SexySweetSavage
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Confused about Caps
I was talking to mine for 2 1/2 months until he decided to "ghost" me for idk what reason. Cappies like their space a lot. We used to talk almost every day for 5-6hrs, now we don't talk. It took him a month to open up a tiny bit more and I thought some progress was made but now it's gone. I'm trying to move on with life and he seems to reel himself in by messaging me every 3-4 days with random sayings or a "random thought" about something I used to say or do which upsets me now. I know us Taurus girls don't always like to rush things, but we do like reassurance and definitely do not like our time wasted, because we have so much to offer. I'm sorry but it's a risk you have to be willing to take if you want to see where this goes. I don't want to be biased and tell you that what happened to me will happen to you because maybe it'll be different. As what some of the cappies here have said, if they make time for you more often, then he may be interested. Show him all the good things about yourself.
Thank you. Yeah I have to have reassurance to feel this is worth it. I really do like him. I'm just going to continue to do me, I'm not a chaser so if he want his space which I can happily give then so be it.
Posted by SexySweetSavageWish you the best in that. If you ever need a fellow Taurus to chat with, I'm here 🙂
Thank you. Yeah I have to have reassurance to feel this is worth it. I really do like him. I'm just going to continue to do me, I'm not a chaser so if he want his space which I can happily give then so be it.
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When your having conversation do you ask him questions about him or just respond telling him how his day is?
I personally prefer talking in person. If I'm not interested, a guy will get the bare minimum responses and I won't put forth an effort to make conversation.
Of course I ask about his day and what he likes. I show him that I'm interested in his days and he does the same with me.
I like texts, but I don't have much to say on them.
Id like to think I'm an open book, and if I like you I'll tell you anything you want to know, but I was told by a Taurus that I only reveal things I'm comfortable with so idk.
I think Taurus knows how to tap into us, but not in a verbal way. Emotionally and physically, but communication leaves a lot to be desired on both ends, and since both signs are so reserved, you can't do nothing but wonder what's really going on.
You just have to ask yourself how patient are you.
Id like to think I'm an open book, and if I like you I'll tell you anything you want to know, but I was told by a Taurus that I only reveal things I'm comfortable with so idk.
I think Taurus knows how to tap into us, but not in a verbal way. Emotionally and physically, but communication leaves a lot to be desired on both ends, and since both signs are so reserved, you can't do nothing but wonder what's really going on.
You just have to ask yourself how patient are you.
Well these two days I have been irritated cause I never been with a Capricorn. It's intriguing and then again frustrating that I'm also reserved an I sometimes I feel like. I'm doing a little more on communicating. Like I'm patient but at the same time I have to just get use of dealing with pretty much a mirror of myself. lol it's kind of weird I wonder if this how other guys feel with me trying to get to know me.
Soooo I text my Caps guy and I basically told him I don't want to waste his time on getting to know me if he not all in. An he said that I wasn't wasting my time. He just want to take things slow and that he really likes me ? And that he don't want to feel like he's ignoring me he's just busy with work and fixing his other car.
I kind of feel like a ass cause I was so bend on just letting him go but I really like him he just very intriguing to me. So I had to just be straight forward and ask him if he's all in or wasting both our time.
So I'm very happy now lol
I kind of feel like a ass cause I was so bend on just letting him go but I really like him he just very intriguing to me. So I had to just be straight forward and ask him if he's all in or wasting both our time.
So I'm very happy now lol
*sigh* I'm in the same boat. I'm a Aries/Taurus Taurus and he's a Sag/Cap Capricorn and wow things are so intense when we're face to face, even on the phone, but texting sucks lol. I'm good with written word he seems to hate it. For some reason he's seemed to come out his shell quickly with me but maybe that's because we've got the fire on both of our suns. It's only been about month and he's very in touch with his emotions. I just wonder if maybe his feelings for me are as strong as his feelings about everything else. He doesn't talk about those. Mine are very strong and I don't talk about them either.
Posted by LiveAndLoveAgreed.
Oh and all the Caps I know hate texting, lol. I don't think I ever got one from him longer than one sentence during the entire time we were officially together. Usually one to two words. Yes. No. Nite. Luv u.
Lol
My cap only text paragraphs if we are going through something while he is working and he wants to get all his thoughts out at once.. Also, when I get all mushy and he responds to my mushiness with his mushy.. LOL! "SO much mush" Other than that, he's very short with his texting and straight to the point.
