@MrHandsome
7 Years
What does she want?
Understanding Her Actions and Intentions
She may be calling and visiting you because she still has unresolved feelings and is seeking emotional or physical connection despite her current relationship. Her behavior suggests she is confused and possibly longing for intimacy or reassurance from you. It is important to communicate clearly to understand her true intentions and boundaries.
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caps always make us their backup plan
you think so, so she's coming around start creeping with again lol
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Wants the D probably.
she can get the D but she's back and forth giving me mix signals about it. Why can't she be upfront I'm down to give it if that's all she wants
caps always make us their backup plan
you think so, so she's coming around start creeping with again lol
she probably wants to sleep with you
things might not be going well with her bf
but don't expect her to stay
just do whatever you want srsly
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so she's still might be using me for good lay
caps always make us their backup plan
you think so, so she's coming around start creeping with again lol
she probably wants to sleep with you
things might not be going well with her bf
but don't expect her to stay
just do whatever you want srsly
so she's still might be using me for good lay
of course
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shes told me she loved me in the past, she knows I care about her I just feel it's kind of foul of her keep pushing on me when she in something serious. If I hook up with her this time I may wat something serious. I got history with her, but I know she loves her boyfriend but not enough not to cheat.
Thoughts?
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Wants the D probably.
she can get the D but she's back and forth giving me mix signals about it. Why can't she be upfront I'm down to give it if that's all she wants
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but I vibe with her so good its good connection I'm almost tempted to push harder but I don't feel like I have too cuz she's keeps coming back.
Ego
She comes to you when she needs to get her ego stroked. Either you make her feel wanted or important or whatever.
Then back to her boyfriend she goes.
Tell her to decide what she wants or go away.
thst hurts, Im having feeling for her the more I think about, she's the only girl that has ever gotten me a gift, she wanted a relationship in the past but I couldn't commit so she met this guy and ghost me for a year until now. I do like building her emotionaly but I want more for my energy.
Ego
She comes to you when she needs to get her ego stroked. Either you make her feel wanted or important or whatever.
Then back to her boyfriend she goes.
Tell her to decide what she wants or go away.
thst hurts, Im having feeling for her the more I think about, she's the only girl that has ever gotten me a gift, she wanted a relationship in the past but I couldn't commit so she met this guy and ghost me for a year until now. I do like building her emotionaly but I want more for my energy.
Have you been honest with her? Just tell her you’re interested in more and if she can’t commit to it, then she needs to leave you alone.
If she’s genuinely invested in you she will dump the guy or give you space so you can move on.
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with her I'm almost 100% because it's always been Strings attached, she said she likes my body and the fact that I listen to her, but she loves her boyfriend too much. She just said I'm 20% he's not.
And now that it's more she's scared, she wants to leave him but can't because I'm still unstable.
caps always make us their backup plan
you think so, so she's coming around start creeping with again lol
she probably wants to sleep with you
things might not be going well with her bf
but don't expect her to stay
just do whatever you want srsly
so she's still might be using me for good lay
of course
shes told me she loved me in the past, she knows I care about her I just feel it's kind of foul of her keep pushing on me when she in something serious. If I hook up with her this time I may wat something serious. I got history with her, but I know she loves her boyfriend but not enough not to cheat.
Thoughts?
do you even express these things to her?
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yes , I told her how would she feel about hooking up and she said she OK, but nothing has happened. I also asked her how would she feel if he was cheating she said he won't he works all day and sleeps the rest of the day. And he is verbally mean to her. I told her if she misses me and she says yes.
caps always make us their backup plan
you think so, so she's coming around start creeping with again lol
she probably wants to sleep with you
things might not be going well with her bf
but don't expect her to stay
just do whatever you want srsly
so she's still might be using me for good lay
of course
shes told me she loved me in the past, she knows I care about her I just feel it's kind of foul of her keep pushing on me when she in something serious. If I hook up with her this time I may wat something serious. I got history with her, but I know she loves her boyfriend but not enough not to cheat.
