cap ex/bestie

I Have A Question OK So I Have The Cap Ex /Best Friends We Use To Date 4 years ago but I pushed him away at the time I was pregnant and i also was rape a year before that he was so sweet also joking before I pushed him away I met his family ..when I pushed him away he turnt cold change his number and disappear ...we started back talking couple months back but he has a gf who is a Virgo ..he recently came to visit asking me certain questions like who I have a baby by someone who loves me and I need to stop smoking and called me beautiful last night and also any men is lucky to have me if that can't see that their stupid and he said he will always be in my life ....he told me he love me twice also. .lol ...any thoughts?? Does he want me back??

So let me get this straight;

1) You two start dating 4 years ago,

2) You were pregnant by SOMEONE ELSE at the time just before or you got pregnant by SOMEONE ELSE while you were dating (this is unclear and kinda important)

3) Then you pushed him away (how?-- this is also kinda important)

4) Then he went cold and disappeared...Seriously?!?!? Think about what you are saying here. Its not disappearing when YOU make the person go away.

5) He currently has a girlfriend

6) He said some nice things to you/ that he loves you.

If he is sane, then no, he doesn't want you back. He likely took pity on you and gave you a pep talk. He may love you as a friend, but that's about it. If you are unsure as to why, please re-read your version of events.

I was pregnant when he met me and we were dating while I was pregnant ... It hough he just wanted sex so I told him let's just be friends and I stopped talking to him...he always says stuff like I'm going rape him in a joking way ...he recently came to visit he was very nervous when he left he held my hand and I seen a sparkle in his eyes ...last night we talked and he wanted to take me out and told me his tired of his gf

You seem to be seeing what you want to see and, it appears, seeking validation here. Also, you seem pretty interested in pursuing this, so go for it. It's your life, your choices... do what makes you happy. The rest of us are just random strangers on the internet. Hell, I didn't even stay at a Holiday Inn last night...

Best of luck.

Thanks I just wanted you honest opinion parts says he's not interested other half she's maybe

Posted by libraLove925
I was pregnant when he met me and we were dating while I was pregnant ... It hough he just wanted sex so I told him let's just be friends and I stopped talking to him...he always says stuff like I'm going rape him in a joking way ...he recently came to visit he was very nervous when he left he held my hand and I seen a sparkle in his eyes ...last night we talked and he wanted to take me out and told me his tired of his gf

It's always a red flag when a guy talks shit on his gf.

Best case senerio is he leaves her for you and then somewhere down the line he'll talk to some fresh meat about how he is tired of his gf (you) and wants to take out her out and show her a good time. Read: fuck the new pussy.