Posted by LiveAndLoveHAHAHA 😄Posted by poison_ivyHahaha, "so much mush" that's so cute 🙂Posted by LiveAndLoveAgreed.
Oh and all the Caps I know hate texting, lol. I don't think I ever got one from him longer than one sentence during the entire time we were officially together. Usually one to two words. Yes. No. Nite. Luv u.
Lol
My cap only text paragraphs if we are going through something while he is working and he wants to get all his thoughts out at once.. Also, when I get all mushy and he responds to my mushiness with his mushy.. LOL! "SO much mush" Other than that, he's very short with his texting and straight to the point.
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Yea his mush is rare tho.. You have a cappy so you know what I mean.. He is so shy in that dept.
Posted by LiveAndLoveYes in person he's so affectionate.. More than me.. It's overwhelmingly loving.. But it makes me feel so good because any other time he's gaurded! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyYeah they are very reserved and guarded with talking about certain feelings most of the time. They're really good at showing they care and love you though 🙂 We're kind of in a weird place right now, we broke up in November and as soon as I start to be ok with it ending he comes back.Posted by LiveAndLoveHAHAHA 😄Posted by poison_ivyHahaha, "so much mush" that's so cute 🙂Posted by LiveAndLoveAgreed.
Oh and all the Caps I know hate texting, lol. I don't think I ever got one from him longer than one sentence during the entire time we were officially together. Usually one to two words. Yes. No. Nite. Luv u.
Lol
My cap only text paragraphs if we are going through something while he is working and he wants to get all his thoughts out at once.. Also, when I get all mushy and he responds to my mushiness with his mushy.. LOL! "SO much mush" Other than that, he's very short with his texting and straight to the point.
Yea his mush is rare tho.. You have a cappy so you know what I mean.. He is so shy in that dept.
I don't know what's going to happen but I never felt such a strong connection with anyone like I do with him. We'll see. How long have you been with your Cap?
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Ive gotten use to that on again off again trait with him.. I'd give him his space when he gets "quiet" or simply busy & then he pops up and lays on all his emotions at once.. "I wanna see you, I miss you" etc.. SO random! LOL
I understand.. Ive broken up with him once.. & He was in shock.. He was like "ARE YOU SERIOUS BABE".. I asked to be his girl the next day and he took me back lol.. Can't see myself without him. Do you think you will get back with your cappy?
Im like you.. this is the first man that gets me.. I never felt this way ever.. Im a tough cookie.. but he can handle me, flaws and all.. We've been at it for only 7 months so it's still fresh but he doesn't wanna leave my side & I'm def not going anywhere.. He's got me hooked.. The slow pace works.. things normally went fast in my past relations..I'm falling for him deeply.. I haven't told him i love him yet.. normally in the past I said it because it sounded appropriate at the time but I'm so scared.. to tell him.. It's just different over all..
Posted by LiveAndLoveI hate that. I'll be like "Have an amazing day Sweetie. Him "u as well". Lol but face to face he literally paces while he preaches and I just sit like a captive audience. (He's a great speaker so I do enjoy it.)
Oh and all the Caps I know hate texting, lol. I don't think I ever got one from him longer than one sentence during the entire time we were officially together. Usually one to two words. Yes. No. Nite. Luv u.
Lol
Posted by LiveAndLoveIm a scorpio sun, sag venus, libra moon, aqua rising. Not sure if this means anything but My Ascendant is in Capricorn.. I have a lot of Libra & Cap in my chart..Posted by poison_ivyThat's awesome, it sounds like he really cares for you and vice versa 🙂 What's your sign btw?Posted by LiveAndLoveYes in person he's so affectionate.. More than me.. It's overwhelmingly loving.. But it makes me feel so good because any other time he's gaurded! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyYeah they are very reserved and guarded with talking about certain feelings most of the time. They're really good at showing they care and love you though 🙂 We're kind of in a weird place right now, we broke up in November and as soon as I start to be ok with it ending he comes back.Posted by LiveAndLoveHAHAHA 😄Posted by poison_ivyHahaha, "so much mush" that's so cute 🙂Posted by LiveAndLoveAgreed.