Thoughts?
do you even express these things to her?
yes , I told her how would she feel about hooking up and she said she OK, but nothing has happened. I also asked her how would she feel if he was cheating she said he won't he works all day and sleeps the rest of the day. And he is verbally mean to her. I told her if she misses me and she says yes.
you know his sign?
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hes a Leo I think
Ego
She comes to you when she needs to get her ego stroked. Either you make her feel wanted or important or whatever.
Then back to her boyfriend she goes.
Tell her to decide what she wants or go away.
thst hurts, Im having feeling for her the more I think about, she's the only girl that has ever gotten me a gift, she wanted a relationship in the past but I couldn't commit so she met this guy and ghost me for a year until now. I do like building her emotionaly but I want more for my energy.
Have you been honest with her? Just tell her you’re interested in more and if she can’t commit to it, then she needs to leave you alone.
If she’s genuinely invested in you she will dump the guy or give you space so you can move on.
with her I'm almost 100% because it's always been Strings attached, she said she likes my body and the fact that I listen to her, but she loves her boyfriend too much. She just said I'm 20% he's not.
And now that it's more she's scared, she wants to leave him but can't because I'm still unstable.
How are you unstable?
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i travel a lot I'm music engineer so I have clients here and there, I make my money by producing tracks so I got be able to go to my next client same day. So I really don't call anywhere home.
I don’t know why Virgo men typically end up in situations like this. It’s astounding.
I think you enjoy this type of debacle which is why you continue to entertain it with her over the years. You’ve both obviously done this for years and you’ve enjoyed the sensation of feeling lusted after or wanted and then the modality of her being aloof and unavailable. That is what you’re attracted to. This heightened sense of thrill paired with attraction makes you think you’re experiencing something unique and worthwhile. It’s not based on anything remotely tied to reality. You’re essentially lusting after an ideal...
Question is: if you manage to catch her (which you don’t want to because you enjoy this cycle) will you still enjoy and everyday companionship with this woman?
Remove the excitement of having her sneak off to see you and fucking her behind her mans back, is there something else there that you enjoy? Something you think of besides just sex? If you can’t find a quality in her that you believe you cannot find in another woman...then you’re addicted to the dream and not the woman.
i enjoy her I can be committed to her and it's just not the sex, in the past she busted me and we just talked because we just enjoyed each other company. I let her slip on purpose because I felt I always had her until she moved on, now that she's back in like o.k I guess no body can do it like me lol. But in honestly I was relieved she contacted me.
knock this dude out and take his girl, it’s the only way
you think so, I box too so I might just have too.
knock this dude out and take his girl, it’s the only way
you think so, I box too so I might just have too.
Lol I was just kidding but you do what you gotta do bro. But if you start fucking her or she leaves him for you that’s always a possible thing you have to deal with lol
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i want go to his job and kick his ass for making her cry and hurting her feelings. Just teach him a lesson, so I've already been thinking about it.
No lie I want have sex with her regardless of how I would feel afterwards. Or how wrong she would look.
I'm still a man and I want feel a women.
Say that you took her back, would you even trust her knowing she’s willing to cheat on her current bf?
Just sounds like she wants what she can’t have. She’s immature still.
Say that you took her back, would you even trust her knowing she’s willing to cheat on her current bf?
Just sounds like she wants what she can’t have. She’s immature still.
i don't know, but why contact me if she's in love with this guy. And have playing phone games..
Say that you took her back, would you even trust her knowing she’s willing to cheat on her current bf?
Just sounds like she wants what she can’t have. She’s immature still.
i don't know, but why contact me if she's in love with this guy. And have playing phone games..
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Because for her, you are someone who can distract her from her current problems.
Say that you took her back, would you even trust her knowing she’s willing to cheat on her current bf?
Just sounds like she wants what she can’t have. She’s immature still.
i don't know, but why contact me if she's in love with this guy. And have playing phone games..
Because for her, you are someone who can distract her from her current problems.
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so she using me, she isn't interested in leaving him.
