Capricorn Ex husband don't know whether on rebound or not

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My Ex husband and i have been together for 9 years. 5 years dating and 4 years in marriage. We have 3 kids and i just gave birth to our youngest son on October. Now he said he want to divorce and on relationship with 21 years old. I have told that girl about our problem but she doesn't want to let him go. Now she's stalking my instagram and my ex has blocked me on all social media and WhatsApp as well. I wonder whether he is serious about his new relationship and really ignore me and the kids? I'm Aries with Aquarius moon. He's Capricorn with Taurus moon. That girl is a Taurus
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Wow, I'm truly sorry you are going through this too. I'm going through the same right now. I don't understand how these men can be so heartless. I am a Taurus woman and I think the only way she will let him go is if she becomes interested in someone else. I must say though I am a bit surprised that if she knows about you and the kids she didn't walk away then. How long exactly has she been in the picture?
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I don't know what to do. I'm totally lost. She just rub it in my face. Her dp picture is their picture together and I just can't help it and feeling sad. She was not pretty as I am and I thought she just a rebound as he was so easy to get her as his new gf. I don't know what to say. Before this he loved me very much and will do anything to make me and the kids happy. Now he just being selfish and want some enjoyment for himself. I wonder do caps man acts like this before.
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Wow, I'm truly sorry you are going through this too. I'm going through the same right now. I don't understand how these men can be so heartless. I am a Taurus woman and I think the only way she will let him go is if she becomes interested in someone else. I must say though I am a bit surprised that if she knows about you and the kids she didn't walk away then. How long exactly has she been in the picture?
She didn't want to leave him as he promised her to divorce me. But until now, no divorce paper has been served. I don't think he has bring that up to the court or his lawyer yet
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Wow, I'm truly sorry you are going through this too. I'm going through the same right now. I don't understand how these men can be so heartless. I am a Taurus woman and I think the only way she will let him go is if she becomes interested in someone else. I must say though I am a bit surprised that if she knows about you and the kids she didn't walk away then. How long exactly has she been in the picture?
She didn't want to leave him as he promised her to divorce me. But until now, no divorce paper has been served. I don't think he has bring that up to the court or his lawyer yet
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I understand how you feel right now....all those emotions and just not knowing. I think no papers is a good sign he may just be going through something honestly. I'm not condoning it by any means but 9/10 once he sees you move on and not worrying over him, she won't be soooo great to him anymore. I'm going through similar with my hubby of 15 years. He wants to divorce and abandoned us for a younger woman overseas that can't even speak English. But he is def in love so after the shock and disbelief wore off I had to just let go and let God. I mean it's like many people say, something that starts out in that type way...isn't going to be real and good honestly. These men have issues, their not even out of one serious relationship before getting into another...what does that say about them? And her...she's just like the Japanese girl in my situation, they know but they keep on being home wreckers and not caring...how do you think their karma is going to be? Lady you hold your head high and act like it's easy and you are not even phased and see what happens then. Misery always loves company until they can't make others miserable. Also there is power in prayer. It's the worst and hardest thing in my life and it will probably get worse before it gets better but just know who you are as a woman and do what is best for you and your little ones. He will get what he deserves in the end and regret what he's done.
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Just to confirm,you just had a baby THIS October and 2 months later he's leaving for someone else? I just can't believe people like that exist at all. Don't mind my shock. And that retard who's with him eventually will get what she deserves...so will he. Makes me literally want t get him down on his knees,drive him crazy without giving him anything he wants and just walk all over him to punish him for his acts. Sorry for my language,just thought of all that makes me really really mad and wanting to make people like him pay really badly for the pain they caused...

Oh how I wish lol...I bet people would pay for this type of service lol lol
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Just to confirm,you just had a baby THIS October and 2 months later he's leaving for someone else? I just can't believe people like that exist at all. Don't mind my shock. And that retard who's with him eventually will get what she deserves...so will he. Makes me literally want t get him down on his knees,drive him crazy without giving him anything he wants and just walk all over him to punish him for his acts. Sorry for my language,just thought of all that makes me really really mad and wanting to make people like him pay really badly for the pain they caused...
I was pregnant on early March. They start their relationship on early may. But at that time, my husband told her, we already divorce on January. So she accepted him. I only knew about her on July. And I confronted her, but she won't let him go. She said I was the bad woman who make him find a new one. I was sad and desperate during my pregnancy. Doctor said I have heart failure and I was cannot walk after giving birth to our son for 25 days. I also don't know what trigger the issue. Maybe I was so depressed

