Cappy guy's criticism style

My cappy guy whenever criticizes he does not directly point at me. He says everything as he is criticizing himself. I never understood this thing. Last night we had a fight on texts lol and now when I reread his texts I found all the things that he said to himself were for me. Is it just my guy or all cappy guys are like this ?

The beaten "wife" is back.

So, was he right or wrong? Feeling guilty?

Just saying, maybe he was talking about himself, but if the shoe fit....

Doesn't sound inherent to Caps. Quite the opposite actually.

I would never hint around at anything.

I'd just tell you to your face that you were being an asshole. No side stepping.

Posted by truecap
So, was he right or wrong? Feeling guilty?

Just saying, maybe he was talking about himself, but if the shoe fit....

Yup feeling guilty but I am not going to show him lol :p
And no he wasn't talking about himself. Its his style of criticizing me 😢

Well, you have the option to ignore it or work on yourself.

Posted by FrenchKpricorn
He is smart

He is 😉

Posted by CapTenn
Doesn't sound inherent to Caps. Quite the opposite actually.

I would never hint around at anything.

I'd just tell you to your face that you were being an asshole. No side stepping.

But my cappy never confronts me. He never tells me whatever bothers him. After two years of our relationship He still keeps everything to himself

Posted by truecap
Well, you have the option to ignore it or work on yourself.

I agree.All I can say is that he is correct but he judges me without stepping into my shoes.

Then set him straight. Stand up for yourself.

Posted by truecap
Then set him straight. Stand up for yourself.

That's what I am doing 🙂