Happygolucky
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Just FYI Rumi, and I suspect this is what you are after. I have Taurus Venus. 😉
I agree with Caplove, maybe she thought your feelings would remain the same.
It's understandable that she could be shocked by your change of attitude & bluntness. Aries can come across as selfish, maybe your delivery was just too cut and dry and she wanted something more tender considering you've been fucking for a while. Also, Caps don't like surprises imo, not like us spontaneous fire signs that can roll with things very quickly. My Cap asked me for a 3 months notice if I ever decided to end things to make the transition easier.
It's understandable that she could be shocked by your change of attitude & bluntness. Aries can come across as selfish, maybe your delivery was just too cut and dry and she wanted something more tender considering you've been fucking for a while. Also, Caps don't like surprises imo, not like us spontaneous fire signs that can roll with things very quickly. My Cap asked me for a 3 months notice if I ever decided to end things to make the transition easier.
Posted by champrangerNope, none of those are correct.Posted by HappygoluckySag Moon, Pisces Merc, and ... Aqua Mars? 😛Posted by RumiLoveDoes it matter what my placements are? Not being ugly at all. Just curious as to why you think my placements have anything to do with this situation.
Happy, what are your placements, I'm a little curious to know. I thought us rams liked goats 😕
Take a stab at it if you feel like you can guess.click to expand
Posted by RumiLoveYou are batting 50% now. Now, you gotta figure out which 2 are correct! 😉
My brain is clearly not working. 😆
Another guess Happy
Virgo rising
Taurus moon
Pisces mercury
Leo mars 😛
I have 6 Retrogrades in my chart also.
Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto. Take that!
Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto. Take that!
Posted by RumiLoveI've been around for maybe 6 months or so. Stalking everyone!Posted by HappygoluckyPosted by RumiLoveYou are batting 50% now. Now, you gotta figure out which 2 are correct! 😉
My brain is clearly not working. 😆
Another guess Happy
Virgo rising
Taurus moon
Pisces mercury
Leo mars 😛
Oh *happy dance* 😄
I gotta go sleep...I cant think straight. Welcome to dxp fellow ram!
PS --- Chaaamp..help me guess!click to expand
Posted by RumiLoveYou're horrible at this Rumi! LOL.Posted by HappygoluckyJupiter and Pluto in Scorpio!!
I have 6 Retrogrades in my chart also.
Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto. Take that!click to expand
Lets see if Champranger can do better
Posted by champrangerThats for you to figure out. I've already given you the answer.Posted by champrangerWhat's your verdict sir? 😛Posted by HappygoluckyAqua RisingPosted by RumiLoveYou are batting 50% now. Now, you gotta figure out which 2 are correct! 😉
My brain is clearly not working. 😆
Another guess Happy
Virgo rising
Taurus moon
Pisces mercury
Leo mars 😛
Taurus Moon
Taurus Mercury
Leo Mars?
😛click to expand
Leo Mars I will say.
Libra moon and Leo rising.
I'll be around from time to time
Posted by DwellingOnMoveThe proposal was not the problem for me. It was the explosion that threw me off.Posted by Happygolucky[...] designated Monday, Wed, Fri as our fuck days. [...]
If I went to my butcher or baker that often, I'd propose to them too.
*blaming Holleywood (two movies) to teach young people to have FWB*click to expand
She rejected me first
Wanted sex but no commitment
Set the times and dates and "rules"
Storms out when she breaks her own terms
Posted by DwellingOnMoveYea I did. Who likes to be cursed out? Come on Sag, you wouldn't like it either.
"It was the explosion that threw me off. "
Somebody exploded and a fire sign has a problem with it. AHA.
I can only understand this thread as venting, talk material, or even a show off. I can't see a problem there.
The title FWB does not make a MACHINE out of it. It is still biological. bioLOGICAL. Still flesh, hormones and nerves are involved.
Or is this girl 100% built of one zodiac sign?
