Will this be a good match? Cancer-Aries Compatibility

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by newtothis on Tuesday, December 21, 2021 and has 22 replies.

Are Cancer and Aries Compatible in Love

Cancer and Aries have different emotional needs but can complement each other through mutual understanding and effort. While Aries is energetic and impulsive, Cancer is nurturing and sensitive. Compatibility depends on shared values and communication, and individual charts add unique nuances to the relationship.

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@newtothis
6 Years

Will this be a good match? I have been seeing this guy and I really like him. It seems almost too good to be true; we have the same interests, goals, and values. From what I have read, Aries and Cancer is not really a good match. Note: we are both professional men (I'm in law, he's in medicine).

His chart:

Sun- Gemini-Cancer cusp (June 23)

Moon- Pisces

Mercury- Cancer

Venus- Cancer

Mars- Taurus

Jupiter- Virgo

Saturn- Aquarius

Uranus- Capricorn

Neptune- Capricorn

Pluto- Scorpio

Lilith- Aquarius

N Node- Capricorn

My chart:

Sun- Pisces-Aries cusp (March 25)

Moon- Libra

Mercury- Aries

Venus- Aries

Mars- Virgo

Jupiter- Aquarius

Saturn- Aries

Uranus- Aquarius

Neptune- Capricorn

Pluto- Sagittarius

Lilith- Virgo

N Node- Virgo

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

With dating, what matters most is that he likes or doesn't mind whatever bad side you show.

Having the same interests, goals, and values is great. He has lots of water and earth and you have fire and air.

Seems like a match that has potential.

Your moons and how you handle emotions could be an issue but his moon sign can change if you don't have the time right.

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@newtothis
6 Years

Posted by saggurl88

With dating, what matters most is that he likes or doesn't mind whatever bad side you show.

Having the same interests, goals, and values is great. He has lots of water and earth and you have fire and air.

Seems like a match that has potential.

Your moons and how you handle emotions could be an issue but his moon sign can change if you don't have the time right.

Thanks! We are well balanced in all four elements. I do not know the time of his birth.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by newtothis

Posted by saggurl88

With dating, what matters most is that he likes or doesn't mind whatever bad side you show.

Having the same interests, goals, and values is great. He has lots of water and earth and you have fire and air.

Seems like a match that has potential.

Your moons and how you handle emotions could be an issue but his moon sign can change if you don't have the time right.

Thanks! We are well balanced in all four elements. I do not know the time of his birth.

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Just go for it. At least he enjoys a good chase with his placements. You can be yourself and have some fun.

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@newtothis
6 Years

Posted by MyStarsShine

You have a more masculine chart and him more feminine

Is that okay for you?

What do you mean by masculine/feminine in a chart? How would that play out?

I think of it this way: if we have a kid, he would be more nurturing, where I would teach the child how to be independent. That type of mentality?

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by newtothis

Posted by MyStarsShine

You have a more masculine chart and him more feminine

Is that okay for you?

What do you mean by masculine/feminine in a chart? How would that play out?

I think of it this way: if we have a kid, he would be more nurturing, where I would teach the child how to be independent. That type of mentality?

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Yes exactly ... like a (traditional) role reversal

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@Mtnboy
5 Years

My first and 3rd wives were both aries, im pisces. It was good and bad, like any relationship, no longevity tho.

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@newtothis
6 Years

Posted by Mtnboy

My first and 3rd wives were both aries, im pisces. It was good and bad, like any relationship, no longevity tho.

That's not my style at all. I'm all about security in a relationship. I think "do I see myself with this person long-term?" "Do we have the same values?" "Does this person have the same mindset over being financially secure?" "Would this person raise kids the same way I do?" "Can I trust this person with my life?" "Do I trust this person?"

Maybe this is a Cancer-Virgo relationship more than a Cancer-Aries relationship LOL!

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@GenericUsername
4 Years500+ Posts

Posted by newtothis

Posted by GenericUsername

No, you'll get bored

In what way? I don't think so. We both have a lot of same interests- reading, opera/classical music, running, and traveling.

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Water dampens Fire, You will not sense his emotions, he will resent You for it and You will lack excitement. Maybe because You are cusps and Pisces/Cancer and Aries/Gemini are compatible in Nature it will be different. This is just my opinion, and only You know the right answer to this question 💚🍀

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@newtothis
6 Years

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by newtothis

Posted by GenericUsername

No, you'll get bored

In what way? I don't think so. We both have a lot of same interests- reading, opera/classical music, running, and traveling.

Water dampens Fire, You will not sense his emotions, he will resent You for it and You will lack excitement. Maybe because You are cusps and Pisces/Cancer and Aries/Gemini are compatible in Nature it will be different. This is just my opinion, and only You know the right answer to this question 💚🍀

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I'm not a very emotional person, but I am to people super close to me. I definitely do not make decisions with my emotions, that is never good. He is also more spontaneous than me. I'm the planner.

He said "let's just get in the car and see where it takes us." That is definitely a Gemini. Then he will start pontificating on this deep emotional level, which is fine as long as the subject is important.

I'm Gemini rising btw. Unsure of his rising.

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@newtothis
6 Years

Posted by Sabotage

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Posted by Sabotage

If you like him go for it don’t overthink it, astrology is such that you can find whatever you assume you’re gonna find regardless

I will always overthink.

I am so sorry for all the air placements I assume are in your chart. RIP God bless you child may you find peace one day

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My charter is mostly Aries and Virgo. His chart is mostly Cancer and Capricorn.

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@SixteenthSixtoothSon
4 Years

Just as an FYI, March 25th isn't cusp. Cusp is the last degree of a sign or the first degree of the next sign. Anyways, Cancer and Aries as a Sun sign match alone is not at all a good one, but you both assert yourself (Mars) like Earth signs, so it might not be too bad. Venus and Mars placements are more important for relationships than the Sun. Definitely be prepared for him to have actual human emotions and perhaps an occasional mood swing as a crab. Otherwise, best of luck.

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@PoshChickenLove1111
4 Years500+ Posts

Imo, any combination can work if the two parties are willing to understand each other. Maybe some combinations are easier than others, but it is all up to the individual. I'm an aries female, and my fiance is a cancer man...we just work, like peanut butter and jelly. We get along really well and balance each other out.

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@newtothis
6 Years

We seem to compliment each other so far. We stayed the weekend with each other and it was amazing. I miss him already.

He likes me going to his place more than coming to mine. He likes cooking for me, too.