Capricorn mixed signals.

You jumped to a conclusion over his comment about his friend not bring ready for a real commitment due to his age.

You immediately became defensive and then proceeded to reject him and then you turn into a whole notha person after blowing cold and then blew hot and asked for a kiss.

You behaved like an 19 year old wishy washy girl. The blowing hot and cold is very confusing. You then proceed to initiate intimacy after rejecting him and then tell the guy he's cute then you tell him he's hot and kiss him.

You wait a whole week to reach out with a generic text which is immature, defensive and down right boring behavior. On top of that it wasn't a text message that required a response thus he did not respond.

My suggestion would be for you to strengthen your self esteem which can help build up a better connection with a man. Your insecure feelings cause you to become defensive and being defensive you push a man away but your desire for love, intimacy and companionship cause you to send out mixed messages.

Not every man is out to hurt and reject you. Work on being less defensive and work on learning how to control that negative inner voice that jumps to conclusions.

This guy is gone as in not interested in dealing with your issues, way too much drama for a single guy to deal with plus it's not interesting not fun being around an defensive insecure woman, it's a lot of work, a project with little reward in return.

Try meditation which can help you calm down mentally and emotionally.

There may be another opportunity to reconnect with him but if you don't have yourself together mentally and emotionally the outcome will be the same.

I think you need more time to assess this situation. See how he acts next time you're with him. Does it feel the same or is it different?

Seattle there is chasing a man and there is appearing interested by taking the initiative and then leaning all the way back to allow a man the space to come and get you, seal the deal by hunting for the win.

You were chasing him. Chase a man and he will RUN. Men love to be desired and wanted but if a woman takes it too far by popping over more than once well that' s chasing and men have this fight or flight reaction to being hunted/chased, they either fight as in argue or get an attitude or they run.

Try not to take this so personal as if he's intentionally trying to hurt you. If your energy is off which it is a man will sense it and have this come near her but go away she's dangerous as in low self esteem insecure which will impact him in a negative way so he will keep you at arms length.

Next time you see him smile but walk away and eventually his innate hunting skills will automatically kick in and all you've done is NOTHING.