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DwellingOnMove
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Posted by Happygolucky
Posted by DwellingOnMove
"If he deleted then thats all him. From what I've read hes a nice guy. Typical Leo fit throwing about the deletion. He will most likely be back after he calms down, unless he is too childish to show his face again. Pathetic"

didn't I say you are loud? profile deletion is nothing special on dxpnet. nobody needs to be pathetic or psychotic or whatever. they just delete it sometimes. when you outgrow a situation, you do it simply.

like when an extrovert comes back to his senses and becomes less loud. or sleeps longer. things like that. are natural. no dependecy on the sign.
You said HE was very loud. Not ME. Hey, I'm not hating on the guy personally. The only person I have personally seen delete and come back the next day is Ands. He's just here for fun anyways, and thats cool too. The act of him deleting is pathetic and a typical trait of Leo's stomping out when they get exhausted or their sensitive feelings hurt.
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In that quote he was talking about you. I confirmed him and added that you were loud.
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Happygolucky
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by Happygolucky
Posted by DwellingOnMove
"If he deleted then thats all him. From what I've read hes a nice guy. Typical Leo fit throwing about the deletion. He will most likely be back after he calms down, unless he is too childish to show his face again. Pathetic"

didn't I say you are loud? profile deletion is nothing special on dxpnet. nobody needs to be pathetic or psychotic or whatever. they just delete it sometimes. when you outgrow a situation, you do it simply.

like when an extrovert comes back to his senses and becomes less loud. or sleeps longer. things like that. are natural. no dependecy on the sign.
You said HE was very loud. Not ME. Hey, I'm not hating on the guy personally. The only person I have personally seen delete and come back the next day is Ands. He's just here for fun anyways, and thats cool too. The act of him deleting is pathetic and a typical trait of Leo's stomping out when they get exhausted or their sensitive feelings hurt.

In that quote he was talking about you. I confirmed him and added that you were loud.
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Gotcha, gotta think hard when you sags talk.
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Happygolucky
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
"The only person I have personally seen delete and come back the next day is Ands."

we detect it for those whom we know or care for, or the loud ones. but there are also such we don't see.
This might be true. I really dont pay attention to these types of things. Ssupes just happened to post on my thread and I was going to say something to him but I noticed all his post on my thread is gone. Also, the one on the Scorp board is gone too. I thought maybe a glitch?
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Happygolucky
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So, the Cap came by the house a few mins ago. Wanted to know if we could just go back to fucking. Of course I declined. She got mad again but calmed down pretty quick. Asking all the usual questions like WHY NOT and stuff. I just told her the truth that she asked me to not get attached so I didn't. Final goodbyes were said and she said she would move on and thanks for the chat.

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MissCAPital
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Posted by Happygolucky
So, I've been FWB with this Cap girl for almost a year now. Until yesterday she has been cool with just using each other for sex. We have designated Monday, Wed, Fri as our fuck days. Yesterday, she tells me she wants more than just sex from me. I told her that I liked our arrangement and that I did not want to give her more than just sex. So, she storms out of bed and starts cursing me out. I'm like WTF! She suggested being FWB in the first place!

Do most Caps act like that when rejected?
I am a Capricorn woman and I just want to say I wish I could curse you out for her. She has waited patiently for you for almost a year and she finally gets the courage to tell you her true feelings and you treated her that way? She's never just been cool with you using her for sex. Me personally I don't even ask for things I truly want, I study it, work hard, keep patience, and I earn it. I'll even go as far as asking the exact opposite of what i really want to avoid the embarrassment of having to ask and being rejected, you'll never see an inclination of my true feelings. She loves you she even came back after you crushed her for you to reject her again, please spare her pain and DO NOT CONTACT HER any more, it is a really mean thing to do if you don't want her. So please let her move on so she can find some one waaay better that you.. because trust me, she will... we learn form our mistakes and then we grow.. and you were definitely a mistake.
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Posted by Rambunctious76
Posted by MissCAPital
Posted by Happygolucky
So, I've been FWB with this Cap girl for almost a year now. Until yesterday she has been cool with just using each other for sex. We have designated Monday, Wed, Fri as our fuck days. Yesterday, she tells me she wants more than just sex from me. I told her that I liked our arrangement and that I did not want to give her more than just sex. So, she storms out of bed and starts cursing me out. I'm like WTF! She suggested being FWB in the first place!

Do most Caps act like that when rejected?
I am a Capricorn woman and I just want to say I wish I could curse you out for her. She has waited patiently for you for almost a year and she finally gets the courage to tell you her true feelings and you treated her that way? She's never just been cool with you using her for sex. Me personally I don't even ask for things I truly want, I study it, work hard, keep patience, and I earn it. I'll even go as far as asking the exact opposite of what i really want to avoid the embarrassment of having to ask and being rejected, you'll never see an inclination of my true feelings. She loves you she even came back after you crushed her for you to reject her again, please spare her pain and DO NOT CONTACT HER any more, it is a really mean thing to do if you don't want her. So please let her move on so she can find some one waaay better that you.. because trust me, she will... we learn form our mistakes and then we grow.. and you were definitely a mistake.
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You obviously didn't read through the whole thread.

The Op was romantically interested, but Cap woman rejected him. However, she had the GALL to suggest an FWB arrangement after rejecting him. If anything, the Cap woman used Op for sex, not the other way around. Arrangements and schedules were on HER terms, the FWB was HER suggestion, and he went along with it because well, why not?

