Blown Away

I am a Capricorn female who is honest, loyal, caring and understanding. I was seeing a Capricorn Male. We never had any problems. It was like we knew what the other person was thinking and feeling. We could get each other out of the depression that us Capricorns are known for. We were at a point when he wanted to spend more time with me and I was blown away with how he was acting because it takes awhile for Capricorns to do that. He said that he loved spending time with me and loved the way we could talk for hours. Then two days later he said he didn't have time for me because he was busy with work. I knew something was not right and soon found out he was seeing a Taurus female that he had been seeing off and on for the last four years. What I don't understand is all the lies he told me. He told me he hadn't seen anyone for 3 years and that relationship was only sexual. It took him months to get me to go out with him. The problem is that we all work together. The Taurus female's son got sick and I think as a Capricorn he wanted to fix all her problems and make it all better. I was told that the only reason the Taurus Female let the Capricorn male in her life is that he was buying her. I left everything alone and then found out I am having an Ectopic Pregnancy. He asked me when he found out I had been seeing a Doctor and had to go to the hospital what was wrong. I didn't tell him. He asked me if I would tell him what was wrong when I found out. I wouldn't answer him and as far as I'm concern it's my problem. I don't want him to know. I don't want someone to be there for me because of the Health issues, I want them there because they want to be there. I had a new procedure done a few days ago, which is Chemotherapy to stop the Pregnancy instead of a total hysterectomy. We are praying this will work but I had to take a few days off. The first day off I had six blocked phone calls, which I think was him. I don't have any family here in town but I have had the support of a few close friends. I need your help! I know as Capricorns we are stubborn people. Do all Capricorn males act this way? Am I doing the right thing by keeping this to myself and moving on with my life?

I quote: "I need your help! I know as Capricorns we are stubborn people. Do all Capricorn males act this way? Am I doing the right thing by keeping this to myself and moving on with my life?" unquote.
To answer your question, I think capricorn men and women are not the same always. Capricorn women are much more loyal, and say what they mean and mean what they say. Your story reminds me of the few capricorns I met throughout my life. Yes, most of them claimed loyalty, and unending love, but flirted behind my back, and sometimes while with me as well. They fall for the 'love' thing more than the real 'love' feelings. They also are a bit selfish, and want to be loved by all women, if they just point. Anyway, you did the right thing, because your capricorn might have felt 'obliged' to be around when you needed him, and to be frank a bit scared you may spreak the rumour. Yes capricorns do tend to be inconsistant with their feelings, not necessarily because of other women, although they may be true sometimes, but more because they are not love-oriented. They can do without love forever, and live alone forever. But they need sex, and they also love variety. Go figure

I am a capricorn and so is my male best friend is capricorn too, so I can tell you we are stubborn and determined to get to the bottom of a mystery. So he will do his best to find out and as we are renowned for being very practical and good in a crisis, he will help, if you let him. Have you asked him about the Taurus woman or are you just jumping to conclusions? What if that was him that tried to call six times? And even if it is over, he should should still be allowed to help if he wants to which he probably does. Don't try and soldier on alone, just get it all out in the open otherwise you will hate him later on down the road. Hope all goes well

In response to if I have talked to this Capricorn man about the Taurus women. No, I haven't. Like you said WE Capricorns don't let go until we solve a mystery. I have had it confirmed by two other people.

I really care for this person and if he would be happier with this Taurus women then it's for the better. I may have a lot to go through but in the long run I feel it will only make me stronger. I hope you can understand that if I tell him and he is there for me I would feel it would only be for guilt and after thinking more about this I need, want and deserve more from a relationship.

I do thank you for your opinion, thoughts and warm wishes it mean more to me than you know.