AM SO EMPTY AND HURTING

am cancer dating a cappy man,we had an argument 2 days ago.he thinks am stalking him,and i asked him if he is cheating on me?he said i act like a baby,he didint say much.and now his been silent for 2 days.he doesnt pick my calls,reply my messages or anythng.he is just quite.and now his phones are off.i left a 1000 messages that am sorry.i do not know if he has left me or what.am just so hurting

guys please help me,i love my man and dont wana loose him.what should i do?
HELP 😢

Wow @ 1000 smses. I dont have advice cause i dont date a cap and will never do 😉. Are u south african btw cause your username implies so?

yes i am

Nobantu, where abouts? Forget the cap, lol, see u've met a new friend, a home girl...me. And dont worry all this will pass with time.

He said you were stalking him... you asked him if he was cheating on you. Were you stalking him ? (when a woman is stalking, it is usually called a 'driveby')

I agree with M here... you will not get anywhere by reaching out a 1000-whatever times. Running TO him is the intuitive thing to do... be COUNTER-intuitive... do the opposite of what your heart is telling you to do. Run AWAY from him now. Sometimes the best way to get someone's attention is NOT to pay them any attention. Mirror what he is doing.

Why did you think he was cheating on you?

You are either insecure or had a valid reason to think so. The fact you had to ask should tell you something.