Oh and all the Caps I know hate texting, lol. I don't think I ever got one from him longer than one sentence during the entire time we were officially together. Usually one to two words. Yes. No. Nite. Luv u.
Lol
My cap only text paragraphs if we are going through something while he is working and he wants to get all his thoughts out at once.. Also, when I get all mushy and he responds to my mushiness with his mushy.. LOL! "SO much mush" Other than that, he's very short with his texting and straight to the point.
Yea his mush is rare tho.. You have a cappy so you know what I mean.. He is so shy in that dept.
I don't know what's going to happen but I never felt such a strong connection with anyone like I do with him. We'll see. How long have you been with your Cap?
Ive gotten use to that on again off again trait with him.. I'd give him his space when he gets "quiet" or simply busy & then he pops up and lays on all his emotions at once.. "I wanna see you, I miss you" etc.. SO random! LOL
I understand.. Ive broken up with him once.. & He was in shock.. He was like "ARE YOU SERIOUS BABE".. I asked to be his girl the next day and he took me back lol.. Can't see myself without him. Do you think you will get back with your cappy?
Im like you.. this is the first man that gets me.. I never felt this way ever.. Im a tough cookie.. but he can handle me, flaws and all.. We've been at it for only 7 months so it's still fresh but he doesn't wanna leave my side & I'm def not going anywhere.. He's got me hooked.. The slow pace works.. things normally went fast in my past relations..I'm falling for him deeply.. I haven't told him i love him yet.. normally in the past I said it because it sounded appropriate at the time but I'm so scared.. to tell him.. It's just different over all..
I don't know what we're doing at this point lol. I'm trying to not rush things which I already kind of did by inviting him over so quick lol. He stopped by the day before to tell me it probably wasn't a good idea and would confuse my kids. Then I ran to the store for him I figured he was just using me for that.
We were together almost a year and a half but it was practically as if we lived together. We never went more than one day without seeing each other except when he was on his yearly vacation with his parents, son and whole family. Almost every night sleeping at each other's houses, spent every holiday together, etc.
So it was hard on the kids too and then my oldest started feeling a lot of resentment towards him. It ended in a messy way and we didn't talk for over two months. So I figured since he didn't want to come over he was just feeling nostalgic or something and that's why he called, but doesn't want to get back together with me.
Yet he keeps calling every day, I went over to his place a few days later and he's doing his usual things like sending me home with Tupperware of food he made, calling me up to tell me about his day, so I don't know. He invited me over again 2 days ago but I said I couldn't. Then I said I was making Turkey and he's like come over and pick up the roasting pan we bought together, you still don't have one right? So I did that and he tells me to bring the leftovers and he'll make us soup. So hes doing these boyfriend like gestures like he used to, but we haven't talked yet about it. I'm just scared about investing myself fully again in case it doesn't work out because I care about him so much.
Trying to just take it slow and see. I think if it's meant to work out it will.
I'm glad you found yourself a good guy, he definitely sounds like a keeper 🙂
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Your cap does seem like he's doing boyfriend like duties.. Maybe there's still some hope there.. Maybe it went so fast and he's taking that slow pace now.. WHich seems backwards.. But idk he seems confused like he still wants you..It seems like the love is mutual between the 2 of you? What's your sign also??
I'm learning that Caps will not invest their time to something they have no interest in.. & your cap is putting in a lot of work to keep you around.. Maybe he's scared.. I read that when things move fast & they REALLY like someone, they start to act weird and guarded with their feelings.. it takes them a while to get comfortable.. But you all were practically living together.. Was their anything that happened between the 2 of you that made things change all of a sudden?
why do these threads with Capricorn taking things slow drive me batshitttt ... I guess cause I understand and appreciate getting to slowly get to know someone - I relish in it - taste it, nibble it, grab a bite, then savour the sweetness ... Rome wasn't built in a day people - the world moves way too fast and now that I'm older and move more slowly and know exactly what I want, I guess that is what I'm seeing ...
