Falling for a capricorn

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Evafoxy
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I met this capricorn Halloween 2015. We started seeing each other only on Fridays. After 3 months of Friday only dates we started spending the whole weekend together. He has a crazy ex he was with for 3 years, that he broke up with in July 2015 but was still taking to her up until the month before we met. He's told me he wants to take things slow and isn't ready for a serious relationship yet but he says he's not interested in sleeping around and says he isn't seeing/talking to anyone else and doesn't want me to either but he doesn't want the bf/gf title yet. He's introduced me to his brother and some friends as a "friend." I really like this guy. He's a guy I can see myself married to one day and I'm head over heels for him. We haven't had sex yet but we always cuddle, fool around, and talk for hours every time we are together. I always catch him staring and smiling at me and when ever I ask he always just blushes and says nothing.and every time i have to leave he always gives he long hugs and says he'll see me next weekend.
The only issues I have with him is that: 1) he hardly ever texts me and he always takes a day or 2 to reply and says he's been busy but he doesn't have a demanding job. 2) He is taking so long to call me his girlfriend, and 3) I'm not sure if he really likes me or if I'm a rebound.
What do you guys think?
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truecap
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Posted by Evafoxy
I met this capricorn Halloween 2015. We started seeing each other only on Fridays. After 3 months of Friday only dates we started spending the whole weekend together. He has a crazy ex he was with for 3 years, that he broke up with in July 2015 but was still taking to her up until the month before we met. He's told me he wants to take things slow and isn't ready for a serious relationship yet but he says he's not interested in sleeping around and says he isn't seeing/talking to anyone else and doesn't want me to either but he doesn't want the bf/gf title yet. He's introduced me to his brother and some friends as a "friend." I really like this guy. He's a guy I can see myself married to one day and I'm head over heels for him. We haven't had sex yet but we always cuddle, fool around, and talk for hours every time we are together. I always catch him staring and smiling at me and when ever I ask he always just blushes and says nothing.and every time i have to leave he always gives he long hugs and says he'll see me next weekend.
The only issues I have with him is that: 1) he hardly ever texts me and he always takes a day or 2 to reply and says he's been busy but he doesn't have a demanding job. 2) He is taking so long to call me his girlfriend, and 3) I'm not sure if he really likes me or if I'm a rebound.
What do you guys think?
He's taking it slow. Don't rush him. He's probably wanting to text you more, but waiting because he's forcing it to go slow.
Going slow also includes holding off on a title.

My advice. Go slow, allow him to set the pace. Let him do 75% of the contact initiation. Don't worry about labels. Don't have sex with him until you're sure you're not just a rebound.