. I'm all about security in a relationship. I think "do I see myself with this person long-term?" "Do we have the same values?" "Does this person have the same mindset over being financially secure?" "Would this person raise kids the same way I do?" "Can I trust this person with my life?" "Do I trust this person?"
Maybe this is a Cancer-Virgo relationship more than a Cancer-Aries relationship LOL!
How much younger are you than him?
He is five years older.
How much younger are you than him?
He is five years older.
That's cool, last person I went out with was nearly 7. I looked at the Plutos and obviously Pluto Scorpio could have been born in the early 80s.
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We are late twenties-early thirties. Will the age difference affect us? It is not a big gap.
No, you'll get bored
No, you'll get bored
In what way? I don't think so. We both have a lot of same interests- reading, opera/classical music, running, and traveling.
We just both work so much
No, you'll get bored
In what way? I don't think so. We both have a lot of same interests- reading, opera/classical music, running, and traveling.
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Water dampens Fire, You will not sense his emotions, he will resent You for it and You will lack excitement. Maybe because You are cusps and Pisces/Cancer and Aries/Gemini are compatible in Nature it will be different. This is just my opinion, and only You know the right answer to this question 💚🍀
No, you'll get bored
In what way? I don't think so. We both have a lot of same interests- reading, opera/classical music, running, and traveling.
Water dampens Fire, You will not sense his emotions, he will resent You for it and You will lack excitement. Maybe because You are cusps and Pisces/Cancer and Aries/Gemini are compatible in Nature it will be different. This is just my opinion, and only You know the right answer to this question 💚🍀
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I'm not a very emotional person, but I am to people super close to me. I definitely do not make decisions with my emotions, that is never good. He is also more spontaneous than me. I'm the planner.
He said "let's just get in the car and see where it takes us." That is definitely a Gemini. Then he will start pontificating on this deep emotional level, which is fine as long as the subject is important.
I'm Gemini rising btw. Unsure of his rising.
Interesting. Him and I talked and did some adult things last night. I'm scared we might be too compatible.
If you like him go for it don’t overthink it, astrology is such that you can find whatever you assume you’re gonna find regardless
I will always overthink.
If you like him go for it don’t overthink it, astrology is such that you can find whatever you assume you’re gonna find regardless
I will always overthink.
I am so sorry for all the air placements I assume are in your chart. RIP God bless you child may you find peace one day
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My charter is mostly Aries and Virgo. His chart is mostly Cancer and Capricorn.
Just as an FYI, March 25th isn't cusp. Cusp is the last degree of a sign or the first degree of the next sign. Anyways, Cancer and Aries as a Sun sign match alone is not at all a good one, but you both assert yourself (Mars) like Earth signs, so it might not be too bad. Venus and Mars placements are more important for relationships than the Sun. Definitely be prepared for him to have actual human emotions and perhaps an occasional mood swing as a crab. Otherwise, best of luck.
Imo, any combination can work if the two parties are willing to understand each other. Maybe some combinations are easier than others, but it is all up to the individual. I'm an aries female, and my fiance is a cancer man...we just work, like peanut butter and jelly. We get along really well and balance each other out.
We seem to compliment each other so far. We stayed the weekend with each other and it was amazing. I miss him already.
He likes me going to his place more than coming to mine. He likes cooking for me, too.
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Will this be a good match? I have been seeing this guy and I really like him. It seems almost too good to be true; we have the same interests, goals, and values. From what I have read, Aries and Cancer is not really a good match. Note: we are both professional men (I'm in law, he's in medicine).
His chart:
Sun- Gemini-Cancer cusp (June 23)
Moon- Pisces
Mercury- Cancer
Venus- Cancer
Mars- Taurus
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn- Aquarius
Uranus- Capricorn
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Lilith- Aquarius
N Node- Capricorn
My chart:
Sun- Pisces-Aries cusp (March 25)
Moon- Libra
Mercury- Aries
Venus- Aries
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Aquarius
Saturn- Aries
Uranus- Aquarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Sagittarius
Lilith- Virgo
N Node- Virgo