Posted by tctaI totally agree with you on this. I was just starting to move on with my life and was definitely making it known on social media and this cap slowly started to come back into it. He would message me, call me cute names. I wouldn't give him the same treatment like I used to. I would keep it very simple and very short with him and response time would be 3-4 hours per message. I recently left for a trip middle of last week for a few days. As I'm on the plane, we comes out of nowhere and wishes me a safe flight and called me a cute name again. I rolled my eyes since the last time we spoke was 4 days before that day. I felt a little bad at the end because 1. I'm human and 2. Unless you're incredibly bored with your life, why would you wish a safe flight to someone unless they were somewhat a little relevant to you? I'm sorry, if I don't care about you at all or you're irrelevant or useless to me, I'm not going to waste my typing on you. So I responded hours later. Had a blast on my vacation and definitely had no shame in showing how much fun I had. Two-three pictures peaked his interest, as he mentioned them. I chose to not respond because I was trying to enjoy my vacation. When I came back, he mentioned a status I wrote; something in reference to me being a difficult person to get to know, but once you break through the barrier, winning my affection is simple. He made a funny comment about being able to succeed in it. I responded with, it's easier said than done. Every time he's tried to reach out to me, it's always him mentioning how he wanted to hang out with me but he figured I had plans already which is true. Hence the keeping myself busy. I think it's cute that I stop reaching out to him a very long time ago and ignoring him for hours and he comes back. I don't know if he misses it. Maybe he ghosted me because things were moving too fast, aside from him recently going through something painful emotionally/pridefully speaking. Who knows?.. I am just being cautious and will continue to enjoy my life. We'll see what happens.
why do these threads with Capricorn taking things slow drive me batshitttt ... I guess cause I understand and appreciate getting to slowly get to know someone - I relish in it - taste it, nibble it, grab a bite, then savour the sweetness ... Rome wasn't built in a day people - the world moves way too fast and now that I'm older and move more slowly and know exactly what I want, I guess that is what I'm seeing ...
Posted by LiveAndLoveI guess I'll stop taking it personally now lolPosted by SweetestFataleThat is so accurate! it's so similar to how he is too. He still had a flip phone when we first started dating, lmao. But face to face or even just talking on the phone is very different with these Caps than the texting.Posted by LiveAndLoveI hate that. I'll be like "Have an amazing day Sweetie. Him "u as well". Lol but face to face he literally paces while he preaches and I just sit like a captive audience. (He's a great speaker so I do enjoy it.)
Oh and all the Caps I know hate texting, lol. I don't think I ever got one from him longer than one sentence during the entire time we were officially together. Usually one to two words. Yes. No. Nite. Luv u.
Lol
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Posted by ParisianCappylol - Taurus is only beta to Capricorn - lol ... ok I'll watchPosted by tctaBecause taurus are beta, i was born to raise an empire not for enjoying life like a random and i wont stop till this done
why do these threads with Capricorn taking things slow drive me batshitttt ... I guess cause I understand and appreciate getting to slowly get to know someone - I relish in it - taste it, nibble it, grab a bite, then savour the sweetness ... Rome wasn't built in a day people - the world moves way too fast and now that I'm older and move more slowly and know exactly what I want, I guess that is what I'm seeing ...
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If you're looking for someone who talks/texts you a lot, go find someone else with a different sign.
Posted by LiveAndLoveI think so too. Honestly he's very different from anyone I've dealt with before in the best ways. I know be and I can learn a lot from one another. I hope we get the opportunity.Posted by SweetestFataleLol, it's hard but yeah. Worthwhile 😉Posted by LiveAndLoveI guess I'll stop taking it personally now lolPosted by SweetestFataleThat is so accurate! it's so similar to how he is too. He still had a flip phone when we first started dating, lmao. But face to face or even just talking on the phone is very different with these Caps than the texting.Posted by LiveAndLoveI hate that. I'll be like "Have an amazing day Sweetie. Him "u as well". Lol but face to face he literally paces while he preaches and I just sit like a captive audience. (He's a great speaker so I do enjoy it.)
Oh and all the Caps I know hate texting, lol. I don't think I ever got one from him longer than one sentence during the entire time we were officially together. Usually one to two words. Yes. No. Nite. Luv u.
Lol
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Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by tctaBecause taurus are beta, i was born to raise an empire not for enjoying life like a random and i wont stop till this done
why do these threads with Capricorn taking things slow drive me batshitttt ... I guess cause I understand and appreciate getting to slowly get to know someone - I relish in it - taste it, nibble it, grab a bite, then savour the sweetness ... Rome wasn't built in a day people - the world moves way too fast and now that I'm older and move more slowly and know exactly what I want, I guess that is what I'm seeing ...
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