Crazy Capricorn!!

So, I met this Capricorn a few weeks ago, I was living in a sort of hippy commune type thing for a month with him. He had the most amazing blue eyes that were almost hypnotic. He was extremely good looking, but not typically, he was very extravagant in personality and in the way he dressed. The moment I saw him I was fixated, he'd stare at me for long amounts of time without looking away, and he'd just smile, it made me melt. Then one of the girls warned me to stay away from him, apparently he has broken pretty much all the girls hearts. It was true, all the girls were aching for him, arguing with each other because of him. But he very rarely did anything with them except cuddle in bed. One night of cuddling and then the girl was literally in love with him, it was crazy. But I was intrigued of course and eventually I ended up spending the night with him and then another night. We did more than just cuddle the second night, but the first night we literally just cuddled. I did feel very strongly towards him after, but I'm smarter than to let myself fall completely for somebody like that.

So, from the outside it seemed to everybody that this guy enjoyed messing around with poor girls hearts, and many people would warn new comers (women) of him, actually one of the most common phrases I heard said was "please don't fall in love with him' haha. But as I got to know him a little bit better (as friends) I mentioned it to him but he seemed totally oblivious, like he genuinely didn't want to hurt anybody. After we spoke about it I got the feeling that he isn't actually a player deliberately, and in fact he is quite sensitive and really just enjoys cuddling. I also got the feeling that he might have just been looking for the right girl... but then he'd do things that would change my mind again, like just randomly going up to guys and kissing them on the lips to see how they reacted.

What do you think about this? Player or just a guy looking for the right one?
Really I just wanted to tell this story haha.
But he is the best, most fascinating Capricorn I've ever met for sure!!

" like just randomly going up to guys and kissing them on the lips to see how they reacted."

A heterosexual Cap male would NEVER do this kind of behavior.

If he's randomly kissing men then that would point to him possibly having some inner sexuality struggles and looking for the kind of man that he'd be willing to play with sexually which is why he's kissing certain guys.

He's still human no matter how good looking and charming and therefore has his own individual hang ups.

Posted by tiki33
" like just randomly going up to guys and kissing them on the lips to see how they reacted."

A heterosexual Cap male would NEVER do this kind of behavior.

If he's randomly kissing men then that would point to him possibly having some inner sexuality struggles and looking for the kind of man that he'd be willing to play with sexually which is why he's kissing certain guys.

He's still human no matter how good looking and charming and therefore has his own individual hang ups.

I think for sure he would jump at the chance at having something with another man, but I don't think he was shy about that.

Posted by Shashkay
I'm terrified.

Terrified?

Posted by Shashkay
You can go for him. But look at me look at that face do you see how insipid I am?? lol

Guys like that make mince meat out of girls like me!


Player.

Oh no, I'm staying well away from him. Plus I'm not there anymore, either is he as far as I know, he's gone home to Germany.
But yeah, I know what you mean. It was quite scary to see the hold he had, and the effects he had on all of the women. Dangerous.

No not shy but he's looking for his type of man, the kind of man he'd be comfortable with sexually. He's looking for opportunity. Maybe one of these guys will be interested after the shock factor.

If he's breaking every girls heart he's connected with and randomly kissing men then he's definitely not interested in being with a woman. A hot blooded Heterosexual man will not kiss other men, period.

Females are opportunity because the choices are so plentiful but he's definitely not interested in forming a real bond with a woman.

I'm getting the personality disordered sociopath creep factor with the staring. They love to stare at their prey--next unsuspecting victim. Love shock factor. Love frustrating multiple women and watching them squirm, ache and fight over him.

Extremely charming, appears super interested, King of mixed messages which makes him appear even more mysterious which keeps her intrigued, interested and attached even after he's moved on she's still fighting and trying and hoping, magnetic personalities which are all used to the fullest to capture and captivate the next target and the next and the next. I'm not diagnosing but some of the things you've pointed out about him has that personality disorder---sociopath stench. Be careful.

Wtf! He's waack, stay away.

fuck my bro then go

but no feeling

Posted by tiki33
No not shy but he's looking for his type of man, the kind of man he'd be comfortable with sexually. He's looking for opportunity. Maybe one of these guys will be interested after the shock factor.

If he's breaking every girls heart he's connected with and randomly kissing men then he's definitely not interested in being with a woman. A hot blooded Heterosexual man will not kiss other men, period.