The title FWB does not make a MACHINE out of it. It is still biological. bioLOGICAL. Still flesh, hormones and nerves are involved.
Or is this girl 100% built of one zodiac sign?
I get what you are saying dwellingonmove. I know WHY she went off.
Forget I even asked. It was just a simple question if caps are prone to do this. Freaking sags over analyze shit to death. Jeez
Forget I even asked. It was just a simple question if caps are prone to do this. Freaking sags over analyze shit to death. Jeez
Posted by Happygolucky
I get what you are saying dwellingonmove. I know WHY she went off.
Forget I even asked. It was just a simple question if caps are prone to do this. Freaking sags over analyze shit to death. Jeez
Indeed what I say/analyse is most often what other people have already said before me. I write only differently.
I dated a Taurus for 2 years. When I broke it off with her this crap didn't happen. We said our goodbyes, hugs and all that good stuff and are actually friends.
Posted by Happygolucky
I dated a Taurus for 2 years. When I broke it off with her this crap didn't happen. We said our goodbyes, hugs and all that good stuff and are actually friends.
ok, different girls differents reactions.
I see your Mercury is exhausted cause you don't know if all girls are like the first one or all are like the second one and should you get involved into another FWB when the end is not that romantic.
No, I am only asking about this one scenario. One thing at a time.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveI don't get upset often. When I do I get furious (Aries) but I debate exploding (Libra Moon) then I just eat everything in the fridge (Taurus Venus)
"Who likes to be cursed out?"
this makes me curious how Taurus Venus people fight when they explode.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveMaybe some sarcasm.Posted by HappygoluckyPosted by DwellingOnMoveI don't get upset often. When I do I get furious (Aries) but I debate exploding (Libra Moon) then I just eat everything in the fridge (Taurus Venus)
"Who likes to be cursed out?"
this makes me curious how Taurus Venus people fight when they explode.
I understand. This says how fast or how often you show your angry mind.
But do you do it without cursing? sarcasm? calling names? beating?click to expand
Men are a different story all together. I have zero tolerance for men. Men should know better than to run their mouth inappropriately to another man OR WOMAN. We are physically superior (strength wise and tone of voice) to women. I have punched more than a few men in the mouth for disrespecting women in public. I have also been slapped by the same woman that was being disrespected by her man.
Posted by cheekyfaerieI get the hurt part. I really do.
We can end relationships amicably, but it's always easier to be the one drawing the line, instead of being on the receiving end. You had feelings, she caught feelings, she thought you were a done deal an she got butthurt when you shot her down. We're self deprecating and all that stuff, but at the end of the day, we're very prideful. You hurt her pride.
Posted by cheekyfaerieLoud and clear. One incident will not scare me away. Hell, I'll try it 3 times if I was drunk on the first 2 attempts.Posted by HappygoluckyDo you get that I'm saying this is less about you (or how she felt about you, more specifically) and more about her, tho? Anyway, we all have different temperaments. I can lash out with the best of em, but most people will never see that side of me. Wouldn't let her scare you off Caps in general.Posted by cheekyfaerieI get the hurt part. I really do.
We can end relationships amicably, but it's always easier to be the one drawing the line, instead of being on the receiving end. You had feelings, she caught feelings, she thought you were a done deal an she got butthurt when you shot her down. We're self deprecating and all that stuff, but at the end of the day, we're very prideful. You hurt her pride.click to expand
This is the caps fault. He said he wanted to date she said no. She devalued herself by fwb situation and you really cant go from fwb to relationship. Hopefully she wont make the same mistake again. The aries was thinking with is dick, nothing new to see here but the responsibility in this situation lies squarely on her
Posted by KittenLaRougeThis I agree with. If I go back in my memory, my friend asked me multiple times to date and I said no, then ended up in the exact situation this cappy is in. Never again BUT Im thinking no is the answer we should stick with in the beginning. That no could be our intuition talking.