I'm frustrated because she's never done a year of no contact, and me feeling like that chapter was closed was fine with me. But I missed her and dealing with other women who don't compare, I realized I regret denying her the relationship she asked this past year. But when she called I felt "yes she's back, back to having my friend, until she came with a official whole boyfriend that she claims she loves too. And now I want her but I don't want to be used but I won't say no to her affair.
I called and told her I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend by the end of this year.
She wasn't excited and she told me that its over, that she made a big mistake that she regrets it, she hates her self for being dishonest to her boyfriend and to not contact her.
I am devastated because I know she loves me, and she's not happy with him.
You should accept her words and move on. You can't possibly know what's between her and her bf case you're not in that relationship, they are. Even if it's all the worse it can be she's clearly chosing him over you, that should say something...
but what the hell tho!!!
So I'm OK to screw with, but if I show my feeling I get this crap, I she came to me if she was married I would except it as bad karma and back off. But 1 year relationship and we got over 3 years together. Plus the sex and connection we had must have been waaaaay better then this looser.
Why dose love blind some women into not seeing the truth.
We're friends
We're lovers
We connect beyond perfect.
We can actually be a perfect match.
In her words but mine:
This guy is lazy
He argues with her 30%
He works all the time
He not as in shape
She has to please him all the time
It's just because he was the 1st guy she's had a real relationship with and she gives her all to guys. Self sacrificing that's her pices Venus in action.
You should accept her words and move on. You can't possibly know what's between her and her bf case you're not in that relationship, they are. Even if it's all the worse it can be she's clearly chosing him over you, that should say something...
but what the hell tho!!!
So I'm OK to screw with, but if I show my feeling I get this crap, I she came to me if she was married I would except it as bad karma and back off. But 1 year relationship and we got over 3 years together. Plus the sex and connection we had must have been waaaaay better then this looser.
The overall situation has effect on that. If first you were the one not wanting to gave relationship she might have gotten herself to not have feelings for you and do it out of lust or familiarity...who knows? Sort of can relate to her situation cause I had something like that with my ex but eventually it had to stop.
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you reached out to an ex then just stopped it.
Do you even check on him to see if he's OK. Was it emotional, physical or both.
You should accept her words and move on. You can't possibly know what's between her and her bf case you're not in that relationship, they are. Even if it's all the worse it can be she's clearly chosing him over you, that should say something...
but what the hell tho!!!
So I'm OK to screw with, but if I show my feeling I get this crap, I she came to me if she was married I would except it as bad karma and back off. But 1 year relationship and we got over 3 years together. Plus the sex and connection we had must have been waaaaay better then this looser.
The overall situation has effect on that. If first you were the one not wanting to gave relationship she might have gotten herself to not have feelings for you and do it out of lust or familiarity...who knows? Sort of can relate to her situation cause I had something like that with my ex but eventually it had to stop.
you reached out to an ex then just stopped it.
Do you even check on him to see if he's OK. Was it emotional, physical or both.
No not like that. We dated and broke up. Started seeing each other occasionally again and it turned into fwb or something? Reason why even that happened was cause I still had feelings for him but when I met someone else I stopped seeing him for that. He tried for some time again to meet up but I refused and wasn't going down that road again. That was looong time ago. Never needed to check up on him. He was the one to break things up after all first time. This lasted for years btw.
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thats not what I needed to hear.
I feel like I messed up for the second time with a perfect girl. In all honesty I don't want her hurt by this guy again.
Also What are your placement ?
Sun Moon Venus and Mars
She shouldn't have open that door then!! I feel my Scorpio moon an mars feeling betrayed by some 1 I trusted. 6 months of I miss you, I even caved and said I love you. And she buckles up and folds then leaves me on limb.
I sent her screen shots of our conversation of everything and she blocks me.
You should accept her words and move on. You can't possibly know what's between her and her bf case you're not in that relationship, they are. Even if it's all the worse it can be she's clearly chosing him over you, that should say something...
but what the hell tho!!!
So I'm OK to screw with, but if I show my feeling I get this crap, I she came to me if she was married I would except it as bad karma and back off. But 1 year relationship and we got over 3 years together. Plus the sex and connection we had must have been waaaaay better then this looser.
