Capricorn man say he Love me Do he really?

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I'm a Leo woman that has been in a long distant relationship with a Capricorn man for close to 4 years now. He also has a long distant relationship with his girlfriend but always keep it a secret from me. He finally told me after 9 months into our relationship. I fell madly in love with him and I always sense he had the same feelings for me. When we were together it was always memorable. The way he touches me and caress me was just mind blowing. He's been my soul mate mentally and physically. At 1st I always 2nd guess his love and felt a void in our relationship because he would never verbally express his feelings towards me. Since the Leo is a king of the jungle we had our ups and downs. Recently I learned all about a Capricorn man??_. Cautions about falling in love, not verbally expressive and very patient. Now our relationship has been going pretty smooth. Recently he started showing me he really cares about me more a more everyday. We been seeing each other a lot more often and he finally tells me he love me. My question is do you think he always felt this way about me or he just feels more secure to reveal it now?
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Posted by CapMusic
Point blank, if you were his side chick, he'll have no problem getting another side chick when with you. You got played.

Side chick or what ever you would like to call it, he's not married so as far as I'm concern he's still available. He been talking a lot about marriage and I told him if he cheat on his girlfriend he would cheat on me, if we were married. He's reply was he been faithful to his old girlfriend for 7 years and he can be faithful to me. Marriage is not on my mind right now. I enjoy just being his lover.
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I know for a fact that if you were exclusive with someone you wouldn't appreciate another woman with the same mentality that you currently have. In fact, you admit your fears about him cheating here. If he's "available" as you say, then why do you fear him cheating on you? You've just wanted what you want these four years, and forget everyone else and their feelings. You've flipped your ways to the point where it makes sense to you. And he's no better, but if that's what you like then what more can I say, but that the two of you deserve each-other. If wasting time is what you get off to, then carry on... "I Love You" after 4yrs? Wow. You know you can do better.
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I know for a fact that if you were exclusive with someone you wouldn't appreciate another woman with the same mentality that you currently have. In fact, you admit your fears about him cheating here. If he's "available" as you say, then why do you fear him cheating on you? You've just wanted what you want these four years, and forget everyone else and their feelings. You've flipped your ways to the point where it makes sense to you. And he's no better, but if that's what you like then what more can I say, but that the two of you deserve each-other. If wasting time is what you get off to, then carry on... "I Love You" after 4yrs? Wow. You know you can do better.

Hi Inana04, it's not whether I would appreciate that mentality but that mentality is realistic in the real world. It's not a fear about him cheating. That comment was for Cap Music so she can understand I'm already aware of the possibility. Our relationship hasn't been peaches and cream for 4 years. If I knew he had a girlfriend from the start I would never been involved with him. This man was fallen for me from the beginning and I knew it. I made a lot of crazy immature moves that had him more cautious than normal. I pushed every button possible. He been in Love with me.
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I know for a fact that if you were exclusive with someone you wouldn't appreciate another woman with the same mentality that you currently have. In fact, you admit your fears about him cheating here. If he's "available" as you say, then why do you fear him cheating on you? You've just wanted what you want these four years, and forget everyone else and their feelings. You've flipped your ways to the point where it makes sense to you. And he's no better, but if that's what you like then what more can I say, but that the two of you deserve each-other. If wasting time is what you get off to, then carry on... "I Love You" after 4yrs? Wow. You know you can do better.

Hi Inana04, it's not whether I would appreciate that mentality but that mentality is realistic in the real world. It's not a fear about him cheating. That comment was for Cap Music so she can understand I'm already aware of the possibility. Our relationship hasn't been peaches and cream for 4 years. If I knew he had a girlfriend from the start I would never been involved with him. This man was fallen for me from the beginning and I knew it. I made a lot of crazy immature moves that had him more cautious than normal. I pushed every button possible. He been in Love with me.
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that mentality is realistic for selfish people imo, just being honest. and again, you wouldn't fear him doing to you what he's doing to her if it was just "the way it goes." it's better to stand for something and have things revolve around you and your beliefs than to feel that you have to do grimey things that others do to get what you want, just because it happens in the "real world." that's a most definite way to screw yourself in the end. and if he fell for you in the beginning, and he's in love with you and you've always known it..then what is it we're suppose to be answering here again? like what's the point of this question?

im really not trying to be mean or even judge you, but again. you can do better. you will wake up one day and have a ton of regrets about a number of things, starting with the time wasted. it ain't worth it for crumbs. trust me, it's all he's giving and all he will ever give.
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I know for a fact that if you were exclusive with someone you wouldn't appreciate another woman with the same mentality that you currently have. In fact, you admit your fears about him cheating here. If he's "available" as you say, then why do you fear him cheating on you? You've just wanted what you want these four years, and forget everyone else and their feelings. You've flipped your ways to the point where it makes sense to you. And he's no better, but if that's what you like then what more can I say, but that the two of you deserve each-other. If wasting time is what you get off to, then carry on... "I Love You" after 4yrs? Wow. You know you can do better.