This is the caps fault. He said he wanted to date she said no. She devalued herself by fwb situation and you really cant go from fwb to relationship. Hopefully she wont make the same mistake again. The aries was thinking with is dick, nothing new to see here but the responsibility in this situation lies squarely on her
Its still her fault but I think we shouldn't doubt ourselves when we say no. I honestly think the two of them would have ended up in a relationship with the exact same ending result. She definitely is the blame, but we initially know more than we think we do when we initially don't see things working out.
OP I'm curious, how long would you have let this continue? Until she called it off? Until you found someone you wanted to date? Or would you have let it go on forever if you could?
Posted by lnana04I really don't know. It was working just fine like it was. I can't honestly answer that question. Nobody knows the future
OP I'm curious, how long would you have let this continue? Until she called it off? Until you found someone you wanted to date? Or would you have let it go on forever if you could?
Posted by lnana04Ive learned the hard way too. Women must dictate these situations because men will usually get what they can. If the womans putting out, why court her? Woman mistakenly assume men will emotionally bond thru sex which they usually dont. Cap women Especially should never do a fwb, its not in dna because we are loyal and freak out when the other person is not.Posted by KittenLaRougeThis I agree with. If I go back in my memory, my friend asked me multiple times to date and I said no, then ended up in the exact situation this cappy is in. Never again BUT Im thinking no is the answer we should stick with in the beginning. That no could be our intuition talking.
This is the caps fault. He said he wanted to date she said no. She devalued herself by fwb situation and you really cant go from fwb to relationship. Hopefully she wont make the same mistake again. The aries was thinking with is dick, nothing new to see here but the responsibility in this situation lies squarely on her
Its still her fault but I think we shouldn't doubt ourselves when we say no. I honestly think the two of them would have ended up in a relationship with the exact same ending result. She definitely is the blame, but we initially know more than we think we do when we initially don't see things working out.
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Posted by BlackMambaNo..they just have to learn you cant emotionally hook a man with just sex. Its a painful.lesson to have to learn as in what the cap experienced with this man.
LOL ....women are so dumb
Posted by CaploveYep. Fwb is not for a cap woman. If a cap woman engages she is fooling herself.Posted by KittenLaRougeI agree, I don't know what she was thinking, tbh. For me, sometimes I form these plans in my head and don't include others in the plan and then it gets shot to hell because the other person was just supposed to magically know what the plan was.
This is the caps fault. He said he wanted to date she said no. She devalued herself by fwb situation and you really cant go from fwb to relationship. Hopefully she wont make the same mistake again.click to expand
She prob feels like shit right now. Shes been giving her body to a dude who doesnt give 2 fucks about her...smh
Posted by KittenLaRougeWOW at the hypocrite! YOU just said it was HER fault and now I gave 2 fucks about her?
She prob feels like shit right now. Shes been giving her body to a dude who doesnt give 2 fucks about her...smh
GTFOH
Posted by cheekyfaerieHe made a thread about it dumb dumb and thus made it our business duhPosted by KittenLaRougeAnd he thought he was giving his dick to someone that didn't care for him. Two consenting adults made a decision that's nobody else's business.
She prob feels like shit right now. Shes been giving her body to a dude who doesnt give 2 fucks about her...smhclick to expand
Posted by HappygoluckyI simply said she prob feels like shit and youve made it clear your done so have a seat little boy, have many seats.Posted by KittenLaRougeWOW at the hypocrite! YOU just said it was HER fault and now I gave 2 fucks about her?
She prob feels like shit right now. Shes been giving her body to a dude who doesnt give 2 fucks about her...smh
GTFOHclick to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieWell go on an spread your legs then girl, aint no one gaf ok?Posted by KittenLaRougeYou can't speak for all of us. You certainly don't speak for me.Posted by CaploveYep. Fwb is not for a cap woman. If a cap woman engages she is fooling herself.Posted by KittenLaRougeI agree, I don't know what she was thinking, tbh. For me, sometimes I form these plans in my head and don't include others in the plan and then it gets shot to hell because the other person was just supposed to magically know what the plan was.