The overall situation has effect on that. If first you were the one not wanting to gave relationship she might have gotten herself to not have feelings for you and do it out of lust or familiarity...who knows? Sort of can relate to her situation cause I had something like that with my ex but eventually it had to stop.
you reached out to an ex then just stopped it.
Do you even check on him to see if he's OK. Was it emotional, physical or both.
No not like that. We dated and broke up. Started seeing each other occasionally again and it turned into fwb or something? Reason why even that happened was cause I still had feelings for him but when I met someone else I stopped seeing him for that. He tried for some time again to meet up but I refused and wasn't going down that road again. That was looong time ago. Never needed to check up on him. He was the one to break things up after all first time. This lasted for years btw.
thats not what I needed to hear.
I feel like I messed up for the second time with a perfect girl. In all honesty I don't want her hurt by this guy again.
Also What are your placement ?
Sun Moon Venus and Mars
Well sounds to me like she was at similar situation which is why I even responded. Best for you is to leave her be, if that guy isn't right for her she'll leave, she's not crazy to put up with something that is so wrong. Now she has her reasons to be where she is and probably is simply protecting herself and searching for security.
I'm Sag Sun and Venus, Aries Moon, Scorp Mars. My ex was Taurus so it wasn't the best of the matches from the start but...
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she played me and him then... Not right I feel like I'm him.
This another troll account or something?
whats a troll account?
This another troll account or something?
whats a troll account?
something like this. So many come on here posting simple questions with straight up answers so i wondered. Bjt if youre not trolling its all good haha
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i'm still confused? Is it because I'm passionate about her? And I'm being tooo emotional
any advice would help
Say that you took her back, would you even trust her knowing she’s willing to cheat on her current bf?
Just sounds like she wants what she can’t have. She’s immature still.
i don't know, but why contact me if she's in love with this guy. And have playing phone games..
Because for her, you are someone who can distract her from her current problems.
so she using me, she isn't interested in leaving him.
I'm frustrated because she's never done a year of no contact, and me feeling like that chapter was closed was fine with me. But I missed her and dealing with other women who don't compare, I realized I regret denying her the relationship she asked this past year. But when she called I felt "yes she's back, back to having my friend, until she came with a official whole boyfriend that she claims she loves too. And now I want her but I don't want to be used but I won't say no to her affair.
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If you want the respect and she is just as serious about you then she would leave her bf. If someone really wanted you they would do anything for you, don’t settle for this crap.
Say that you took her back, would you even trust her knowing she’s willing to cheat on her current bf?
Just sounds like she wants what she can’t have. She’s immature still.
i don't know, but why contact me if she's in love with this guy. And have playing phone games..
Because for her, you are someone who can distract her from her current problems.
so she using me, she isn't interested in leaving him.
I'm frustrated because she's never done a year of no contact, and me feeling like that chapter was closed was fine with me. But I missed her and dealing with other women who don't compare, I realized I regret denying her the relationship she asked this past year. But when she called I felt "yes she's back, back to having my friend, until she came with a official whole boyfriend that she claims she loves too. And now I want her but I don't want to be used but I won't say no to her affair.
If you want the respect and she is just as serious about you then she would leave her bf. If someone really wanted you they would do anything for you, don’t settle for this crap.
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i told her I love her, she told me she loves him and that we should not contact each other, she claims it was a mistake..right a mistake that lasted for months getting me wound up for opportunity to maybe be more this time...
You should accept her words and move on. You can't possibly know what's between her and her bf case you're not in that relationship, they are. Even if it's all the worse it can be she's clearly chosing him over you, that should say something...
but what the hell tho!!!
So I'm OK to screw with, but if I show my feeling I get this crap, I she came to me if she was married I would except it as bad karma and back off. But 1 year relationship and we got over 3 years together. Plus the sex and connection we had must have been waaaaay better then this looser.
The overall situation has effect on that. If first you were the one not wanting to gave relationship she might have gotten herself to not have feelings for you and do it out of lust or familiarity...who knows? Sort of can relate to her situation cause I had something like that with my ex but eventually it had to stop.
you reached out to an ex then just stopped it.