Hi Inana04, it's not whether I would appreciate that mentality but that mentality is realistic in the real world. It's not a fear about him cheating. That comment was for Cap Music so she can understand I'm already aware of the possibility. Our relationship hasn't been peaches and cream for 4 years. If I knew he had a girlfriend from the start I would never been involved with him. This man was fallen for me from the beginning and I knew it. I made a lot of crazy immature moves that had him more cautious than normal. I pushed every button possible. He been in Love with me.



that mentality is realistic for selfish people imo, just being honest. and again, you wouldn't fear him doing to you what he's doing to her if it was just "the way it goes." it's better to stand for something and have things revolve around you and your beliefs than to feel that you have to do grimey things that others do to get what you want, because it happens in the "real world." that's a most definite way to screw yourself in the end. and if he fell for you in the beginning, and he's in love with you and you've always known it..then what is it we're suppose to be answering here again? like what's the point of this question?

im really not trying to be mean or even judge you, but again. you can do better. you will wake up one day and have a ton of regrets about a number of things. it ain't worth it for crumbs. trust me, it's all he's giving.
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I'm honest also. Most people don't tell everything on here but I don
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Posted by CapMusic
I'm not a female. -__- And you wouldn't have got involved if you'd known that he had a girlfriend but then you learned and didn't leave.

You're the type that if I had a girlfriend and you came up to me trying hard, I'd go tell her and watch her beat the piss out of you and laugh. Immature but plenty entertaining. I just can't see your logic that makes it okay.. at all.

First of all I don't approach men. Secondly I'm not a weak person mentally or physically. Third of all you might get your girlfriend but kicked.

To further elaborate he expressed his feelings in a lot of different ways especially in the bedroom. He just wasn't verbally expressive enough. I use to ask him do he love me and he would never admit it? I also ask him a million times did he have a girlfriend and he would never admitt to that either. I knew he love me!!! I just never was with a man that was scared to tell me how he feels about me. Especially a man that always wanted me to reveal my feelings for him.


How he told me he had a girlfriend came out after we had a heated argument. I didn't really believe him at that point. He been lying saying he didn't love me so I figured he was lying about that also.
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There's so much negativity here. If every one were perfect and living a righteous life they wouldn't need to be on here. That's why I stop being on this forum in the 1st place. The truth is no one knows exactly everything that goes on in people relationship. Majority of us post 50% and don't tell the real truth. I tell any and everything regardless of what people think of me. I'm not needy, selfish or any other horrible thing that people are saying about me.
I have been intimate with this man for close to 4 years, with a year of being apart physically. I spent countless hours talking to him over the 4 years and I know him better than anyone on this forum. I have the necessary information to write a book about him if I choose to. I don't mind hearing some negative things because that's life. But not everything is always negative. For the people that are negative all the time take a look in the mirror.
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I won't share MY man!

I wouldn't want to share my man either but I don't consider him my man.



So why do you care so much about what he feels for you? You have never made sense in this entire story in all the YEARS you've been posting about it here.

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You been following me for years now and I don't make sense. Why do you have years to follow someone that don't make any sense. What type of life do you have?
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Posted by faith $ golphin
You been following me for years now and I don't make sense. Why do you have years to follow someone that don't make any sense. What type of life do you have?



And there she goes again...

Nobody "follows" you dear. Don't flatter yourself. How can anyone forget the psychotic ramblings that you posted in the past? You bombarded these forums in multiple areas in regard to this guy. Anyone familiar with "licking front to back?" You even thought THAT meant something. Now you're back, still expecting some sort of advice/sympathy for your selfish situation.

But whatever floats your boat. Your post just highly amuses me.
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this is silly.

ldrs are silly.

going back and forth between feeling confident that he loves you and then questioning it in the title of this thread is silly.

dating men who have girlfriends is silly.

putting up with any of this for 4 yrs is very silly.

asking this question in this scenario and then questioning a board of capricorns and their sincerity and truthfulness is ridiculous.

it seems like you are only wanting to hear what you want to hear. period. in fact, it's prob how you wound up in any of this.

my advice... don't be silly.
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I thought I was the only one thinking that none of this makes any sense whatsoever.

What ever Inana 04 I saw that message you hide.



Thats good you saw it. Hopefully you'll have a talk with him to make sure the two of you are on the same page about the word love.
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I'm surer than I ever been about anything.
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I debated whether or not to post here for some time. I am not the most tactful individual but I try. I am going to talk to you from 4 different perspectives.