This is the caps fault. He said he wanted to date she said no. She devalued herself by fwb situation and you really cant go from fwb to relationship. Hopefully she wont make the same mistake again.click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieIt's clear you dont care, probably take whatever you can.get😆Posted by KittenLaRougeIt's cute you think I give a shit.Posted by cheekyfaerieWell go on an spread your legs then girl, aint no one gaf ok?Posted by KittenLaRougeYou can't speak for all of us. You certainly don't speak for me.Posted by CaploveYep. Fwb is not for a cap woman. If a cap woman engages she is fooling herself.Posted by KittenLaRougeI agree, I don't know what she was thinking, tbh. For me, sometimes I form these plans in my head and don't include others in the plan and then it gets shot to hell because the other person was just supposed to magically know what the plan was.
This is the caps fault. He said he wanted to date she said no. She devalued herself by fwb situation and you really cant go from fwb to relationship. Hopefully she wont make the same mistake again.click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerie+1Posted by KittenLaRougeHe asked about a Cap woman's temper. Not your thoughts on their sexual arrangement.Posted by cheekyfaerieHe made a thread about it dumb dumb and thus made it our business duhPosted by KittenLaRougeAnd he thought he was giving his dick to someone that didn't care for him. Two consenting adults made a decision that's nobody else's business.
She prob feels like shit right now. Shes been giving her body to a dude who doesnt give 2 fucks about her...smhclick to expand
I gave a backstory because its always asked for in every thread I read.
Posted by KittenLaRougeLOL........23 years old? You know jack shit about life girlie.Posted by HappygoluckyI simply said she prob feels like shit and youve made it clear your done so have a seat little boy, have many seats.Posted by KittenLaRougeWOW at the hypocrite! YOU just said it was HER fault and now I gave 2 fucks about her?
She prob feels like shit right now. Shes been giving her body to a dude who doesnt give 2 fucks about her...smh
GTFOHclick to expand
Posted by ellleHave a seat ol lady
she's trolling both of you.
Posted by FrenchKpricornNot for a mini series. One hitter quitter with the lights out.
does it worth to buy popcorn ?
Posted by YellowSubmarineThank you for this. So, I'll take it as an isolated incident.Posted by HappygoluckyI know a couple (both Aries actually) that started out with the exact arrangements described above and they are now married.. different strokes, is the point. I fucking hate judgements.
So, I've been FWB with this Cap girl for almost a year now. Until yesterday she has been cool with just using each other for sex. We have designated Monday, Wed, Fri as our fuck days. Yesterday, she tells me she wants more than just sex from me. I told her that I liked our arrangement and that I did not want to give her more than just sex. So, she storms out of bed and starts cursing me out. I'm like WTF! She suggested being FWB in the first place!
Do most Caps act like that when rejected?
Anyhow, to answer your question, as a Cap, she must've considered her time with you (albeit focused on just sex) an investment. In the end, you didn't pay off, so she was pissed. It's not unlike Cap to share their anger, they can actually be quite cruel, however it tends to be colder, so I suspect since your girl was screaming and yelling that she must have some fire in her chart (moon, merc, and/or Venus, would be be guess)click to expand
Yup, I feel yea on the sex. Eh, I'm fairly compromising. I mean, she made the rules and all I did was follow them. I'm not that hard core (lib moon). It's over now and time to move on.
Thanks for all the input peeps. Very grateful
Thanks for all the input peeps. Very grateful
Posted by SsupesLOL at you lion! I can see where it might come off that way.
No, it's not her fault at all.
This dude expressed feels for this lady and found a way to keep her around for the sex. He just used the crap outa her for as long as he could. He knew she would get feelz for him and gave 2 fucks. Big man in a cheap suit is what I see. She rejected him and that is his revenge.