Do you even check on him to see if he's OK. Was it emotional, physical or both.
No not like that. We dated and broke up. Started seeing each other occasionally again and it turned into fwb or something? Reason why even that happened was cause I still had feelings for him but when I met someone else I stopped seeing him for that. He tried for some time again to meet up but I refused and wasn't going down that road again. That was looong time ago. Never needed to check up on him. He was the one to break things up after all first time. This lasted for years btw.
thats not what I needed to hear.
I feel like I messed up for the second time with a perfect girl. In all honesty I don't want her hurt by this guy again.
Also What are your placement ?
Sun Moon Venus and Mars
Well sounds to me like she was at similar situation which is why I even responded. Best for you is to leave her be, if that guy isn't right for her she'll leave, she's not crazy to put up with something that is so wrong. Now she has her reasons to be where she is and probably is simply protecting herself and searching for security.
I'm Sag Sun and Venus, Aries Moon, Scorp Mars. My ex was Taurus so it wasn't the best of the matches from the start but...
she played me and him then... Not right I feel like I'm him.
She played him. Not sure about you tho. I don't think the other guy would stick around if he knew she has someone else for whatever it meant to her
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she told me not to contact her and she won't contact me either. She apparently is more in love with him. I feel played and I think he should know he was too.
Chin up bro. She'll come to the realization if she can break the spell with what appears to be a somewhat controlling asshole bf. Passive women like her might take more time to figure themselves out. Don't stop trying but use your head.
Fwb.. As beneficial as it is cursed.
she blocked my number, my facebook, she emailed me on gmail and said it was big mistake.. All this after I told her I loved her and I want her to be mines by end of the year. She strung me along like a cat toy.
I wonder why you like to know whether the sex with you and with the bf is different?
I mean, you mentioned that before this guy, she did this fwb thing with you anyway, right?
So how would this be any different?
i call it FWB but I'm honesty I don't know what it was. I was more then just that tho, she bought me gifts, remembered my B-Day paid my phone bill. She asked what were we and said just friends she asked could we be more, and I said no' well aleast not right now and she knew why. We said we love each other every now and then but never became official.
She met a new guy, I wasn't worried then boom no contact for 13 months.
It's pretty clear she wants the D
Chin up bro. She'll come to the realization if she can break the spell with what appears to be a somewhat controlling asshole bf. Passive women like her might take more time to figure themselves out. Don't stop trying but use your head.
Fwb.. As beneficial as it is cursed.
she blocked my number, my facebook, she emailed me on gmail and said it was big mistake.. All this after I told her I loved her and I want her to be mines by end of the year. She strung me along like a cat toy.
don't make confessions like that to women like her... cap of both genders like to make bishes out of people
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how did she make a B# out of me. She reached out to until few days ago she Coming to see me calling me late at night crying about this looser she's with, and how much she misses me. I then just realized I still love her, I spoke from the heart I expected it to be a done deal he's no good I'm what you want. Then after all that I get shut out she played me but I'm no B#.
It's pretty clear she wants the D
she dissed me she act like she wanted all she wanted was some one to listen to her complain
a cap with a pisces venus
that woman will want a bitch, trust me
and will have a lasting marriage with a loser
you don't have to be that loser
so she's just a cheater, who wants her cake too
a cap with a pisces venus
that woman will want a bitch, trust me
and will have a lasting marriage with a loser
you don't have to be that loser
i heard Cap and Pisces are both emotional signs one shows it the other hides it. It almost felt like an emotional affair she had with both of us (me and her boyfriend )
Chin up bro. She'll come to the realization if she can break the spell with what appears to be a somewhat controlling asshole bf. Passive women like her might take more time to figure themselves out. Don't stop trying but use your head.