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Just to confirm,you just had a baby THIS October and 2 months later he's leaving for someone else? I just can't believe people like that exist at all. Don't mind my shock. And that retard who's with him eventually will get what she deserves...so will he. Makes me literally want t get him down on his knees,drive him crazy without giving him anything he wants and just walk all over him to punish him for his acts. Sorry for my language,just thought of all that makes me really really mad and wanting to make people like him pay really badly for the pain they caused...
I was pregnant on early March. They start their relationship on early may. But at that time, my husband told her, we already divorce on January. So she accepted him. I only knew about her on July. And I confronted her, but she won't let him go. She said I was the bad woman who make him find a new one. I was sad and desperate during my pregnancy. Doctor said I have heart failure and I was cannot walk after giving birth to our son for 25 days. I also don't know what trigger the issue. Maybe I was so depressed

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So I would have had to ask her dumb ass what makes her think he won't do the same to her and why she would feel that he is such a good man to be in a relationship with if he can turn his back on his family so easily for a piece of ass. Is this what she views as loyalty?? She's naive as hell, how old is she? He triggered the issue...it's his issue that caused this, nothing you did lady. Maybe he was stressed, maybe he was any number of things who knows but make no mistake IT was him, not you so don't listen to his mumbo jumbo that you did this or that....they love to do that to avoid the shame and responsibility for what they have done! Don't let that get in your head and bother you at all bc it's just his lying excuses!!!
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Just to confirm,you just had a baby THIS October and 2 months later he's leaving for someone else? I just can't believe people like that exist at all. Don't mind my shock. And that retard who's with him eventually will get what she deserves...so will he. Makes me literally want t get him down on his knees,drive him crazy without giving him anything he wants and just walk all over him to punish him for his acts. Sorry for my language,just thought of all that makes me really really mad and wanting to make people like him pay really badly for the pain they caused...
I was pregnant on early March. They start their relationship on early may. But at that time, my husband told her, we already divorce on January. So she accepted him. I only knew about her on July. And I confronted her, but she won't let him go. She said I was the bad woman who make him find a new one. I was sad and desperate during my pregnancy. Doctor said I have heart failure and I was cannot walk after giving birth to our son for 25 days. I also don't know what trigger the issue. Maybe I was so depressed



So I would have had to ask her dumb ass what makes her think he won't do the same to her and why she would feel that he is such a good man to be in a relationship with if he can turn his back on his family so easily for a piece of ass. Is this what she views as loyalty?? She's naive as hell, how old is she? He triggered the issue...it's his issue that caused this, nothing you did lady. Maybe he was stressed, maybe he was any number of things who knows but make no mistake IT was him, not you so don't listen to his mumbo jumbo that you did this or that....they love to do that to avoid the shame and responsibility for what they have done! Don't let that get in your head and bother you at all bc it's just his lying excuses!!!

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She is 21. He celebrated her birthday together and he was sweet and everything. Maybe she falls hard for him. She even said to me if he didn't divorce me she would never let him go. I have told him what type of woman she is for hurting another woman but he said she was matured person and won't say thing like that. I was like what the hell wrong with you too. Maybe you suited each other
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😢 Whether he’s serious or not about his side chick who sounds like a basket case, know that you’re worth more than this bullshit he’s putting you though. And you have kids. What a jerk to disregard all of your feelings and do this.

Unfortunately I have a lot of experience in the immature lying/cheating/abusive etc ex husband category. If you ever need to talk you can pm me. Stay strong for your kids, and take care of yourself
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She's young and naive....which means she will def move on to experience something else when the opportunity presents itself. One thing about a Taurus woman is we don't do drama...and her being so young I can't see her truly wanting to be serious with a man who already has kids. When she's older yes maybe but not while that young. Stop giving her attention and see what she does when she thinks it's not bothering you. As a matter of fact do that for both of them and let this run its course and see how quickly it fails once you aren't fighting against it. I know it's the hardest thing to do but try. Start disappearing with the kids and not being available and just watch what happens. *hugs*
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😢 Whether he’s serious or not about his side chick who sounds like a basket case, know that you’re worth more than this bullshit he’s putting you though. And you have kids. What a jerk to disregard all of your feelings and do this.

