Are Capricorns clingy? (Page 2)

I feel a bit suffocated. iCloud I probably didn't express or assert myself enough. That's something I'm still learning honestly. Or relearning rather, as it used to come quite naturally. I think he moved very fast though.

The more I think about it the more it reminds me of the situation with my ex. I was always introduce to HIS friends. He was very charming friendly. I can be shy..then when we broke it off I felt I had none. The cap knows EVERYONE in the town. Literally lol. It's crazy. At first I was like this is great he's connecting me. But now that I think about it I'm like how many things that are just mine do I have? How many friendships? His friendships were preexisting and although he includes me, they will be there if I leave. ....Lots of thinking to do on this one.

Underwater, just let the Cap know that you need space, he'll understand. From what I gleaned from your words, this isn't really about him as much as it is about you. You're going to end up hurting him really bad if you don't speak up soon.

Your intentions are not completely innocent.

I'm sure that you're right.
I'm just scared I suppose.

Posted by underwaterthing
I feel a bit suffocated. iCloud I probably didn't express or assert myself enough. That's something I'm still learning honestly. Or relearning rather, as it used to come quite naturally. I think he moved very fast though.

Like your Cap, mine does the hot/cold thing too. He is very sweet, sappy and lovey dovey 1-3 days after our weekends. Then he'll get more distant a couple of days before we see each other. It's kind of like clock work. If we didn't see each other every weekend, I'd think he was Dr. Jekyl, Mr. Hyde or a player. He also moved very fast in the beginning, and slowly but surely gains ground in his own way. Have a talk with yours and stand your ground, he will respect that. Work on something important to you and maintain your own interests always.

I kept mine at bay by having a timeline to finish school and traveled for a couple of months. Wasn't ready to jump in a relationship,..still not sure..and ironically my ex of over 5 years was a Taurus too. Cap talks about moving in soon which is great, but we both have things to take care of so I have put that off until maybe summer. Take the time you need to figure out yourself (needs and wants).

PM me if you want to chat 🙂

Posted by underwaterthing
Ok, it's official. I'm booed up with a Cap man, we are both our 30s. Both artists...
That being said, I am so mystified and intrigued by his character. Has anyone experience Caps being kinda clingy? He is an odd mix of cling and then vacant/distant. Allow me to explain:
First of all he's included me in every part of his life. His friendships, partnerships, music, travel, family. And very quickly. Secondly he wants a lot of my time/attention. It seems like any spare time he has. Which is great, but this girl needs a day or two to collect her thoughts! And usually just to sleep!! Other times he's with me, but he seems far away. He has the whole blank stoicness. It's a weird mix of wanting him closer and being like, dude I need some space. Has anyone else experienced this? It's pretty interesting! I've noticed the day we separate he's very "I miss you I miss you." Then if a few days go by he seems to adapt and temper it better. The only other person I've seen be like that is a Cancer. But they are steady cling. He's not like that.

o.o...just make sure to trust yourself if you really do feel like doing something he doesn't. And don't push your friends away if you really want to talk to them. .-. ..
*Gives cookies*

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Posted by underwaterthing
I feel a bit suffocated. iCloud I probably didn't express or assert myself enough. That's something I'm still learning honestly. Or relearning rather, as it used to come quite naturally. I think he moved very fast though.

Like your Cap, mine does the hot/cold thing too. He is very sweet, sappy and lovey dovey 1-3 days after our weekends. Then he'll get more distant a couple of days before we see each other. It's kind of like clock work. If we didn't see each other every weekend, I'd think he was Dr. Jekyl, Mr. Hyde or a player. He also moved very fast in the beginning, and slowly but surely gains ground in his own way. Have a talk with yours and stand your ground, he will respect that. Work on something important to you and maintain your own interests always.

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He.does this before seeing you agian so he can miss you more during yout time apart, amd more.to talk about when he sees you. He communicates after you see eachother, that is a good sign, means he still misses you after seeing you.

My cap is NOT hot cold at all.....Hes straight clingy, but I just 'felt' when we transitioned out of the you're amazing phase into the oh I got you phase and did not like it.


Any now to the person who said I didnt have innocent intentions. I NOW know what you meant. And thats incorrect. I in no way got with him to climb any ladder trust me. If I wanted that, this wouldn't be the one I chose lol. He just is a resources person, and I saw him using all mine, so I began to think what is he offering since he is taking so much? If I didnt enter innocently, I wouldn't be so in over my head right now...fyi


Thank you all for your responses. 🙂 I do appreciate you trying to help.
I feel I may not trust this man and I'm starting to see some unraveling.
I think he may have been what is called a fake twin flame, when I thought he was the real thing :/

When he told me he wasn't vulnerable and if we broke it off it would be 'unfavorable' but not break his heart that really CHECKED me.
I was like damn, I'm clearly the only one with their heart wide open. Let me take that back. And he wasn't saying it to be cruel, but either a) it's true and everything he's been showing me (meeting parents, looking at me like he loves me, hinting) has been insincere. or b) he is lying to me and himself and doesn't want to admit/isnt aware.

Both are 'unfavorable' to me!

Now everyday it's I miss you I miss you...sorry, I'm busy...working on myself.

Posted by GreyWiz
lol. capricorns are not clingy about partners. They are clingy about status and position in society. Once a cap gets to the top of some organization he will hold on with a vicegrip. caps don't give a damn about partners. they can get partners later. success must come first and partner will follow.