And yet only AFTER Op's feelings for her died and it became purely sexual for him, nothing more, the Cap woman turns around and says SHE WANTS a relationship with him. Do you see the pattern here, MissCAPital??

So when you defend the Cap woman, you
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DwellingOnMove
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"I'll even go as far as asking the exact opposite of what i really want to avoid the embarrassment of having to ask and being rejected, you'll never see an inclination of my true feelings."

Not sure if you are proud or critical of this trait, yet its simple existence does not gurantee success in all case. Only sometimes. Cause Caps are famous for achievable succuss. Not for failing. Yet you lose once, you win another time.

It seems this thread can be thought provoking for some girls. A good thing afterall?
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Happygolucky
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
"I'll even go as far as asking the exact opposite of what i really want to avoid the embarrassment of having to ask and being rejected, you'll never see an inclination of my true feelings."

Not sure if you are proud or critical of this trait, yet its simple existence does not gurantee success in all case. Only sometimes. Cause Caps are famous for achievable succuss. Not for failing. Yet you lose once, you win another time.

It seems this thread can be thought provoking for some girls. A good thing afterall?
Who knows dwellingonmove? The thread was not created for that purpose. If it was thought provoking for some women then that's never a bad thing.
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balblair
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The problem here is in typical cap form, she did exactly the opposite of what she wanted

You asked her to be in a relationship and she proceeded with fwb now she's upset that you want to continue what she started

She sent mixed messages, in typical cap form expecting you to read btwn the lines...smdh

I would tell her listen when I wanted to be in relationship you opted for a causal fwb relationship, sent me mixed signals now all of a sudden you do want the relationship

I wouldn't talk to her unless she can convey her true feelings and be honest and transparent

When ppl play games and expect you to read mines they end up hurt

Op you did nothing wrong had she been honest from day one she wouldn't be acting as crazy as she is...ridiculous.
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Posted by balblair
The problem here is in typical cap form, she did exactly the opposite of what she wanted

You asked her to be in a relationship and she proceeded with fwb now she's upset that you want to continue what she started

She sent mixed messages, in typical cap form expecting you to read btwn the lines...smdh

I would tell her listen when I wanted to be in relationship you opted for a causal fwb relationship, sent me mixed signals now all of a sudden you do want the relationship

I wouldn't talk to her unless she can convey her true feelings and be honest and transparent

When ppl play games and expect you to read mines they end up hurt

Op you did nothing wrong had she been honest from day one she wouldn't be acting as crazy as she is...ridiculous.
What do you think Caps send mixed messages? I've noticed this too with mine!
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Happygolucky
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What is she texting you?...like what does she want? To talk? To have sex again?
Yep, she wants to continue the FWB path. I finally texted her yesterday which she replied with 20 phone calls that went unanswered. Might have to just bite the bullet and break this girls heart. I hate doing that.
Def trying to get you back. maybe she decided that she'd be willing to put up with you for another year then ask you again? who knows?
Or 'accidentally' get pregnant...

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LOL.....Protection brother. I actually use it religiously.
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Happygolucky
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Posted by Fins101
I hate to sound like a know it all , but you probably overlooked small signs she was getting attached to you they would be there if you cast you mind back Caps are incredibly reserved. (Cap venus here so I can relate)She should have been more open with you which was why it was probably seemed so sudden when she told you ... it was not this probably has been building up in here for some time. Now she may have been looking you as some sort of investment , the negitave side of Cap energy or she may actually have geniuenly been falling for you. I'm not saying your are obligated in any to this girl you are not beyond lm trying to point out how this MAY have looked from her perspective based on what you have saide here. I hope this helps.
Could be right
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Happygolucky
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Posted by Happygolucky
Posted by lnana04
What is she texting you?...like what does she want? To talk? To have sex again?
Yep, she wants to continue the FWB path. I finally texted her yesterday which she replied with 20 phone calls that went unanswered. Might have to just bite the bullet and break this girls heart. I hate doing that.
Def trying to get you back. maybe she decided that she'd be willing to put up with you for another year then ask you again? who knows?
Or 'accidentally' get pregnant...
LOL.....Protection brother. I actually use it religiously.
Ever heard of a needle? Has she ever had access to your used condoms?
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If that happens then it happens. Malicious intent. I'd have her ass locked up while raising another kiddo. (providing dna test is mine)
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Posted by Gobshite
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Posted by Gobshite
Posted by kalin
Posted by Happygolucky
Posted by lnana04
What is she texting you?...like what does she want? To talk? To have sex again?
Yep, she wants to continue the FWB path. I finally texted her yesterday which she replied with 20 phone calls that went unanswered. Might have to just bite the bullet and break this girls heart. I hate doing that.
Def trying to get you back. maybe she decided that she'd be willing to put up with you for another year then ask you again? who knows?
Or 'accidentally' get pregnant...
LOL.....Protection brother. I actually use it religiously.
Ever heard of a needle? Has she ever had access to your used condoms?
If that happens then it happens. Malicious intent. I'd have her ass locked up while raising another kiddo. (providing dna test is mine)
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Maybe you just need to keep giving her the dick. Problem solved. She prob aint had a good dick in years! Now, you will have another kid to raise by yourself and something else to brag about. Plus, you will save money from taking so many vacations.