Capricorn Confessional (Page 6)

Perhaps, she could give other people a chance to speak once in a while without changing the topic.

I don't coddle people emotionally, and I gave up codependence years ago. I'm not going to feed into other people's negative emotions. I'm sorry CC is sad, but she came here sad and I'm not taking responsibility for her behavior.

live and let be, i always say. i'm not taking sides or trying to be a mediator here. i see your points. if there's ever any behavior i dont like... i try to ignore it and post past it.

i understand, though, that sometimes there is a very fine line between not getting involved and not drawing more attention to something you think is a pointless issue AND making a stand for something you know is right.

For me it all boils down to ... this is an online forum. How involved in needless drama do I really want to be? none whatsoever. Login to enjoy as much as feels right. I dont like the idea of dxp putting me or anyone else in a bad mood. There's something fundamentally wrong with that. period.

confession,

I can barely stand the miscellaneous board these days... yawns. sorry :\

Posted by capinc

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by capinc
The "WHO ARE YOU?" remake actually kind of irritates me.

That's CapriLady.

Please get a clue. :-/

Thank you Capinc, that's exactly right.

And CC, I like the lion photo. Also, you're new icon is not unattractive. Yellow suits you.

man fuk you. sourpuss. i don't even know what your talking about.

My puss isn't sour. I eat a well balanced diet of fruits and vegetables and I make sure I wash it daily.

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Confession

I want to have sex with two men at the same time
(Scorp Mars. What do you expect? Shoot me! 😛)

confession,

it breaks my heart every time i see an elderly doing some manual or menial job when it looks like they are doing it out of necessity.

it would be one thing if they are just doing it as an activity...

Posted by CluelessCancer
Confession,

I miss Lucriu, he is the only thing that makes me happy in these boards.

sigh.

Lol sorry, tough day at the office, what did i miss? ^.^

Posted by capinc

Posted by CluelessCancer
Confession,

I miss Lucriu, he is the only thing that makes me happy in these boards.

sigh.

Kick rocks and take him with you.

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Can we take you too? 0.0 plz?

Posted by capinc

Posted by Lucriu

Posted by capinc

Posted by CluelessCancer
Confession,

I miss Lucriu, he is the only thing that makes me happy in these boards.

sigh.

Kick rocks and take him with you.

Can we take you too? 0.0 plz?

I know your style , I use it myself. It does not bother or make me feel uncomfortable.

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Then you should know any other approach on my behalf would be illogical.

Well, my personal subjective opinion is that this irritating little pest has yet to achieve "nice" on any level, unless you consider escapist passive aggression some form of achievement.

I really couldn't judge her, as I have no idea what she's hiding and I think morality is relative.

...I just choose not to relate to some people on my own behalf.

It's a choice. That's all. Nothing personal.

Posted by CapriLady
Well, my personal subjective opinion is that this irritating little pest has yet to achieve "nice" on any level, unless you consider escapist passive aggression some form of achievement.

I really couldn't judge her, as I have no idea what she's hiding and I think morality is relative.

I feel that she lacks tenderness and it irritates me, even the fleeting momments of faked niceness seem manipulative, but I just cant judge her, because I dont know what makes her feel, and be the way she is.

Words of logic, replaced with words of insight. It makes your message warmer and easier to digest. Unless you only aim to criticize and express dissaproval. In which case It's perfect just the way you wrote it.

I don't think that identifying a behavior pattern necessitates an aim of criticism and disapproval.

Personal objective: clarification of subjective term.

I feel that the above statements from myself, might belong under the topic thread "why people choose to go no contact" more so than "capricorn confessional." Also, these statements can be applied to "no contact" choices outside of DXP.

Thank you for the response.

confession,

i want to put down a whole lemon cheesecake. right this minute.

Posted by CapriLady
I don't think that identifying a behavior pattern necessitates an aim of criticism and disapproval.

Personal objective: clarification of subjective term.

I feel that the above statements from myself, might belong under the topic thread "why people choose to go no contact" more so than "capricorn confessional." Also, these statements can be applied to "no contact" choices outside of DXP.

Thank you for the response.

*Sigh* You began your post with " My personal Subjective opinion.." And now you say that you were only identifying a behavioral pattern? You're contradictig yourself as any identification of a behavioral pattern , and subjective opinion on such pattern are not the same thing. Thats like saying. " I feel her dress is ugly." Then saying that you were only analyzing its beauty by taking into account, color, and lenght.

Your mistake is trying to put logic on your emotions. You cannot contain dislike as just a logical reaction to certain stimuli or love to the sudden rush of endorphins. My advise Caprilady is be more like CC and FEEL more and ANALYZE less. Then maybe you two will find common ground.

The personal response that you are referring to is reflected (true) in the word choice "irritating" and "pest."

Point understood. However, I chose those terms because I cannot refer to this dxp-er at this time by either name or gender because of a "phenomenon" of possibly multiple representations none of which appear to myself as an observer to be concrete in any way. Leading back to my original reaction that this participant needs more quality self-reflection. Can this be achieved online? Perhaps. Perhaps not. However, the restraint of constant deluge from the phenomenon has been appreciated.

