Cap friendzone or just needs space?

This is about a gay "relationship". The Cap isn't out to all, only to some. As for me, people know I'm bisexual.

CONTEXT:

So I met a Cap one night, he was making all these cute excuses to escape from his roommate just so I can invite him to my pad.

I invited him, he brought a drink, and we had sex (oral).

The second time, we talked and went all the way; it was his first time, and I said if he was sure, but he wanted to do it it.

We chatted for an entire week during vacation, and I really enjoyed his company and humor.

It wasn't until he displayed that popular Capricorn "disappearing act" and prioritized spending time with friends over quality time with me.

One time, I was jealous and told him directly - he reassured me that there was nothing between him and our friend.

SITUATION:

We went for a beach vacation with friends, and we slept together with a friend. He was in the middle, and as soon as I laid down beside him, he clasp his hands with mine. And I slept that night on his shoulders with our hands together under the sheets.

The worst part came was when I accidentally read his FB messenger chat with someone he had sex with before, and THEY WERE SHARING different photos of guys! They were talking about random cute guys they've met! Not to mention, he likes someone from a class that we both got in and said he was sure to meet him soon again.

He doesn't know that I know, and I plan on not telling him since we're not really together anyways.

After that vacation, we haven't spoke yet. It's been 3 days. And I really miss talking to him, but I know I shouldn't initiate. I'm not even sure if I should still pursue/invest in him, given that he's a player.

1. Is it normal for Caps to check others guys even while "dating"?

2. Why is it that Caps prioritize friends? Don't they want quality time with someone special after not hanging out for a week?

3. Should I tell him upfront about what I saw on his phone? Or would it be a bad move and signal insecurity?

4. Lastly, would it be worth it to continue whatever we have?

I think you slept with him too soon. That makes things complicated. I'd ask him how he feels. Even though that's not an easy question for them to answer.

No, we are not official.

We spoke the other day, and he said he felt that things were going too fast and that he got turned off by how I got ticked off when she chose to spend time with his friends - where I panicked, and reassured him that it was only a joke.

I also asked him a direct question (a bad move that left me devastated) whether he had feelings for me or not. He said "No".

I've send him a very special collage and message the night before his competition, and he really liked it. He went back to his normal tone (in chat) in conversing. During the competition, he was always close with me and would be touchy.

But ever since we had that talk, and after that competition, he never initiated a conversation with me again via chat. It's been 3 days already.

Did I really blew it? Sometimes, I wonder if he even thinks about me or if he even cares. Or if we ever have a change to be together, even if we build it on friendship.

We hung out last night during a socials gathering, there were drinks and I was a very tipsy. He was very caring and worried about me, he wouldn't stop looking at me, and would look after me until I went home.

Does he really not like me? Or is it solely because he truly wants to take it slow?

Posted by LibraLaw2017
SITUATION:

We went for a beach vacation with friends, and we slept together with a friend. He was in the middle, and as soon as I laid down beside him, he clasp his hands with mine. And I slept that night on his shoulders with our hands together under the sheets.

Was this a threesome (romp)?

Or did the three of you just fall asleep on the bed?