Females are opportunity because the choices are so plentiful but he's definitely not interested in forming a real bond with a woman.

I'm getting the personality disordered sociopath creep factor with the staring. They love to stare at their prey--next unsuspecting victim. Love shock factor. Love frustrating multiple women and watching them squirm, ache and fight over him.

Extremely charming, appears super interested, King of mixed messages which makes him appear even more mysterious which keeps her intrigued, interested and attached even after he's moved on she's still fighting and trying and hoping, magnetic personalities which are all used to the fullest to capture and captivate the next target and the next and the next. I'm not diagnosing but some of the things you've pointed out about him has that personality disorder---sociopath stench. Be careful.

I think he would definitely get with a man yes, and maybe he was testing the waters. I think he likes both but maybe he's never had the chance to get with a man before. Although I did hear rumours that he's been involved in many orgys, so I don't know.

The sociopath thing is definitely a huge possibility for sure. He definitely knows how to charm everyone. Women and men, some of the men he kissed seemed pretty hypnotized too haha.

Posted by Shashkay
He is probably not a sociopath I doubt it. But not a guy to hang around for women etc.

I suppose, that's a bit extreme haha

Posted by Jardsi
So, I met this Capricorn a few weeks ago, I was living in a sort of hippy commune type thing for a month with him. He had the most amazing blue eyes that were almost hypnotic. He was extremely good looking, but not typically, he was very extravagant in personality and in the way he dressed. The moment I saw him I was fixated, he'd stare at me for long amounts of time without looking away, and he'd just smile, it made me melt. Then one of the girls warned me to stay away from him, apparently he has broken pretty much all the girls hearts. It was true, all the girls were aching for him, arguing with each other because of him. But he very rarely did anything with them except cuddle in bed. One night of cuddling and then the girl was literally in love with him, it was crazy. But I was intrigued of course and eventually I ended up spending the night with him and then another night. We did more than just cuddle the second night, but the first night we literally just cuddled. I did feel very strongly towards him after, but I'm smarter than to let myself fall completely for somebody like that.

So, from the outside it seemed to everybody that this guy enjoyed messing around with poor girls hearts, and many people would warn new comers (women) of him, actually one of the most common phrases I heard said was "please don't fall in love with him' haha. But as I got to know him a little bit better (as friends) I mentioned it to him but he seemed totally oblivious, like he genuinely didn't want to hurt anybody. After we spoke about it I got the feeling that he isn't actually a player deliberately, and in fact he is quite sensitive and really just enjoys cuddling. I also got the feeling that he might have just been looking for the right girl... but then he'd do things that would change my mind again, like just randomly going up to guys and kissing them on the lips to see how they reacted.

What do you think about this? Player or just a guy looking for the right one?
Really I just wanted to tell this story haha.
But he is the best, most fascinating Capricorn I've ever met for sure!!

If he's broken that many hearts, prepare yourself that yours will get broken, too.

He's probably not deliberately setting out to break hearts, but he knows what he's doing and is aware of his actions. Doesn't seem he plans on changing.
If that many people are warning you, take heed.

Proceed with caution.

Posted by tiki33
" like just randomly going up to guys and kissing them on the lips to see how they reacted."

A heterosexual Cap male would NEVER do this kind of behavior.

If he's randomly kissing men then that would point to him possibly having some inner sexuality struggles and looking for the kind of man that he'd be willing to play with sexually which is why he's kissing certain guys.

He's still human no matter how good looking and charming and therefore has his own individual hang ups.

Good point!! And I agree.

He's not looking for a girl to be "the one", he's looking for a guy to be the one.

From my what it seems to me. He may be a player.
I mean, his intentions may have been good but he did broke girl's hearts anyway. So you've got two options:
1: run.
2: Stay and embrace the idea t that his mind and heart is somewhere else (which may be difficult if you are looking for a well-grounded relationship). But you know, life is full of mistakes and mistakes are experiences. Even if it doesn't turn out the way you would like it to be... they show you. 🙂 so i'd say: if you like him and sex and kisses are great..go for it.

Good luck!

btw I have never known a charming capricorn lol

Just gonna point out, I'm not involved with this guy other than friends now. Also, we're in seperate countries. I just found his personality quite interesting and wanted to share. So don't worry, I'm safe from the womanizer.... manizer... peopleizer. 😛

I'd love to know his full chart but I don't actually know his birthday and at the moment I have no way of finding out.