Except she is with a lost Cap so it's possible he's buying time and fulfilling his needs until he figures his life direction out.

His comments of not being heartbroken shows that he is used to people leaving and may eventually expect it. Not saying that at all for you to feel sorry for him just saying he in bsing. Imo he is not relationship material.

Posted by GreyWiz
lol. capricorns are not clingy about partners. They are clingy about status and position in society. Once a cap gets to the top of some organization he will hold on with a vicegrip. caps don't give a damn about partners. they can get partners later. success must come first and partner will follow.

Yep, unless the partner is increasiing our position

Posted by GreyWiz
lol. capricorns are not clingy about partners. They are clingy about status and position in society. Once a cap gets to the top of some organization he will hold on with a vicegrip. caps don't give a damn about partners. they can get partners later. success must come first and partner will follow.

capricorn is very very similar to cancer though. they need security, so if their partner doesn't give them that, it's no go.

Posted by underwaterthing
Ok, it's official. I'm booed up with a Cap man, we are both our 30s. Both artists...
That being said, I am so mystified and intrigued by his character. Has anyone experience Caps being kinda clingy? He is an odd mix of cling and then vacant/distant. Allow me to explain:
First of all he's included me in every part of his life. His friendships, partnerships, music, travel, family. And very quickly. Secondly he wants a lot of my time/attention. It seems like any spare time he has. Which is great, but this girl needs a day or two to collect her thoughts! And usually just to sleep!! Other times he's with me, but he seems far away. He has the whole blank stoicness. It's a weird mix of wanting him closer and being like, dude I need some space. Has anyone else experienced this? It's pretty interesting! I've noticed the day we separate he's very "I miss you I miss you." Then if a few days go by he seems to adapt and temper it better. The only other person I've seen be like that is a Cancer. But they are steady cling. He's not like that.

odd mix of clingy. then vacant? probably because he's far off thinking about his painting and what to paint.

you're an artist too!! you're mirroring him maybe. you should know how artists are like. maybe you need to also have something to do while with him, also do something artistic. You're Lucky you're both artists, you both get eachother.

or far off singing up the next melody in his head (he's a musician)

Posted by underwaterthing
My cap is NOT hot cold at all.....Hes straight clingy, but I just 'felt' when we transitioned out of the you're amazing phase into the oh I got you phase and did not like it.


Any now to the person who said I didnt have innocent intentions. I NOW know what you meant. And thats incorrect. I in no way got with him to climb any ladder trust me. If I wanted that, this wouldn't be the one I chose lol. He just is a resources person, and I saw him using all mine, so I began to think what is he offering since he is taking so much? If I didnt enter innocently, I wouldn't be so in over my head right now...fyi


Thank you all for your responses. 🙂 I do appreciate you trying to help.
I feel I may not trust this man and I'm starting to see some unraveling.
I think he may have been what is called a fake twin flame, when I thought he was the real thing :/

i dont understand.....

if you got with him it's because to CLIMB the ladder?

but then he is just a RESOURCE person?

but you saw him using yours?

and you wonder what he is offering that he's taking so much?

😕

i'm so confused.

you either love him or not.

Hi Lisa,
Thanks for reading through, and quoting to remind me off how confused I truly am LOL
Did I mention my moon is in Libra?
So YES to the vacantness/mirroring/ being an artist. He goes off thinking, but I also think he started taking me for granted a bit.
I pulled back and he is really really laying it on THICK. Thicker than ever.

*I did NOT get with him to climb any ladder. He has no ladders to climb at this point. He seems to enjoy connecting me to other musicians who are talented and I appreciated that. But it's not why I was with him.
When I say using my resources: I meant being at my place, eating my food, us always riding in my car (my miles my gas) at first I was happy to share, but then I started to think, I'm feeling kinda used....Of course, he is so resourceful, he has no problem finding all those things elsewhere.

I thought I loved him but I am very confused and the only thing I know for SURE is that I need space to think and work on a job and music. I'm hoping things will settle after mercury, but some of the things he said gave me a reality check and I pulled back. I have to learn to take care of myself. If I'm this spooked either he's not right, or I'm not ready. I am sloooooowing things down. He keeps hinting to when will i see you i miss you etc. He invited me to his moms for dinner Sunday, which I accepted bc Sunday is my only off day and probably the only day I will be able to see him in the next week.

Sorry if I am confusing rt now. I feel genuinely freaked out/scatter brained.

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Posted by GreyWiz
lol. capricorns are not clingy about partners. They are clingy about status and position in society. Once a cap gets to the top of some organization he will hold on with a vicegrip. caps don't give a damn about partners. they can get partners later. success must come first and partner will follow.

Except she is with a lost Cap so it's possible he's buying time and fulfilling his needs until he figures his life direction out.

His comments of not being heartbroken shows that he is used to people leaving and may eventually expect it. Not saying that at all for you to feel sorry for him just saying he in bsing. Imo he is not relationship material.

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Very interesting. I read his palm a few weeks ago and he was missing a union line, suggesting he has 'no direction in life'
I've never ever seen that in someone's hand. Scary stuff.

So would you say slow it down Inana, or it's a loss and let it go? Remember he's heavy aqua

OH he's coming on real strong.
Must have said I miss you 5 times today.
Said I was beautiful (never said that b4) directly...
Then he sent me a video of him singing "Goodnight my dear (insert my name here)"


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