Fwb.. As beneficial as it is cursed.
she blocked my number, my facebook, she emailed me on gmail and said it was big mistake.. All this after I told her I loved her and I want her to be mines by end of the year. She strung me along like a cat toy.
don't make confessions like that to women like her... cap of both genders like to make bishes out of people
how did she make a B# out of me. She reached out to until few days ago she Coming to see me calling me late at night crying about this looser she's with, and how much she misses me. I then just realized I still love her, I spoke from the heart I expected it to be a done deal he's no good I'm what you want. Then after all that I get shut out she played me but I'm no B#.
okay do whatever you want
but it's frustrating what she's doing
you have to make her choose
but if she wanted to be with you,
she should be right now
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she choose him. So I'm backing out because the way I feel, I wanted to hurt him for what he was doing to her.. But now I feel everything she said was a lie, she just wanted a fling and attention.
Thanks everybody I'm done with her, she's poison.
Her FB status just said it all for me today...
SMH The F#ing nerve...
a cap with a pisces venus
that woman will want a bitch, trust me
and will have a lasting marriage with a loser
you don't have to be that loser
i heard Cap and Pisces are both emotional signs one shows it the other hides it. It almost felt like an emotional affair she had with both of us (me and her boyfriend )
she will be attracted to you coz comfort of sun trine but also with pisces venus, you being from the the virgo/pisces axis
but don't underestimate the cap/leo connection... there's something about that coupling that lasts
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he can have her, since she wants to post he's the love of her life!!! I'll tag him to my favorite post and give him some enlightenment"
"These h#s ain't loyal"
a cap with a pisces venus
that woman will want a bitch, trust me
and will have a lasting marriage with a loser
you don't have to be that loser
i heard Cap and Pisces are both emotional signs one shows it the other hides it. It almost felt like an emotional affair she had with both of us (me and her boyfriend )
she will be attracted to you coz comfort of sun trine but also with pisces venus, you being from the the virgo/pisces axis
but don't underestimate the cap/leo connection... there's something about that coupling that lasts
he can have her, since she wants to post he's the love of her life!!! I'll tag him to my favorite post and give him some enlightenment"
"These h#s ain't loyal"
bro she might get mad you're creating drama
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she created drama. She told me he once put her and her kid out at night because of a argument, she doesn't have family support and he knows that.
I almost drove to his job and beat his a##, maybe got arrested but it would have been me thinking I'm protecting her.
She later told he called her back and apologized but still wrong.
I'm over it. The more I think about it the more aggravating it becomes.
So...are you really handsome?
I can't with names like this. It crack me up! 😆
Im decent I suppose never really got a no if I asked for numbers, nice body, make my own money travel in the states a lot, independent ready to settle but it's like all the good ones taken.
What does "COOKIEMONSTER" mean I keep seeing it—
I doubt it's the blue cookie eating puppet from Sesame Street .
What does "COOKIEMONSTER" mean I keep seeing it—
I doubt it's the blue cookie eating puppet from Sesame Street .
It seems both of you want what you cant have
she asked you to commit, you didnt want to
now you are asking her to commit, she doesnt want to
but you are very angry with her, calling her a liar, etc
when you rejected her in the past, she went no contact
now you got rejected, do a no contact (which you will have to anyway, since she cleverly blocked you)
(I have a strange vibe from this thread, like its a reverse post, or trolling... or Idk, something 🙂 )
The damn venus is on retrograde... lol
Just wait till December, she won't call you again.
The damn venus is on retrograde... lol
Just wait till December, she won't call you again.
why is that??
She doesn't want your dick. She wants the emotional ego boost. And your willing to give it. So what is the problem exactly?
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So my ex FWB Capricorn girl I messed with, has been calling me she told me she misses me but has a boyfriend now, she only calls late at night when her man is at work. There are periods where I won't hear from her for days, weeks or months then she reaches out to me again missing me. The sex was good in the past and she is having problems with her current boyfriend just arguments though. In the past she always came to me for sex no matter who she was dating, but with this guy she said she really liked him and cut me off for about year with no contact, now she's reaching out to me. I like her and want to start over with her but my life is on the go right now 2 minute I'm in New Jersey next I'm in Texas.
Also She's young 24 I'm older 28. And She has stopped by house to see me several times but I wasn't home.
1.why is she calling me if she's in a relationship?
2.why is she stopping by my house?
3.does she want hook up cuz sex with her guy isn't the same?