Does he hate me?

I have a tiny little crush on this cap guy. I know him thru mutual friends, and I've only hung out with him once years ago, but he added me on FB randomly. He always likes my pics, and comments cute compliments on them. I went to my friends house yesterday, and he was there and he didn't wanna make eye contact with me. He didn't look at me or even say "hi". He joined our convo, and I tried talking to him when it was appropriate, but he just ignored me, and looked at him phone. He was also super distant with his friends. He just kind of sat in the corner and was on his phone which they said isn't like him. He left early too. Then today I see that he liked the pic I of myself I just uploaded. Is he embarrassed because he likes my pics or something? Does he hate me? Lol he just really seemed like he didn't wanna talk to me at all. I don't know anything about cap men.

Sounds like he likes you. This is how some of us are when we like someone...we twnd to avoid in attempts to hide our feelings.

Posted by lnana04
Sounds like he likes you. This is how some of us are when we like someone...we twnd to avoid in attempts to hide our feelings.

Hmm interesting. I barely know him so I thought maybe he just thought I was annoying lol. I'm pretty loud when I'm with my close friends, so I was thinking maybe it was that.

i would hate you

Posted by HouseCleaning
i would hate you

I hate you ðŸ'©

Well, sometimes caps have a hard time in social situations. I know I'm better with people one on one - just more comfortable for some reason.

Posted by evalani290
@Thefierybull:

What were the comments he made on your pictures?

He'll write things like "beautiful" or "cute". And on one my friend wrote "gorgeous!" And he wrote "agreed!" Just little things like that.

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@Thefierybull:

What were the comments he made on your pictures?

He'll write things like "beautiful" or "cute". And on one my friend wrote "gorgeous!" And he wrote "agreed!" Just little things like that.

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Well, he's just commenting on your exterior looks. That doesn't mean much, really. What he would be attracted to are the internal character traits. So whether he pursues you or not depends on whether he likes the interior and whether it fits with his world.

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Posted by evalani290
@Thefierybull:

What were the comments he made on your pictures?

He'll write things like "beautiful" or "cute". And on one my friend wrote "gorgeous!" And he wrote "agreed!" Just little things like that.

Well, he's just commenting on your exterior looks. That doesn't mean much, really. What he would be attracted to are the internal character traits. So whether he pursues you or not depends on whether he likes the interior and whether it fits with his world.

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Exactly; Capricorns remind me slightly of Scorps in the way they need people to 'fit into their world'. And I don't mean that in a bad way at all. They're careful thinkers, with deep emotions. And it needs to work for them.
This Scorp I'm friends with right now, it's clear we're attracted physically, intellectually, emotionally -- in all aspects. And he said to me that he doesn't care how attractive a woman is. If she's shallow, self-absorbed or uninteresting he loses all interest. I'm not saying that you are any of these things, just an example. But it really does all come down to the insides. Seriously, it does. I've seen men go for women who's exterior people have questioned, but they clearly gave a lot to the man when it came to substance. So, make sure you get to know each other before any true pursuing happens.

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Posted by evalani290
@Thefierybull:

What were the comments he made on your pictures?

He'll write things like "beautiful" or "cute". And on one my friend wrote "gorgeous!" And he wrote "agreed!" Just little things like that.

Well, he's just commenting on your exterior looks. That doesn't mean much, really. What he would be attracted to are the internal character traits. So whether he pursues you or not depends on whether he likes the interior and whether it fits with his world.

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Maybe this...or, he may feel it's "safer" to just comment on surface level things. Maybe he's just too shy to go deeper at this point. If I were you, I would help him make the first move. I think he could benefit greatly from the confidence boost it would give him to do this, so I wouldn't tell him directly - just make it really really really easy for him to make a move...and then go from there. But that's just me. Good luck!

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Posted by evalani290
@Thefierybull:

What were the comments he made on your pictures?

He'll write things like "beautiful" or "cute". And on one my friend wrote "gorgeous!" And he wrote "agreed!" Just little things like that.

Well, he's just commenting on your exterior looks. That doesn't mean much, really. What he would be attracted to are the internal character traits. So whether he pursues you or not depends on whether he likes the interior and whether it fits with his world.

Maybe this...or, he may feel it's "safer" to just comment on surface level things. Maybe he's just too shy to go deeper at this point. If I were you, I would help him make the first move. I think he could benefit greatly from the confidence boost it would give him to do this, so I wouldn't tell him directly - just make it really really really easy for him to make a move...and then go from there. But that's just me. Good luck!

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That's what I was thinking, but I wasn't sure... in the past when shy guys tried to hit on me, they would use social media as an outlet. I've done the same lol my problem is I don't like to approach guys (probably because of my Taurus sun) and start convos. That's why I made an attempt to talk to him at my friends house because it felt more natural. He joined the convo, so I made comments to him, but he just ignored me lol.

What possibilities do you have to reach him without making it too obvious? Is there any form of direct contact between the two of you as is? Seems to me you're gonna have to lure him out of his shell to do this.