Unfortunately I have a lot of experience in the immature lying/cheating/abusive etc ex husband category. If you ever need to talk you can pm me. Stay strong for your kids, and take care of yourself
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Is this the first time he’s cheated (that you know about)
Yes. We have financial problem and suddenly he started disappearing and bring his phone whenever he goes. He comes back at 2am every night and want to be alone all the times
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It was same for me...financial problems. Well now he's going to have even more financial problems...
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Do you know his rising ascendant sign?
His rising ascendant sign is aries
What's his Venus?
Is aquarius

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It's too early to tell if he has decided to leave your relationship for good. There are many reasons why people choose to cheat. It does not have to be the end of your relationship.

This video might help you.

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This is really sad, I am so sorry you are going throu this after just giving birth...

the thing is.... 3 children and 9 years together at the age of 27-28 is unfortunately going to cause this type of behaviour....

did you both have a chance to "get around a bit" before you settled for marriage and kids?

you had the first kids together while you were dating or already married?

I think this outcome is deep-rooted, you must have seen signs.... why he would tell her that you were going to divorce in January, if you became pregnant in March? The girl cant count?

did you have problems before? I cant imagine he would thro everything away, if he was so loving before, like you said...

he may be infatuated now with the girl, but I am not really buying the he was so loving all the time before.... 😢

the girl is just saying, what he is saying to her.... its not good

he blocked you from all his social media....

very messy and immature

he is just maybe hiding from the problems

was he really on board to have a third child?

does he want to see the children now?
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This is really sad, I am so sorry you are going throu this after just giving birth...

the thing is.... 3 children and 9 years together at the age of 27-28 is unfortunately going to cause this type of behaviour....

did you both have a chance to "get around a bit" before you settled for marriage and kids?

you had the first kids together while you were dating or already married?

I think this outcome is deep-rooted, you must have seen signs.... why he would tell her that you were going to divorce in January, if you became pregnant in March? The girl cant count?

did you have problems before? I cant imagine he would thro everything away, if he was so loving before, like you said...

he may be infatuated now with the girl, but I am not really buying the he was so loving all the time before.... 😢

the girl is just saying, what he is saying to her.... its not good

he blocked you from all his social media....

very messy and immature

he is just maybe hiding from the problems

does he want to see the children?
I pregnant with our first child after 2 months or marriage. And another one after two months the eldest was born.

When I told her he lied to her. She was upset for a while. But he went to explain to her and she accept him for whatever he is because he promised her to divorce me after I gave birth.

He didn't even call or send message asking about his kids. He didn't even give me money to support the child. Now I'm living with my parents. And he didn't even bother to ask anything about us
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From everything I read here it just makes you sad about entire human kind. 2 of them are just awful human beings who deserved each other and should live long miserable life together. After all you wrote I can only say she's incredibly dumb and he's just a heartless bastard. In your position however I suggest you to not even give him a chance to come back and find a normal man who will respect you and treat you well. I know it's easier said and done after all that's happened and in current situation but imagine how would your life be with him even if he comes back? Would you be able to forgive and forget everything? Would you be able to trust him after this? And last thing do you really believd such person deserves a second chance from you? Regarding them I wish them exactly all what they deserved.

Also this goes for Taurion as well, if I read well you're in same position? I wish all the best for both of you,to get over this situations and get only stronger after this. Find good people who will love you and respect you,no one deserves this to happen to them but life can be shit some times and you need to be strong to start over again and I'm sure life will reward you for that
When I think about my newborn child, I want him back because I think it isn't fair for him to grow up without his father. At least his bro and sis had a decent family picture.

I do still love him but as an aries, I just can't accept him anymore. He has break my trust and I felt so depressed during my pregnancy.

I had to go to the hospital to give labor alone while he was with her the whole day and cannot make it to the hospital to hold my hand during the delivery process.

When other patients' husband bring them food and accompany them. I was sitting on the hospital bed and just watching everything alone. It was so sad. I cried everytime I took a bath in the toilet, telling myself to be strong for the my new baby.

I don't know whether I can forget him or not. He was my first bf, there is many things that we do it at first time such as kissing and sex and all. But he just let it go for only some financial constraints. And I just can't accept it. He broke my heart in thousand pieces.