I disagree respectfully. I find self reflection helpful, and I'm not going to participate with another's negative feelings.

But thank you for sharing your opinion.

I believe it is possible. After all books can inspire, and this forum is filled with that which makes books great. Depth, diversity, and experiences with which we can relate. Just for the love of god Caprilady, stop using spell check on your posts It makes me feel innadequate =D. Oh and be nicer to CC ^.^

People can catalyze feelings within another individual, sure.

Posted by CapriLady
I disagree respectfully. I find self reflection helpful, and I'm not going to participate with another's negative feelings.

But thank you for sharing your opinion.

*Throws in the towel.*

I am who I am. Apologizes that my spelling makes you feel inadequate. I hadn't realized.

My spelling isn't actually perfect. Just close 😉

Perhaps,at some point I will get along better with your friend. Not today.

Confession..

*Looks at CC's comments, irrational emotion.

Looks at Capriladys comments, pristine logic.

smiles*

"What a boring world it would be if we all expressed ourselves the same."

+1
Appreciates

Posted by CluelessCancer
Pets "irrational emotions" there there there..cardboard's can't understand what they can't comprehend.

p.s all my emotions are very rational. indeed.

Looks at Luc, takes the Love back, sticks tongue out, you belittle me?

smh.

Lol i was gonna go take a a quick nap then i read this. I'll head to bed after this post

*Grins at the sight of you sticking out your tounge*

An emotion that is rational CC is not an emotion i'ts a response, responces can be predicted and provoked. Emotions, true emotions, like love are all encompassing, unmeasurable and Irrational. I was paying you a compliment 😉. That is why cancers are "the most misunderstood sign of the zodiac" How can you understand or predict raw emotion? 😉 Night, for now.

confession,

i can't believe people are still reading Agentgems threads or posts ... let alone responding to them. why? i swear to gawd i feel like i've seen dozens of replies that start out saying the same things

not only has that dead horse been beaten, but it's thoroughly decomposed, grown mold, which aged, and flaked away into the wind as viral spores that all who enter the thread breathe in and become infected with...

hay... i haven't actually judged. not outrightly lol. i'm just saying the subject of knowing thyself when pursuing another has been thoroughly thoroughly explored 😛

thats all i'm saying O:-)

colorfully

Posted by CreepyPants
confession,

i can't believe people are still reading Agentgems threads or posts ... let alone responding to them. why? i swear to gawd i feel like i've seen dozens of replies that start out saying the same things

She replies to the posters, it gets resurfaced, people see the number of replys in one of the best boards in dxp ( gotta love caps ) and realize that it's everything but caps responding now..... >.>

Lmfao!!!!!!!

Confession

I'm still laughing.... >.>... lol

confession... i'd like some cuddling

Confession - I seduced the capi n liked it

I HATE THESE FUCKING MONKEES

Tate, who let your family photos get out on the internet?

hahahahaha!

😛

Tate, who let your family photos get out on the internet?

ALL RIGHT JUST FOR THAT IM OUTING YOU
I TOLD YOU TO KEEP OUR KIDS IN THE HOUSE

I DO NOT WANT TO GO TO WORK AND PRETEND I'M WORKING...SIGH GUESS TODAY I'LL BE PRODUCTIVE. FML I FINALLY GOT MY PERIOD...

DAMN I WAS SURE YOU WERE PREGO?

Confession,

Woke up feeling like cuddling someones brains the fuck out.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by CreepyPants
confession... i'd like some cuddling

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I don't like passive aggressive, insecure, douche bags. Not my thing. Ever. Her and Caprilady are blocked for a reason, so i don't know why they keep stalking me on threads...it's annoying. Like get some Self RESPECT. Get off my NUTS. I ain't into you.

MUST BE AN AMERICAN DEM O RAT BLOCKING
I NEVER BLOCK ALWAYS CONFRONT
MEET THEM HEAD ON LOOK THEM IN THE EYE BITE THEM
SPIT ON THEM UNLESS THEY ARE FEMALE THEN TRY TO SEDUCE THEM

Confession,

Is James TATE following me around threads, do you have a crush on me TATE? Why? the interest all of a sudden?

SORRY LOV BUT IM BUMPING INTO YOU BLING THE EVIL RABBIT AND SOMEREAL DUMBSHITS.
NOTE IM NOT PUTTING YOU IN WITH THE DUMB SHITS NOR DO YOU GET PISSED AT ME AND STOMP THE FEETS OUT OF YOUR JIMMY JAMS

I want to see more sugararies pics.

AH SWEET LIPS I CAN IMAGEIN THEM WRAPED AROUND MY NEVER MIND.

Confession...

I'm finding tates habit of typing in all caps to be irritating me 0.0.

I've never tried anal.

I've always wanted to try it though... Think it'll hurt? 0.0