Do you expect people to follow your "orders"?

My crush is always telling me to stop working for this cabaret and he never says I should quit he always says stop working there, leave it alone, I don't trust them and this is not after complaining about them I just talk and he sees things that are wrong and tells me to leave. Do you expect people to follow your orders? I have never really had a guy talk to me like that except maybe my Taurus dad and this Aries I dated with a Cap moon. I get a bit taken aback and wary of the sense of control, but it kinda turns me on too lol.

Do you get upset when people don't do what you say; even though they didn't ask you your opinion?

Yeah.. it upsets goats.. Then they will go all poker-face on you 😢 , maybe lecture you again and again - again go poker face on you, and then sometimes become sarcastic or lecture you in mocking way 😄

If they are saying something without being asked for opinion, it means they care about you..

Where are these DXP goats anyway?!

Sometimes even emotional blackmail - "I won't talk to you" .. but they just want to be hugged actually ;p

But yeaaah. Take his advice seriously, think about it, they usually do not meddle with others' business, when they do, they know what they're saying!

People who do that usually sense that their significant other or whoever they're talking to are pushovers.

Posted by themagnetoreborn
People who do that usually sense that their significant other or whoever they're talking to are pushovers.

Well hopefully he doesn't think that after me telling him about me standing up for myself last night.

Posted by RumiL
Sometimes even emotional blackmail - "I won't talk to you" .. but they just want to be hugged actually ;p

But yeaaah. Take his advice seriously, think about it, they usually do not meddle with others' business, when they do, they know what they're saying!

"but they just want to be hugged actually ;p"

LOL this is cute