From one fire sign to another. You are a lowlife piece of shit lying motherfucker. Peace out.
Posted by SsupesSo all the gentlemen havent died off I see, thank you lol @ big man in a cheap suit. Yup, the aries is trash. Karmas a bitch too lol
No, it's not her fault at all.
This dude expressed feels for this lady and found a way to keep her around for the sex. He just used the crap outa her for as long as he could. He knew she would get feelz for him and gave 2 fucks. Big man in a cheap suit is what I see. She rejected him and that is his revenge.
From one fire sign to another. You are a lowlife piece of shit lying motherfucker. Peace out.
Posted by KittenLaRougeThis must have happened to you?Posted by SsupesSo all the gentlemen havent died off I see, thank you lol @ big man in a cheap suit. Yup, the aries is trash. Karmas a bitch too lol
No, it's not her fault at all.
This dude expressed feels for this lady and found a way to keep her around for the sex. He just used the crap outa her for as long as he could. He knew she would get feelz for him and gave 2 fucks. Big man in a cheap suit is what I see. She rejected him and that is his revenge.
From one fire sign to another. You are a lowlife piece of shit lying motherfucker. Peace out.click to expand
Good point Ssupes.
This all gives me a headache though. Id think to be used you would be tossed to the side, which she is being now, but it sounds like he basically was in an exclusive and committed fwb with her. It seems there was no desire to end it, and idk, but it seems like no desire to sleep with anyone else, or look for a relationship. Its as if he was closed to anything and everyone outside of that arrangement. Of course, that's hard for her to take because it's almost as he was already committed to her.
I just thought fwb were different.
This all gives me a headache though. Id think to be used you would be tossed to the side, which she is being now, but it sounds like he basically was in an exclusive and committed fwb with her. It seems there was no desire to end it, and idk, but it seems like no desire to sleep with anyone else, or look for a relationship. Its as if he was closed to anything and everyone outside of that arrangement. Of course, that's hard for her to take because it's almost as he was already committed to her.
I just thought fwb were different.
Posted by HappygoluckyWhere is his comments? Why are they gone?Posted by SsupesLOL at you lion! I can see where it might come off that way.
No, it's not her fault at all.
This dude expressed feels for this lady and found a way to keep her around for the sex. He just used the crap outa her for as long as he could. He knew she would get feelz for him and gave 2 fucks. Big man in a cheap suit is what I see. She rejected him and that is his revenge.
From one fire sign to another. You are a lowlife piece of shit lying motherfucker. Peace out.click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMoveI am an extrovert as well. I think most fire signs are to an extent. There is nothing wrong with being loud. I am pretty loud myself and I actually enjoyed that he was so passionate about his feelings. Its a rarity these days. Of course he was totally wrong with his statement and thats cool if he thinks that way, no sweat off my ass.
"You are a lowlife piece of shit lying motherfucker."
not only this. he is also very loud. at least these days. (the times you can't stand extroverts...)
If he deleted then thats all him. From what I've read hes a nice guy. Typical Leo fit throwing about the deletion. He will most likely be back after he calms down, unless he is too childish to show his face again. Pathetic
Posted by DwellingOnMoveYou said HE was very loud. Not ME. Hey, I'm not hating on the guy personally. The only person I have personally seen delete and come back the next day is Ands. He's just here for fun anyways, and thats cool too. The act of him deleting is pathetic and a typical trait of Leo's stomping out when they get exhausted or their sensitive feelings hurt.
"If he deleted then thats all him. From what I've read hes a nice guy. Typical Leo fit throwing about the deletion. He will most likely be back after he calms down, unless he is too childish to show his face again. Pathetic"
didn't I say you are loud? profile deletion is nothing special on dxpnet. nobody needs to be pathetic or psychotic or whatever. they just delete it sometimes. when you outgrow a situation, you do it simply.
like when an extrovert comes back to his senses and becomes less loud. or sleeps longer. things like that. are natural. no dependecy on the sign.
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