I am a Leo also with a Capricorn.

1.Woman to Woman- 40 is too old to be a jump off and 4 years is way too long to be one.

2.Leo to Leo- Are you for real... we are way too fly to be sitting on the bench talking about "put me in coach"

3.Leo woman with a Cap Man to Leo woman with a Cap man- You know he doesn't but you want us to tell you he does. Maybe you do love him. I love fast and hard.

4.Ex Fool to Current Fool- You will one day realize, you can and do deserve better. Until you do make him wear a condom. I doubt you are the only side piece.

I think I read that you live in NY. With a population of 8 million at least 2 million have to be men and at least half of them are single. I would have a different date every night of the week and an outfit to match but hey thats just me.

You need a Virgo in your life. He/She would get you together real quick.
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Faith, in my opinion, dump the loser and find someone else. You can do better. You deserve better!!!! Life is too short to waste this many years on his inconsistency and lack of commitment. How's THAT for an honest answer?

Thanks for the honest opinion. I love our relationship just the way it is. He Loves me unconditionally 4 sure.
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Like everyone else, then Why post the question?
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Attention Whore; def:

A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

1.is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention

2.interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior

3.displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions

4.consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self

5.has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail

6.shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion

7.is suggestible, i.e., easily influenced by others or circumstances

8.considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are.
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Posted by venusianbull
Attention Whore; def:

A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

1.is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention

2.interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior

3.displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions

4.consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self

5.has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail

6.shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion

7.is suggestible, i.e., easily influenced by others or circumstances

8.considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are.




I just knew that was going to describe me but it DIDN'T ...does happy dance all around the office !! I was scared. LOL 😉
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Posted by Nala13
I debated whether or not to post here for some time. I am not the most tactful individual but I try. I am going to talk to you from 4 different perspectives.

I am a Leo also with a Capricorn.

1.Woman to Woman- 40 is too old to be a jump off and 4 years is way too long to be one.

2.Leo to Leo- Are you for real... we are way too fly to be sitting on the bench talking about "put me in coach"

3.Leo woman with a Cap Man to Leo woman with a Cap man- You know he doesn't but you want us to tell you he does. Maybe you do love him. I love fast and hard.

4.Ex Fool to Current Fool- You will one day realize, you can and do deserve better. Until you do make him wear a condom. I doubt you are the only side piece.

I think I read that you live in NY. With a population of 8 million at least 2 million have to be men and at least half of them are single. I would have a different date every night of the week and an outfit to match but hey thats just me.

You need a Virgo in your life. He/She would get you together real quick.

Thanks Leo girl for keeping it real!!! I and too dam fly for real and I never sat on no bench begging to get in. I was always the star. With that being said do you think I would be screwing a man for 3 years that didn't really love me? I never was a fool or a jump off for any man. Going out with men is ok but I haven't had sex with a lot of men and I don't plan to.
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Posted by faith $ golphin
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Thanks Leo girl for keeping it real!!! I and too dam fly for real and I never sat on no bench begging to get in. I was always the star. With that being said do you think I would be screwing a man for 3 years that didn't really love me? I never was a fool or a jump off for any man. Going out with men is ok but I haven't had sex with a lot of men and I don't plan to.
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Why is the theme to the Twilight Zone playing in my head. I think you misunderstood me. I doubt that anything I say will make much sense to you.

You can not claim to be a STAR or whatever term you would like to use to describe yourself and ....You know what nevermind. Do you.

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All the women here seeking relationship advice about a Capricorn man and they all can be cheating or have a girlfriend. Correct? My story is no different from everybody else. My Capricorn friend has some of the same tendencies as you all. We just have an open and honest relationship now. My mind it at ease since I know the real truth. When we 1st started seeing each other he supposedly didn't have a girlfriend and everything was a big mess. To me honesty goes a long way!!! Everything I read in this forum sound similar to my cap friend. For all the women that are in a relationship with a cap man DID YOU EVER WAKE UP AND THINK HE WAS CHEATING ON YOU? OR YOU WERE THE OTHER WOMEN? I would like to hear honest answers from everybody. This is not about me no more.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
You're BACK??

What happened to the ring that you bragged about? I thought he expressed such feelings then, too?

Why are you still playing second fiddle to this guy?

Does this mean we're going to see another slew of threads about this guy for 9 months again? :/

Who knows if he meant it. He sounds like a tool.


Yeah LOL
That was a friendship ring.
Not verbally
We have a lot in common.
No need for the threads because I understand him a lot more.
He meant it.